Breakups

He is your ex and really has no reason to communicate with you nor does he have to and realistically you cannot expect that as your not together anymore. It seems he is moving on and has no interest in you per say in which it would be in your best interest to come to terms with that, let him be, let go and move on. yeah,,,,,,, you should just forget about and move on with another guy........

I am older than you. My guess was always Zbigniew Brzezinski. My family comes from Kiev and I was still always amazed that newscasters could wrap themselves around that name. Especially since, for a long time, they couldn't get Beijing and, instead, turned this into Peking. This is why one might still see something like "Peking Duck," on a menu from an old Chinese restaurant that hasn't updated it's selections since they began business just after the Second World War. And, as an aside, that is not a play on the words "Peeking Duck," or even "Peaking Duck." Nah--it is just the long ago anglicized way westerners referred to Beijing stuck beside a deceased, orange-coated waterfowl. But my pick for the most difficult name to pronounce may not be yours. I would think it would depend on the nationality of the speaker.

Explain to her that now you have come to know here better since the lines of communication have improved and would like to take the realtionship back to where it was but while still keeping the communication going. But remember some people are better off as just friends Well, you can talk to her face to face or write her a letter and explain yourself. Tell her what you did was very wrong and you made a mistake by treating her this way and she didnt deserve it. Tell her you understand if she wont take you back but you're very sorry and want her back for good. Promise her (sincerely) that you would do your best to keep her happy and not repeat the same mistake again. And if she doesnt take you back? There is nothing you can do but to try to stay friends with her. I mean why would you do this to someone you care so much about? Think about how she feels..Its like your playing with her. I hope your not..I also hope your not using her for whatever reason.Be honest with her if you really care about her.

always do whats in your heart .. if your not happiley married then end the relationship. your ex might not want anythign to do with you because you hurt him, and let me tell you .. extremely hurt him in the way that your ex might not ever be able to trust you again and to gaint he trust back is a big step to having your ex back ..you would have to be the best person ever lol... well your first step is to get a divorce and then do what you want to do about your ex...first things first start off fresh ..

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And by golly don't. It will not help you. Just imagine the pain it will bring if you cross that path..

Because they don't have the coping mechanisms to be alone "everyone needs to realise that ultimately the only person in the world you have is yourself" look at the fact you arte alive as a testament of how far you've come its sad but finding yourself when you are lost is more important than relying on another to pull you out

nooooooooooo that's not why maybe because they no that undernieth all that crap that the abuser said or did he still loves her and they also feel it is their fault he was abusive if they didnt screw up or act stupid all the time their abuser wouldn't have to hit them its sad but true women usally blame them selfsthe truth is that the only time ive seen abusers change is on the maury show

She loves him and you she is confused and if fighting internally over who she likes more and who she can trust to be that guy whos allways there and will never leave she wants the father the man and the provider shes second guessing ehrslf assure her that you won't leave Basically that means no, you need to try harder or back off.

Take it from me and every other girl behind me who has been abuse. the guy that u are dating is a jack*** ounce he hits he will always hit you. In my case he got worse rapped and beat me up while i was pregnant. and did much more. after i had her i felt the same way you are feeling and once again he rapped me. Talking to guys is not cheating, because i most definatly garantee that everytime u leav he's cheating(i mean sleeping this time). i have never felt so humiliated in my life. It also affected me religious wise. he was always trying to say just like you that i was cheating on him, and would hit me when the response was no along with a punch in the face. Because he felt so guilty about the way he treated me. that he wanted to turn some blame on me. he has cheated on me five times that he has told me about(and probably somemore). Now my kid is involved because everyday im always thinking that he will come nd take her from me and do the things that he did to me to her. I don't even trust guys anymore. although tis situation is servere ive dealt with so much verbal abuse from guys. I refuse to trust and i have every reason backing me up. All guys are jacka**'s don't trust them and especially dun sleep with them until they marry you. Once a guy can marry you then it's a swarn agreement to be with you. Sleeping with a man releases a special hormon that permantly atracts the female to the male,it is also the same hormon that is released while breast feeding(it's wat bonds mother and child). These guys who want have a girlfriend will never be the real deal. Never pursue him to marriage, he is the one who is supposed to do it. And who knows he might a history of doing this to other females like mine did. Having a boyfriend is not a promise it's jus a way for a guy to manipulate a girl into sleeping with him.

Perhaps she knows that you are a good person, she can see this in your heart, she knows that she is going to eventually do something to hurt you because she is not as good as you. She is trying to spare you the pain that she knows she will do to you in the future. She knows that you are too good for her.

Yea if you are stupid enough to.

it is because adam and eve sinned when god told them not to eat a specific tree from the garden.

You can't make him come back, if he broke up with you while you were pregnant, you have to ask yourself if it was because you were pregnant or whether that was just cirumstantial. If he left you because you were pregant, then he is not the guy you need to be with right now. Think of all the reasons that you two didn't work, and then why you did. You could try talking to him but chances are you'll just scare him. Get on with your life, if he wants you he will come back eventually.

In most cases no but I cannot speak for this person. If someone needs to be away from you that should be a clear sign to you that not only does he have things on his own plate that he may need to sort through but he doesn't want to be around you. Don't put your life on hold waiting for what may never happen. Let this person be and move on.

write a song or do something realy romantic for them :

Doing something romantic is a good idea but you need to be careful of how you do it. You ex girlfriend will not be interested if you appear to be crawling back to her.

What you need to do is concentrate on yourself, making sure you project a confident attitude. Be well groomed, dress well and show you can be independent.

Your self esteem is more than likely low after the breakup and you need to work on building it up. Go out with friends and family and have fun. If she sees you out and about she will start to wonder what she is missing.

Keep in contact with her but don't overdo it by harassing her with constant SMSs and phone calls. When you do contact her be understanding, listen to what she has to say (you might find out why you broke up). Be sympathetic, helpful and above all don not put pressure on her to do anything.

just say your not ready if they really love you the will understand

like any relationship, dating other people is just the attempt to replace the feeling of wanting from one person to the next. you build a relationship because you have a connection with someone, even for moment. take a break, be alone for a while and sort things out. figure what is it that made you guys break in the first place. then try dating again and try not to compare your ex with that person. do different things that you didnt do with your ex at first then eventually do the same thing you did with your ex with the new person. basically you'll slowly replacing certain memories that you'll last relationship will be an phantom.

To me I think it is just rejection because you have hurt their heart once and they don't want hurt again but that is just my opinion............

If you feel he is really trying his best then you have to give it time. He's hurt you, so you aren't going to get over those hurt feelings in just a few weeks. In time, and if he keeps trying it will come naturally to you to forgive. Remember, many good people make mistakes and it's when we learn from those mistakes that counts. You just never know when you might make a serious mistake that he may have to forgive you for. Good luck Marcy

Where can I find a stupid person who has no self esteem?

End it and try for somebody else. It's a really hard thing to do if you have very strong feelings for them, but once you get over the bad feeling you will get happier and when you can look back on it later you will be glad that you ended it, especially if you can find someone who values and appreciates you and what you do. Don't waste yourself and your emotions and energy on someone who isn't prepared to respond, a relationship should be a two way thing, and should be energizing, it should not drain your energy and leave you feeling exhausted. Good luck.

well a boy really wouldn't be jealous of you he is probably going to be jeaalous of the person you are with ( a boy ) you could tell by if he is always staring at you two are trying to start probelms ,

Its unfortunate that you have come to feel this way but there is room for both of you in his life and you also have to realize the love and feelings are different for both of you. Don't try to be overbearing or needy when it comes to his mother - she won't be around forever and family is important. Try to get along with everyone and not cause yourself unneeded stress, you are making yourself second best as for some reason you seem to be jealous of the time he spends with her or that they are important to one another - that is his mother, spend time with your family/friends when he is with his and then reconvene later, compromise and you will see things will get better. If you find you just cannot deal with this or get by it you are going to have to rethink your relationship, what is really important to you and decide if you should move on.

Keep on loving her but think about why she shut you down. Woman never do anything that will harm them emotionally with out an exceptional reason as to why. Woman do not do things that they believe they will not be able to get through. Especially when it comes to matters of the heart . Start by thinking at the outer most branches of your problems together, if she'll allows it, and work your way into the root of why this happened. Remember, that the real issue may not be about you at all. But if the reason why she shut you down can not be mended then begin the process of slowly letting go and allowing the both of you to heal.

Then get a life. Yeah. I agree with the above response. Get a life. Seriously.

it means that you give it up to him in either a sexual way or emotional way too easy and loosley....he does this little "I kan have any girl i want< watch!..." MOOD when you guys fight he goes out....yes he might get some sleezy chick to throw it in your face but he will never get better then you and that's fo sho...what you need to do is stop giving it up to loosley and start makin him beg for you back make him remember what he had and you are not JUST a hook up! YEE

This great feeling is called infatuation and this does not mean it is love. Love is when you can't live without someone and each and every small thing affects you for him or her.