Cheating

Well, it's been about 5 years for me and I still have not gone back. However, over the past few months I have been contemplating going back for the sake of our son who is 13 years old.

• No, it is a waste of energy for you to hunt down the woman that had an affair with your husband. You are going after the wrong person! Your husband is an adult and he was at fault and he could have formed the word 'no' to any affair, yet he persisted and it is your husband that you should be communicating too and perhaps marriage counselling to help you with tools to better your marriage if you want to save it.

Maybe 50% because he has two partners - a man and a woman - and he has to chose between two.

That or I don't understand bisexual people!

If you are fairly young and want to live a little before settling down then no, this is not abnormal and a smart way to go. Communicate to your boyfriend that you are not ready for commitment and that you don't want to hold him back either, but you do love him, but also must experience life a little more before commitments to him. Don't expect him to wait around for you and don't make promises you can't keep by telling him your simply need 'head space' and you could get back together again. You are not ready to settle down into a committed relationship so it's best to go your separate ways. You can't have it both ways.

start off with a circle then stick 6 legs off it and you've pretty much got all the insects covered... wings are an optional extra

speak English and I'll get back to you

It's just not some men that do this, but some women as well. Humans were meant to interact with each other and that means getting off your butt, getting out in the world and actually creating a situation where you can ask out someone you care about. Meeting people on the net (other than friends around the world) is a waste of time when it comes to a serious relationship. You just never know who you are talking to and here is a case in point: When we meet someone in person we don't know them 100% (just look at some of the posts on this board) and heck, we don't know ourselves 100%, so where do you think that leaves us on the net. Not in a good place. Can't see the person (they could send any picture, but not one of themselves) and they can tell you what you want to hear. Some people are so lonely they will make up anything to entice that person. Some people are cruel and play games on the net, enticing girls to interact with them in order to make the guy's ego soar and the guy could have a dozen or more girls on the string re the net. The sad thing is, the guy hasn't got what it takes out in the real world. Don't cramp ALL men into this small group of people that play net games with people's feelings. There are some good people out there that are lonely and they do need friends and all of us want to feel loved and cared about. Still, it's can be a dangerous and cruel game on the net. Next guy that says that, tell him to hit the bricks! A guy like that isn't living in the real world.

You should tell him but not expect a certain response from him. He probably did not want you to get pregnant. He may be happy but may not so just tell him with no pretenses. Of course you should tell him. It takes two and he owes you some responsibility to that child. You'll need some child support, because it's doubtful he'll leave his wife if he hasn't thus far. Even if his wife finds out and leaves him, men like him will simply move on, so don't think for a minute he'll coming running to you and you'll live happily ever after. Just DON'T fool around with married men from now on!

Some reliable studies conclude that up to 80% of spouses have cheated at least once while married longer than 3 years. More than 50% of US marriages end in divorce with the main stated cause as incompatibility/financially. Likley less than 5% of couples that met as an act of infidelity will form a long term relationship.

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Does your husband knows that you knew what's going on with him. Cheating, there's a few meaning when we use the words "cheating" Cheating in the heart is the worst one, sex, lying. Any how if your husband ask you to join him because he will be having dinners with friends, it can't be cheating. But if he meet her just the two of them, its already called cheating because he never told you what he will be doing.

If I were you I will talk to your husband and ask him what he is doing meeting this woman that he gave his pictures to. If you don't, your husband will keep doing what he started doing and your life will become messy.

yes.. but 1st i wil investigate about it.

I am the one who asked the question. My wife and I were going through a tough time back in December of 2010 and she slept with another man who was a close friend of ours. Although she says she came onto him and it took 2 hours of convincing. (this is painful). as of right now "he" doesn't know that I'm aware of the situation. And my wife doesn't want to tell him I know, unless he asks directly. I'm usually not the violent type so please no comments on kicking his butt. Just wondering if anyone knows how many husbands would stay with they're wives cheated on them and she got pregnant by another man. I am one of them...

Only if the penis has had prior experience with cheating. But the penis is a very smart entity. Its the person its attached to you gotta look out for

Yes very true, we call it telepathy. Most of us do have this senses and its really unique, because it first came from Siamese twin. In history this 2 sisters knows what's the other is thinking when and if they are not together. But when it comes to our love ones, like man and his wife, boyfriend/ girlfriend who love each so much that when they are far apart, they can sense what the other is thinking or doing. And it is Faith when we have this senses.

I guess maybe the person doesn't think She/He is right for Him/Her. So i don't really know.

Some people get bored, but don't want to break up. So they move to a diffrent person secretly (ofcourse) but soon that gets found out and they have lost everything

I don't think that helped much but i hope it did something

I'm in 8th grade and I have the exact same problem. The best way to show her you are more mature than her boyfriend is flex, show youre abs, or date a gr. 6. Good Luck!!

• Blackouts due to alcohol or drugs can most certainly lead to a wife going to bed with someone other than her husband and she may not even remember it. Also, some men will take full advantage of a woman that is highly intoxicated.

When it came to my boyfriend cheating on me, I realized that he truly was sorry and he really did make a mistake, and I knew he would never care about anyone the way he cared about me, he just messed up. You have to make sure that in your situation, you can realize their mistake and get past it, no one wants to dwell on it forever! If you truly care about the person and love them, then as long as they promise it will never happen again, you will soon find it in you to forgive them. :)

• Yes, when a spouse has been cheated on they are emotionally confused; deeply hurt; lose of trust and anger. To have another affair with someone else breaks the bond of trust that was in the marriage vows and most married couples try to make an effort to be honest with each other, but, unfortunately this idea of honesty seems to be fading quickly by the high statistics of cheating spouses, but a small percentage do make it through a long marriage without either having an affair.

Trust is probably the most valuable thing in all relationships - bar none! It can take a while to build but it can be lost in the blink of an eye - so remember that when going into any relationship. Going forward, never, ever take trust for granted with old as well as new relationships. And most of all - never, ever abuse it! Having said that - we all screw up sometimes. How you go about gaining it back depends on the person who's trust you want to regain and on the relationship you have. Generally, you will have to acknowledge what brought about the break in trust and apologize for it. Next, you will have to assure the person that you have every intention of never doing what you did again. That is only to get them to pay attention to you again (this is only the beginning, not the end). After that, trust can only be regained with time. You have to prove, over time and testing that you won't do what you did that broke the trust. Reassure the person each time you see doubt in his/her mind that you can be counted on - don't wait until his/she complains about it or acts out. Also, if there are issues behind why you did whatever you did, you need to find a way to talk about them, air them and get them settled or the pattern will just repeat itself. If you are angry, upset or disappointed with the person that led you to do what you did, this needs to be dealt with. I hope that helps.

An engagement is not required or controlled, so one person (or both) being married is not a problem until you apply for the marriage license. On the other hand, if your intended is still married, you may want to consider whether they are really ready for a new committed relationship that hopefully will last longer then their current one. Time and patience might be good friends to you here.

you can't. let go and meet someone worth your trust.

Answer When you decide to be someone's mistress you lower your own standards in life. You should ask yourself why would I settle for a married man when I can have a single man and in doing so, pehaps you can enlighten yourself as to why you become the controlled one of the two of you. Men naturally love control so if you don't want to be controlled put your foot down and tell this guy where to get off, but do remember, you are the second woman in his life, not the first, and if he found you he can find another woman too. That being said, don't let anyone ever control you. Be yourself and stand firm in your belief's.

Im assuming ur the older man....talk to your wife!!!....cheating is not okay fot both accounts....make as chedule to spend time with ur wife..etc.......DONT CHEAT..or get a divorce

there are many factors that weigh into this. How long have you been married, how long have you been friend with this person. It is up to you and only you, to determine if this was innocent or a sign or possibly worse behavior that you are unaware of. Seeing however that you posted this for general discussion, you probably already have a sneaking suspicion of other inappropriate behavior when you are not around. Stick with your gut. it is usually right.