Cheating

No it isn't. Once you decide to separate even if you are thinking of getting back together you are free to date whomever you wish because there is no guarantee you will get back together again. Even if the separation isn't legal it's still a separation. Most people do so to gain 'head space' and find out what they are looking for in a relationship and it appears your husband did just that.

As long as she isn't always in another room or talking on the phone to him when you aren't home and will talk to him while you are there then he probably is a good male friend. If this is the case then ask her to ask him over for dinner. This way you can size him up and decide what you think of the whole thing.

If she is talking to her male friend when you aren't around or going off into another room then I'd say he is more than just a male friend. Sometimes people like to deny the fact they are on the edge of having an affair and will often call the person of interest 'friend.'

My husband has a couple of female friends he knew before me, and I have a few male friends I've known before my husband and we still keep in contact with them only as friends and have had them over for dinner.

If you suspect there is something going on then the mention of asking him over for dinner will send her for a loop. She may say she doesn't feel like, so have a comeback like 'Well, lets meet at a nice restaurant and we can have a fun evening.' If she still doesn't go for it, then you have every right to be suspicious and it's time to sit down with her and start communicating in a calm manner and find out what is going on.

just about 1.3pence. a 2p coin is worth around 3-4p!(its illegal to melt down money two reasons:

it belongs to the govenment and its defacing the queen's image)

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if you listen to your wife girlfriend or a girl well that means you are a spy that's bad in any kind of relationship

It means he loves his girlfriend and has realised that the other girl/woman, is not worth as much as she is. People go through moments of weaknesses when sudden rush takes them over and blurs their judgment. The important thing is that he got back with her and still loves her. Here, the girlfriend needs to understand his position and support him if she still wants anything with him.

They both are bad. If your best friend cheats on you with your boyfriend, she is a NOT a loyal friend. And if your boyfriend cheats on you, DUMP HIM.

* He could already be cheating on you or making a simple statement. However, he is going with you and if he's making comments about other girls while with you then it's rude and cruel. Tell him to make up his mind and you are a one man woman. Don't put up with his nonsense and game playing.

Because he is a chauvinist! He is going by the fact he is man and this is expected of him. Thank heavens most men aren't like this.

Personally I do not understand why you let him get away with this behavior 4 more times. Anyone can make a mistake once, but then you should learn from it.

Oh, by the way, sounds like the both of you are playing little games and you are trying to make him jealous. When two people go together, then they go together. If he enjoys other women, and you have 5 men hanging around you then neither of you are ready to settle down into a relationship.

Please talk to each other and decide what each of you wants.

Good luckMarcy

It could be many different things, but the most likely could be guilt for how he treated you, insecurity, or feeling as if you may want to "get even" with him for his cheating. I would have to be more concerned with the fact that he cheated on you 5 times. That indicates a severe lack of respect for your feelings,your health and your life.

Why is he still your boyfriend..please don't settle for this guy!!! If u stay with him, try to work on these trust issues he has with you and other guys. He may just be afraid u r capable of the things he did. I think u deserve LOADS better.

The lack of trust most likely stems from his inability to keep a monogomous relationship and and his motives during interactions with the opposite sex...

In ths case, also carefully examine how he views relationships.. they will most likely have an ulterior motive in mind other than friendship... thus his instinct looks at the way you are interacting with other male friends as the same..

I find that the majority of heterosexual men are not into a friendship unless (my general concensus)

1) they have known you forever since childhood (or equivalent) days2) they are attracted to you in some way

I find with women (not all..just generally) can base a solid friendship no matter whether man or woman, without having the above requirements!

but seriously, buddy should shape up and ship out if he is in a relationship.. i would consider parting from this person or at least taking a step down from a one on one relationship because it in COMPLETELY unfair that he is holding you to standards he cannot uphold himself..

a good book to read "he's just not that into you" (can't remember the author)... it's excellent and describes thing in plain sense. look at the standards cause they are worth thinking about.

Because he knows what he did to you and is afraid that you will do the same. Isn't it funny how we will do things to others then get mad when it's done us?

hi again, its the guy, first of all ladies, if you let him cheat, (take him back) he will always cheat again. you hanging out with guys makes him feel like your looking to cheat yourself.

because he's a total jerk who does not deserve a wonderfull girl like you. DUMP HIM

It depends. Do you still love him. If you do, forgive him and move on. But make sure he stays away from that other woman. Good Luck.

Unless you have a signed contract by the both of you then kiss your money goodbye. One should always be careful who they loan money too. I have a couple of friends that have had some bad breaks and I've GIVEN them some money, but don't expect it back. I don't loan money and I never co-sign personal loans even for family members (would rather give them the money straight out with no strings attached.)

No she will not love you after an affair because affair is the situation that has no love on you .

Actually, if you don't know, you can't be very close to her, so love may have died already.

ANSWER:

Do I still love the man I married after I discovered his affair, no it died the day he told me that he fell in love with the other woman. This is his second time to betrayed me and never came to me to confess. From the first time he did, I forgave him because I wanted to see if his going to change. We became a parents of 3 beautiful children. But unfortunately he kept complaining that I never had no free time for him, which it was him who always made excuses why he cant be with me, his doing things, except spending time with me.

I stood by his side when he was in the Navy, follows him wherever he gets station, and did mostly everything because his always away. But what I can't swallow is when I finally asked and complained to him that his always busy, that's when he joined a dating site and met a few women's, especially the married woman he had the affair. Maybe I'm the only one who's heart became hard because of the pain, but I know its time let go and find out who I'm really is. I will not apologize for not loving him anymore, because I don't feel it.

• If you know your husband has texted this other woman a great deal then you must have read some of the emails. If there was no incriminating evidence in those emails with regards to them cheating perhaps they were not. If you have found not found the evidence and kept a few copies of those texts then you have no real proof. If this woman lives in the same town or city then the only way you can prove for sure your husband is cheating is by hiring a detective. Interview investigators and see what their price range is. Generally one weekend of an investigator following your husband should prove one way or the other if he is truly cheating on you with this woman. If you cannot afford an investigator then decide when you think he is seeing this woman (generally on weekends or working late at the office) and ask a girlfriend if she will join you to follow your husband in your friend's car to get the proof you need.

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* A person that has held secrets for any length of time and especially nine years or more and lies about certain things is called a 'compulsive liar.' Whether they simply choose to lead two lives or not (quite common) it is under the guise of compulsive lying. One lie leads to a bigger lie to cover up their secret lifestyle. In this case however some memories are too painful and the person may be in complete denial or simply can't face the truth and most individuals have at least one secret in their life that they will refuse to tell anyone.

You know everyone says once a cheater always a cheater. I don't think that is true. I cheated on guys when I was a little younger and now that iv found the guy i want to the spend the rest of my life with I would never dare cheat. You know for someone who is a cheater they have to be ready for the commitment not to cheat on you. Because it really is about having that fresh thing to chase after and catch.

According to the Torah, adultery is specifically when a married Jewish woman has sex with a Jewish man other than her husband.

go back to the place were you fell in love

give him a second chance.

• There is only one sign and that is if he were to agree to go to marriage counseling and keep each appointment with you. It is important that he realizes a marriage counselor is not there to place blame on either spouse, but to give them tools in order for them to communicate better and resolve any problems they have in their marriage.

What do you think?

This usually means that she's interested in you and would like to date you, but she's not yet ready to. She needs to break off her ties with this other boy before getting into another relationship. When she is ready, and you will know when she is, ask her out. If I am correct, her response will be yes.

Certainly , you can just be friends and when you get to know him then you can be serious. Who says you can't find another guy that you really likeby the ?. Remember ,there are millions of people out there besides this guy and that he may not be right for you.

when she starts being mean

Well, as a woman I have always said if you feel that funny feeling crawl up your back about something than maybe there is something going on. Has his attitude changed drastically toward you. Has is appearance changed at all, does he seem to be preening himself like he first did when you met. Do you notice money differences. Does he seem to be making excuses for going out or staying out. Is he working more than usual with out increase on the paycheck. Do you see him have a roving eye while your with him. Is he buying you more affectionate gifts than normally.Is he accusing you of being on the down low. Has his sexual appetite for you changed. Unfortunately, instead of being honest there are dawgs of both genders that think they're going to get their cake then some more cake without getting caught and that is just low down. If your man has lost interest or some dynamic in your relationship has changed and it just isn't working anymore he should be a man and fess up. If he doesnt and even after you ask for the truth, he needs to be kicked to the curb like the scoundrel that he is, sneaking around behind your back and shown the boot. Dont sit and wonder, ask the fool and see if he's willing to be a man or a mouse. Either way you can move on with your life and live. Good luck