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Breakups
It takes two to make it work, but only one to break it up. This is the place to ask questions about the pain, healing, and possible solutions to relationship break-ups.
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How do you change your personallity to become a different person?
its possibale, however you have to have a brain not really bodies but same thing ask your doctor if you can have your brain swapped with another person but who u want to be swaped with has to ask with you and approve -Peace-
He's ignoring your calls should you just assume be broke up with you?
there's more to this... The last time I spoke to my boyfriend spoke he said that he would call me back later that night, but he never called. So brushed it off and it turned into a week of him not returning any of my calls or voicemails and I know he got them. Yesterday, I got fed up with him not calling me back and I called him from my voicemail and when I do that it makes calls blocked, and guess what he answered. I said hello, and all he could say was,"YOU" like I did somethin to him, and then he hung up. When I called back he hung up again! We've been together for over a year and he has NEVER hung up on me! So I sent him a text saying that if he didn't want to be with me that he should just say so, he didnt respond so I sent another text saying that it must have ment no and thanks for being a man about it. Then a few minutes later he texted me back saying, "Bye" When I saw that I called him back and he kept ignoring my calls. What just happened? Did he break up with me?
well.. ask yourself THIS question. does he act like he likes u? flirtatious, happy, interested? that means he like you. but if he does not, and he acts normal, the way he acts with other people, he probably does not care.
If you'll ignore his calls and messages he will want you more?
no, he will become aggravated and possibly break up with you
Yes. You should move on, particularly if your ex does not love you. Love can be a one way street for a short term, but never for a long term without totally frustrating you or leading to the very reasons you may have had before for a break up. If you open the door you can possibly love more than one person in your lifetime.
They obviously wanted to see if the grass was greener by leaving you and realized one they found out and got what they wanted that it wasn't all that it was cracked up to be. If they made a mistake and you want them back in your life then maybe this would work as he realized what he had and may not want to lose it a second time. On the other hand, if they were lonely and are just using you again until something better comes along then it will happen again. You will have to use your judgment with the situation.
The miners get coal from down the hot old stinking mine
How do you go about winning your ex back if she is in a rebound relationship?
don't make another person cheat..plain and simple.
Honest communication is the one thing that all happy couples share. Learn to talk to each other and share how you feel and think.
How do you regain independence from your girlfriend without hurting her feelings?
encourage her own independance so that you can have yours eg. encourage her togo outwith the girls while you do something with the guys. the more you encourage her independance the more she must allow you to have to be fair and equal.
If you feel something is just not right does it means that it's not?
In my experience, your gut exists for a reason. Gut instinct is often the most correct. However, do not make any decisions that you aren't comfortable with either way.
He is interested in your life and thoughts.
What does thinking with your head mean?
Thinking with your head generally refers to "Logic" in thought processes rather than thinking emotionally.
How can you tell if your ex is still in love with you if he is too stubborn to admit it?
The little things
Thatswhy your ex is still your ex what does it mean?
If you still have feelings for your ex maybe whoever sad this to you meant you're not really trying to get him/her back, so that's why they're still your ex. Make sense at all? I think first you would have to find out what this person was referring to.
How do you make your Scorpio ex mate realize that he made a big mistake by breaking up with you?
- Whether he is Scorpio to Virgo astrological signs do not make one person better than another. A Virgo or any other sign can cheat on their mates; break up for no reason; be non committal. It is not up to you to decide for him whether he made a big mistake by breaking up with you as he must have had his reasons. It hurts when someone breaks up and it is a hard pill to swallow but most individuals in their lifetime get hurt by the opposite sex at least once. If you ex does not have a girlfriend then perhaps phone him (do not text him) and see if he will meet with you and discuss your relationship. If he decides it is the end of your relationship then unfortunately you are going to have to respect and accept his decision. This does not mean you are not a worthy person or undesirable, but simply the chemistry was not right for the two of you.
If they are getting back together, there isn't much you can do. It's possible that she is confused or conflicted about what she wants.
it means that she realy loves you but you need to give her space.Also when she texed you it ment that she felt guilty for saying"i need to be by my self" good luck!!!! !
What does it mean when a guy tells you his weekend plans?
* If you are not included or he hasn't hinted he wants you to come along with him on some of his weekend plans then he's simply having a conversation with you.
Is it wrong to still care about your ex and want to know they are OK?
I have deleted the previous waffle, and since, I am embarrassed to admit it, I wrote it I feel I was allowed to. I wrote it following a rather confusing break up and if I'm honest more so than wanting to know if he was OK, I wanted desperately to know what it was all about and to extend this honesty further, I kinda hoped he wasn't OK as that would at least indicate he had felt just a fraction of what he had told me while we were together. And so in conclusion and in answer to my own question. Of course it is not wrong to care for anyone, ever, but give yourself time and be sure you want to know how he is for the right reasons and your intentions are good. You should NEVER feel embarrassed. Sometimes when we are involved in an emotional upset we can't always see the forest for the trees. No one thinks clearly when they've been hurt in a relationship or even suffered from a trauma of any sort in life. No it isn't wrong to want to see your ex hurting a lot one minute and then caring about them the next. We hurt ourselves in such break-ups. Once the initial shock and hurt is over we can learn to forgive and move on. I have on my fridge, "If you can't forgive the person that hurt you then they still have control over you." This is a very true statement and one I follow to the inth degree. Remember, both of you loved each other once and have been left with some good memories and they weren't all bad. Sometimes people just fall out of love or they really don't know what they want. Since we don't know ourselves 100% how can we be expected to know others 100%. Good luck hon
