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Cheating
This category contains all questions regarding cheating and everything it entails, whether it is emotional or having physical relations with someone other than your significant other.
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Why do so many middle aged men have emotional affairs?
My husband met his "first love" again on Friends Reunited. They had not seen each other for over 40 years. He fell in love again with her,he told me that the feelings were not real and would pass.I could not accept this and wrote to her telling her to back off. She did.But he still has feelings for her 18 months on.
Is dancing with another guy at a club while having a boyfriend considered cheating?
No, your just out there having a good time. But if there were any relationships after the dance it would be considered cheating.
Some guys might consider it cheating, but if the dancing is not flirtatious--and the dancers are not the best judges of this--and if the boyfriend reacted badly to it, some discussion is necessary between he and the girlfirend.
What is the worst thing a girlfriend could do?
The worst thing a guy can do to hurt his girlfriend is by taking her off his phone number then dumping her then flirt with another girlfriend!
He would do that because he thinks just because you are far away you wont catch him.
How do you trust your boyfriend when all signs says hes cheating but he insists that's he not?
You have to check within yourself and see if it is you that is insecure and jealous or if infact he is cheating. Go with your gut instinct and know your facts before accusing. You have to decide if you feel you can trust him and why you feel you can't - sort through these feelings and decide what is in your best interest and do what is best for you.
Absolutely, especially for the first few months or even a year. The reality of your husband's affair will hit you like a brick and your life already change. The word "affair" is not your big concern, it will be some date of the month when your husband said that his working late but now you know it wasn't. Even watching tv and it's all about infidelity, this will take you down even you don't want to feel it. The betrayal and trust that your husband broken between the two of you will be hard to give back. This will be the fight for your life to how strong you are when it comes to pain.
Remember not only the word "affair" but it can also be the smell, special date, some movie on t.v. and a lot more. If it help I was and still on the same place as you are even mine was 3 years ago.
it depends if she has hormone problems or she might just be over protective. you should hang out with her more and maybe she won't be that way any more.
- It appears that an affair can be going on because if your spouse was just keeping in touch with a boss they happened to like as a friend then the spouse would have no problem asking them home for dinner and introducing you to them. The fact your spouse is deleting emails and any cell phone calls means your spouse is hiding something. It is time to sit down with your spouse and ask them straight out if they are having an affair and if they deny it then tell them you are not putting up with deleted emails and cell phone calls.
Your boyfriend just cut you off all of sudden how do you get him back?
Your man just deaded you for NO reason at all and you want to get back with him ... i see something wrong here ... If someone that i was going out with just dropped me like i never existed i tell you one thing the first question i would ask is if someone was free on Saturday NOT how can i get back with them ... whats to say that he wont do the same thing again ... And then what your going to do run back to him again ... There a word for people that do the same thing over and over and expect a different out come that word is INSANE ...
You don't need someone in your life that can just forget about you just like that ... I'm sure that you can do betterthen him ... He has NO respect for you ... He's NOTeven a man a man does not abandon his better half with no reasoning at all ... Give it time time healsall things ... with in that time get your self right get back on track with your life ...
Is it necessary to see a marriage councilor if a spouse disagrees to go?
- In order to get help from a marriage counselor generally the two spouses need to be present so each one can discuss their problems in the marriage and the marriage counselor can decide what tools he/she can give you to help iron out the kinks in your marriage. You cannot drag your spouse to a marriage counselor as they obviously feel threatened and probably blame you for everything or are afraid of being blamed for the problems in the marriage. If you want to continue with your marriage you could see a psychologist (studies human behavior and cannot prescribe medications) and they can at least give you peace of mind and offer you some solutions to your problem. At least if you see the psychologist you will know what to do about your marriage and if the problems in your marriage warrant you to make a decision whether to stay in the marriage or leave.
Why do men have to have friends around all the time?
- Not all men have to have friends around all the time. Some men like to mix with their own sex when it comes to sports or sporting events and that is fine for a little bit, but he has a girlfriend or wife he should spend more time with her. Some men enjoy having more girl friends than men friends. If a man is always having friends around and giving none of his personal time to his girlfriend or wife then it could be that he feels there is nothing in common with her and it time for the female in a case like this to sit down with him and communicate how she feels and why is he doing what he is doing (he may not even be aware of his actions.)
Would a student be cheating if they not supervised?
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I don't think its about one student who would want to cheat because he or she didn't study before going back to school. We all need to give this kids like in high school some trust and benefit of a doubt that they will never cheat. What we never realize is this type of kids is a bit more smarter that us adult. Student knows if and when they cheat, they know what type of punishment they will get from the teacher and the school..
Is it worth going to a marriage seminar to save your marriage?
Only if you value your spouse and your marriage.
You got caught cheating on your wife?
- The catch phrase is 'you got caught' cheating on your wife. The bond of trust that is given between two people in a relationship is fractured and if she decides to give you a second chance then it will take a long while for her to trust you again. Cheating is a loser's game because you could either lose your wife when you possibly find out you really love her; if you have children you could embarrass them and cause them trauma and you end up hurting a lot of people that could well kick you out of their lives or, you can go on cheating and not working on your marriage and either be man enough to tell your wife you don't love her and want a divorce. Either way cheaters lose. When in doubt put yourself in her shoes ... how would you like it if she cheated on you!
Is it wrong to fall in love with your best friends girlfriend?
no it isnt......it is wrong if you do somthing about it........it would be better to love from afar... if they breakup you do not take the opportunity if your friend still has feelings for her ok...
Why do i always ruin relationships?
Well it depends, really.
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Well let me see, why do you think you always ruin the relationship you've had. Are you afraid to get close to someone that when its going that way you are making mess of everything. Did something happen to you in the past that scares you to be close to someone that can love you. Did your parents has history that made you fear to be involve with someone. If you can answer this questions then you will realize that you can't do anything to what happened to you in the past. All you can do is made your past as one of your experience that might help you in the future.
All Of us can have problem but we can't be scared to what we might do in the future. Just let it go, mother nature will take care of that monster that scares you the most..
Girl friend denys having affair says she loves you but you feel otherwise?
* Unless you have proof she had or is having an affair or she is disappearing during the evening or on weekends and is not that attentive towards you then she may well be telling the truth. If you are not the jealous type or tend to be paranoid about who your girlfriend is with or if she's really out with her girlfriends and you still have this gut instinct then it's wise for you to walk away from the relationship if you are going to continue to question her actions.
Why do you look in your boyfriends phone all the time?
you look in his phone to see if theres any other girl texting him.IM ing him. Emailing him. but girls don't assume hes cheating on you. there probably just his (girl) friends. as in just a friend that's a girl. im sure you have friends that are guys. DONT YOU??
Why would a narcissist keep going back to the same woman if he does not love her?
- Because she probably puts up with his bad behavior over and over again. She is probably insecure and needy and the narcissist knows he can get away with anything with her.
- Because they are just looking for a narcissistic supply, not really love. They don't even know what love is; they think love is some kind of a status symbol, or a social standing.
- Everyone has a reason for doing the things they do if you want to dig deep enough. Some people love to argue with each other, others love drama in their lives constantly. Some people love to mentally self mutilate. Many people don't believe they deserve anything better and there are those that are really into the "pity party" and tell their friends how terrible their lives are. We have total control over ourselves and our own actions. As twisted as it may seem he obviously loves his wife.
- Narcissists do not love anyone. They are not capable of it. One may continue to return to an ex because that person is a reliable source of narcissistic supply. So, when another source fails to come through, he can go back to his reliable old source and get recharged. It's using the person again and again. There's no love there.
- To the narcissist the intense emotions of love are scary and considered a threat. Therefore they seek to destroy that so called source of threat. A N will act like he/she loves you but always with it in the back of their mind that they will have to punish you eventually or tear the rug out from under as you now have too much power being the victim.
- Although it appears they only love themselves re their actions, they do sometimes love the person they are with, but are too full of pride and egotistical self indulgence to let them know.
- Unfortunately, there's no "proof" of anything--even whether the sun will rise tomorrow. Psychiatry, like other sciences, make statements based on the evidence apparent so far; and the evidence apparent so far is that people with NPD do not experience love in the same way that someone without NPD does. If enough evidence surfaces to contradict that finding, the finding will change.
The answer was well put. i did not know what a narcissist was until i read the question.
i know a narcissist, but i could not give them a word a name and this is the word.
"narcissist".
Now, i know what i am dealing with. The answer described the person to a "t".
Thank you for a great answer!
If your husband has given you no cause to make you believe he has cheated on you again then you should try to make things work in your marriage. I have a feeling that you aren't so sure of that and do suspect he's back to cheating on you yet once again. When someone cheats on their mate it is difficult to ever trust them again. That's the one marriage vow that is almost unforgiveable. Still, people do make mistakes and hopefully learn from them the first time around. So, if he's been a good guy and loyal to you these 6 years then YOU have a problem with forgiveness. If he flirts with other women or you have reason to believe he's cheating again then it's time to move on. Good luck Marcy most of the time after your partner cheats, its hard to ever regain that trust again, and things will never be the same. if its been 6 years and your still not over it or feel that you can never trust him again , its probably best to just move on.
Well, it's been about 5 years for me and I still have not gone back. However, over the past few months I have been contemplating going back for the sake of our son who is 13 years old.
What is the final stage of an affair my husband's?
if you leave his cheating butt, he is no longer having an affair, he's getting laid elsewhere...you should be healing your emotional wounds and standing on your feet NOT your knees
- It is not uncommon for some men to marry women in different countries and it appears he may have gotten married again. However, sit down with him and calmly ask him where the ring came from and what does it mean just in case a friend gave him the ring or he bought it for himself. The fact he was six month late coming back to you could quite possibly mean he is living with a woman in Egypt and also living with you. If he admits to having another woman in his life then you should see a lawyer and possibly file for divorce.
