Breakups

What you are going through is a grieving process. Grief is not just reserved for those loved ones that have passed away. One can grieve over a split relationship (including divorce), losing your home to fire/flood or other natural catastrophe's or losing a pet. You had a lot of good memories together and as humans all of us wonder when going through a break-up what we did wrong, weren't we good enough or just plain "what happened!" We like to think we're doing everything right, but putting two people together in a close relationship and especially when there is sex involved can just become complicated at times. Sometimes we've misjudged that good old chemistry that makes for a successful relationship. I'm a firm believer in fate. I think we date different people and ride along the highway of life. We have heartbreaks, we make mistakes but then we finally come to our final road stop and that's when we find the right person. Although you may feel now you love this person with all of your heart he is not the right one for you and once you get over the grieving process and move on you can be sure that in the near future you will meet someone else and be so glad you did move on. In most cases we can look back on people we have dated and kiss the ground because we are so happy we didn't settle for a serious relationship back then. I know I have.

There is nothing on her unless she is a personal or local friend that you are possibly looking for, but internet wise there is nothing about her.

He's basically saying he is not ready for anything serious but he still in fact likes you. Nothing wrong with that especially if you are so young.

If it's some new thing.. I would say to get out of your marriage or go to counseling. It means her mind has been wondering places it shouldn't have been. If it's an old flame.. she needs to get over it! She is now a married woman and has no business thinking of his return. She is wondering if he will come back, which means possibly a desire for a reunion.

I'm a military wife, that's our job to wonder when our men are coming back. Not your wife's.

Well, that would just depend. If you already have another girlfriend/wife, i would say it'd be best until you break up with them to tell your ex-wife. It's the same if your ex-wife has another husband or another boyfriend, i wouldn't tell her because it'd wreck your relationship. As a girl, and if you did that to me, i'd probably hate you forever for messing up my life and messing up my love life with the husband/boyfriend i am currently with. However, if you are both single, ask her to come around to yours or go out somewhere and meet, have a glass of wine or something, and tell her lightly.

ASK HIM; COMMUNICATE ABOUT EACHOTHERS FEELING AND MAYBE YOU GUYS CAN WORK IT AGAIN. :) HAPPENED TO ME:) ASK HIM; COMMUNICATE ABOUT EACHOTHERS FEELING AND MAYBE YOU GUYS CAN WORK IT AGAIN. :) HAPPENED TO ME:)

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no they dont...mind games are bs, play them and see how fast you lose whoever you are playing them on

get a new girlfriend and get over it you basterd

Answer Someone who has a soft spot for you probably wishes that you would ask them out, instead of wondering what a soft spot is.

It's annoying to them because they aren't getting any attention.

* 'Ex' means you are no longer going together and therefore both of you are free to do as you choose. Face him when you tell him you have decided not to go with him and be honest as to your reasons. You made a good choice!

Not most of the time sorry girls but dont fret date while waitin its not worth it cause im goin thro it now he wants space so i said ok and he wants to date but not rite now i am not sittin around to be hurt have fun im dating a more laid back guy

male menopause its true. If your husband is 20 - 39 he could just be depressed. If he's 40 orup he is going through 'Andropause' which is male menopause. They use to simply call it 'midlife crisis.' Men were misled and made all sorts of mistakes because they were depressed, felt the best years your behind them; left their wives to find a younger woman; or just generally didn't feel well and could have hot flashes, mood swings, depressed or even angry one minute and subdued the next. Go onto: www.google.com Type in: Andropause or Male menopause You will find out all sorts of information. Read it and then meet with your husband and discuss it with him. See if he will go for a complete physical and also have his testerone check out (it can often be low.) Good luck!

It depends on why you hate him if he hates you for something you did and you know your wrong then you need to own up to it. But if you dont hate him you need to sit and have along talk with him.

Depends who it was who closed it off. If it was him then try and talk to a close mate and see if you come up with any solutions. if it was you then perhaps arrange to go and meet up to go and talk things through Hope this helps!!!

women tend to rush into relationships and tend to be unsure about what and who they want. She could be using the new guy for an excuse as i love you but I cant backtrack to the past

Don't expect to come on as strong as bf's because he still might fell aqward about the whole breakup make sure and dont put to much pressure on him.

honestly i dont think you and him can be bf's

bf = best friend

"just keep on saying your sorry and promise you'll nevber do it again" -previous answer

ahahaha no. I'm guessing if you cheated on that person TWICE, and you want to date that person AGAIN, there's a reason why you cheated in the first place. If you cheated because it was too boring, then there's one reason (for example).

If you just want that person to trust you again, then just don't share secrets. Make sure that if you guys hang out, you are there ON TIME, not LATE, or else that person will never trust you again.

I wish I new!

• 'Ex' means the relationship is over so setting up your exes boyfriend to get busted for cheating serves no purpose now. It is no longer any of your business. Cheaters will always hang themselves with their own rope and need no help from others.

  this is not an answer to the question

Sometimes an ex does not like or feel the need to give reasons. "We just decided to call it quits." The real reason might involve that someone wanted you to stay together while someone else wanted you to split. There are times when no reason is the best reason.

*** i think most of the times when an ex does not want to say why is because it has another person so it doesnt want to receive any drama or stuff so he decide to not say

The same way you would break up with any other guy! Age is just a number.

You can't. People have the free will to choose and will love whom they love, no matter what another person does.

You can tell lies about the said person to make them seem less desirable.