Breakups

it means that she realy loves you but you need to give her space.Also when she texed you it ment that she felt guilty for saying"i need to be by my self" good luck!!!! !

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* If you are not included or he hasn't hinted he wants you to come along with him on some of his weekend plans then he's simply having a conversation with you.

I have deleted the previous waffle, and since, I am embarrassed to admit it, I wrote it I feel I was allowed to. I wrote it following a rather confusing break up and if I'm honest more so than wanting to know if he was OK, I wanted desperately to know what it was all about and to extend this honesty further, I kinda hoped he wasn't OK as that would at least indicate he had felt just a fraction of what he had told me while we were together. And so in conclusion and in answer to my own question. Of course it is not wrong to care for anyone, ever, but give yourself time and be sure you want to know how he is for the right reasons and your intentions are good. You should NEVER feel embarrassed. Sometimes when we are involved in an emotional upset we can't always see the forest for the trees. No one thinks clearly when they've been hurt in a relationship or even suffered from a trauma of any sort in life. No it isn't wrong to want to see your ex hurting a lot one minute and then caring about them the next. We hurt ourselves in such break-ups. Once the initial shock and hurt is over we can learn to forgive and move on. I have on my fridge, "If you can't forgive the person that hurt you then they still have control over you." This is a very true statement and one I follow to the inth degree. Remember, both of you loved each other once and have been left with some good memories and they weren't all bad. Sometimes people just fall out of love or they really don't know what they want. Since we don't know ourselves 100% how can we be expected to know others 100%. Good luck hon

Be honest. Face the pain.

Its stand for "I Don't Care".

the silence

You broke up with him, you have made your choice. You may regret it now, but he has moved on and it isn't fair to the new girl for you to break them up just because you think you have feelings for him. Forget about him, quit texting him and move on to someone else.

Then people like us would run away... trust me I've seen it happen.

You cant really just stop liking one of them. Nothing is that easy although we all wish it was. But in order to find out which one to go out with or the one to love you can go through a process. You can talk to both of them about it...but this might be too awkward! you can always kind of hang around both of them and just kind of take notes of their behaviour and see if iether of them like you or if both like you see which of them treat you better. This might not work but i thought it was good advice! i !

tell them you are sorry and you didn't mean to brake up with them you were having an off day ?

if you dumped them but if they dumped you then ask them why ? you don't have to sound needy or desperate just slip it in.

keep you self busy looking for another one!

forfeit

Yeah, This one time my mom forced me to date her best friends son and he was really creepy, like greasy hair and sweaty palms creepy. We had to go on like six dates before I finally told my mom enough is enough this guy keeps inviting me to his fort in his back yard and watch porn.

Well when I had a job at a fast food place, we'd throw away unused buns every single night. Whenever it was my shift, I would take the buns home and then go out looking for homeless or needy people. That could be one way. Another way could just be to donate.

Answer

The only one that holds the key to this one is your soul mate. The person does owe you an explanation so try meeting with them (face-to-face) and tell them you just want to know their reasonings for leaving the relationship.

Usually because they haven't had any "luck" getting another woman into bed, or at least whatever woman they found wouldn't allow a repeat performance. So they come back to the "sure thing" - that's the good-old-wifey... (or ex-wife.)

At work:

1. Hang a Klan outfit in full view of everyone that walks by his office.

2. Saturate his desk chair with spray adhesive, it stays very sticky long term.

3. Slightly loosen his bleader valves, just slightly.

4. Get a group of buddies to help you turn his car sideways between two others.

5. Jump him and glue his hands to his face.

6. Fill one of his cigarettes with tobacco / pot mixture. Everyone will smell it!

7. A little g** p**n sticking out bottom of desk never hurt anyone.

8. If he is a racist, make sure one black woman knows it.

9. Tie him up turn off the lights and lock the door.

10. Wire his office door handle to the nearest electrical outlet.

At home:

1. Late at night, light a roll of 1000 black cats outside his bedroom window. Do this night after night.

2. Using vegetation killer write "P****rt" on his lawn, Heavily.

3. Set off his car alarms in the middle of the night for weeks at a time.

4. Turn off his water main at the meter.

5. Vaseline, windshield, get it.

6. Sand in fuel tank.

7. Potato in exhuast.

8. While it's raining at night, drop off a bunch of bags of concrete in his driveway and yard, you gotta throw them hard.

9. Print fliers explaining how this person is so bad, name address phone number etc. Everyone in the neighborhood needs one.

10. Superglue filled key holes.

11. A few holes in his exhuast.

12. Trash day, tie the full bags to his rear bumper. Maybe they won't notice.

13. Remove a small patch of shingles at peak of roof on backside only.

Works especially well with vaulted ceilings. Its expensive. The water damage I mean.

14. Draw something in his driveway with vaseline.

15. Follow them around, make them think they are being followed. Paranoid people do crazy things.

Peacefully Disgrunted, Clam and collected. I will be OK.

Did you ever stop to think that maybe YOU are the other woman?

• Some people get cold feet before a wedding, but in this case 'forever' is a long time and he may not be ready for the commitment of marriage. It is not up to you to decide whether he is making a mistake or not. If you want to stay together then it would be wise to put your marriage plans off for a year and get to know each other better before making this very serious commitment to marriage. If you push him into marriage the marriage will not have a strong basis to survive. Telephone him (don't text him) and tell him the wedding can be put off. He may feel calmer knowing this, but, don't give him anymore than a year of your time to decide if he wants to marry you or not. Take the relationship slow and easy during that year if he accepts your proposal to get back together again and nix the wedding plans.
  

In a lot of cases in teenage relationships, guys can like a girl simply because they are attractive. After a while, he'll probably get bored because there's no attraction beyond the physical.

It is up to them on how they feel about him/her after the breakup and if they want to speak to your ex or not, however they shouldn't avoid him/her. If you have sorted out all the problems with your ex and he/her is just a friend and respects you and family then there is nothing wrong with your ex speaking to your family:) xxx

Thats a tough one. Its a big possibility they will, simply because the ex could be calling the "psycho ex" psycho because he still has feelings for her and wants to hide them by saying stupid stuff like that. But, when they got back together, he relized that he truly does love her even though he tried to hide it and not admit it and really wants to be with her now.

On the other hand, they could not last. Because if it didnt work out once, it might not work again for the same reason it didnt work out the first time.

Like i said, this is a tough question but i hope i helped:)