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Breakups

It takes two to make it work, but only one to break it up. This is the place to ask questions about the pain, healing, and possible solutions to relationship break-ups.

8,665 Questions

Is Pete Wince going out with anyone?

Yes, He is going out with Ashlee Simpson and they are engaged.

Why did the hot boys break up?

they are full of big egos and doesn't care that much b'cause they can find another girl b'cause they are hot.

Is love a lie?

yes,love is lie fr those who love the loved ones.and is a

How do you make a cruel break up?

definitely do it over facebook or text!

edit: or get one of your friends to write a note saying "you're dumped. _____" on the _____ get them to put your name and then show the person the note, but tell them not not to let them keep it.

What do to if your girlfriends mom broke you two up?

First of all, this happened to my friend once..i knows exactly what you can do but you have to tell me why your girlfriend's mom broke you two up, then i could figure something out..reply soon

Do you have to pay the same amount of money to the csa if your ex partner is working?

Yes.

The laws are twisted unfortunately and are in need of drastic reform.

Lets say your ex makes 300k a year, and you make minimum wage. Being the noncustodial parent, you are liable to pay still 20% of your salary for 1 child, 28% for two, and 32% for three.

Doesn't matter if your ex wins the lotto - you are STILL responsible for paying the appropriate percentage of your salary.

NOW - as far as your ex working or remarrying, that will end or drastically change alimony or maintenance payments...........

How can you make sure that your inheritance does not go to the spouse?

Make sure you have a will and take care of the kids. But if you are legally married, there are specific rules to insure that she is not left destitute. Consult an estate planning attorney in your state to learn what the details are.

How do you know its over?

I'm still trying to answer to this question formyself. I can tell you how you know when it's "not" over. 1.You think about this person all the time, even when your with someone else. You compare that person your with to you ex. You find yourself talking about your ex, even maybe with your new girlfriend/boyfriend. 2. You both stare at each other, or you ignore each other one day and smile at each other the next. Oh yeah if that person hangs their head when they see you, or turn around and look back at you when you walk by..(that's a given!) 3.If you feel like someone died, that's how bad the pain is. If you were over it and relieved from the breakup there'd be no way that you'd feel like this. Trust me. 4. You feel a very strong urge to call or text this person, even if you feel like you might be taking a huge risk of getting dissed by this person, you still do it anyway. 5. If they try to contact you, and if they can't get in touch with you they ask your friendsif your with someone cuz they can't get an answer from you. 6. If that person looks as unhappy as you do, or if they look like they're trying to hide the pain as much as you are. 7. If they look mad or hurt when they see you with someone else. ( they might try to play it off like they don't care) 8. If they're with someone else they rub it in your face when your around or talk about it to your friends knowing that your friend will tell you. 9.If you start seeing them in places that you always are. 10. And most importantly if you had a good realtionship and both of you thought that then that person probably misses you as much as you miss them. If it's true love. And I think if you didn't still have feelings for this person than you wouldn't have asked this question!( that's just a thought!!!) I hope that helps (really), God Bless and Good Luck!

Which is the easiest way to initiate a remote assistance session?

The user saves an invitation file and then sends that file to the technician. The file can be sent by and method including e-mail, chat, or posting to a shared folder on the network.

Does a mans ex still recall the good memories in her previous relationship or does she forget the memories and move on?

  • Each individual is different when it comes to whether they want to remember the good times over the bad times they had with their ex. If the woman ends the relationship on a bad note with her boyfriend or husband she is more likely to try to forget him and move forward. Humans cannot truly forget what has happened in their past, but, it's whether they wish to remember the good or bad memories is entirely up to them.

What does it mean if your ex keeps interjecting himself into your life?

to me it means that he is either jelous that you guys are over or he is just trying to get you irritated

How do you tell your ex boyfriend and friend with benefits that you are a lesbian?

  • 'Ex' means that relationship is over and there is no need to tell your ex boyfriend you are a lesbian. However, if you want an honest friendship with your friend then time some private time out for the two of you and let them know just who you are. If they are a good friend they will stick by your side and if they don't then they were never your friend in the first place.

What do you when an ex bf comes back after a year half but has some issues he still needs to work out doesnt want a girlfriend right now but doenst want me walking out of his life forever?

Continue your life as it has been. It seems he is still not ready as before and not likely to be any time soon. You cannot put your life on hold and wait for something that just may never be. Let him be, let go and move forward - this one has too much going on.

Should u communicate with ex cause hasn't after last time u talked n only kissed n said he was being selfish wanting 2 know what you were doin all the time Now it seems that he is letting me be?

That is really your choice but you must remember you two are exes and don't owe one another a thing nor do you have to or should be expected to speak to one another. You two are going to have to talk and decide which way this relationship is going if anywhere. If you two are not getting back together then you have to give one another space to allow one another to deal with any left over feelings that may be there as well as to be able to move on.

What should you do if you want to break up but he doesn't accept the fact that you want to break up and keeps on insisting that you dont break?

Both of you have the right to end the relationship at any time. It doesn't matter if he wants to accept the breakup at face value or not; be firm but clear that you are ending the relationship. Never stay in a relationship where you are intimidated or placating someone at the cost of your own well being.

If you have concerns for your physical safety, break up over the phone or by leaving him a message. Make it clear that you do not want to have contact with him at this time. Do not offer or accept the offer of being friends, simply because this guy can't merely have a friendship with you when he is so adamant about wanting more.

What does it mean when he break's up with you because he doesn't know what he wants but then invites you over has great sex cooks for you takes you to a movie then kisses you bye the next day?

you have been used He's playing you like a fine fiddle! It's all about sex. Make sure you get the meal before sex (if you insist on seeing him) or you might get gypped out of a good meal.

How do you know if your ex still loves you or if he's using you?

Your ex will smile a lot at you and look at you a lot and wink a you a lot .

If he 's using you he will not loves you as mush as he shold. Is he giving to you as much as you are giving to him? Do you feel like you are in a good relationship and that you are loved? Watch out for the usual red flags: giving him money, no accountability--unusual absences, any behavior that was true during your marriage that you left unsolved, and so on. If it is a "booty call," and not much more, take another, long, look. Treat him like a new guy to you and don't let him further than that until his actions show that you can trust him.

How do you console a girl from breaking up?

You tell her what she wants to hear and tell her that you will do better.:)

Living with someone for 23 years then leaving the relationship are they intitled to anything?

In my opinion 23 years is a long time, and they should be entitled to some things. However, from a legal point of view, I'm not sure they would be.

How do you deal with not having kids?

Try channeling that energy into something else. Something that really interests you; something you always wanted to do but never thought you could. Give it some thought, but remember, the idea is to find something that can bring a sense of fullness to your life.

To all your future endeavors, I wish you the very best of luck.

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I always think this world needs aunts as well as mothers. If having a child is not in the cards for now, volunteer! There are plenty of babies to be held, children in schools needing tutoring, coaching opportunities abound...They may not be your own children, but your life will become just as rich for having the contact with them.

Do guys actually try to be nice but to you it seems like he wants to try to get back together How will I know if he really loves me How will I know if he really cares?

You can speculate and over analyze things forever - your best bet would be to try and get together with him and discuss your relationship then you will know where things stand between you and either way you can begin to move forward with or without him.

How can you resist the urge to get even with your ex narcissist?

you may be able to payback someone but once they got something from you you can never get "even" since you already lost what you lost. The best thing to do at this point is say screw it and forget about it. Fix a tall one and kick back. trying to get even will only make you look unbecoming to him. be strong and cry all you want alone, but don't let him know the torturous pain he has caused. I was involved with a true N for 2 marriages, yes I gave it my all with the same N.twice. When he has called, I asked him why he calls me, and he says because you are so healthy emotionally. He has done enough damage to my heart to last a few lifetimes, but I always appeared strong. never called him. He was married once before I married him, and when that ended, his ex tried the revenge thing, and he never called her and says he can't stand her. He has said to me that he has such a tender place in his heart for me. He may not really mean it,but he said it, and there may be some respect there. Of course, not on my part. my ex N has no idea what I have been through because of his cruel actions. I will keep it that way. I have a saying on my fridge (when I get angry at someone and feel I want to get even) and it says "IF YOU CAN'T FORGIVE THE PERSON THEN THEY STILL CONTROL YOU!" That is so true! I live by this rule and simply move on. I know if I try to get even I'm scraping the same bottom of the barrel as they are in and I don't want to let myself down. These type of people hang themselves without anyone's help and here's another quote I have lived long enough to see come into action "THE HEAD OF THE SNAKE WILL TURN AROUND AND BITE YOU IN THE BUTT!" Meaning those who do dirt to others will get theirs 10 fold. Trust me, they do! I was married before to a cheater and physical/mental abuser and got out of my marriage after 3 1/2 years. I just wanted freedom and to get rid of him. Finally I accomplished it. I learned later from one of his brothers that although he had married one of his mistress' he never got over me and really wanted me back (I wouldn't have taken him back if he'd had thousand dollar bills pinned to his hide) and his brother talked him out of it simply because he didn't feel his brother deserved me and there was no hope my ex would ever really change. I got the satisfaction that indeed the head of the snake had bitten him on the butt! LOL Get busy! Get out there with friends and laugh like you've never laughed before. Live like you are going to die tomorrow and enjoy those around you. One day you will meet someone like I did that will love you with all of their heart and you'll know that feeling when it comes along. I've been married to my 2nd husband for 34 years and I wouldn't trade him for the world. Good luck! The best way to get back at them is to remove yourself from their lives! Then, they have to find another avenue to get their supply, and abusive needs satisfied. "Now, wasn't that easy?"

Why does my ex want to hang out with me when a month ago he said we could never hang out again?

He's keeping you on a tight rein because he wants his cake and eat it too. He wants to see whom he pleases, yet wants to hang out with you so he know what you are up too at all times (involving who you see or date.) Tell him to take a hike! This guy isn't for you. If you allow this behavior you will never be free to meet the right type of guy for you.