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Breakups
It takes two to make it work, but only one to break it up. This is the place to ask questions about the pain, healing, and possible solutions to relationship break-ups.
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What are signs when you cant trust someone?
usually, that person you tell should be a very close friend
You hear what they tell you, but your instincts say different. You want to believe them, because you like them in some way. That is the line you have to draw. Maybe trust them on something small at first, and see if it turns out to be false. People are so good at it, after a while that it's hard to tell the difference. They look you straight in the face and smile and say something really wrong, or lie to you. If the first one is a lie, trust only that the next one will also be. Even if they tell the truth once in a while, the next lie could hurt you. Pathological liars lie all the time. Even they don't know after a while what the truth is.
How do you act when your ex comes around?
Well if you don't really like as anything anymore, just ignore him. If he wants to talk, then talk. If you guys are still close, be normal.
He may still like you, only remember he is a EX for a reason
He has stopped communicating what to do?
You said, 'he has STOPPED communicating' which means he had been communicating before. YOU have to ask yourself if you are the problem! Do you just rattle on about what you think and feel or do you give him a chance to speak about his feelings. Do you respect him if he gives you respect. Are you one of these women that just prattles on, but doesn't listen to what he might have to say and if this is the case then he's decided not to get into altercations with you any longer. If none of these things have happened and he's closed mouthed, then you have to sit him down, turn off the TV and any other distractions and get to the root of the problem. If he's not cooperating then tell him it's over and walk away. Communication is one of the most important things in a relationship.
Do women leave men who do not open up?
They can. It is hard to get information out of people who don't not want to share it with them. Women need to know what is going on in a man's head to kow how they work and if that man doesn't want to talk it can be hard. You should learn how to talk about things. It will help you too; it's unhealthy to keep everything inside.
the guy feels okward.....wouldnt you ?the point is some guys could be confused on where or who they can tend to choose who they want to be with
What does a person learn from feeling the agony of a broken relationship?
What you learn from feeling agony of a broken relationship:
- Learning that you can't make certain people love you
- That some men or women are out for sex only and nothing else
- That all people aren't nice
- Learning that there are 'movers' and 'shakers' out there that will verbally abuse you and try to take your self confidence away. They are the losers not you!
- When you respect someone they should respect you back
- That you should 'never' let anyone press you into a sexual relationship immediately.
- When your family or friends tell you that they don't like the person you are with have the guts to take a second look at this person and be honest.
- Not let one bad relationship make you think all men (or women) are none caring because there are a lot out there that are.
- 'Never' give up your self respect or reputation at any cost.
- Pay attention to whether your mate has good friends or bad. Does your mate drink too much (sloppy drunk) or does too many drugs.
- Learn that you are in control of 'your' life and you can stop anything at anytime if you so choose.
- Don't fear being picky about who you date and it's better to go without a date on a Saturday night then end up in a loveless relationship or with someone that strips you of your dignity.
- Be independent and not clingy with mates as this is a complete turn off. Learn to give of yourself to others such as volunteer work and seeing your friends every so often and don't make your mate the sole point of your attention as they will take advantage of it.
These are some of the highlights to learn and 'all' of us are still learning so don't feel bad. Without going through some rough times we would never know true love and you'll know it when the right person comes along.
Does someone who break up with you come back to you later?
they could,when my bf broke up with me i hated him but he still had feelings for me even tho he was in a new relationship..about a month later he broke up with his gf and asked me out again.i took him back and we've been together for about a year now.it just takes time apart to relize what you had you always wanted.
Why do men tend to avoid the topic about their new found girl when asked by their ex girlfriend?
* 'Ex' means the relationship is over and you have no right to ask him about his new girl, nor do you have to tell him about someone you may be serious over. It's a new relationship and he may not want to hurt you with details about her (he obviously feels awkward) and it's time for both of you to part company and move on with your lives.
Why is your 6 year old daughter angry?
Dealing with children this young you have to play cat and mouse when asking questions. I worked for a psychologist who would get the child interested in something they liked and every once in a while he would slip in a question (in your case ... why do you feel so angry and who are you angry at?) Keep playing and keep asking the question in a different way until she tells you something. Children will just suddenly blurt it out as if it's no big deal. They don't understand why they are angry or frustrated. If this doesn't work (it should) then please take her for counseling. Good luck
Should you get back with someone after they have cheated on you with there ex?
It's all up to you. If you feel that person still loves you and you love him, you should talk to each other and fine the answer. But if you think that you don't have those feelings anymore, than you shouldn't.
How you feel in love is completely personalised to each individual! Some feel floaty and happy all the time, whilst others feel a sick but exciting sensation. Many others can't eat, can't sleep and just want to be with their partner 24/7.
He ignores me but still tells me he loves me .what should i do?
Try Playing him at his own game, if he thinks he can't have you then he will want your more.
if he ignores you again then dump him!
Personally, I would speak to my boyfriend as I am sure that he would understand. If he would get angry, he isn't the right guy for you. If you don't want to talk about it with him, just think. You and your ex don't match and shouldn't be together. You need to start a fresh and just be friends. Go out for a meal with your boyfriend to start to know him better and to block out the feelings for your ex.
If you think that you still love your ex...speak to him. If he doesnt feel the same way, spend a few days apart until you realise what your feelings really are...
Hope that helped!
There is more than one question here. Why do you want your ex back? Who dumped who? Maybe you will never get back with your ex. It is okay to move on. It is okay to wait to date. It is not okay to be hard on yourself. You should heal and be with someone who is good to you, treats you nice.
It sounds very much like she is becoming a Catholic, getting to know Jesus Christ by finding His Church where suffering, such as she experienced, can bring forth wonderful new life. well she probably really isn't nicer she prob. just acts that way around you or people she knows you talk to to try and make it seem shes better without you, and shes not all sad and mopey. She probably looks better to you, because when she knows she is going to see you she dresses up better to make you see what you lost! Something always looks better when you don't have it! And you're a jerk for knowing you treated her bad, and did it on purpose!
I don't think it's anything to do with religion.
She has just realized that her world isn't defined by the person that was treating her badly and she can be nice to people and they are nice in return. An the elimination of stress from a bad relationship improves the appearance of everyone.
I believe that every time you break up with somebody you are one step closer to finding your true love!
^ Was not the answer to the question.
No it does not mean the same thing!
i cant tell you why he would do this because im not him oyu should try talking to him about it.. from wht i read you and the chiled deserve better you may even want to try and find some one who dose want to be in a relationship with you and someone who will help you raise your kid like it was his own......
Your ex wife has met a new man how do you cope?
- 'Ex' means the relationship is over and you are no longer married or at the very least you are separated. Unfortunately, you can't make someone love you and it appears your ex is moving on with her life. As heartbreaking as it is you are going to have to accept the fact the relationship is over and start going out with friends and get back into the dating circuit yourself. Eventually you will meet the right person you should be with.
Do you lash out at someone you love when they hurt you and you really love them?
No, if you're going to do that, talk to them about it instead, lashing out at someone and giving them to chance to call the police isn't going to help anything.
How do you get something off your conscience?
Confess it to the wronged person(s), and take every possible action to make it right.
You have to ask yourself if you really feel there is going to be a reconciliation here as putting your life on hold for one person is really a big commitment. Regardless of how you feel try and see things for how they really are and how he talks to you and feels as well to really know if it is worth it to be waiting around for what may or may not happen.
