A rageaholic (patterned after "alcoholic" or "workaholic") is a person who is addicted to fits of rage, and might become mentally abusive, or controlling, towards other people. Unlike a typically predictable alcoholic, who might need to drink Scotch or Tequila to cross-over and become vicious, a rageaholic might explode in anger at any time, with no warning at all for the poor victims in the vicinity. Rageaholics have been known to pull down curtains, ripping curtain rods out of the wall, stomp on property for-sale signs, and pull TV satellite-dishes off the roof.
Rageaholics Anonymous (with a Los Angeles chapter) recommends that a rageaholic must avoid taking the first rage fit, coping one day at a time, because any encouraged fit of anger could escalate beyond the control of a recovering rageaholic. As is said of cocaine use: 1 is too many, and 10,000 is never enough. Once a rageaholic begins the first tantrum of the day, there is no set limit to how much continued anger can be sustained throughout the day. After a pleasant rest of extended sleep, a rageaholic might explode into even greater anger, powered by the extra sleep, feeding the addiction with intense outbursts. A rageaholic might feel, during an intense fit of anger, that any judgment or reaction is totally justified, before God and everybody, in order to correct the situation causing the anger. Sometimes the reaction is simply to hit or smash things that are self-righteously judged as "wrong" (or just "irritating"). A rageaholic fit of mental abuse could become physical abuse, from the mindset that the physical abuse will correct the situation.
Related terms: anger management, uncontrolled anger.
It certainly sounds like it. We'll go so far as to bet that he was a real charmer until he got into a position of control, which is exactly the way many sociopaths operate.
We suggest that you explore ways to get out of the situation. It will not get any better, although he may make all sorts of promises. You have no reason to trust him, and no reason to believe anything he says. However, if he threatens you, take that seriously.
Why isn't there treatment for sociopaths?
Sociopaths (psychopaths) are people who are incapable of experiencing compassion; they never feel shame, guilt, or remorse. Harming a friend, a lover, a parent would have no emotional effect upon a psychopath. Psychopaths regard other people as tools, as resources to exploit. Some are incredible mimics and will go to great lengths to appear "normal", in order to game the system for their own benefit.
There is no known treatment which can change psychopaths. Psychotherapy (talk therapy) has no beneficial effect whatsoever upon psychopaths. There are no medications, surgical techniques, or any other methods which have the slightest effect. Extensive clinical literature from such prominent researchers as Dr. Robert Hare makes this fact clear. Psychopathy is completely untreatable.
Furthermore, psychopaths see nothing wrong with the way they are. They feel no incentive to change. Their own wrongdoing does not cause them the slightest worry.
There are different kinds of people - not all sociopaths are the same and therefore the possibility that some may be willing to change is apparent. Also, the way in which they act and are acted upon by others has more to do with their decisions. Therefore, if they are given a tolerant opportunity, change is possible. A cure may not be.
Incidentally, "sociopath" is a catch-all term, not a condition. The presenting conditions are narcissistic, antisocial and/or dissocial personality disorders.
Sociopaths do self harm. But it's more like an internal need for relief that cracks them. Sociopaths or psychopaths have violent urges, and if these can't be vented on others they are vented on themselves.
Sociopaths don't love in the traditional sense. What most people consider the sort of "final stage" of love is feeling that the other person's needs are above theirs. Sociopaths don't feel that. How ever, they can and do love certain select people to the point of obsession. They become such a part of their live, so important that the idea of not having them can be quite painful.
Because sociopaths for the most part are emotionally unattatched, the shock of loosing an emotional attachment that would be painful, but not unbearable for a normal person, is magnified for a sociopath because it is so different.
As a teacher how do I deal with a sociopath in my classroom?
Let them stay in the classroom.... They would observe there classmates, everyday.. They hate talking mostly at this age because they don't feel like a god yet. They are shy and really lonely.. So if that continues on they would start aching to hurt there classmates, because would be annoyed at them for not playing with them... Don't treat them like special needs kids!! They would then start playing a game with you were they rec your career.(depending if there 11 OR older)
If there are more than one sociopath in one school you must make them avoid eachother. Or else they would start playing there game and each day the game gets more Deadly.( 11 OR Older ) Ask them on what's bothering them, because they are holding all of there sadness inside them. But don't get personal. They would also not seek love but instead souls. They love the smell of Blood.. And the hear of crys.
I know this because I am one. ); It's hard being a sociopath, everyone hates you.. And you become alone.. But all you want to do is play some games.. We're like kids that grow up into adults.. We just want To have Fun.
What if you killed a sociopath and they ended up in hell?
By definition, a sociopath lacks a sense of moral responsibility. Those who lack a sense of moral responsibility automatically wind up in a hellish dimension after physical death. They have no choice. The non-living higher power on the Other Side known as The Light judges all regardless of belief system; this is confirmed by near-death experience and inter-life regression research. Regardless, I strongly suggest letting the police handle such matters and not doing said individual in on your own. With one rare exception: if you were to transition and were spiritually advanced enough to expand your consciousness into a Godhead in The Light. In which case, if you were to investigate - as people and events on the physical plane are much more obvious to those on the Other Side - and said individual is indeed confirmed beyond a shadow of doubt to be a sociopath, then, as a Judge in The Light you would only be serving "that which is good and true" by ousting his or her soul from corporeal life and letting The Light indirectly force him or her to reside in an appropriate hellish dimension. (A sociopath who happened to murder an innocent who expanded into a Godhead on the Other Side would not live for very long.) But for the vast majority who read this: best to just let the police handle crimes committed by a sociopath.
Should you forgive a sociopath mother?
Yes, you should forgive a sociopath mother, since she was the one who gave you life.
What mental condition causes fits of rage?
narcissistic rage
That is one but there are others. Post Traumatic Stress Disorder, Mania, Depression, there are many. I would recommend a professional looking at the pattern in the instances of rage before anyone is hurt.
Can a sociopath be detected by brain scan?
Although i haven't seen it done, i'm sure it could be. All that would need to be done is to watch the brain of a person who is, and one who isn't a sociopath, in a social environment. any differences would be tell tail signs
What are the symptoms of sociopathy?
Sociopathy is the common term for Antisocial Personality Disorder. This disorder is charecterized by having atleast three of the following.
How do you deal with a sociopath ex boyfriend whom you have a child with?
talk to a lawyer to legally arrange you and his visiting time with your child and if you think he is dangerous file separately(or have the lawyer do it for you) a restraining order
"Crazy and unpredictable," most people say. But there's more to it.
Psychopaths are people who suffer from a brain abnormality that causes them to grow up without developing a conscience or any capacity to connect with their fellow human beings. Most of the time, a psychopath feels bored and restless, craving stimulation. This is partly because they have the need for the benefits of human contact WITHOUT the ability to make or to receive such contact, and partly because the cerebral cortex of a psychopath is rarely fully aroused to normal consciousness (not to be confused with "conscience"), instead hovering at what EEGs show to be a hybrid of alertness and alpha-sleep waves. This may also account to some degree for the psychopath's ability to lie and also to their sometimes amazingly illogical grasp of reality.
Psychopaths make life hell for many people around them, but their existence is hell too. Therapy can sometimes help some, as can some medications, but until neurosurgeons can do something about the brain abnormalities that cause psychopathy, the condition, which afflicts four out of every hundred people, cannot be cured.
REMEMBER AS WELL THAT PSYCHOPATHS ARE IN FACT LIVING MEMBERS OF THE HUMAN RACE. Defending yourself against a psychopath is one thing; attacking someone just for being one is quite another. I do not need to have a conscience to see that!
Meaning that certain health-care givers who smiled grimly and knowingly when looking at my file, and who then have roughed me up or verbally battered me or even hit me, in clinical settings, plus all those so very pious folks who constantly preach that scum like me ought to be lined up and shot, are WRONG.
How can people know I'm "totally hopeless" if they never give me a chance? The therapist I see now is doing just that, and this, in combination with medications that change the ways my nervous system functions, seems to be helping me. Which, of course, is supposedly impossible. Well. It's happening anyway, and I know there are other ones out there too!
One very important point, therefore, is that, most certainly, no one helps sociopaths by repeatedly calling them 'evil'! That kind of response cannot possibly help anyone. A sociopath before treatment cannot trust anyone and must learn the fundaments of trust and interaction between people. No one who is persuaded to believe that he or she is just plain bad can sustain any hope for change. It becomes a vicious cycle: the sociopath, being told he or she is evil and cannot be helped, gives up, and in frustration and anger lashes out again at people, and in response to that, people say that their original point is proven.
The main reason sociopaths don't usually seek help is that they can't trust, rather than that they like being as they are. Plus, they can often sense exactly what sort of a response any call for help on their part is most likely to elicit from professionals and lay folk alike. Sociopaths are not breezing along in paradise. It isn't all a game. It's a truly miserable existence. And it can be made better. It may not be "curable" yet, but it most certainly isn't as hopeless as so many people say. There is therefore nothing to be gained and much to be lost when therapists and lay folk try to ostracize sociopaths from the human race entirely! Sensationalism and superstition will only prevent progress.
This was written on another question on the same essential topic as this one, by a self-confessed sociopath (other than me!) --
The essay that follows was written in another answer by another self-admitted sociopath, who actually might not be a sociopath. Still another person added the brief comment to that effect after her tragic essay.
Are there more gay sociopaths that straight sociopaths?
No, in fact, it's the opposite. There are many more straight sociopaths than gay ones.
Are sociopaths hypochondriacs?
Sociopaths are not necessarily hypochondriacs. Hypochondria is a completely different mental disorder from antisocial personality disorder (sociopathy/psychopathy). Those with hypochondria excessively worry about having serious illnesses, often jumping from doctor to doctor to check for their diagnoses. On the other hand, despite the name, those with antisocial personality disorder are not always antisocial; they can actually be rather talkative people. Those with antisocial personality disorder often lack empathy for others and may participate in stealing or lying. Although hypochondria and antisocial personality disorder are different, it doesn't mean that someone can't be both a hypochondriac and a sociopath. Thus, the question you posed is not impossible, but sociopathy is not classified under hypochondria.
Is a person who does not visit a dying relative a sociopath?
not exactly. it is possible, but it is also possible that the person didn't care about the relative or it was impossible to get there.
It depends, and without knowing the individual nobody can give you a rock solid guarantee of what they will do. Generally sociopaths and manipulative narcissists are kindred, but in this regard they may not be. Sociopaths are not emotionally attached to anyone or anything but themselves, so if you dump them then they'll probably be moving swiftly on to their next partner/victim. There will be no hard feelings because there never were any feelings.
Narcissists may consider your act of dumping them as effrontery and an insult to their (perceived) greatness, possibly they will defame you to others or seek revenge. Whether that revenge is violent or not will depend upon the particular narcissist.
The best way to deal with them is to let people who you trust know the circumstances of the break-up, and if you feel it's necessary let the police know. Involving the police is usually enough to keep sociopaths/narcissists at bay-they don't like the idea of prison and losing their liberty and chance to scam people.
Can a sociopath admit their illness to themselves?
Sure! And they're most likely not going to care whether they are or not.
Sociopaths and feelings
What are the characteristics of emotional and behavior disorder?
The most common behavior pattern of emotional and behavioral disorders consists of antisocial, or externalizing behaviors.
What horoscope signs correspond to sociopathic behavior?
basially I'm a Pisces and I have alot of other friends that are Pisces and we r very mellow but I guess that all I can say cause I don't know any other signs. But on the bright side u don't have to worry about Pisces.
When your are born has no effect on your later behaviour. sociopath traits are a mental health issue-many factors in life can promote this-genetics, envirement are the basics The mind is so complex that no one head dr can explain Though certain signs have negative behavoirs it doesnt mean theyll be crazy However with the rite stimulus from internal or out criminal or perverted actions can start
Should sociopaths be euthanized since they have no true human traits?
no because we are your superiors. not bound by your morality
Loss of power would cause them to explode or 'ignite' as you phrased the question. Sociopaths have very little real emotion, with the exception of rage. This happens when they have a feeling of lack of control. They feel that the people around them belong to them, like a possession which is a part of them. Therefore, losing control is the equivalent of the average person losing control of an arm of a leg.
Is a Spiritual hustler a sociopath?
Maybe. However, if he or she cares about other people with the exception of his or her line of work, then the diagnosis would not be sociopath.
How to handle a sociopath in the workplace?
Ask for a transfer away from that person. Or leave the job, which is usually the only way to deal with it. Complaining to superiors about the problem will rarely get you anywhere, because after all, the sociopath has them wrapped around their little finger.