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Breakups
It takes two to make it work, but only one to break it up. This is the place to ask questions about the pain, healing, and possible solutions to relationship break-ups.
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- Breaking up with someone you love is a great loss and trauma if you weren't expecting it. Every human dreams every half hour, but one remembers a fraction of the dreams or nightmares within second of waking up. Without dreaming every half hour a person would go stark raving mad as it's the brains way of slowing down and also slowing the heart rate and other organs down in the body. What may seem like a long dream in reality is no more than seconds to a minute or two. Your dream is just a dream and this is strictly my opinion, but you could have been worried your boyfriend was cheating on you with one of your friends, thus, your friends killing themselves off from either guilt or fear of you find them out. The friend that was the baby could have been innocent from any wrong-doing on trying to date your boyfriend. Dreams for most humans are just that and an individual can pick up strands of a conversations they had with someone; a movie; TV, etc., and it gets mixed up in your dreams. Don't worry about it as it's your minds way of coping with the breakup.
How do you know a guy is narisstic before you date him?
You could observe him in front of other girls, or you could just ask him
How do you make it right when you're the cheater?
Hope for the best and wish the person you cheated with won't tell the person you cheated on.
you could just tell them that you cant hear those types of things because pplz jus broke up...maybe its best to take a break from tlkin 2 them
AnswerThe next time this so called "loving" ex calls or starts to cry the blues to you about their relationship, let them know how disrespectful and rude it is that they bring up their new quests to you. Sounds like this person is keeping you hanging in case something new doesnt work out. They are obviously using you not only as a crutch but to vent. Why would you want to hear it anyway, this person "right now" has no idea that its totally unfair to emotionally tap your feelings still. The relationship is over and aside for small talk, work, family and activities, all new people should not be a topic of your conversations. Im not saying that you shouldn't remain friends just because things didnt work out between the two of you but until you have the same things to talk about, new partners, they'll never know what it feels like to be tormented with the idea of someone that you still care about speaking about new partners. I would move on with my own life if I was you and find someone who can be honest with you and care about your feelings, too. AnswerYou tell her that being friends is ok. but she really should keep her new guy problems to herself. Doesnt she have any respect for your feelings. Obviously if she broke up with you, you probably still like her. She's using you and keeping you hanging. I would think twice if I were you, your gonna get hurt, again......How do you change your personallity to become a different person?
its possibale, however you have to have a brain not really bodies but same thing ask your doctor if you can have your brain swapped with another person but who u want to be swaped with has to ask with you and approve -Peace-
He's ignoring your calls should you just assume be broke up with you?
there's more to this... The last time I spoke to my boyfriend spoke he said that he would call me back later that night, but he never called. So brushed it off and it turned into a week of him not returning any of my calls or voicemails and I know he got them. Yesterday, I got fed up with him not calling me back and I called him from my voicemail and when I do that it makes calls blocked, and guess what he answered. I said hello, and all he could say was,"YOU" like I did somethin to him, and then he hung up. When I called back he hung up again! We've been together for over a year and he has NEVER hung up on me! So I sent him a text saying that if he didn't want to be with me that he should just say so, he didnt respond so I sent another text saying that it must have ment no and thanks for being a man about it. Then a few minutes later he texted me back saying, "Bye" When I saw that I called him back and he kept ignoring my calls. What just happened? Did he break up with me?
well.. ask yourself THIS question. does he act like he likes u? flirtatious, happy, interested? that means he like you. but if he does not, and he acts normal, the way he acts with other people, he probably does not care.
If you'll ignore his calls and messages he will want you more?
no, he will become aggravated and possibly break up with you
Yes. You should move on, particularly if your ex does not love you. Love can be a one way street for a short term, but never for a long term without totally frustrating you or leading to the very reasons you may have had before for a break up. If you open the door you can possibly love more than one person in your lifetime.
They obviously wanted to see if the grass was greener by leaving you and realized one they found out and got what they wanted that it wasn't all that it was cracked up to be. If they made a mistake and you want them back in your life then maybe this would work as he realized what he had and may not want to lose it a second time. On the other hand, if they were lonely and are just using you again until something better comes along then it will happen again. You will have to use your judgment with the situation.
The miners get coal from down the hot old stinking mine
How do you go about winning your ex back if she is in a rebound relationship?
don't make another person cheat..plain and simple.
Honest communication is the one thing that all happy couples share. Learn to talk to each other and share how you feel and think.
How do you regain independence from your girlfriend without hurting her feelings?
encourage her own independance so that you can have yours eg. encourage her togo outwith the girls while you do something with the guys. the more you encourage her independance the more she must allow you to have to be fair and equal.
If you feel something is just not right does it means that it's not?
In my experience, your gut exists for a reason. Gut instinct is often the most correct. However, do not make any decisions that you aren't comfortable with either way.
He is interested in your life and thoughts.
What does thinking with your head mean?
Thinking with your head generally refers to "Logic" in thought processes rather than thinking emotionally.
How can you tell if your ex is still in love with you if he is too stubborn to admit it?
The little things
Thatswhy your ex is still your ex what does it mean?
If you still have feelings for your ex maybe whoever sad this to you meant you're not really trying to get him/her back, so that's why they're still your ex. Make sense at all? I think first you would have to find out what this person was referring to.
How do you make your Scorpio ex mate realize that he made a big mistake by breaking up with you?
- Whether he is Scorpio to Virgo astrological signs do not make one person better than another. A Virgo or any other sign can cheat on their mates; break up for no reason; be non committal. It is not up to you to decide for him whether he made a big mistake by breaking up with you as he must have had his reasons. It hurts when someone breaks up and it is a hard pill to swallow but most individuals in their lifetime get hurt by the opposite sex at least once. If you ex does not have a girlfriend then perhaps phone him (do not text him) and see if he will meet with you and discuss your relationship. If he decides it is the end of your relationship then unfortunately you are going to have to respect and accept his decision. This does not mean you are not a worthy person or undesirable, but simply the chemistry was not right for the two of you.
If they are getting back together, there isn't much you can do. It's possible that she is confused or conflicted about what she wants.
