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It takes two to make it work, but only one to break it up. This is the place to ask questions about the pain, healing, and possible solutions to relationship break-ups.

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Is it love when you keep going back to each other or is it because of convenice?

This depends on the circumstances. If you're willing to work on the issues that caused you to split, and try not to make the same mistakes again, then it shows committment, which can lead to a deep love. But if you get back together just because there is nobody else around to date and you don't want to be alone, then it's for convenience. If there is no growth in the relationship, and you keep breaking up only to get back together, it would be better to stay apart, sort out your problems, work out what you really want from a relationship and then start looking for a new one!

What are some signs he still likes you even thought he has a girlfriend and he looks at you with that look when you like someone?

Ok these are some signs: 1.when he laughs at you but in a good way.

2.when he walks he looks at you

3.when he talks to you a lil bit good luck

What do you do when your ex boyfriend asks for back love after cheating on you?

SAY NO!! He cheated on you. By saying no, you are telling him that he can't keep coming back to you after something like that. He hurt you, now tell him that you're over him, and have moved on.

Is it wron to hold on to your ex's?

Yes most definitely, because when you move on to be with someone else (This goes for both men and women) they might feel offended of you are constantly talking about your ex, or even bring them up in a conversation, they will feel like you shouldn't even be thinking of them because of the simple fact that they are there now. you need to let go and shake it off.

What does your ex girl friend mean when she says its not youits mewhen she wants to split up with you?

Probably the most used and tired expressions used would have to be "Its not you, its me". Its supposed to leave the other person feeling good about themselves even if they have just been dumped but along the way its come to lack sincerity as people use it instead of telling the truth.

Respecting her decision to separate when she says it's over should always be your first step. You should agree with her that you need time apart. Don't go overboard and tell her that you think it's a great idea. Just tell her that some distance would be good for you both and you'll use the time to think. That one statement alone will do wonders when it comes to getting her back. Whenever a man says he needs to think, the woman in his life starts to imagine what it's about. If you seem in control and fine with the break up, it's going to eat at your ex.

Remember relationship is shared by two people to make it last. If only one person is eager to cling on then, I think, you should start moving on.

What is malina IQ?

i do not know but her name is spelled Melina Perez.

Is it OK to write to your ex after 6 months?

that depends... are you seeing anyone? why did you break-up? what do you want to come of this?

Is your ex playing mind games if he split up with you and had a new girlfriend two days later?

He could have well had this girl in the background I'm sorry to say. That's pretty fast, so it's a high possibility he was cheating on you. As much as it hurts you, you'll come to realize eventually that it's best to get rid of this jerk now and not waste more time on him. You deserve better!

How can you get over a wonderful relatively healthy positive relationship of 1 year with a man that ends abrubtly no warning with a lame excuse alluding to not being 100 percent sure of things?

I just want to offer my sympathy. I'm going through the same exact thing. It has been really tough for me so I completely know what it is that you're going through.
Stay positive and focus on what you learned from the relationship. Think about the things that you can take with you into the next relationship....Boy do I need to listen to my own adivce.
Chalk it up to that two sets of eyes were viewing the relationship differently. Be thankful that you didnt go 10 years with this immature person. Who is 100% sure of anything, people change with the days and if he had given it more of a chance he probably would have wound up having a great relationship with a great gal, his loss. You do something nice for yourself every day and you let yourself see you with another MAN!

What is the hypothesis of absence makes the heart grow fonder?

Generally that statement refers to something like a boy friend takes a trip and is gone for 2 months and you start to miss him and your heart burns more for them because they are important to you.

How do you say trust has been broken?

"My trust and confidence in you has been broken and ruined ."

What can you do if your boyfriend changes the locks on you?

  • If your boyfriend has changed the locks on you and you were living together and your clothing or anything else you own is still inside then you can either get the police to escort you to your boyfriends and retrieve your belongings or, get a male member of the family to escort you (preferably someone older.) It is illegal for your boyfriend not to give you anything that is yours. If you weren't living together and he has changed the locks that is a clear sign that you are bothering him and he no longer wants you inside the premises.

Well okay thanks?

Yes, it is a bad idea. Forget him. It is over so move on and learn from this experience.

He broke my virginity and i still love him but he has a girlfriend?

You simply cannot do anything in this case. He broke your virginity because you allowed him to do so. Now he has moved on and is with another girl.

Why does he keep breaking dates?

If he continues to break dates, this means he is either not serious of the date, is married or has a better relationship with another person, or not sure of his intent..

If he continues.. drop him/her like a hot potato., unless you want to do the same.

If your man said he wants a break but you dont want one.what do i do to get him back?

Have sex with his best friend and brother. Tape it, and publish it on the internet. He'll see what he is missing and take you back.

If you know your boyfriend is just using you and lies all the time but you just can't get over him how can you be strong and stop giving him another chance and believing he will change?

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When anyone of us could be in a bad relationship we go into "denial mode" for a bit, but the trick is, to get out of that denial mode and see the relationship for what it really is. You can't change people if they don't want to be changed. You need to get your self respect back and here is how you do it:

Take a deep breath and kick this guy right out of your life! Scary? Yes it is, but you will never look back with regrets because:

If you continue to see this jerk, he is taking up your precious time and this prevents you from growing mentally and spiritually and also, it stops you from finding that special guy that you will go through the rest of your life with.

See this relationship for what it is, and what he really is doing to you (all the above I have mentioned.) Get mad! He's taking something very precious from you ... your self respect and stunting your growth pattern to be an independent, happy young woman. You deserve better!

I left my first husband after 3 1/2 years because he lied and cheated on me. At first I thought I could change him, but soon it became very tiresome and I realized I'd made one big mistake. I left him, moved into my own apartment, started divorce proceedings, got myself a new job and started going out with my girlfriends. I dated off an on and at one point figured I was doomed to never get married again. The one favor I did for myself was not to let my first husband make me think all men were like him, because they aren't. To make a long story short, I was introduced to a wonderful guy by one of my male friends, we dated and married and I have been happily married for 33 years.

Please sit down and write on paper what part of your personality you would like to change. Then pick away at it. Remember, none of us are perfect and we never will be, but we can always improve on ourselves throughout our lives. It never stops! Don't beat yourself up, but pull yourself up! Start now! Start going out with girlfriends and go out and have fun. In time you will meet someone.

Now ... count to ten and kick this guy out of your life!

Good luckMarcy

Answer

This is very hard, but in time you will actually WANT to get rid of him. Make a list of the things you would miss about him and a list of the things you would not miss about him. Read it when you feel like you're going into denial.

What are symbols of estranged love?

Enstrangled love is primarily be termed as a love with out freedom for either one or both the partners in a love based relationship. When two people are in a relationship,it can be commonly expected that either of the partners or in some cases both of them are quite possessive about each other. In some relationships though only one person is possessive,the other person usually yearns for a lot of personal space. When this personal space is missing it becomes an enstrangled love.

The various symbols that can be observed in a relationship that can be termed as enstrangled love are as follows...

1) Boyfriend/girlfriend having a problem with their partner when they talk to other people of opposite sex.

2) Frequent insecurity complexes and suspicion attributed to their partners.

3) Threats or violent responses from a partner to the other in terms of verbal actions or gestures.

4) The most important symptom an be detected when your partner feels more comfortable spending time with rest of his/her friends than with you.

Normally 68% of relationships turn out to be enstrangled love based relationships as mutual understanding is missing in those cases.

However, with close talks with your partner and with a lot of sincerity and dedication and more importantly Trust, every relationship can be worked out upon.

All the best to all those who are reading this.

May God bless your relationships and may they live cherished as ever.

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How do I know if he is thinking about getting back together?

You don't unless you ask him. The best thing you can do is just ask him or you will not know.

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