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Cheating

This category contains all questions regarding cheating and everything it entails, whether it is emotional or having physical relations with someone other than your significant other.

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If you found condoms in your boyfriends pocked would it mean he did cheat on you?

Yas as you see there is only one purpose to use a condom, and that is for safe sex.

If a guy cheats on his girlfriend and she forgives him is it ok?

"Peter came to Jesus and asked, 'Lord, how many times shall I forgive my brother when he sins against me? Up to seven times?' Jesus answered, 'I tell you, not seven times, but seventy-seven times (or seventy times seven).'" (Matthew 18:21-22)

How do you deal with being in love with a co-worker who is dating a married man?

If you have confessed your feeling's to her, and she has not responded, you need to let her go. Find someone who is available and willing to start a relationship with you. Who knows she may eventually come around and realize that she's in a dead-end relationship, but I wouldn't sit around and wait on her.

Well you have to think about it a bit more. If she's willing to get involved with a married man then there's a higher chance she'll cheat on you. You should look for someone who will love you and value you. You can probably do much better and you don't want to put yourself through all that heartache. You should set a higher standard for yourself. Someone who can't be bothered to find a man of her own is not worth it.

Forget about them. Only a real lowlife dates a married man or woman.

If you haven't told her, do. There's a very good chance she feels bad about causing infidelity, and if she's not completely besotted, she may try you instead, if you're her type. This assumes YOU are single.

Don't get involved in this toxic drama. Start looking at other attractive, single women to date.

She's not only dating a coworker (office gossip and possibility of losing her position) but she also is having an affair with a married man. When the married man eventually dumps her, he'll leave behind a desperate and bitter emotional trainwreck.

Do you want to be there to pick up the pieces? She's not worth it.

You've just got a case of infatuation. Get a grip on reality again, put that mess behind you, and be thankful you didn't get sucked into its cesspool.

Maybe it's time for you to move on, that kind of woman don't deserves you. If she act like that then it possibly she will going to cheat on you in the future if you choose to be with her. There are so many girls and ladies out there where you can choose and to be with. Don't rush just select the best.

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Is it normal for your mate to look at other women and then deny looking?

Both men and women are attracted to other people and will look if they notice a beautiful person. Being involved with another person romantically does not change how beautiful other people are; there are simply customs in place in society that limit the amount of interaction romantically involved people are allowed to have outside of that mutual relationship.

Looking at other people is not wrong; it is completely normal. Also normal is the jealous response many people get from seeing their significant other looking at someone else.

We must understand that we are not the only attractive people in our significant others' lives and that just because they are looking at someone else doesn't mean that they are planning to leave us. Finding someone attractive and wanting to be with them romantically are two completely different things.

If a person looks at someone and their significant other notices, the person doing the looking will weigh the response, self-image/self-esteem, and feelings on the subject of their significant other as well as the likelihood of being able to fool their partner into thinking they were looking at something else, and they will produce a response based on that analysis. Most often, it will be to deny that they were looking at the other person.

Why does he always find something wrong with you?

When a person lacks self confidence in themselves they can often take it out on others by either blaming them for things that go wrong or picking out their bad points. The news flash for this guy is ... we all have bad points that we need to work on. These qualities in a person are a red flag for an abusive personality and you'll never be happy with them. Always remember that when someone loves you the way you should be loved there is very little you can do wrong short of disrepect, cheating or murder. When you love someone saying mean remarks or picking on that person constantly simply isn't love. This guy is abusive in manner and I suggest you kick him to the curb. If you don't respect yourself and don't put your values up front for all to see then you can expect this sort of thing to continue on in your life. I think you deserve better than that, so move on! Good luck Marcy

Can a woman be excited by her husband s cheating?

Yes a small percentage can get turned-on by this type of relationship. Either the woman feels she has to work harder at winning her husband over from his mistress(es) or, she feels it gives her the green light to cheat as well. It's referred to as a Cuckold Fetish.

ANSWERofcourse!! Everyone works differently, what can hurt one person can excite another. we prove that when we see those tattoo themselves, or mix the pains "chokin,cutting...in a sexual way" when infact others would find this too painful and strange to try. As this is more mental than physical ;it relates the same.More than likely you are excited because this gives your "flameless" marriage a torch. You are "happy" to this because when we are young...life gives us hurt, and drama and adventure and as we grow...that adventure dwindles to day in and day out similiarity. though you may love your life and husband, you are seeking a thrill. This gives you that "adventure" you seek along with feeling as a more whole woman with sexual excitement who can indeed "win her husband back"...... AnswerSure, it could make it a challenge for her to keep his interest. This is not the norm, usually a womens heart would be broken that her partner has chose to seek outside attention.

Why does a man stay with a woman he no longer loves and threaten to do her harm if she leaves him?

There is no simple way to answer this question as this particular man is the only one who knows why he is doing this.

This is a very controlling/abusive situation and can become serious. It is important if you do not feel safe or fear for your safety to seek help with family, friends, local shelters, and the police. I realize you may not want to hurt this person directly or get them into "trouble" but your well being should come first.

How if a Virgo married man and Pisces woman in affair?

No matter what your Astological sign, extra-marital affairs are WRONG!. Find yourself an Astrologically compatible single man. Virgo men are notoriously gregarious, but seldom leave a comfortable home situation.When the new wears off, he'll be back home in his recliner eating his wife's good cooking, and you will be forgotten.

I just discovered that my best friend had a long affair with my wife. Do I tell his wife?

Talk to him. Don't tell his wife until you have talked to him, if your best friends he will appreciate that you went to him, and also talk to your wife.

Why does your husband cheat with only bisexual women?

It's possible that he would like you to join, or has a fantasy of a three-way with two women.

How do you show wife proof her husband is cheating without him knowing it is you?

You probably wouldn't want her to know in the first place, but if you must, get him to cheat with someone else, then if she accuses you, tell her it was the other girl. Or you could just deny it if she accuses you, or say it was his fault.

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Generally it is best not to meddle in other peoples affairs, if you can't say good things say nothing, it is not for a third party to come between a man and a wife and bad news is seldom welcomed by either partner.

Why do narcissists cheat in marriage and blame their ex-wife for the breakup?

It is the nature of the narcissist never to take responsibility for their own negative actions. Someone else is ALWAYS to blame. And they cheat because they have a bottomless need for admiration to back up their own good opinion of themselves.

Why repair a marriage after a husband has cheated?

  • Wouldn't it be wonderful if humans were perfect, but reality shows none of us are perfect and our main goal is learning from our mistakes. If your husband has never cheated before and this is the first time and he regrets his indiscretion then it is worth another chance to resolve the problems he has in the marriage. Communication skills are a must in a marriage and it appears both of you need to hone up on these skills. Agreed, cheating is a weakness when the person cheating cannot be honest with themselves or with their partner and want their cake and eat it too ... the wife and the woman they are having an affair with. Why? That is what the two of you need to discuss and base a good marriage on. There are thousands of couples going through what you are going through and many of them communicate and seek marriage counseling and manage to save their marriage. In the 21st century it appears if a partner even goes off the road and into the ditch of life once then the spouse uses it as an excuse and is only too keen on ending a marriage (less work) and moving on. Successful marriages take a lot of work and 'marriage isn't for sissies.'

Do you forgive yourself after your husband cheated on you?

  • If you have never cheated and just your husband has then it is not you that needs to forgive yourself, but your husband needs to smarten up and see what he has done to you. There are no excuses for cheating! If people are that unhappy in a relationship they should have the fortitude to face the person and tell them the relationship is over and then start dating other people. People who cheat are spineless; have no moral sense; do not respect the feelings of their spouse and are self centered and selfish. Your husband needs to earn your trust back if he wants to come back into the marriage and if so, then marriage counseling would be a good idea to give you both the tools to learn to communicate better and to deal with any problems you have in your marriage.

What does it mean when you dream that your husband is cheating?

It means that your brain was exercising your imagination; no more, no less. So many people want to put a meaning onto dreams, but scientists have proved through sleep studies that dreams, though vivid, can controlled by the dreamer, and are just imagination. It most likely means nothing so you should not worry to much about it but if you are worry about it see a physcologists or a shrink (cann't think of the proper name sorry) to see if they can tell you what it could mean because they study this sort of things

Why would a man stay with a woman if he keeps cheating on her?

Possibly because he feels safe with her. He may be a type of guy who although he has no problem cheating, wouldn't like to be cheated on, and feels she's one who wouldn't ever do so. Also, if she's willing to forgive and take him back, he may feel once he's done sleeping with others, he has someone to settle down with set aside.

Im pregnant i dont know who is the father how can i find out?

U need to remember who u had sex with last time and ask him for a blood test then u willl find out who is the father. dr damely new york city hospital

If a man sleeps with a woman who he knows is not a virgin anymore can there be any chance of him not finding out the truth?

I believe this depends on the man. If the man has never had sex before then there's a good chance he wont know. But if he's more sexually experienced then I would say there's a good chance he'll know you lied to him.

Why did Aguinaldo feel betrayed by the US?

Because the United States forced Filipinos to live in designated zones, where poor sanitation, starvation, and disease killed thousands.

Is it right for your husband to get angry with you when you tell him you do not like the way he is speaking to you?

== == IF you do not like the way your husband is speaking to you then you have the right to say so. A marriage is not a marriage if you don't voice problems or other things that are bothering you. One thing you have to look at though, is if you are being reasonable. If there is a problem or a reason why he is talking to you this way then you need to understand that marriage is a two way thing and he has a right to voice his opinions and problems just as much as you do. If he is being abusive though, this is not right. You need to tell someone and get help right away before he hurts you. If you do not know who to turn to try a women's refuge a maybe a local helpline to your area and if need be, even call the police. Help is out there everywhere you go. I think in some cases its the way people word things too. If it's just the talking part you may need to look at that as well. AND - if this happens often, don't stomach it. tell a friend and keep her up to date. it helps to have a second parties opinion- sometimes- you need to look at the conversation from every angle, especially his. What was fueling his attitude problem? bad day? regularly arrogant? extra testosterone? OR- did you do something that erks him? a good relationship (married or not) needs to have: honesty, openness, trust, truth, and understanding. Additional comment: Every married couple has arguments. The trick is to learn how to argue constructively. If you have an argument and it festers, you're not doing it right -- check out a marriage counselor. I think it depends on how you express that too him if you ask him really nicely to change his tone maybe stop yelling and to discuss the issue at hand civally but dont yell back and dont lower to the others leval treat each other with respect and understanding its not always what you say its how you say it tone and everything.

How do you know if there is closure between you and your ex?

If the hate is gone, it's over. If you still hate each other there are feelings. You can't hate someone who doesn't matter to you any more.

There is a fine line between love and hate.

AnswerHow do you feel when you see your ex? Do you still have feelings? Do you want your ex back in your life? How? Friends or more? AnswerYou don't have feelings for him/her anymore than you don't care. This person doesnt make you angry or mad when you see them. This person doesnt make you cry or make you want him/her back. That is closure. Closure you can move on and don't look back... AnswerIf you see them you truly feel like "oh theres so and so and he/she looks happy that's nice." Then when you walk away you don't think of them again and if you do its fleeting and has no impact on your emotions. Indifference really.

If a wife pushes her husband away in the relationship because she wants a divorce and he has an affair is he wrong?

Yes, no one should ever have an affair, if you have filed for divorce or are completely and knowingly separated or the other in the relationship gives you complete permission to then you may see other people!

YES! Of course he is hurting and feels like he has the right to , but he doesn't. AT ALL. He needs to try and work it out and if he can't, then they should separate for a while. if that doesn't work then try a marriage counselor. if that doesn't work then you keep on trying until you can't anymore. but NEVER cheat on her that will give her every right to do the same to you and when she does , there goes your marriage.YES!! my husband has been having an affair for over 2 months now just found out yesterday and now he wants a divorce to be with her. Weve been married over 3yrs 2 beautiful kids and he wants to end our marriage for a fling. It hurts to know that not only does he want to divorce but to know hes been with somebody else while telling me how much he loved me. I never said i wanted to divorce him I just said we needed to work on things while we separated but he wouldn't even let me separate. And just a couple days later he was with his mistress. His in cali and im in Delaware and he told me he even took her to our house. WOW how am I supposed to handle that kind of news?