Cheating

the reason why are you so obsessed with your ex-boyfriend is because you still have feelings for him!

That could happen. If it did, he'd probably be much harder to catch at it a second time.

• People who are cheated on by their spouse go through a grieving time much like that of losing someone you love to death and, in ways it is a death of the bond of trust that was broken by your spouse and crushed the good memories that you both had together. This leaves the spouse that was cheated on feeling as if they have been in another world and why didn't they see the signs of their spouse cheating, but, when you are true to the one you love you are not expecting them to cheat on you. The spouse that was cheated on may feel inadequate (they did not do all the right things); are not attractive and often blame themselves when, in fact, they most likely did nothing wrong. Men or women who want to cheat do so because they can and often need no excuse to do so. Individuals do not know what they are capable of 100% so how can they expect to know what their spouse is capable of. The spouse that was cheated on has to decide if this was a first time event of cheating by their spouse and then discuss with that spouse if they are willing to go to marriage counseling to learn the tools to know how to handle problems in a marriage and strengthening the marriage, but, if the cheating spouse has cheated before then it is time to part company and move on with your own life. Most women are very strong individuals and for those that do not know themselves well they need to get back out into society; rely on family and friends for support and realize that indeed women can get along without men. When the woman realizes she is stronger than she thought and enjoys her own company as well as her new-found independence without relying on a man this is when she will be more successful in a new relationship. Time heals and yes, you will heal.

# Appreciate him.

# Feed his ego. # Do stuff that he likes. # Feed him # Keep him warm # Defend him. have sex with him

You can do everything by love. But you can not ask everything by love.

Its possible but chances are they are his. Guys carry their own.

ANSWER: Well that is a story. If your with him say no. He isn't with her and he don't got no baby with her. Even if he did he should just be there for his kid. Girl if you let him have that freedom who knows what else he will want. You have got to let him know that your in control. Otherwise he will walk all over you. ♥Mashay♥

I think sometimes speaking for myself I felt guilt once I figured out his tactics because I felt in some sense I had ruined all he had which were these tactics. I knew he was deep down a weak man and I had revealed that by confronting him on his maniuplative tactics. I even told him he wasnt very good at it as he was too transparent. I do not suggest that!I think we know these types are pathetic and once we have stripped away who they are (which is based on deceit and games) we feel a little bad because we have exposed them. Most decent people don't enjoy seeing people suffer. Also there is the pity we can feel as we realise they are so small.Do not feel guilty too long. Realise you are reacting to circumstances which are craymaking and unpredictable. No person can function healthy in that. Survival instincts come into play and sometimes they are not healthy but they somehow pull us through, or least allow us to think they do.I think you should take a hard look at your situation. Do not look at why. Look at how you feel and what this is doing to you. Then start taking action to get out of the nightmare of being with a Narcassist.

Wow that's a lot of condoma. Doesn't neccessarily mean he is cheating though, he may have got them all free from a family planning clinic and have been saving them up - they do give a lot. In short, if you think he may be cheating look for other signs like his behaviour changing towards you, or going missing for several hours with no good excuse. All in all just ask him about the condoms and watch his reaction, if he is lying he will panic, of just not answer. GOod luck

NOT NECESSARILY, SHE COULD REMIND HIM OF SOMEONE, HE COULD LIKE HER TYPE OF DRESS OR JEWELRY STYLE. IF THE STAREING IS EXCESSIVE AND BLATANTLY RUDE AND DISRESPECTFUL TO HIS WIFE THEN THERE MAY BE AN ISSUE. NOTHING WRONG PER SAY WITH TAKING A QUICK GLANCE WHEN SOMETHING ATTRACTS YOUR EYE WHETHER YOUR A MAN OR A WOMEN, BEING MARRIED DOESNT MEAN YOUR SUPPOSED TO BE BLIND YOUR SUPPOSED TO USE TACT IN EVERY SITUATION SO AS NOT TO OFFEND THE ONE YOU SAID I DO TO..

when women are calling your men from time to time there is somethimg wrong .Do not blame only the women may be your prince charming is a player.you really need to spend a quality time with boyfriend pick up te phone and speak with them that's all.

yes we omit the truth when it prevents trouble for us. you don't say whether she lied directly to you having questioned her about any affairs, or an affair with this specific person. either way however, we all need to feel safe...and apparently she felt much safer with you not knowing.

You might want to re state the questin it doesn't make sense but it could mean many things lol.

some man can keep secret really good. but you can catch him in a way least expected.

when he comes home, check his under wear for any unusual thing or see if it is worn in a proper way.

some man forgot to put it on properly after sex..

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When your husband gets home maybe early afternoon but mostly will be at night, if he looks fresh like just got off from the shower, that will be one of them. Or if your husband takes a shower twice maybe 3 times a day, take my words for it he is doing it..

Youd have to explain your situation. OK, well if he answers his phone and has to go into another room where you cant hear him, he might be cheating. If he cheated on someone else with you then he might be cheating. Give more information as to why you think hes cheating and someone might be able to better answer you question.

• It is true that a female and male can be best friends, but the love a best friend has for the other is different than a romantic attachment. Obviously your best male friend loved you more as a person he could confide in; trust and have fun with, but he fell in love with another young woman and would have known this would have hurt you. He should have told you he was getting married before you found out, but, he possibly just couldn't bring himself to hurt you not realizing eventually you would find out and the fact he was married would hurt you a lot worse than if he had been honest with you. As much as he broke your heart be strong and wise enough to congratulate him (and his new wife if they are together when you see them) and wish them happiness in the future. Perhaps you can still remain friends although both of you will not be as close as you once were. In time the hurt will go away and you will meet someone special in the future and be as happy as your best friend is.

No

Considering that it was only for fun and not just for attention from that person it would not be considered cheating of sorts. If your partner has reacted to this hey might be over reacting.

• The single woman is called a 'mistress' and what should she expect. In most cases men who choose to have a mistress are basically using them for sexual favors and may either be nice to them (if that is their personality) or treat them badly (he could have treated his wife badly as well and may even have a dislike of women in general.) At first the married man will show his good characteristics, but soon will become bored with his mistress (the percentage of a married man getting a divorce and marrying his mistress is extremely low) and is some cases the married man will go back to his wife.

• By trying to embarrass your ex husbands mistress you will sink just as low as the two of them and you will gain little satisfaction from it while making a fool of yourself. By bowing out of their lives and being true to yourself and getting back into society so you can have your freedom and a life of your own takes strength and that's the only power others will see in you and that includes at least your ex husband and to your ex, that would bother him the most.

Fool

Sometimes he comes home late, he has suspicious marks on his shirt or coat, he does not put attention on you, he does not spend time with you, or he does not have private stuff with you.

One of the major signs of cheating is sudden lack of interest. This goes for multiple categories. Sex, Common interests, being around you, physical touch or affection. As a good looking guy I can tell you that guys in general don't have the emotional capacity to sustain deep meaningful relationships with 2 or more women. Sex yes, but not a deep relationship. We're just not built that way.

There are other ways like checking his phone, texts and email but the first signs are above and not limited to just those (although those are good starting points).

Answer 2: Some things to consider: Is your mate viewing pornography, flirting, talking about sexual fantasies with someone else or showing sexual interest in someone else? Does your mate behave too familiar or too affectionately with others? Is your mate constantly critical and complaining about you? Does your mate claim to be too busy or too tired to spend time with you. Has he stopped communicating, openly talking to you?

Being 15 is a wonderful age. You will experience different kinds of feelings. This is the time and the right age to think of what you wanted in life. What will be your goal when you graduated high school. And much, much more.

that depends, if he's ever cheated on you then no, if he tends to get drunk or high or anything else were he's not thinking straight no, and if you all fight constantly theres a possibility he might fool around and put himself in a bad position. if none of that's happening then i would trust him

Because they are private and she knows that knowing the details will not change anything but make her husband think about it even more and drag it up more. She would not want him to have more to talk about and pick on. That will not help moving on.

no