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Preteen Relationships

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As children enter puberty they also develop an interest in the opposite sex. Relationships under the age of 13 can get very complicated and confusing. This category is for questions related to preteen relationships and dating under the age of 13.
A: Maybe your nine year old has some secret that she has been keeping from you or she is troubled by something or someone.
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Well, nothing really happens unless you choose to make something happen. You could talk to the doctor that did the job and tell him why you are dissatisfied, and (depending on the policies of the clinic and the contract that you signed), he may agree to correct the perceived problem, which may or …
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It seems to me someone that cares about her doesn't think she ready for that type of responsiblity yet. But to me I think she has a say so if she want to keep her on child or not. Besides its hard to give up a baby that has been growing inside for nine months.
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you do not cry you tell someone that your friend or friends that they took it on perpus or on ackadent it happend to me love Morgan Anna johnston
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Love is not fair and believe it or not but people can love more than one person.
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Yes you can get married in Maryland without parents permission only if the girl is going to have a baby or already has one and you have a doctors note saying that she is or does. Yes; Delaware, Florida, Georgia, Kentucky, Maryland and Oklahoma allow pregnant teens or teens who have already had a …
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By 'a parent's permission' do you mean that you only have *one* of your parents permission? If that's the case then it depends on where you live. In many states, if the parents have equal custody then the permission of *both* is required.
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I am no expert, but I started with a used above ground pool and a DE filter. The DE filter caused me nothing but grief, poor circulation, way too much bumping and replacing the DE powder. I now have a sand filter and it is a breeze. My pool is under a tree, so there is plenty of debris, but that's w…
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Talking and sharing is an integral and crucial part of a relationship. Denying you such intimacy is abusive.  yes!abusers have an unequal sense of their "relationships"; whatever they give, or "suffer" (which may include giving caring or attention to others) is highly valuable in their eyes (w…
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You two need to talk. Your partner needs understands the limits. Otherwise, it is a criminal offense. Be careful what you wish for! No, he is not abusive, but you do have a problem if you like your sex on the rough side. It's a dangerous place to go. You are sending very mixed messages to your bo…
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However you try to put it, its still going to hurt him/her so just come straight and DON'T ever use the lets just be friends line, it will probably not be like that. This happened to me over the summer except the guy never told me, he just ignored me. Don't do that! Tell the girl that your feelings…
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As much as it hurts, and I know I am too nice to do this, but the "a-hole" who gets the girl will put the smack down and say, "him or me, him or me." Maybe I'll have the guts to do this soon, but I will probably wait until I am sure I want to dump her, so I have nothing to lose. Women say they want …
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You can't really get over a guy who you keep going back to unless you really want to it can be so hard and seem like the most impossible thing that can be done but that is not true if he doesn't want you then he is stupid and doesn't realize how much you are worth because you are beautiful and you …
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Answer If you continue to let him think that he is in love with you then you ARE hurting him. The best thing to do is to walk away. Explain to him that you care for him too much to let him make such an important decision this early in life. Good luck. Answer Why on earth would you assume that…
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A judge probably won't go where you want to get married, but you can get a justice of the piece of minsiter. You can always ask the judge, they may be willing to go.
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keran + manisha + prabjot + banpreet +eniola +amanpreet =bffl
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In my experience, 20 is too young to get married to anyone, and the 12 year age difference is something that could become an issue in the future. When I was 22, I married my 36 year old boyfriend, and within 5 years, I had matured, and he hadn't. A woman changes a LOT between 20 and 30. I left him a…
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Generally speaking, if someone spends time talking to you, they like you. People who don't like you will avoid you. Of course, some people will talk to you purely out of politeness or because their job or social conventions require it, but such conversations tend to be brief. Someone who: Seeks y…
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Im 16 and with a 27 year old at the moment!! and looks like we are going to be together for a long time .. am engaged to him and am totally in love with him!!! so dont worry hun your not on your own!! and its not wrong!! if you love him go 4 it and dont worry what other people say and dont let them …
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The 22 year old man is smart not to have anything serious to do with her so he doesn't go to jail. She needs to leave him alone and find someone her own age. There are so many other handsome young men just waiting for her. Also, the 22 year old needs to grow up and find himself a young WOMAN. &…
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You need to find someone closer to your age. 14 and 10 is too big of an age gap. Four years isn't a big deal, but there is a big difference between 10 an 14. Just move on and wait for her to get older. When she is 13 or 14 and your 17 or 18, if you still like her and she likes you, you can try datin…
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yes i also find ways to be with him or do anything just to see him.
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I definaltely think you cannot make yourself love someone if you don't already and automatically - you may be able to just continue on with them in everyday life, but how far can it really go if you don't truly love them from the beginning.   ask yourself are you putting a wall up to keep fro…
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well,it's very simple..if she wants to be with you all the time though it's uncalled for,then she likes u.   She would follow u everywhere always talk 2 u
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Calculate the time you met, when he or she broke up with there last partner, and how things instanly "clicked" between the two of you. Emphasis on the word "clicked". Rebounds can last for a year if not sought after prpoerly, and that's when pain comes at an intense level. The sad thing about reboun…
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You are to be commended for being one of the good guys and actually are very considerate of this girls feelings. Thanks!You always have to be true to yourself and obviously you aren't ready for a committment at this time. Go for a leisurely walk somewhere and tell her the truth. Here is something to…
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Smile, be attentive to what he's saying, and ask a few (not too many) questions.   Just be yourself and naturally it will come together.
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There are a number of unknown factors here. Do you have common goals? Are you aware that he even WANTS to be married? Have you discussed marriage? How old are you both, and are you expecting too much at your age? Nevertheless, five years is enough time for you to know if he is right for you. If you …
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It is pretty hard to tell, but there is a look in there eye when they say it. When they don't mean it, they usually give you a strange smile. If they say it without feeling, it usually means that its not from the heart, but if he is close and says it gentle.... that's usually real. ^.^  You ca…
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have great confidence and humor while being yourself
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Answer It could mean that he likes you. This is definitely something that you will need to talk to him about; however if he is already talking to you then this is a really good start!
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just talk to people who you trust.
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Answer If a guy is shy, and you want to know if he likes you, you most likely can't walk up to him and ask him if he likes you. So check if he's stareing at you, or write him a note, asking him to go to the movies with you. Something that wouldn't be to in person. sometimes if a shy guy likes you…
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Answer Every guy is different so generalizing them would be a mistake. Some are too shy to even talk to you, some are just afraid that you don't feel the same way about them, etc. This would mean that they have different ways of showing how they feel. The best way to find out if a guy likes you i…
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I think the best way is to play hard to get. just stay calm and really think about things. if he treats you like one of his buddies, then he likes you. From a Guys perspective this is easy to do. Most girls will do the most stupid things that is just so obvious to us guys and is in most guys…
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The best thing to do is give her her space. Absolutely maintain the friendship that you had beforehand, but stop pursuing her as a love interest unless she shows definite signs of changing her mind. There are plenty other girls (and guys, for those girls reading this) in the world for you to fall in…
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NEVER change who you are if you are a good person.In life, some people are really going to like you and some people (no matter what a good person you are) won't like you. In growing up all these years I think that was the hardest part of life ... realizing not everyone is going to like you. Here is …
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It is true that SOME people can change for the better, but with this guy, no! I would focus your eyes on the horizon and find someone more suited to you. You gave him a chance and it sounds like he really hurt you. If at least 1 - 2 years hasn't passed without you in his life then I highly doubt he …
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He tries to get in conversations with you.... IF he's not shy He looks at you when you look away. and looks away when you look back He can't look you in the eye. He's really nice to you and he tries to sit next to you or be in your group. OR, if hee's shy he avoids you but when you guys DO talk h…
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Tell him to help you with something or when you're alone just tell him. Try not to turn red or say anything stupid. Wait for his answer. If he says I don't like you or something like that don't cry just say ok. Walk away hold it in. But if he ask you out or something like that. Oh really ok. Don't g…
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He will usually (not always) act a little different around you. Don't expect him to ever act the same twice. With guys, they just don't do that (Unless you've got a really one-of-a-kind guy.) Usually he'll go out of his way just to be around you, and he'll be nice, or he'll happen to be nearby a lot…
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Take it from somebody who knows. I sit by a dude in 4th and 6th period. He makes up anything stupid to say just to talk to me. I always catch him looking at me too. He always faces me when he is sitting in his chair. Guys will pretty much do anything to get your attention if they are into you! me t…
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go see a doctor for that if not just buy lots of fresh mints because you are going to need it.
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It depends upon which state you live in. Some (perhaps all) states allow juveniles to marry with parental consent. Another issue is the fact that she is 16 and pregnant. By operation of law of almost every state, having sex with a minor under the age of consent is a crime. This is usually referred …
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Personally, if you want to convert your style to something similar of hers and if its appropriate,yes.  I'm amother and yes of course if my son was dressing in my things I would want to know. And I would nip that bottom good, in order to break that habit.  I used to dress in my mother's …
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As long as the boys are ok with it.
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The first thing you should do is pick something you like about her and tell her you like it. Compliments are good but only one or two things more then that and its kindof creepy. The best thing to do is just take a chance just be like have you seen that new movie about...it looks really good..want t…
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just be ur self and she will like you:)
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This has happened to me and afterwards heard him laughing to his friends about it, I am pretty sure he is joking around if he is making kissy noises
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Probably not anywhere in the US, except possibly Texas. Texas apparently allows 17-year-olds to move out without parental consent, except in certain circumstances.  - Why would you want to?(06/13/09)It is a statistical fact that relationships involving people who co-habitat and/or get married …
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ask her  be a man and ask her out  
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Discovering what dreams mean is very complicated business. There are dozens of books on dream interpretation, but there are also dozens of studies that suggest dreams don't have secret meanings at all; at least not ones we can discover by using a book or talking to a dream specialist. If you reall…
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I am currently going thru the same thing. It is either the throttle plate or the recall that during engine movement causes the throttle-cable housing to pull out of its guide.
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Answer: It depends on the circumstances, if there are children involved you should take into consideration how they feel about the relationship and the affects that it has on them. If not, in your relationship you should be 100% happy. Don't let something ruin it for you. It may be tough for awhile …
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There's only one way to know for sure if a guy likes you, and that is to ask. Yeup, it's much easier said than done, but you have to do it. Either that or drop major hints. Don't have your friends ask him for you, because that shows a lack of confidence and is quite unattractive. Also, don't ask him…
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hmmmmm.... If you are asking what should you do, then I would say don't at all try to convince her to be your girlfriend. If she likes you as a friend, she likes you as a friend. Don't be pushy! Maybe if you give it time she could like you more than a friend, but it is a total turn off to press her …
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If he likes you for your looks he probably doesn't love you. If he only wants you for your vagina he doesn't love you.
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It is not unheard of that a boy expresses the need to be a girl. So first of all express to the boy that he is not alone in this, that whatever is the turnout, you will be by his side (if you are not able to do that, then please do not go through with this). Now you need to consult with a proper psy…
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When he shows you respect and is mindful of how you feel about different issues.
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Well according to me i believe you will know whether you are stil in love with him or her if you have feelings.As much as you want to be guided by other factors to know that you love him, you cannot assume the power of feelings.Other indicators whether both of you are still in love are; do you still…
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Yes, I believe you can be friends with people you are in love with. You need to be friends first and then fall in love; so why yes this should answer your question. ANSWER It definitely is not an easy position to be in but I too believe it's possible to be 'just' friends with the one you love. Whe…
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There may be an inverse relationI recall reading an article in the New York Times that suggested an inverse relation between IQ and "boldness," or risk-taking. Highly intelligent people frequently have the foresight to envision all that can go wrong with a project or an endeavor, become intimidated …
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There is no correct way on how to kiss a guy, and there is no wrong way. Every kiss is different. Possible Steps leading up to the kiss~ Look at him in the eyes. (Remember not to throw yourself at him). Slowly get closer towards his face. Let one of you take the lead. Here are some tips on how…
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Answer You should talk to her, ask her out to a movie. Tell her shes pretty, not hott, pretty. Coming from a girl, Just make her notice you, Talk to her, Oh and when you decide to ask her out, Do it in person, i know I can't stand, notes or texts, or friends doing it, it shows you are unconfiden…
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i think that might be true. if a guy likes you the way to pull the ice is to ask a girl if they have a boyfriend.
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Answer im sorry bout wats happend im going through somthing similar my ex boyfriend split up with me for no reason but got me to do it then he pushed me into sex with him three times after but like you he did say he didnt want to be friends with me. there all the same i think you should move on i…
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Often with the human species it's called "the chase!" That's the fun part of any relationship. The flirting, trying to impress, etc., and once that person has your total attention and interest in them, they may back off. You didn't really explain your situation as to whether you were going out toget…
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there are many ways to fix things with a girl. saying I'm sorry is the best way and meaning it. you will be eating a lot of crow too depending on what you did, but if you are willing to do what ever to get her back then it should not take long for her to come back to you. ctr
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Unless you are very young, then age should have nothing to do with it. Either you love that person or you don't. Science has proven men usually die younger than women (women with careers are catching up at a fast pace though) so it sort of balances it out. I am almost 4 years older than my husband, …
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Answer What is between the two of you usually remains between the two of you. Most young men have to retain "cool" when out with friends. He's afraid if he tells you he misses you in the same way his buddies will bug him and call him a few names I can think of. It's just about shyness. Quit testi…
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Because he wants the best of both worlds - the freedom to date & sleep with anyone else, and still have access to you for sex, someone to do favors, talk to you etc... My advice is be amicable but distant and start a new life - you want someone who wants to be with you 100% not just when it is c…
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I think it all depends on the height. I wouldn't think a 12 year old would be under 4ft and a person at 4ft tall weighing 70lbs is not at all overweight. depends on the height. 12 yr old girls are usually 5"0-5"5; and so the weight avg. would be.. 95-110 lbs. 70 lbs would be basiclly underweight.…
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Consider this... It is perfectly normal for young boys in your age group to find an older woman attractive or be infatuated with her. It is part of growing up. You are going through puberty and your hormones are raging, but that does not mean you should follow through with what you may be misinte…
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Answer It probably means he really likes you and you aren't making it very easy on him. The next time smile and perhaps walk over to him and talk. Sounds like both of you are very shy. If you like him, then go talk Well i would want him to talk to me if he really want to go with me and i would w…
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First what does your gut say? but some of the ways you might tell if he likes you is he will smile at you alot. he might start hanging out with YOUR friends, he will stick up for you, he will flirt with you,he might treat you like one of the guys, I know this is weird but its one of the best signals…
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im a guy and the reason is because all guys are pigs if a girl is easy a guy will take advantage even if she not that hot or as hot as you say you are. Guys just like the thought that they can get that girl. There are some guys who don't cheat, but some girls that come off as sluts or easy most guys…
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If you're partners then that means you are either going steady or living together. Most people don't do this unless they love each other. I think women should always be more independent and not completely rely on their partners. Go out with girlfriends, take college classes, volunteer, etc. The one …
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Sometimes scars from this get deep. Any relationship will always have a portion that is fondly remembered. If the relationship goes in different directions than so be it. Otherwise fight to get the old one back , IF that is what you really want.  its still a shock to me that this all happens..…
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Answer WATER. WATER. WATER. A lot of people don't know this but water actually shrinks you're stomach a TON. Look it up; you can find a lot of interesting weight lose facts with water online. :-) Running is another thing; it burns fat all over your body!!!!!
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what is your name? what sports he plays and what video games he likes?   We all go through this and dating is mind bending adventure at best. The mistake most of us make is looking in the mirror to see what we look like when we smile, what facial expressions we should use, etc. Then we have t…
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first of all theres a difference between liking someone alot and being IN LOVE with someone. i have a feeling you're like 13, id advise you ask her out if she says no suck it up. if she says yes date her, but you're going to freak her out if you jump right into 'being in love' so in conclusion liste…
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First don't act desperate. You can compete with the best of them. You need to watch for those moments when you can impress her. If she needs a door opened or her books fall be there to help her. Do not stalk her but if you are ready for the moment it will certainly come. Also dress cool don't dress…
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You can't. However, trust is a key component of love. If she tells you she loves you, you have to trust that she really does love you. The best thing to do is communicate with her, and find out what she thinks and feels. Also, your feelings will effect how she feels, so make sure you are honest wit…
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If you're in your early or late teens and you're a girl, it's a good idea to just relax and be yourself. Guys prefer funny women. If you just move in for the kill too early he might think you desperate and may leave you. Here are a few steps... 1) Make sure you know the boy and not just immediately…
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It all depends how you got the scars and i suppose how bad they are. As long as you tell the truth about how you got them there shouldn't be a problem. It all comes down to the "girl" if you have a nice personality it doesnt matter what you look like (that's in my eye's anyway) chin up darlin  …
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God NO just play it cool be there for her (that will mean so much) and things will all fall into place if its ment to be! She may have feelings for you but she may be scared! Just play it cool dont push her she will come to you when she is ready! Ask her to go out for a drink or go to the cinema jus…
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Just be yourself even if your a total goof ball.But,you never know the be probably like goof balls just be yourself
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To get a boys attention you just gotta be you! If he really likes you he will come along but if it doent go out well maybe your not sopose to be.
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It means she finds something interesting about you, she might want to talk to you, but she wants you to make the first move. or it can also mean they r day dreaming or playing hard to get >:O
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Answer To get a girl to like you be nice to her but not to needy. Take it slow and play it cool. Try to find a "thing" your both into (music, movies, magazines, whatever)so you have something to talk about. Be assertive but not aggressive.
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You don't, and it would be a mistake to try, in my opinion. He's obviously tied up in something else right now, for starters, and besides that if you're looking for something long term, do you think it's really a good idea to start it off by tricking him or getting him to do something he's obvio…
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You should defintely tell them. I told my crush that I like him and now we are going out. If the guy/girl that you like, likes you back then there is a chance they won't ask you out because they are afraid you would reject them. It worked out for me, so it should for you. Even if they don't like yo…
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First make sure that they are single. And just take a chance. The only thing they can say is no. If they do it was not meant be so move on. I might also suggest a letter.
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He will start to annoy you He keeps talking to you for no reason He embarrases you He texts you every day Hel want to be your partner He will introduce you to his folks He will let you know about everything He will start acting all wierd Dont worry You will notice it ;) well thats kinda how…
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im sorry but if she doesnt have feelings for you you should move on and find another fish in the sea especially if she likes another guy. i dont want to hurt you but its the truth but if she truly did love you shell come back in her on time if she realises you were the one but for now its better if …
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Bi-sexuality dates back to as early as the Romans and ancient Greeks. Bible thumpers and the media just makes it seem messed up and confusing when it really isn't. And I noticed the word love, which means you already know you should not care. Go tell her how much she means to you! I am not a big …
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The database did not find the text of a page that it should have found, named "What should a guy do if he cannot go talk to the girl he likes but cannot rest until somthing happens but there is a time limit until she leaves school and may never see her again". This is usually caused by following an…
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