Breakups

ya(yu) aye na - i love you (in karen from burma)

• Some girls are in love with love and not mature enough to have enough confidence in themselves when the guy they are going with and then break up over and over again just keep taking him back. It is common in teens and even a few adult women.

wats the question???????????

never!!!!! Because you broke up with him!!!

• Unfortunately, it sounds like your ex girlfriend had a bad breakup and she is taking advantage of your love for her as well as being kind. You are enabling her behavior and it is time you sat down with her in private with the TV off and sternly ask her what is going on as you are not putting up with her behavior.

yes you should. It would be a nice thing to do.

You can't fix it. It could be mended possibly. Depends on the people involved. You should write a specific question if you want a specific and thoughtful answer.

Believe it or not well over 90% of people are shy (many just fake the fact they aren't) and there is just a small percent that actually feel very confident. Most of us get butterflies in our stomachs when we think of someone special and you ache to tell them how you feel, but most of us when younger do fear rejection. If you break down the word "rejection" it first sounds like a very stinging word, but in reality we get rejected every single day of our lives. It could be something as simple of trying to be nice to a student in school or a clerk in a store and they just stare at you like you have a growth between your eyes. We can look for a job and be rejected from many before we finally find one. You could talk to a close friend for advice and they look at you in a stupor. So "rejection" isn't all that bad. What I did with the word, was I ignored it. I realized not everyone was going to feel the same about me as I might feel for them, or they may not like me for who I am, but I'll never cheat myself by being something I'm not and try my best by learning from past mistakes. I refuse to go through life not trying and end up getting old with a lot of "what if I'd done this differently" or, "what if I'd just asked that guy out things could be different. Each person on this earth is unique and special in their own way. Some for the good, some for the bad. Never cheat yourself and second-guess who you are. Be the best YOU can be and that should satisfy yourself. Now, once you have done this you are more confident to go right up to that young man and invite him out to a party, movies, etc. If you are super nervous then try double-dating with a friend so not all attention is on you. Take it slow and easy and smile, then perhaps talk to him if you get a chance. You can ask what classes he is taking, what his favorite band is or what type of movies he likes. Keep the conversations short at first until you get use to being around him and seeing what his reaction is. When you feel a little more confident then ask him out. If he says no, try and not take it too personally. He may have a girlfriend or like another girl he hasn't asked out yet. When I was younger it seemed I liked all the guys that didn't like me in a romantic way, and the guys I didn't care for were asking me out on dates. Well, it all balances out in the end. Good luck Roseline! Marcy

its really hard if you really love this someone. With me, its been 3 years and i still love him. It won't work if you try to think that this someone's a jerk and all that cause later on you'll regret filling your minds with lies. if the case is that you want her/him but can't and its breaking your heart and you don't want to love her/him because it hurts you, try your hardest not to think of her/him or if that doesn't work and try to talk about your feelings to her/him if you 100 percent know that she/he would understand and wouldn't make fun of you and that they know that you love them.

If this is the first time falling in love, then it'll take a while to get rid of the feeling becaue its your first time and you don't know what to actually do. if any of my advice doesn't work, then try what I'm doing now; accept all the facts because you cannot overcome something or do something about it if you won't accept the truth, like you still love her/him and this and that, cause if you won't accept the truth your mind and heart would be all confused and you don't want that, trust me.

If you feel like you want to move on but still want to dwell in the past and your stuck in your own path, keep moving forward, but that doesn't mean that you can't still think of him. Don't dwell in the past, keep moving on, you can't wait for him forever, you have your other goals to accomplish. if you happen to think of him, keep thinking of him and don't force yourself to much not to, forget that your heart was ever broken and just smile when you're having a hard time, i know you won't forget about her/him that easily, but don't look back.

if you ever stop walking in your path and look back, remind yourself that you gotta be strong, don't fill your mind with anger and hate, just accept the facts. It'll take time, a lot of time, and you might feel on giving up on this advice, if you ever try it, don't give up. you gotta be strong. remember that ;)......

It sucks

There really are not words to describe how horrible it feels. It hurts more than anything else. You would much rather get hit by a bus than to feel the pain of losing the one you love. And to top it all off, there isn't really much anything that will take the pain away.

either hes not ready to commit or he is afraid of how u react or he does not want to let his funny part of life go aka being free as a teen

• When your heart is broken over someone you love it means that your friends are often more loyal and will be there for you through all your ups and downs rather than a lover that comes in and out of your life until you meet that special someone that truly should be in your life. Even if you meet someone and marry them it is very wise to keep your good friends close to your heart. Lean on your friends and tell them how you feel and your heart will eventually heal along with a little help from your friends. Without friends any individual puts too much stress on themselves to try and resolve their broken heart on their own leaving the heart sick person feeling lonely and alienated. Get out with friends and try to have fun. Don't sit around and mope over lost love and start dating when you are ready. If your lost love is meant to be with you then they will be, but if it doesn't happen then it means that person was not meant for you and there is a special someone in your future you should truly be with.

"Love is so short, forgetting is so long." - Pablo Neruda I

I'm alittle confused on how you have an ex but you didn't break up.

If you guy's are ex's you broke up lol but anyway you have to act like you don't want him back and that everything is cool. You have to seem like your life is just dandy but add a some flirt into it.

and what do u mean you are not going to be alone?

and are you a female or male?

you should definitely bring a date to make them jealous.

Both the girl and the boy makes the first move in an ex relationship but i can tell you that im a girl and just came out of a relationship and he made the first mov

State-dependent memory

IDK means I don't know and IDC means I don't care.

Tell him what you said in this question. Tell him that you love him and that you want to try again if he's up for it.

Are we talking about divorce here? Because divorce means separating for good.

By all means ask him to be up front as to why he is curious about where you have been. Communication is so important in relationships and without good communication skills in the love department or any other aspect of your life it can cause many problems and some are heart breaking problems.

Sit down with him and let him know you have nothing to hide and why is he so curious about where you have been. He may have had a bad experience with a former girlfriend cheating on him, but, he holds the key to why he can't seem to come right out and ask you point blank 'what is up.'

Talk to her about your feelings and hope she will tell you how she feels.

I have no idea. All I could suggest is talk to people you respect and love and get their opinions.

I am sorry to say what you are going through is "wishful thinking" and she made it loud and clear she didn't love you. People can fall in love and fall out of love and that's why the divorce rate is so high. People are eager to talk themselves into loving someone (they are in love with love) and don't take the time to really get to know the inner part of that person. Often, people find later they have made a grave mistake. It takes two to love, and she's told you how she feels, so now it's time for you to move on and believe me when I say you will meet some terrific girl and glad that you walked away or you wouldn't have met such a wonderful girl in the end. Good luck Marcy ---- I disagree. It all depends on how much you love her. First, figure out if you actually love her. I'm currently in a situation a little like this. I believe we all must have hope for love. You must learn that true love never dies, ever. There is a girl I am in love with, but she currently isn't in love with me, although she was at one time. She may not want to get hurt. Nurture her feelings, care for her. Make sure she knows that you will not hurt her again. Promise her, sware to her that you will love her forever. Make sure that the words are true, otherwise, the relationship won't work out. Don't push her to fall back in love with you. Make sure she knows that you love her, whether she loves you or not. The reason the divorce rate is so high is that people are getting married at such young ages or are getting married to people they think they love, but don't. Make sure you really do love her. I figured out that I really do love a girl. I know because even after she broke my heart, my love for her grew larger and larger even as she got farther and farther from my grasp. My heart belongs to her. Make sure the girl knows that your heart belongs to her, forever. The moral of this story is that we all must have hope for our futures. We must work to get to where we want to be. If you want to be with this girl, then you must work at it. You can't just sit back and hope that everything goes as you want it to go. You must get out there and work at a relationship with her. Any good relationship starts with being friends. Start with being friends and build on that, with love and cherrishment. I don't want to be in love with anyone other than the girl I am in love with right now. God knows the past can't be changed, but our futures can... Good luck from Jonathan