Breakups

If the institution who financed your vehicle has wrote that note off as a charge off then another company can come in and purchase that debt and pursue to collect on that debt ==Answer == The 7 years in which a negative entry remains on the credit report has nothing to do with the ability of the lender to repossess a vehicle. A vehicle is a secured debt and therefore the lender may initiate action whenever they choose. In the majority of states the SOL for debt does not apply to this type of financial transaction. It would seem the lender is not interested in repossession and would rather recover the full amount of the loan, plus penalties, interest, legal costs and court fees by pursuing litigation at some future time.

Its because he is unsure of himself and he may not trust you enough to open up to you entirely. i bet he is a shy person. if you ask him like "should we get a dog" and he says "i don't know" say "ok, i will give you a couple days to think, then i need an answer" and he should responde after that

Here are a couple of excuses??? I have come across: "It's not you, it's me." "I love you but I am not IN love with you."

you really really really need to think about this reasons thoroughly because you just don't want to break up with someone when later on you realize this reasons weren't worthwhile after all. I mean you love her/him after all. I'm not trying to stop you, i just want you to think it through because you really don't want to throw away your love if the reasons aren't that good. But if you still want to leave but still love her/him then i suggest you have to break up with them and take things slowly, i mean it isn't very easy to just one day for your love to fade away. You have to at least take advantage of this reasons and keep reminding yourself why you broke up with her/him. Make sure its not something you regret. Smile when you think of her/him, don't struggle too much. Just keep on living and do your usual routines. Think of something else when you think you just can't stop thinking about her/him or think of someone else. Keep yourself busy when you start to feel lonely or if you start regretting. its not easy to forget abotu how you feel, but this is what you want and you should be happy.

yes because the truth is josh really dose love Tiffany even if he dosent show it all the time and he knows Tiffany loves him wit all her heart!

yes because the truth is josh really dose love Tiffany even if he dosent show it all the time and he knows Tiffany loves him wit all her heart!

i know how you feel same

thing here still waiting for the break up i told her tho and she would try if she ever was single just promise your friend your friendship won't suffer if she is a real friend she will give u a chance

If they are simply using you without returning any of that love or support, then you need to think about getting rid of them, or at least talking about it with them (be warned: don't let them guilt-trip you into staying). If they are only fulfilling their own needs and not yours, then reconsider why you care about them so much - it may be that you need to let go and distance yourself from them more.

Only you know what went on between the two of you. It doesn't sound like he's a man of many commitments. He's caught in his own web of feeling guilty for asking for the divorce and worrying about your welfare. He may be trying to figure out who he is at this point and what he wants out of life. Because you invested time in your marriage (even if you are divorced) and IF you still love him, why not meet him at a quiet bar or somewhere else to discuss both your feelings. If he's not willing to commit it's time to move on. It could be that he doesn't want to be married, but detests the thought of you dating other men. Some men that split-up want it all. They want their own freedom to date whom they want, yet expect you to sit at home and never date in your lifetime. You need to decide what you want in your life. If you are over him then tell him not to call you again and move on. If you want him back in your life again then meet with him and go from there. Don't EVER sell yourself short and if you feel he will never commit to you then it's time to move on and you make that clear to him. No more phone calls from him if he's not willing to commit! Good luck Marcy

It is possible. It is however more likely that he is trying to lighten up th emood so as not to feel too bad himself. It is also possible that he doesn't want to see you unhappy.

If you do want to still be with him explain how you feel towards him to make him feel wanted and then explain to him that a relationship is give and take with no games and he wants to call you or you want to call him you just do it as well as converse if you have feelings that you need to talk about without the games!

If you do not want to be with him anymore don't call him as he already believes that which tells me he is having problems accepting feelings and commitment at this time and maybe it is best for both of you to not be in a relationship.

Not very long,depending how he feels about you,if he loves you he will regret being dumped right away,if he does not love you he may never regret it,pride can get in the way for awhile sometimes,when pride wears off if he loves you he will regret it.

i want to protect my friends and family and I'm going to have to listen to katharine if i want to do that I'm sorry stefan but i want to protect my friends and family

• It is difficult to tell if he regrets leaving you or not and it depends on why he left. If you both had a healthy relationship and got along well, but he decided to move on (unable to commit to one person perhaps) then yes, it's possible he at least misses you, but he never may be back. You should get on with your life by getting back into society and dating again. There is always that special person in most people's lives.

You shouldnt let her go. It sounds to me like your not sure yourself. If you still have doubt about letting go, why should you.\

Have you given it several go rounds?

DO you still love her?

You should give her another try if so. I bet she loves you

, and things might be different this time.

Are you ready to give her up?

A friend ex boyfriend should always be off limits, but when you really think about it. If you were a true friend all you would want is for your friend to be happy and if the girl or boy, who is your ex, makes your friend happy then you should wish her all the luck!

Shift the kind of love you have for your ex to that you might have, say...to that you might have for a brother, and compartmentalize it to that type of relationship. And then act that way. Only when your heart is open to someone else can you fairly engage in moving on or in another relationship. You are not the first nor will you be the last to ever have to go through the feelings of "what did I do wrong, I sure messed things up" (which you probably didn't as narcissists suck the very life out of their mate) or "I will only love this one person and hope they come back if I wait around long enough." Well, I am sorry to say after 6 years this person is NOT coming back into your life and even if they did they would have someone else and simply use you. It's time you started to mature and realize you are worth more than this. You have lost 6 years of your life over this person and PLEASE don't tell me you see him/her off and on and that you accept that as love! This is not love. So, sit up and fly right. Get out with friends, go on a holiday if you must, get your head straight and start living again without this person. There are some wonderful guy/gals out there for you to meet, but you simply haven't given it a chance and it's easier to sit there day after day, year after year mourning over what could have been! What "could have been" is simply more hell from the narcissist. Stay strong and NEVER relinquish power of your inner self (selling off your soul and self respect) over a waste of skin such as this ex of yours. Get moving! I love this question! This may be the most important question of them all! First, let me say that my heart is right there with you...Next,,,part of the process has already begun in the form of the guts it took to ask this question. I hope you can find solice in this thought----It is your natural right to continue to be in love with this person; this will not harm anything; I truly hope that you can find the right tool that would help you to learn to love again- anew......BB

taking a break, usually a euphemism for I am seeing someone else. A Break from what? WHY? I would say sail on to greener pastures and get someone that will love you instead of use you. You teach people how to treat you, if he can come and go with your blessing (by taking him back it is your blessing) then he will as there is no down side.

You were probably still too close after the breakup to feel any pain from it. Now, you're away from him and away from everything that was familiar to you in your life. Honestly, don't do anything. This is natural. Just try to make a few new friends, get used to the place, and maybe even meet someone new. Good luck.

you can make you get high but not kill you and make you Very ill

make the first move and if it doesn't work, try not to go too fast just barely steady enough that he is comfortable and so are you.

Good luck!

I haven't completely answered this question myself, but so far this is what I've found. He is willing to make me laugh, and be around me, but he is all over me too. If i can make sure he sees me hanging out with my current boyfriend, he is more willing to behave himself.

To be friends with him, all I have to do, is treat him like I would my brother. I'll hug him every once and a while, but I keep separate at all times. Think of things you have in common, and talk about them, and try to keep yourself distant and keep him talking. Hang out with him, but never alone.

Because you don't get closure from your Ex. You get closure from yourself so you can move on. Trust me when I say if they won't meet/talk/ etc they still love you and want you to pursue them. Don't give up but don't be a stalker, the odd text once a week just to let them know you are there for them helps. They will call.

• Sometimes words are not enough to cheer someone up depending on the circumstances that person is going through. Although it is difficult to see someone you care about feeling sad or depressed the only thing you can do to help is let them know you are there for them and a shoulder to cry on.