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Narcissism
Narcissism refers to a mental disorder which involves excessive admiration and love with one's self. It is also characterized by a need for admiration and attention from others as well as an exaggerated sense of self-importance.
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How do you cure a spiteful person?
don't play their games. spiteful people constantly play games and think that you are playing games when your not. Which means that whenever you're happy and upbeat the act very negative and/or mean because they believe that you're happy because you have done something or going to do something to get them back for whatever game they have played unknowingly to you. this is what you do: When they do something spiteful, acknowledge it, let them know that you don't like it and ask them why they did it. they will try to lie about it or bring up something you did that they thought was a "game" that you were playing. When you acknowledge it to them directly it takes away the power from them, and from it hurting you. They will soon realize that you are not playing games or deliberately trying to hurt them or get them back. They will also realize that you will not play the spiteful games with them and you will not put up with it.
Why are people largely unconscious about the real psychological forces that shape their behavior?
Denial is an imagined safety net for those who allow themselves fear. Facing reality is much more productive and clear-headed, yet the 'fear of fear' keeps the timid bottled up. Ride that bicycle!
Can mental disorders cause you be to hostile?
Yes, some mental disorders can contribute to feelings of hostility and aggression. Conditions such as Borderline Personality Disorder, Intermittent Explosive Disorder, and some forms of psychosis can result in increased irritability, anger, and hostility. It's important to seek professional help if experiencing these symptoms to receive an accurate diagnosis and appropriate treatment.
Do narcissists ever let go of a victim? The answer yes and no. As long as the narc feels you have any intrest in them and you can be manipulated by them such as guilt tripping, feeling sorry for them, will allow them to conjole, or cause any emotions in you whether anger, sympathy, empathy or any attention they will not let go or write you off. Narcs are users period. As long as you are a source of supply for anything they will try and add you to their list of suppliers. The only way to be written off by a narc is if you are replaced with a better source of whatever they were using you for, such as money,sex, service to immediate family members, friends or someone they consider a trophy to enhanse their public image. When with a narc, you will feel like yard dog, taxi driver, money supplier, dildo with a heart beat, door Matt and for all you supply to them will be taken for granted. They are ingrates and feel entitled to all they can get and have no remorse or gratitude.
When do personality traits become a disorders?
1/ Typically personality traits are only graduated to a disorder when they are inflexible or maladaptive; to the point that it creates significant chaos and disruption in the life of those who are exhibiting the traits. Problems in society, such as work or interpersonal relations, when caused as a direct result of personality traits are considered as disorder. Sad but true. If you are getting along well for the most part with your personality traits then it is not considered disorder. For the most part we as a society exhibit similar traits, but to varying degrees. When the degree is too little or extreme this is a sign of disorder .
2/ May I try to explain the difference between Personality Disorders and Personality traits. Personality disorders are according to mental health professionals diagnosis criteria, problems a few men or women may have in their personality which get them into trouble in their lives. These are characterised by that person's "failure to learn from experience or adapt appropriately to changes". As a result people having one or more Personality Disorders usually experience personal distress, serious impairment of social functioning and difficulties in employment, usually leading to them being failures in their working life and/or committing criminal offences sometimes leading to prison and problems in making friends and in their relationships with others.
There are three clinical groups of personality disorders that people may suffer from, although most people with personality disorders tend to have two or more of them within their overall personality and character. The groups involve :
a/ Extremely weird behaviour - including a Paranoid Personality Disorder, a Schizoid Personality Disorder, a Schizotypal Personality Disorder, and a Self- Defeating or Masochist Personality Disorder.
b/ Extremely dramatic/emotional behaviour - including Histrionic Personality Disorder, Narcissistic Personality Disorder and Antisocial Personality Disorder.
c/ Behaviour dominated by anxiety and/or fear - including Dependent Personality Disorder, Obsessive Compulsive Personality Disorder and Passive Aggressive Personality Disorder.
Regarding Personality Traits, we all have them, whereas only about 2% of us also suffer from personality disorder(s). Personality Traits are a normal part of being a human being whether you are male or female. Assessment of any normal individual's personality involves assessing the degree he or she has or does not have of each of what are termed "the Big Five Personality Factor Models". These are:-
1. Openness to experience.
2. Conscientiousness.
3. Extroversion.
4. Agreeableness
5. Emotional stability or Neurosis
Know it sounds mean but is there any way to mess up a narcissist?
I am in the middle of trying to end a relationship with a narcissist - I have children so it was very important for me that they know who I am. I realised that he there was something wrong with him after just two dates with him - I told him I was not interested in a relationship with him and he literally 'squared up' to me and said in an extremely aggressive and threatening way that 'he was looking forward to a bit of romance' .....I knew right then that he did not care about my feelings or who I was and I immediately felt 'not separate' from him. I tried to get away from him numerous times but he continually dumped on me how this would affect him and basically would never understand my point of view. I ended up being broken down into marrying him but all the time I purposely kept my feelings and emotions to myself - my anger and resentment. I made vain attempts to try to talk about the relationship but he would become extremely defensive and give 30 different reasons why I was imagining things and why I was mad. I was in 'cope' mode for twenty years. But at the same time I met someone else 'normal' and had a relationship for a year but when it came to deciding what to do I needed to cut loose from my marriage and resolve the problems before engaging in a relationship elsewhere. I legally separated from my narcistic 'ex' but he STILL didn't let go - and then me met another girl - this was the first time in 20 years that I felt 'free' it was a physical sensation of a huge pole being taken from my head and years of anguish and anger and grief came flooding out. I immediately got back on to him and 'showed' myself to him and gave him a choice to come back but all the time wanting to get all the skeletons out and to take back my life - for the next six months and because he didn't have 'control' over me any more - his raging anger came flooding out and his mask slipped in front of my family - EVERYBODY saw exactly what he was like - for 20 years he USED me as a conduit to filter his insecurity and 'nothingness' and now EVERYBODY saw what he was like. When I separated from him I ensured that I manipulated all the money and have bought my house outright and HE lives in rented accommodation. I have the opportunity to build 'normal' relationships with my children and they are seeing now exactly who the 'mental' person is because for years he told them that I was mentally sick and NOW they can see exactly who the sick one is.
I do not understand why I my life I have had to live through this hell and try to escape with some sort of self respect and self esteem. I HATED playing him at his own game but it was the only way I felt that I could survive and expose him and get my life back. I feel that I have reliquished my power and my trust in men and in relationships because of this and I am really a shell of a person compared to what I was before he crossed my path. I felt that 'reducing' him was my only way to survive and to try to breath again but the process to myself and my health was terrible.
I am not sure whether I would advise anyone to try to mess a narcisist up because at the end of the day they do not have the capacity to feel and to empathise - this would have been the ONLY release for me for him to care and to understand and be respectful - but i KNOW that I will NEVER get this from him - I need to learn to give it back to myself and it is a very difficult thing to do after so many years of being smothered and abused.....
Define Bi polar with narcissistic traits?
Bipolar disorder is a mental health condition characterized by extreme mood swings between manic and depressive episodes. Narcissistic traits refer to having an inflated sense of self-importance, a constant need for admiration, and a lack of empathy for others. When someone has both bipolar disorder and narcissistic traits, they may exhibit grandiosity and impulsivity during manic episodes, and lack empathy and exhibit manipulative behavior during both manic and depressive episodes.
Some people may choose to smile during difficult situations as a defense mechanism to mask their true emotions or to try to diffuse tension. Others may have learned to cope with stress or conflict by maintaining a positive outward appearance. It's important to remember that everyone copes with situations differently, and what works for one person may not work for another.
A propulsive liar is someone who lies frequently and without hesitation. They may lie in order to manipulate others, avoid consequences, or enhance their own image. This behavior can be harmful and damaging to relationships.
Unconscious and conscious behavior?
- The conscious mind includes everything that we are aware of. This is the aspect of our mental processing that we can think and talk about rationally. A part of this includes our memory, which is not always part of consciousness but can be retrieved easily at any time and brought into our awareness. Freud called this ordinary memory the preconscious.
- The unconscious mind is a reservoir of feelings, thoughts, urges, and memories that outside of our conscious awareness. Most of the contents of the unconscious are unacceptable or unpleasant, such as feelings of pain, anxiety, or conflict. According to Freud, the unconscious continues to influence our behavior and experience, even though we are unaware of these underlying influences.
What will a victim of theft be feeling?
When my car was stolen and found later after the thief took it for a joy ride, I felt violated. I felt dirty in the car after that. I sold it as soon as I could. It was not longer mine, it was abused by someone else. I know it just a car, but it was mine.
Can a person be a narcissist to only one person?
if the poor person'significant other'is the only person with the narcissist on a regular basis..yes.
outside angels..inside DEVILS..as they say
it all depends who they have drawn into their web...one or more than one.
apart from that...no......the disorder is pervasive.
B: I think I get what you are asking. My ex was only Narccissist to her significant others and exs, people shes been or in relationships with. She had only a small group of friends and she kissed their Bs to keep them. SO Yes they can only treat their lovers like crap or ex lovers.
What do narcissism and antisocial have in common?
They are both Cluster B Personality Disorders. They exist on the same spectrum with varying degrees of severity. In a practical sense, they share disregard for the rights and well-being of others.
What are some personality traits of online sexual predators?
Online sexual predators can exhibit manipulative behavior to groom and exploit their victims, exhibit predatory behavior such as stalking and coercing their victims, and may use deception to gain trust and access to their victims. They may also demonstrate a lack of empathy towards their victims and use technology to facilitate their predatory behavior.
Is strategist a personality trait?
"Strategist" is not typically considered a standalone personality trait. It usually refers to a skill or a profession that involves thinking critically, planning, and making decisions to achieve specific goals. It may be associated with traits like analytical thinking, problem-solving abilities, and long-term vision.
Should you tell someone their partner is narcissistic?
It may be helpful to express your concerns about their partner's behavior, using specific examples, and suggest that they seek professional advice or counseling. You should approach the topic with empathy and support, and be prepared for them to react defensively. Ultimately, the decision to label their partner as narcissistic should be left to a mental health professional.
What behavior is the opposite of Shame Based behavior?
Shame comes from processing events with judgments.
I did "this thing" so I am bad.
Those judgments are generally taught to us and are purely subjective. And even though they are subjective we make them factual in our minds.
To process events without subjective judgment is to be graceful.
So in my opinion, the opposite of shameful behavior is graceful behavior.
Some are, but some are heterosexual men who simply like to dress in womens clothes.
Answer
Not necessarily. A gay person is a someone who is sexually attracted to members of his or her own sex. A transvestite is someone who wears clothing which was designed for the opposite sex. Two entirely different concepts. Some gay men may like to wear women's clothing, but in general most male transvestites are straight.
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No. They are people who prefer to wear clothing of the opposite gender. Mainly from male to female. In respect of sexuality approximately 80% of men that like to dress as women are full blooded heterosexual males. Being someone who cross-dresses is no indicator of homosexuality although a percentage will be and or Bisexual just the same as the population of men that don't choose to swap their trousers for a frock.
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What are some Iranian personality traits?
Depends if you are an Iranian yourself or not .
So if you are an American or " White Guy" in general ... welcome to heaven ! they will love you as much as they love their own families .
But in case you are an Iranian dude ... get ready for cheating , s@@T talking , and never ending competition , in case you do a business .. may god be with you .
I am an Iranian and I am giving you all my experiences .
What is bud's personality traits?
Bud's personality traits may include being friendly, outgoing, and adventurous. He is often described as curious, playful, and loyal to his friends.
Do narcissists become violent?
Some narcissists may become violent, especially when they feel threatened, challenged, or criticized. Their lack of empathy and need for control can make them resort to aggressive or violent behavior to assert power or intimidate others. It's important to be cautious and seek help if you or someone you know is experiencing violence from a narcissist.
It depends. Some narcissists are subtle and not very malignant. Others are malignant. The malignant ones can be very abusive.
Will a narcissist live a long and happy life?
I havn't met one that has, even if he seems happy its just a front their always on the hunt for a new victim even if they seem happy and in love, inside they know they are not nice and expect people to abandon them anyway
I imagine they all end up old and alone. Im sure that's how mine will end up.
If narcissism is that extreme form of self-love which totally over-rules any attraction to members of the opposite sex, it is extremely unlikely that narcissism could ever be passed on to future generations.
'Personality' is the product of genetics, environment, experiences in life and, to some extent, personal choice (free will).
These factors contribute to any narcissistic tendencies a person may have or exhibit. Similarly, the degree of narcissism will also be influenced by those factors. This being so, narcissism, to a greater or lesser degree, may be inherited, but not necessarily.
To some extent, a measure of 'self-love' is natural; it is a feature of being human. But experience and maturity generally ensures that self-love does not become a person's predominant quality.
How can you recognize a 'narcissist'?
(Note: Narcissistic Personality Disorder is something that can only be identified by a mental health professional who has examined the person in question. Other than that, "narcissist" is a word meaning "loves oneself excessively" and is susceptible to varying interpretations.)
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A Narcissist is someone who takes their self-esteem from the way others view them. Their personality will therefore center around how he or she is viewed.
Narcissism looks like this... Your partner treats you and perhaps your children very different in private than in public. In public he may ignore you giving all of his attention to others, or pretend to be the perfect husband or father, while in private he may be sarcastic, haughty and insulting. He may put people down behind their back. He may have a very inflated sense of entitlement and ego, thinking he deserves things that he hasn't worked for or earned and he may manipulate situations for attention, acting a bit too good to be true. This can fool people and so few of them will believe how he talks to his family in private (I say 'he', because I write from our experience, but there are plenty of abusive women with narcissism). He may also show little or no regard for your well being or your feelings.
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Unfortunately that's not all...
He may lie about you or paint a bad picture of you to gain sympathy from others and to justify his own bad behaviour. You probably have no idea of all of the lies he is telling you and the bad things he may be saying about you to others ...
If he makes fights when you try and talk about money he may be hiding credit cards or money transactions from you and his narcissism will cause him to pretend these fights are your fault.
Many narcissists are obsessed by the fantasy of an ideal relationship that is 'perfect' (and therefore fantasy!) and are skilled liars. So if the above symptoms of narcissism describe your partner, you should also be aware that he may habitually have secret crushes on other women, be having affairs, using pornography habitually, and/or conducting 'cyber' affairs (while lying that he is single) all without you having any knowledge of this. If you notice that your partners mind is often somewhere else, and they show narcissistic tendencies, this could be the reason. This obsession with his own inner fantasy life is part of what makes him unavailable, impatient and cross with you. It is a major symptom of the disorder.
Not all people with narcissism are physically abusive, but it is also a significant indicator that you will wind up being part of a domestic violent marriage. The physical abuse is not always perpetrated by the narcissist either. It is normal to become very angry with someone who manipulates you and puts you down. It is normal after years of this treatment, (especially if you discover that they have been lying to and cheating on you) to even want to kill them or wish them dead, so getting the right help and support is very important, and can be very hard to find.
There are very few people who understand narcissism or believe there is any cure, and those who say to 'leave and have no contact' are giving you very dangerous advice. If you want to leave, please get advice first on how to do it safely.
Trying to diagnose someone with a disorder is not a really a good idea when there are many who will then say that you must divorce them and have no contact and that there is no cure.
If your partner displays this behaviour it is not important to figure out the correct diagnosis, what you need to do is take steps to protect yourself and save your marriage before it is too late.
My husband was diagnosed NPD and yet still he got better and we have a great marriage now. We help partners of narcissists save their marriages too.
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WRONG. The correct answer is - you can not recognize a narcissist. At least not a smart, experienced narcissist. It is a matter of survival for them to not let anyone know there true nature. (See note at top of page)
