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Breakups
It takes two to make it work, but only one to break it up. This is the place to ask questions about the pain, healing, and possible solutions to relationship break-ups.
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No! He has a girlfriend, you had your chance and you missed the boat. The best you can expect is perhaps he'll break off with this girlfriend and then you can tell him. If you think because YOU broke up with him that you can sail right back into his life and steal him away from his new girlfriend, think again! Leave well enough alone. Marcy
How do you help someone who you do not have feelings for get over you?
There is nothing you can do so stop feeling guilty because that is what is pushing you into this corner. You were honest and many of us lose feelings for a person we have dated and had to move on and the best thing you can do for this person is to move on. They will survive, but not if you keep interfering. Break-ups when one is still in love with the other is like a grieving process of someone you love that has died. It will take time to heal, but they will survive.
What to do if you still love the mother of your child but she is in another relationship?
I would suggest that you try to move on and find someone else. If you didn't end up with her, you just might not have meant to be together.
What does it mean when he breaks up with you and wants you back?
It could mean a number of things. He could genuinely want you back, but that tends to be the rarer case. Typically, it means he is lonely, and he wants you back so that he has someone in his life to fill that void.
Obviously, if you guys broke up once already it means that something was not going right in the relationship. Before you even THINK about getting back together with him, really examine what those issues were. If you think that you can work through them with him, then the decision is up to you. But if you feel like it's not worth the effort, don't bother. It's not worth the stress.
Breakups are hard. But just because they come crawling back, does not always mean that getting back together is the best answer to ease the pain.
How can you make your ex jelous?
For my opinion to make your ex jealous maybe you can act all happy and confident and also smile, laughing all the time... DO NOT show him your sadness. Even if it u dumped him or him dumped u DO NOT show any sign of sadness and loneliness because it will make him think that you still love him and that he might even try to make you jealous! And also when he is bored and ask u if you're free, try NOT to be available this will make him jealous tooo....
How does it feel when you love someone?
It might be different from person to person, but for me I knew I was in love when I would rather be talking to or spending time with the person I love than doing anything else. If offered the choice between any activity and spending time with the object of your affection, spending time with them always sounds like more fun.
How do you read a person mind?
Anyone can learn to read someones mind. It starts by learning how to read your own mind and to understand how it is that the mind functions. There is a school that teaches this, however at the same time it is taught how to respect another's privacy so that the more you learn about mind and develop your mind more , the less likely you are to intrude because with knowledge comes responsibility. The mind communicates in pictures and all of you have experienced wrinkling your eyebrows when the picture you are receiving does not match the words you are hearing, so everyone has at least some psychic ability. We all have much more potential than we are currently aware of. You really don't need to go to classes to read someone's mind. It comes with studying people, watching their facial expressions, body language, character traits and the older you get the more you can tell what a person is going to do before they do it. Most people simply don't look and listen enough to learn. The simple truth is you can't. Nobody can "read" someone else's mind. The human mind is more complex than any computer system. You can read body language, look into a person's eyes and watch their fscial expressions and that will generally tell you what you need to know.
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mind reading is not actually possible. But, the way people who "can" mindread is all just a trick/illusion. I suggest you dont try and learn becuase it takes many many years of practice and patience :)
What does i am sorry if i did wrong to you mean?
It means they are sorry for what you think is wrong however they do not know what it is nor do they think they did wrong. So basically they are saying sorry because they think that is what you want to hear and will make things better but don't think they did anything wrong.
* If you want him back I would say as long as it takes you to get over him. * You shouldn't be moping around waiting for him. Give 'him' a run for his money. Start going out with friends and get back into the dating scene more. One of three things will happen: #1 He will hear about it and realize he really does love you; #2 he won't come back into your life or, #3 He wants to come back into your life, but you realize from dating he isn't for you and will move forward. There is that special someone out there for you.Also is that we love our husbands. Tee- Hee
If you still have feelings for someone you were with years ago is it really love or something else?
Love is a complicated thing, but love can mean a lot of things to people. Look inside you heart, and think with you brain. It can be love if you was in love with that person, or if you are just thinking about the sex than it is something else. I know that if a person has a first love or that person they just always thought was the one than it's hard to let go. Lot's of people have feelings for their ex, it's normal. It not just one person that we can for in love with in the world, there are many, just be happy to find that one and keep that person. Don't get lust or love confused, if you're thinking about that person and miss that person being around that person than it's love. If you're lonely or thinking about sex, than it's something else.
AnswerWell it doesnt' have to be ,but in this case i think it migth be i my self am only 16 year's-old and i stillhave feelings for my ex boyfriend and u know wut, he even cheated on his g-friend with melot of times already and to tell u the truth i didnt feel bad about it because i love him and i cant keep him out of my mind. So keep in mind that if u do something stupid wit him then yeah u do love him...because love makes u do stupid things trust me i know wut im talking about i almost broke my promise of staying virgin till i got married with him a couple of times but i kept my word and he didn't push it.How soon is to soon to say I love you?
that's totally up to you and your bf/gf. if you feel really close to each other and you would do almost anything to be with each other.....you probably love him/her
Do you think my ex still loves me because after the break up two years ago he still wants to see me?
== == * The only way you are going to know for sure is making it tough for him to win you back! Meanwhile, you start dating again. It's important, because you need to know if he was the right one for you. Beware that he may be dating off and on, then may have a dry spell and want to come back to you for comfort. Don't trust him! Give him a chance, but take it slow and easy and keep on dating so he knows he hasn't got your full attention. * He probably still wants to be good friends.
How do you break up with a girl without hurting her feelings at all?
Be honest. Instead of making up a reason for breaking up, state the real reason. Even if it's because you want to. There's usually no way to not hurt someone's feelings a little, but if you just be real with them, they'll except it.
How can you help some one who is not true to her self?
she needs to be comfortable with her self and life. learn to love your body!
- Don't ever count on an abuser 'gone for good.' He may well get tired of whatever he is doing or whomever he is seeing and be back! The best thing you can do is go to your local Abused Women's Center and ask for help in your situation. The counselors are there to offer good advice as to how to handle your abuser; your legal rights and if need be a safe place to go too called a 'transition house' if it is necessary.
Its really up to your boyfriend but it would be very awkard. If ur up to it and you really want to be his friend then do it.
Whether you stay friends or not depends a lot on what went wrong with the relationship. If cheating, fighting, or dishonesty was involved, I wouldn't recommend it. I was once really good friends with a guy before we went out. When we broke up, I was really upset because I didn't want to lose the friendship. There wasn't any bad event that caused us to break up, it was just because we never saw each other. We both made an effort to stay friends, and it is working great. I think it depends on how important the friendship with the other person is to you. If you hated every person you broke up with, you would end up losing a lot of valuable friendships.
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AnswerThat depends on how your relationship ended. If there is bitterness on either side it may be a good idea to let things be accepted before you try friendship. If things were more mutual and there is no resentment you can try for a friendship but I have never personally found it rewarding to stay friends with some one i broke up with. I broke up with them for a good reason and that would taint them to me as a person.If they are confident enough to break it off, they are confident enough to tell you they want you back, so scrub that possibility pronto. Anecdotal experience suggests to me that they probably enjoy sleeping with you, and by admitting to having feelings for you are trying to manipulate you into obliging them. If you go along with it, expect to hear an 'I don't know, I'm so confused'. Making a 'fun buddy' out of an ex who dumped you is a VERY bad idea. To any dumpee I would recommend cutting off all contact ASAP. They dumped you, they can find a booty call elsewhere
Wait until the test is complete, otherwise you may be telling him something completely incorrect.
If the test is positive, you will have to tell your parents and decide what to do.
What does it mean when people say you let your guard down?
When people say you let you guard down it mean that your seeing what you want to see but it isn't real that your in a fantasy. like a guy or girl might break up with you and then next week or whatever you let your guard down after you recovering.
you forget everything cause you wanted to be ok.
Example of situation where you are taken for granted?
- Example of being taken for granted after a breakup: If your ex keeps in touch with you and wants to either keep seeing you, but does not commit to a relationship or complaining about their life they are void of your feelings (heart broken perhaps) and that is taking advantage of you. Most individuals have had some experiences where they have been taken advantage of in other areas of their life. Example: A good friend who someone else you know who either gets you to pay their way to places you go; borrows your clothes and does not return them to dropping you like a hot rock when someone else they feel is more exciting comes along is taking advantage of you. In cases of being taken advantage of and no matter if it is an ex or a friend learn to form the word 'no' or be honest and tell them to their face you do not like being taken advantage of. If you do not then you enable the behavior of anyone that takes advantage of you.
Why do I keep dreaming about making love to my ex abusive boyfriend?
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It is not an an attraction issue, but the fact that you were abused distorts your mind and can give you these dreams. You are probably dreaming of the better side of him, the one that never hurt you. Making love is very emotionally bonding, and the same for abuse. That is why you are having these dreams. It helps to talk, you can stop by my bio to chat. As for everyone else, I want to help you so I must say that you need to talk about this do get it out of your head. STAY STRONG LADIES!
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An excellent answer, to be sure. Dreams are our subconscious trying to sort out issues that we haven't resolved in our waking hours. Recurring dreams are a sign that it's time to deal with it. Answer number one may be right on target as to why you haven't completely been able to break the tie that binds; if that's your issue or if it's something else, then an appropriate person to talk to will really help. You may be able to work through it in your own mind or you may want to talk to a professional. But, if you make yourself a goal to get there, that's half the battle. The goal is to accept your experience as part of your life, as a part of who you are by what you've learned, and that it's time to step forward to your new and improved life.
Why would my recently married ex try to reconcile with you?
- Be very wary of your ex. Remember the relationship you had with him when things started to go wrong between the two of you. It sounds as if your ex is selfish; immature and a cheat. Do not feel this is a compliment by your ex in any way. He will stay married, but will be expecting to have a sexual relationship with you. Tell him you are not interested (no matter how much you may love him) and move on as you can do much better in a man than your ex.
