Cheating

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Ahh, the old "love triangle" ... this is soooo bad to even think about being involved in. The perception is that the boss is just "using" you for his own matters of personal convenience. It is quite apparent that he still loves his wife, and thinks of you only as a "sex toy" so he can get his "jollies" and not have to give you anything in return.

Get out of that situation now ... dump the boss ... he can't really do anything to mar you at the workplace without exposing himself too. Any kind of relationships in the workplace are a big no-no, especially if it involves and management people. It may seem to others that you are plying for a bigger promotion by sleeping with the boss - although you may try to keep this a secret and think you have succeeded, the other employees "know" what is going on already ... this is a really bad situation and you need to get out of it asap.

Try going to a trusted gynecologist together and asking him/her

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Let me guess if I'm not mistaken a person who experience this will have a headaches, and will be moody. That's it and no details.

You bet! There is no fraternizing with both sexes in any of the armed forces. If they're caught one may be transferred or, they could lose their rank. Marcy Actually, there is some clarification on this question...the reason she would get in trouble would not be due to them being on the same ship, but her having an affair. Members of the same ship's crew can technically date (providing they are single/not married), as long as they are not in each other's Chain of Command. Fraternization has to do simply with Officer/Enlisted and Chief/E-6 and below (disproportionate paygrades) and those in the same Chain of Command (supervisory-subordinate). I just did a deployment onboard my first Navy ship that had females, and this happened a lot, unfortunately, and I saw it cause a great deal of issues. IT1(SW/AW) Lucas Himebaugh, US Navy

I think you should maybe try to speak to your girlfriend and tell her how uncomfortable his behaviour makes you feel. If she refuses to change or discourage him to tone his behaviour down, then maybe you should reconsider being with her.

Because the guy may feel that the certain girl he is cheating on is no longer a "challenge" to him. Try reading the book "Why Men Love Bitches". It gives you a lot of insight on why guys decide to cheat.

I'd put on my dancing shoes & go! If you're out of the prior relationship, then you're free & single right?

• The quote 'what happens there stays there' was used for Las Vegas. In other words it was a place to gamble; hire women and do as you pleased and a group of men who decided to go there could do as they pleased and have all the benefits Las Vegas had and a bond not to tell anyone back home what went on and this is the case with your boyfriend and his mates going to Ibiza. You have the right to tell your boyfriend (good communication skills) that you are not comfortable with him going to Ibiza and see what he says. He may be the type of young man (you should know) that is true to you and because his mates are going to have fun in the sun with so-called fringe benefits does not necessarily mean your boyfriend will join them and quite possibly remain loyal to you. Be sure you let your boyfriend know that it works both ways and if he is going to have his fun at your expense in Ibiza then you will break off the relationship now so you can start dating other young men.

While cheating is hurtful to the other person and self-indulging for the person who is cheating all humans make mistakes in their lives and if they can learn from that mistake and not make it again then they become wiser. Learn from this experience and don't make the same mistake twice. Be honest with your boyfriend and if you have broken up over this then face him and apologize and then get on with your life.

It doesn't sound as though you're losing much. You don't say what you did to get to the point of your question; did you leave? Did you tell him you didn't want to be married any longer? Or something else? If you're being abused physically, you must get help and you must leave. If you're being abused verbally, you should get help and possibly leave. A marriage that is either (1) filled with affairs and abuse, or (2) filled with beliefs that those things are happening is not a good marriage. Suggest you get counseling either alone, to deal with things and get your life back together or with your husband, if you want to keep your marriage.



Yes, I did leave him for physical and emotional safety. He says that he loves me, but tries to make me think that I am CRAZY and the affair was all my fault....I think that he is narcissitic... what do you think? It's always been all about him...The other woman in the affair had told me the entire affair, that is how it was revealed. Perhaps that is why he is angry? Cause he wanted the affair to continue? He did call her two day prior to me confronting him. He had NO intentions of confessing the affair to me. I guess that is why it hurt me so badly, cause I think he loves her? What are you thougts? He is ticked off and treating me badly dueto him getting caught? reginabates66@yahoo.com

Regina, you should stay away from him. If you have family, I suggest you stay temporarily with them. If not, look for a good, clean shelter where you can stay for awhile. You may have to have someone (an attorney, a counselor, etc) speak for you so you can remain strong while apart. Do not go back; you can do this...many women have. You have to keep yourself safe, sane, and secure...no matter what. Your description isn't a marriage in the true sense. Do what you need to do to regain your confidence and strength without making him more angry.

That is a tough situation and extremely difficult to forecast. I guess the question is "can you live with that possibility?" If it happened once, it could happen again. If you really love him, you should attempt to find out why he would look to someone else and try to resolve the issue if possible. Still, you will never know for sure whether it is truly resolved. Thus, once again, can you live with that possibility?

only by court order

People who are happily married do not cheat.

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Simple they would never let their status gets on the way of what they want to do. From the recent survey, married man who is in happy marriage will also cheat to their wife. It's the challenge, excitement that they love. The power knowing women loves to be with them is what makes them excited.

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first of all u have to give urself a pat on the back for wanting to be a part of their life. sometimes woman are blind to see that they have a good man. believe in god and he will take care of everything..if it was meant to be than u will get back together..if its not than its best u just move on but move on believing that god has someone else in store for you..time heals all wounds..good luck and trust in god..

If someone throws you off a bridge into a swift river,do you try to swim against the current and keep your place until you drown,hoping they will come back and save you?Or do you go with the flow and swim to the bank and save your life? To me this is a no brainer.But years ago I fought the current.One day I was so tired I knew I had to let go and save myself.How? I met a woman online who lived in China.A place where family is still the most important thing for most.Now I am happily married to a faithful woman and I feel loved.Looking back I can see the fool I was being,wanting a cheating woman who did not care if I lived or died.Ask yourself this; Do you want your children to be liketheir mother?Or marry someone like their mother?Of course you don't.You want peace and happiness for them.You should want the same for yourself.So get active in a positive way and seek your soulmate.The chance is at your fingertips.Take it! don't wait!The worse thing that could happen to you is maybe she will comeback after her new b/f dumps her.Be gone before that happens!!! I knew I could never trust an American woman again.Be glad the world is smaller now.You can do it! Go find your happiness now.

Talk to him about it. Find out why he cheated and if it was an one time thing. Ask him if he still loves you and if he promises never to cheat again. Tell him that you still love him and don't want to break up. Seal your commitment by making beautiful love together.

• Just because this person is a narcissist doesn't make then much different than anyone else cheating with your spouse and you should be more concerned about your spouse cheating. By all means sit down with the narcissists spouse and tell the whole story, but be sure you have absolute proof before doing so. Don't be surprised if the narcissist's spouse becomes angry and is denial, but, in time the spouse will become to believe it.

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• An emotional affair does not always have to involve a sexual relationship. A person who has problems in their marriage and feels lonely will often turn to the opposite sex for consolation and at first they just enjoy each other, but often the two realize they are becoming very close from feelings of being secure; appreciated for who they are; they get along and it is seems at the time it is all the things the person who has the problems needs.

Well choose who you would rather be with. If you choose to be with your wife then stay with her, if you choose to be with the guy then you'll have to divorce your wife. She would rather you divorce her then her finding out your cheating on her with a guy. Hopes this helps!

There are no "strategies" for men who cheat-unless there is the off chance the wife is not sleeping with him. Men who cheat have issues that only God or a trained therapist can solve.

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Krunal means :: compansionate person, Kind to others

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Hard to say that he is cheating on you now, but odds are he is planning on it. When guys tell lies like that, it's usually to try to open the door to the exes bedroom. If she thinks that he is not seeing anyone, then in a moment of loneliness or whatever, she may call on him. At least, that is what he is likely thinking and hoping for. Are you sure they are ex's and not still having a relationship ? Think about it, he would not do that if you were the only girl in his life right now. Give him an ultimatum and if he cannot make a decision then make it for him, and you find somebody you can trust.