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Unfortunately that would not be much of a friend let alone a boyfriend. Your best bet would be to leave them both as if they are willing to deceive you now chances are they would do it again if you let them. Talk to your friend and your boyfriend and find out what really happened. If they admit to it, that makes things easier, but if they deny it, you need to decide who is telling the truth. Trust your gut. If your boyfriend cheated on you, you need to get rid of him as soon as possible. There are very few situations in which it would be better to work on a relationship after something like this has happened. (Like, for example, you have been married for years and have kids together, and he is really sorry and ready to change.) In most cases, the sooner you get rid of him, the better for everyone involved. Most people would agree that honesty, trustworthiness, and caring are three qualities to look for in a boyfriend, and he has just thrown all of these out the window. Again, talk to your friend and make sure that what you think happened is what really happened before taking action. If your friend admits to it and is not sorry, that makes your decision easier, get rid of her too. But if she is sorry and you have been friends for a long time, that makes your decision harder. Only you can decide if she really cares about you and if you can ever trust her again. No matter what, tell her how you feel and how her actions have affected you. Although it hurts to lose people that you cared about, there is really no reason to keep them around if they are not true friends. Please remember through all of this drama that none of this means that you do not deserve to be loved. The actions of these people have nothing to do with your worth as a person. Remember that life is full of ups and downs, and relationsips have ins and outs. People may come and go from your life, but through it all, you are the person who really matters. Do not bend over backwards for anyone, but rather, take care of yourself, and do what you need to do. Resist the temptation to stay with these people just so that you won´t feel alone. If these people are not treating you with love and respect, you are better off alone, at least until you find friends who really care about you, who are worthy of your trust. If these people are not caring for you, you need to care for you. Remember, the foundation of all respect is self-respect. Respect yourself enough to remove yourself from bad company.

you better have a complete investigation with evidence, I believe in "never believe nothing you here and only half of what you see" now if they were caught in "the act" that one is hard to deny. But usually ask your boyfriend to sit , we have something to talk about andf lay it out on the table. There is never a good time

No, no and no! If you are worried about your boyfriend to talking to other girls, then you need to back off a little bit because you are too obsessive and protective of him. Of course he can talk to other girls. It's just the way and how he is talking to other girls that you should be worried about.

there are plenty. signs such as lack of attention negative attitude her intentions- weather its just for one thing or her way her expectations- her standards and her attitude towards it attitude- attitude towards you or herself values- what she values in life wich has alot to do with her morals, someone with no morals have no values or beliefs, point being that if she has none of the above then she has no goal in life, this can cause bad relationships and attitude towards life. this can also change perspective in life meaning outlooks such as within a relationship.

it sounds like he is in love with her, or he would be trying harder to make your marriage work.

just go up to him and ask him if he studders then u kno he is lying. and tell him to look u in the eyes if he smiles wen he is tellin u hes lying. i was in the same situation. and if he lies to u he is not the guy for u.

This will depend on you and what are the stories behind it. There's a few ways you can tell and sense if your spouse is been cheating on you. The cell phone can not be found laying around the house and it's always on vibrate or silence. Your spouse stop having sex with you maybe he wanted more sex lately because of the new experience his having with the other person. Just read his body language, if he or she acts differently that will be one of the sign..

I know it must hurt you a great deal, but the fact is ... he's straight and he's not going to change anytime soon. You can't make someone be what they aren't. Go out and date and just not at gay clubs. Gays know who are gay and you can meet them anywhere. Find someone that is interesting, fun, can be serious and listens to your hopes, dreams and feelings. Sometimes when we get into a group of any kind (women even with men) we fall into patterns and some women will quit dating for a time. It applies to gays as well. People simply get hurt. No doubt you find wonderful qualities in this straight guy (something you haven't found yet out there.) There is someone for you, but it takes time and be patient. You will get over this person in time. Whether we are straight or gay the heart hurts the same. All of us at sometime in our lives has had to go through heartbreak, but we do survive. In time the wounds close and we become open and ready to meet someone that will be important in our lives. Try not to be around this straight person if you can. Don't hang out at the same places he's at and don't try to be friends. Meet other people and get busy in your life once again. I found getting busy out there opens up so many doors and when YOU do, it's amazing who can pop into your life. Good luck Marcy

Yes, adultry is a crime in some states. States such as Alabama, Colorado, Florida, Georgia, Massachusetts, Michigan, North Dakota, and Oklahoma still have criminal statutes outlawing adultery.


However, most states today have either abolished these statutes against adultery or will not prosecute people for this crime. If you are asking whether adultery is a grounds for divorce then the answer to that is yes. If you live in a fault divorce state, adultery is sufficient reason for a divorce.

If you are on this question you are dissatisfied with your marriage. I regret marrying my husband because I am poor and now my husband is poor. Call me cheap but I could have married someone rich and made my life better but I married him coz of love. Love is ok and all, but I was looking at a lovely laptop today. Guess what? I can never have it! I can never have anything I want coz I m poor and I will be poor for the rest of my life. Really think before you make your decision. If you can get out of it before you have babies....do that!

Eyes and ears open, mouth shut, til you have some concrete evidence. Meanwhile , make sure your partner uses a condom.Your health & safety come first. If he questions you, that may be the time to express your concerns.

no it is unhealthy for u and if the spouse knows it is unhealthy for him/her too but u don't have to hate each other break it off slow and stay friends if u are trying to do what is best for the kid.

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We can't ever use our kids because we are not happy. If you don't love your wife anymore and your in love with the other woman, you will do them a huge favor, let them go so that way, the respect and what ever love your kids have for you will not go away. You can start fresh with your mistress who you found love. Our big mistake are putting our children in the middle even though we not happy and miserable with our wife or husband. Divorce is not such a bad and sad life, it's a new fresh new start and you can avoid all the heartaches.

Oh wow... lose the "friend". and the boyfriend if he said yes....

ouch :0

Men get women to sleep with them for numerous of reasons; here of some of them:

1. its fun

2. it help secure a man in his masculinity

3. its what he is programmed to do

4. it helps build his ego

5. he is just not ready to settle down

6. sex is fun and he enjoys it with different women

7. it helps men know what women like in bed

8. it help men know what it actually take to get a woman in bed

9. its preparation for his future wife

10. he's lonely and scared of commitment

11. he's doesnt have a deep respect for the opposite sex

12. he's horny

13. it just something to do

It could be any of these reason or a combination of them

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It could be one out of a hundred reasons of a combination of part of all of them. The issue should be discussed between the two of you. If he is unwilling to discuss this with you, then I believe it's time to find someone who does not exhibit that kind of behavior.

This is going to be hard specially for you. I don't think its your job to tell. Why don't you talk to your father and tell him that you know what he was doing. Tell him how you feel, even the pain that your having right now. And then give him something to think about by telling him that he needs to tell your mother personally and if he don't, you will be the one that will tell your mother. Don't let your father fool you or he might even lie to you, just be strong and do what's right.

It all depends on how often this person cheat on you. If this person only cheated once and he or she try to change, make amends, and talk about the problem, it can happen if you wanted to. You also need to know that you don't have the trust anymore and you will have a hard time trusting your spouse. When the trust is been broken, it will be hard to give it back. You will always think if your spouse is really being truthful or not. This is up to you whether you want to take back your spouse or not. This time be wise for your own good..

* The magic word is 'married.' He may have gone off the righteous path and realized he had made a mistake or he simply doesn't want to cheat on his wife any longer no matter how tantalizing the prospect may be. If he was dating you then realize some married men want the excitement of an affair, but the woman involved in the affair is seldom the woman he will leave his wife for and if he should leave his wife he generally wants his freedom and doesn't want to commit to another women at the present time.

Well first tell him you're sorry and that you've made a mistake and that it won't happen again . But before you ask him out again try to gain back trust and be friends . It will eventually happen that you will go out again . Good luck (:

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If he has moved on and now has a new partner, you should not interfear with that.

There are many possible causes. Suggest you see a therapist for advice on what you can do for him since he will likely not tell you what is going on (he probably does not know anyway). Google workaholic. He probably is in much soul pain and does not know how to deal with it.

you should try to get closer to him again and make sure he doesn't have a new girlfriend. Let him know the way you feel and question why he broke up with you, so you can try to fix whats wrong in that area

If you are invited by his new girlfriend into the equation - then by all means, YES! However, if you two are officially split-up, then it would not be acceptable to continue to sleep with him. Imagine the scenario where you were in her shoes? Would you want your new boyfriend to still be sleeping with his ex's? Didn't think so.

50 and of course im lying. =]

If you want a certain person to trust you do a favor for them and DONT BLOW IT OFF!! maybe keep a secret so they know you wont tell and your whole school knows about it, the little things can help with trust a lot!!! :D

Some people do forgive and some people don't. Depends on if you want to forgive or not. You could forgive and forget or hold a grudge and never talk again. You could be the better person of the situation and forgive or be a juvenile and hold a grudge. Its all up to you. Good Luck, and remember, when you make your decision, your stuck with it for life.

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Emotional cheating is the worst one ever, between man and his wife. It's better if your husband or wife to have a one night stand, rather than emotional connection with the other person. Emotional cheating or affairs can damage a marriage . When it comes to having emotional cheating, married men are the one that do get involved emotionally.

I don't know if you can forgive your spouse, and I'm not sure if you can pass through it. The man I married also had emotional affair to the woman he met on line, and because of their special connection, he fell in love with her. And this is the reason why I can't forgive him. Our life will not be the same anymore if I let him come back. The things he shared with her, I never experience it from him since we got married. My advice to you is think about it really good, because this decision you will make will affect your entire life with him....