Breakups

Both the girl and the boy makes the first move in an ex relationship but i can tell you that im a girl and just came out of a relationship and he made the first mov

State-dependent memory

IDK means I don't know and IDC means I don't care.

Tell him what you said in this question. Tell him that you love him and that you want to try again if he's up for it.

Are we talking about divorce here? Because divorce means separating for good.

By all means ask him to be up front as to why he is curious about where you have been. Communication is so important in relationships and without good communication skills in the love department or any other aspect of your life it can cause many problems and some are heart breaking problems.

Sit down with him and let him know you have nothing to hide and why is he so curious about where you have been. He may have had a bad experience with a former girlfriend cheating on him, but, he holds the key to why he can't seem to come right out and ask you point blank 'what is up.'

Talk to her about your feelings and hope she will tell you how she feels.

I have no idea. All I could suggest is talk to people you respect and love and get their opinions.

I am sorry to say what you are going through is "wishful thinking" and she made it loud and clear she didn't love you. People can fall in love and fall out of love and that's why the divorce rate is so high. People are eager to talk themselves into loving someone (they are in love with love) and don't take the time to really get to know the inner part of that person. Often, people find later they have made a grave mistake. It takes two to love, and she's told you how she feels, so now it's time for you to move on and believe me when I say you will meet some terrific girl and glad that you walked away or you wouldn't have met such a wonderful girl in the end. Good luck Marcy ---- I disagree. It all depends on how much you love her. First, figure out if you actually love her. I'm currently in a situation a little like this. I believe we all must have hope for love. You must learn that true love never dies, ever. There is a girl I am in love with, but she currently isn't in love with me, although she was at one time. She may not want to get hurt. Nurture her feelings, care for her. Make sure she knows that you will not hurt her again. Promise her, sware to her that you will love her forever. Make sure that the words are true, otherwise, the relationship won't work out. Don't push her to fall back in love with you. Make sure she knows that you love her, whether she loves you or not. The reason the divorce rate is so high is that people are getting married at such young ages or are getting married to people they think they love, but don't. Make sure you really do love her. I figured out that I really do love a girl. I know because even after she broke my heart, my love for her grew larger and larger even as she got farther and farther from my grasp. My heart belongs to her. Make sure the girl knows that your heart belongs to her, forever. The moral of this story is that we all must have hope for our futures. We must work to get to where we want to be. If you want to be with this girl, then you must work at it. You can't just sit back and hope that everything goes as you want it to go. You must get out there and work at a relationship with her. Any good relationship starts with being friends. Start with being friends and build on that, with love and cherrishment. I don't want to be in love with anyone other than the girl I am in love with right now. God knows the past can't be changed, but our futures can... Good luck from Jonathan

well. if u really love this person then yes, but not for fun

You need to look at yourself more and try to find out why you would be so willing to put up with this guy. Do you want to go through life following some guy around that wants you to jump at his every whim? If all he wants is sex then let him go get it elsewhere or better still ... pay for it! Don't sell yourself cheap. He could be terrified of committment like some men, and is trying to protect himself, but until he makes some sort of an effort your way don't you hit the sheets with this guy! Concentrate on yourself. Ask yourself why you feel you need a man in your life that dictates and controls you so much. What is stopping you from finding a nice guy that will treat you with more respect. You need to decide just what type of a guy you want in your life. Are you the type of young woman that needs "the chase" or try to "tame the wild one" or can you handle a nice guy that you get along with; have fun with and trust with all your heart. In the end that's all most of us want. I'm not putting you down at all, and I was where you are right now at one time, and we all have to grow to the beat of a different drummer. Just don't make yourself so available to this guy and YOU be the one calling the shots and not him. Either he will respect you for it, hate you for it and hit the bricks. Either way, you're a winner. Good luck Marcy

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That's where most people kiss each other, I don't see why you would question it. _______________________________________________________________________ Kissing some one on the lips depends on who the person is. There are many reasons why people would find such an act to be disgraceful. It depends upon the culture and traditions of the individuals. It may be offensive if it is another person's mate or lover. Some cultures and traditions are totally against such behaviors. It is also an important consideration in relation to health. Kissing on the lips is usually associated with passion and it provokes an emotional response.

It is a very bad feeling if your husband puts you second. You must spend more time to get to first.

No. There is just hope that you can pick yourself up and find someone to comfort you, so you can get along with your life.

I believe you answered your own question - it was just an accident/miscall. Let this go and don't read into it.

PS means 'post script' which is an addition or after thought from the person writing or leaving you a message. It obvious they still love you.

While there are many reasons why people seek out an affair, we all have the opportunity to split from our mates (even for a little while) to find out more about ourselves and our needs and when you cheat, you usually end up the loser. Obviously that's what happened to you. You hurt your husband and yourself. If your lover and you were truly in love he would have waited for you and if you really loved him you would have left your husband a long time ago. You want your lover back more than ever because you are feeling alone and afraid.

Dont' get love and loneliness mixed up. Leave your lover and his new partner alone. You are free, and you now can take this opportunity to find out more about yourself before you get yourself into another relationship you aren't prepared for. Start going out with girlfriends, have a little fun, go on a mini holiday if you can; change jobs. Get a new life and a new you. Don't be needy, but more independent.

I was married at the age of 21 and my first husband cheated on me. It really hurt me. When I marry it for a lifetime, but not all people feel this way and it was a rude awakening for me. I took it for a bit, but then I finally gained strength, came home from work one day, started looking for my own apartment, then had a friend help me move out. The odd part of it all was the fact my cheating husband would phone me in tears wanting me back.

I'm so glad I never did go back and yes, for the first month or so I was very lonely, but I went out and got a new job, made new friends, went out with old/new girlfriends and dated again. I also took up a couple of college courses. Eventually I met my 2nd husband through a male friend and we have been happily married for 33 years. There is another life out there for you, so go for it. Don't beat yourself over the head for mistakes you have made, but learn from them and move on. Making mistakes and learning from them makes you stronger.

it could be that he relizes that it is a mistake and really wants to work on the relationship. He probably wants you to see that he's a changed man. Or he is tryin to change his life and move on. That is a positive thought. He could be wanting to show you how he still has it together and impress you. He obviously has more time on his hands since he is not taking the kids on 24/7. BUT, there could be someone else in his life whom he is dressing for, or who is dressing him.

The real question is do you miss holding them or do you miss kissing them. If you had the chance right now would you be cuddled watching a movie or ignoring the movie and making out. It's a hard question to answer cause they can feel almost identical. (trust me i know) You should tell him/her that you just need a week to think. try to talk to them as little as possible. in that time you should be able to clear your head and if he/she doesn't wait for just one week then it probable isn't worth it anyways. And don't think you want them back just because they like someone else. Cuz it might just be that you dont want anyone else to have them not that you want them back.

Exes are a tricky thing -- as the person said above, the questions that they asked you pretty much tell a lot. We never really get over our exes -- in my opinion, love is just a higher form of lust that stretches beyond outer appearances. Either way, there will always be the lingering feelings of both lust and love. But when they're you're for your ex ... figuring it out won't get you very far. Sometimes, you just don't want to be replaced by someone else and you mistake those emotions for remaining love. Sometimes, you miss the sweet memories -- and sometimes you miss the making love, or the making out -- it's all a matter of opinion.

OK don't worry just ask him to be honest and ask him if he still loves you if not don't worry try to talk to him and if you cant convince him to go back on what hes doing just let him go move on and try to make him jealous if not then forget him

you dont fall in love that quick, you'll need time and patience. compliment her, be there for her when she needs a friend, make her laugh, hug toght like you dont want to let go, dont ignore her when friends come along or act different- girls hate that, take her out things like that, just tell her how you feel.

Manipulative people or both sexes are the ultimate game players. Narcissicists are the worst.

Are you sure he sad? maybe theres a reason why he broke up with you. it seems like he still likes you but doesnt want to be with you right now. That's probly why he's not talking to you, he doesnt want to lead you on.