Family

There is no real meaning of mature. Mature is different to all people. Though most people who have fun are usually called imature byt hose who worry to much.

Example: 1. Doing Class Work

2. Doing Home Work

Generally, in most common law jurisdictions, a will is void if it was made prior to a marriage, unless it appears from the will that it was made in contemplation of the marriage. A new will must be executed after a marriage takes place. It is impoirtant that you check your state laws.

For example see the following section from Massachusetts Statutes:

• The marriage of a person shall act as a revocation of a will made by him previous to such marriage, unless it appears from the will that it was made in contemplation thereof . . . .

Opinions from some of our contributors:

• Some kids get made fun of and have no friends. It really brings kids down, when you come home and you see your parents fighting. Children of broken families may go on to have commitment issues.

• Children from broken families are nearly five times more likely to suffer damaging mental troubles than those whose parents stay together, government research has found. It also showed that two parents are much better than one if children are to avoid slipping into emotional distress and anti-social behaviour. The findings say that children's family backgrounds are as important - if not more so - than whether their home is poor, workless, has bad health, or has no one with any educational qualifications.

• Very serious especially if the parents don't get along. Insecurity, instability, problems in school, at home, etc. Counseling is always helpful, someone non-biased so the child feels they can trust someone. Children that come from broken families will most likely have a difficult time in life, struggle and turn to drug abuse or other negative behavior. Getting help may be helpful but it won't help as much. The parents are in control. Kids need a mom and dad bottom line. if both parents don't get along, that will have an effect on the children, period. No schooling or organztion can help fully. I see kids growing up as doctors, lawyers or other professional professions because at childhood they were bought up with values and parents took control. Also if i may add, children who come from professional backgrounds can be easliy influenced and most likely to succeeedin there field.

• The child can be withdrawn, sad and even act violently towards minor irritations. Each situation is different - but watch for behavioral changes - at home - at school and with friends. A child in this situation needs A LOT of LOVE and EXTRA ATTENTION.

Have you heard of the expression "bandade baby". It will savor the relationship temporarily. But later on, all that lovey dovey baby stuff wears off. Having a baby covers up your problems like a bandade does. It won't heal them completely, it will distract you. But you know what? That in itself is enough to save a relationship and recapture and revive your mans feelings for you, in my experience..

But I'm thinking more of what should you do if you want to be free again? You'd be trapped with your big dumb boyfriend and his baby... Think about it, Is that what you want? Do you love your boyfriend? If you do, then there's no reason not too!

Anyone who must interact with a narcissist must do some homework and learn as much as they can about the disorder. There are many great sources available online. Make a file and take notes so you can refer back to them periodically. Once you have a good understanding of their disorder you see they are predictable and pathetic. It is estimated that 75% of people with narcissistic disorder are male.

Narcissism generally includes excessive self-centeredness and an overexaggerated view of one's own talents and strengths. A narcissist creates a false self that he exhibits to other people. He lives in a completely invented world. He isobsessed with his superiority and is an authority on every subject. He possesses an absurd vanity. He doesn't engage in conversation, he lectures. He takes credit for accomplishments he may have performed as part of a large group but every completed project somehow becomes a personal accomplishment and those increase a hundred fold with every telling. He exhibits extreme grandiosity not supported by personal talents or personal history. He refuses to acknowledge the achievement of others. Tell him about something good that someone else did or accomplished and note the lack of any reply or any sign he heard what you said. He cannot delay gratification and is a compulsive shopper.

He is excessively candid, telling you things that should be kept private, but those remarks often provide a window into what he really thinks. Those blunders often include rude and crude remarks about women with whom narcissists have difficulty forming healthy relationships. He may seem generous but his gifts and favors usually have strings attached.His help is exhibitionistic in nature and geared more toward public display. The gift may not please the recipient but the important factor is that it pleased the narcissist for some self centered reason. He requires worship and adoration. His self worth and self-esteem are derived exclusively from audience feedback.

The narcissist is hypersensitive to criticism, especially when wrongly perceived which is a common occurance, and mustconditionthe people in his environment to refrain from criticism, advice or disapproval of his actions and behavior. His exaggerated reactions constitute punishment and the violator will usually be banned from his life until he needs them again. He is more vulnerable to shame than to guilt so be careful if you challenge his authority. He is an expert at administering the silent treatment. When he has really screwed up and he knows that others know about his error, give him a few weeks and he will erase it from his memory forever. It never happened! He is completely disinterested in anyone else's feelings, opinions, stories, and viewpoints. He expects that everyone will go along with his plan and gets angry if you disagree or fail to accept his plan. A narcissists survival is dependent upon having complete control or theperceptionof being in complete control.

A narcissist assumes no adult responsibilities and expect indulgence from those around him who are expected to simply put up with his obnoxious behavior. In fact, he is repelled by adults who act like adults, who take responsibility, who do things right, who have stability and a life plan. He takes the path of least investment in all his endeavors and often relies on con-artistry, ignoring the law and exploitation of other people to get what he wants. He lacks a social conscience. He wants to control everything and often manages to find less able people to take advantage of and to do his work for him.

He thinks he's special and can only be understood by other special people. He tries to hang out with professionals, thinking to obtain authority and expertise by osmosis, and thinks most people are inferior to him. The narcissist performs in public in order to attract attention and appease that need for approval. He can be charming and fun and funny and the innocent audience thinks, "What a great guy", exactly as planned. Watch a narcissistic male out in public at stores and restaurants. He will usually be flirtations and seductive to any women he comes upon, even if he is accompanied by a female companion. The women he encounters love the attention and he loves the feedback confirming that he is Mr. Wonderful. A strange behavior is that they often flirt with men also.

Back in the home or family environment, he blows up easily and tells people off if he think he perceives the slightest questioning of his authority even where there was none intended. That little problem stems from a hidden insecurity that he knows is always there. He misinterpretes what other people say and do, and he attributes his own twisted motives to everyone else. He often maintains a platonic relationship with a female, usually one who has a lot of material things to offer, while having relationships with multiple other women. He lacks empathy and is a master at making people think he cares about them . . . as long as they meet his needs. He has an utter lack of self-awareness and has no concept of the damage his behavior does to others. He has little regard for other people's feelings.

The narcissist is unable to modify his behavior, is unable to recognize his problems. Ironically, because of this invented existence, unquestioned superiority and need of grandiosity, they are easily taken advantage of. They often have a defective ability to interprete other people's speech and actions which leads them to think they are liked and respected. That makes them easy prey for someone smarter who recognizes and exploits their weaknesses. They get into trouble often and need to move on from a job, a relationship, a domicile, a state. They need to continually seek new surroundings as people get wise to their true nature and their admiration turns to scorn.

There are many degrees of narcissism and the preceding is a sampling of common behaviors. Every narcissist is different. Some are high achievers and some achieve nothing. Many are in-between.

To be blunt, and on the face of it, all other things being healthy and ordinary, there isn't much of a problem here. This is assuming that the arrangement is very temporary and infrequent. This might turn out to be convenient while traveling, for example. There are certainly cultures outside of western ones where nakedness is simply nothing to get twisted about. But obviously if there are any ulterior motives, or if either person is the LEAST BIT uncomfortable, then put on your briefs, boxers or pj's. If there has been any history at all of difficulties around nakedness, sexuality or sexual boundaries, then they have no business whatsoever ever sleeping together whatever the circumstances.

Ulterior motives could come to light very easily: One of them has to put effort into persuading the other that this is OK; one of them becomes uncomfortable and the other becomes miffed; the nakedness is part of a progression of activities that leads to touching; the bed is simply too small but is the only accommodation possible for them both and still one insists on sleeping naked.

As I think and write about this, in general it is probably not a good idea, even if there may be circumstances where it is innocent.

sometimes it is unintentional but if a guy likes or thinks shes hot, sexy, smokin, etc. he will probably touch your hand or your butt. *wink wink*

haha, that's funny! I agree with that guy that happens to me all the time!