Cheating

Because they are private and she knows that knowing the details will not change anything but make her husband think about it even more and drag it up more. She would not want him to have more to talk about and pick on. That will not help moving on.

* This is a sad state of affairs and certainly not that uncommon. It is doubtful that your husband will come home at this point and you should take him to court and make him responsible for paying child support for your three children. He's not much of a man if he doesn't. As sad as this is this could be the best thing that could have happened to you. Often when this happens and a divorce is inevitable (to set you free if your husband states he's not coming home) you will meet the right man you should have in your life. If you do not make your husband responsible for his children then you are enabling his behavior. There are many men out there that don't fear having a ready made family.

My question is ... why would you have him back under these conditions? A husband that refuses to sleep with his wife (or vise-versa) is sending you a message loud and clear. When you love someone you want to make love to them and you want to be with them. He may well have gotten over the girl he was seeing at the beginning, but obviously he isn't happy in your marriage. I wouldn't put up with him coming back into your life and not giving you any of the benfits of marriage. Kick him out! You deserve better! Good luck Marcy

calling a chat line is not adultery! You are making a big deal out of it! Leave the man alone and he will feel more comfortable coming home.

Not necessarily. An affair doesn't always cause the spouse to be mean like that. A marraige that is falling apart would cause that. When a spouse is cheating, the last thing they want to do is be mean and suspicious. They want to act normal and even nice so the other doesn't suspect anything. For your marraige: time for counceling. If you want to save this marraige, make an appointment and go (if your spouse wont go, then go alone to see what you can do to save the marraige).

*Yes, this can happen. We often have heard the words, "It takes two." This doesn't mean that one spouse is a narcissist, but, they allowed the narcissist to get away with their behavior and therefore were enablers. Even when you get a separation from your spouse or a divorce often one partner will blame themselves when they didn't cause the circumstances for the separation or divorce. When I was married the first time my husband cheated, lied and became mentally/physically abusive. I took it for almost 3 years and finally had the brains to leave him. I know how hard that choice can be no matter what the circumstances. For a couple of years later I was blaming myself and telling myself if I'd been a good wife then he wouldn't have cheated on me. It wasn't until a very wise friend of mine straightened me out on that one. Although I'm not perfect I have never cheated on a boyfriend or my first husband and certainly not my second husband. We sometimes just feel within ourselves we could have done more. It's no different than someone you love being ill and dying, or they are in a terrible accident. Family members and even friends will say, "If only I hadn't" or "If I had just talked to them." Fate happens as do accidents, but, when we can see someone purposely hurting us that's the time to make a decision to get out and keep moving and try to shake the guilty feelings that we simply didn't do enough to make it work. It is even more so if you were raised in a dysfunctional environment such as a mentally ill mother, alcoholism or even a parent was a narcisssit. You have been "trained" already to accept the blame for things others did wrong and that your feelings and self are not relevant. You tend to view others needs as more important than your own. == All so true... This is HUGE, "When we can see someone purposely hurting us that's the time to make a decision to get out and keep moving and try to shake the guilty feelings that we simply didn't do enough to make it work.". This really simplifies things. When I realized my N fiance' was doing this, it was as though I were being hit over the head with a bat. It had never occurred to me he was doing things 'intentionally' to hurt me because I (and those I know and love) am so incapable of doing that myself. He actually admitted this in counseling 'with a smile on his face'. Wham! That was huge. Someone like that has serious 'character' flaws that cannot be changed by love. They say character is solidly defined by age 5. If we were mistreated as children/teens, we will blame ourselves into thinking it was our fault. We simply carry this over into our adult relationships and continue to repeat the cycle of abuse. Only this time, we have a choice - we can leave. Take care, AlwaysLearning

I am sure that it would depend on the abusive ex-husband.

Yes! The age of the other person has nothing to do with it, but commitment to the person you are already married to has EVERYTHING to do with it. The grass often seems greener on the other side of the fence, a saying that has arisen for good reason. Although it would appear to you that this guy is far better and lacks the failings of the husband, he almost certainly will seem just as boring with as many bad habits when the present feelings fade a little - as they will! Unless there is serious reason to leave the marriage such as infidelity on the husband's part or abuse - real abuse and not just normal differences of opinion - you'll just be making a whole lot of people unhappy, either now or down the track a little.

yea probaly u can sue anyone these days..... kidding but seriosly maybe u can

• Seeing a friend's husband with another woman in a public place is not uncommon. Hopefully it means nothing, but, if he is at the movies he should be with his wife and not another woman. It could be his/her cousin or his wife may know so be careful how you approach your friend. This is a difficult situation you are in and some friends would rather remain silent about what they saw, but true friends are honest. When/if you tell your friend then don't be surprised if she may turn on you. This can often happen. She will either react in that manner or her heart will be broken. Be prepared to be caught in the middle of a possible breaking up of a marriage and be aware of her husband as he could retaliate against you for telling his wife.

• It depends what the situation is and if they are good friends with you and your husband and you are joking, but it's best not to sit on other men's laps as it could cause jealousy by the wife or a misunderstanding.
  

Woman intuituon. . .and a wife always know when something isnt right

By letting the person who did the wrong to make amends and prove that it will not happen anymore. Trust will take time to get back or give it back. What you need is let time heal the pain that you have and tell your boyfriend that he needs to show you that it is you who he wanted. You will have some issue once in a while because of the trust issue but let him know about how you feel...

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Wow this is what you called question that all of us can imagine. When it comes to single man to a married man I will choose married man, why? a married man is more experience when it comes to having intimacy. They know how to treat a woman because of their own experience. They enjoy how to have intimacy with their partner. For younger man all the want or looking for is about having a good-times, without enjoying the sex with the partner.

Let me give you a good example that happened to me the man I marry had an affair with a younger woman and knowing us, we do know which one we can choose towards man itself. He had 20 odd years to have experience with me position and all and i think he knows how to treat a woman and what they want from a man so this is what he did, all the right move outside and inside the bedroom..

I totally agree.

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What type of threesome was she referring to? Is she asking to bring in another woman or another man into the relationship? Find out; it can make a difference in the bedroom.

TRUST!!

If you don't trust your partner it will be hard to have a relationship. Any relationship you are in..it all comes down to if you trust him/her.

We both cheated on each other and we told the truth and now we have been together for a year, are engaged, and couldn't be any happier.

If you want to be with him/her..there has to be honesty and trust between the two of you.

Hope I helped. =]

If you are serious about him, ideally, he should be just as serious about you! Before you call him up and demand that he dump her, one question you might ask yourself: if he acknowledges to you that he is in a relationship, are you prepared for him to begin a relationship with you, but possibly, become secretly "distracted" by someone else?

make her take a lie detector test if that doesent work then break up with her.

Why are you still with her?
Use her if you want but don't commit, a leopard cant change its spots.

Any emotional attachment is hard to let go so of course it would be hard for a man to let go of his mistress that's why after the mistress is exposed divorce should be filed !

In order to help someone they have to want help first. one day she will wake up and look at the man in the mirra. I have had sombody that i have loved addicted to drugs and to help hiim i had to leave hiim in order for him to understand how bad things where