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It takes two to make it work, but only one to break it up. This is the place to ask questions about the pain, healing, and possible solutions to relationship break-ups.

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My baby father says he cares about me but never gives a straight answer on if he wants to get back together?

my opinion on that would be, if he cant give you a straight on answer on what he wants then he more than likely doesnt want it. you should try asking him about it, but if he still doesnt give you the answer you are looking for then you should just forget about it, then he wouldn't be worth your time.

Will your ex narcissist bother you and his unborn child if you ignore him?

Most Narcissist find children bothersome and don't enjoy their children like other normal people do. They generally leave the rearing of the children up to the mother. However, because Narcissists often consider their wife, children down to the family dog THEIR property like a car, house, etc., he may put up a fight. You may have to seek legal counsel. Be warned that unless that if your Narcissistic partner has not been diagnosed with a Narcissistic personality by a psychiatrist or psychologist this may be tough in court to prove and you may well have to let him have joint custody. I suggest you seek legal counsel.

What do you do if your with somebody but think you want to be with someone else?

When ur around them both think "Who do I fancy more?" And try comparing their personalites - like who's funnier? But if ur thinkin of goin for someone else then maybe u don't fancy ur bf/gf enuf.

How do you make your girlfriend forget her ex boyfriend?

get her a new boyfriend

tell her that IF HE wants HER...HE WILL LOOK FOR HER.. If not he is not interested in connecting with her again

I want to cheat but don't want to break up?

Wow... First of all, did your partner ever cheat on you? If he or she did, revenge isn't the way to go. I know it may seem satisfying, but it will only make things worse. If your partner has never even hurt you, why do you want to cheat on him/her? Maybe there's somebody you have your eye on, but if your partner has been loyal so far, he/she is the person to stay with. I'm aware that when in relationships, we sometimes develop feelings for people other than our partner, but you just have to accept you are in a relationship and are basically supposed to be loyal to the person who you are going out with. It's just part of being in a relationship. If you don't want to break up with the person you are going out with now, I guess you still have feelings for them, but if you cheat, chances are they will find out and you will end up breaking up anyway. You have to pick which one you love more, and you should pick your significant other unless they have hurt you in some way. Even if they had hurt you, revenge is not the way to go, I'm telling you. If this person has been abusing you, get help. Trying to get in two relationships at once only causes trouble. I cannot stress this enough. Anyway, I do hope you will take my advice and I wish you the best.

What are good Venn diagram topics?

Cats & Dogs, Boys & Girls, Public & Private School, etc;

What does it mean when your girlfriend says she is lost with and without you and she needs time to think about your relationship and is thinking about breaking up?

means she might break up with yu dawg

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She is saying that she doesn't know how she feels about being with you. Since she doesn't know how she feels, she can't tell you how she feels.

You have some choices to make. If you think that she may be the right person for you, the one you could marry and have your "happily ever after, to the end of their days", then you probably want to support her, remain available to her, and give her a week or two to think things over. Show her what you mean to her. You have to be ready to accept that she might choose differently, or she may do something that you feel is unacceptable - in which case, you may need to say goodbye and go on with your life.

If she isn't "the one" for you, then you can simply accept that this is the breakup and go your own way. Don't burn any bridges, and don't say things that cannot be unsaid - it may all work out, because you both may feel differently in six months or a year - or five years.

Just remember, for a person to be "one in a million" that means that there are 15 more just like her in Los Angeles. We typically meet perhaps a thousand people and date a few dozen before settling down, and even now about half of these pairings last "forever". Your chances of finding a partner are excellent; just keep looking.

When you brake up with a girl do you feel haert broke or do you just move on?

You'll probably do a little bit of both. Eventually you will move on but it's not uncommon to still have feelings for that person

What is a Dear John letter?

A letter written from a girlfriend or spouse to a soldier, whom are meanwhile away at post or battle, revealing an affair.

Why do exes marry right after a break-up?

I have never been married but I have dated my share of guys out there. Whenever I break up with an ex, he is real quick to move on and find a new girlfriend. The reason for this is because they are so used to being with someone that the minute they become single they feel so dependent because they have been with someone and now all of a sudden they're not. They feel like they need a soul mate or someone to love and to be loved by. Even if they aren't attracted to this person they think they are only because they need someone to replace their ex. They are confused... that's all.

What does it mean when a guy says its over because he can't make you happy and it's not fair to you?

I think it means he thinks you complain too much. Or it could mean he found someone else. Guys are weird like that. It could mean he's the one who's not happy. The last one seems most likely. Mostly, it means you should give up on him and find someone else. It takes two putting in the effort to have a relationship, and if he's thinking it's over, it's not gonna work.

My ex boyfriend and I are trying to work things out but he won't stop talking to a girl that he is interested in he told me he wants to be with me that he loves me but it's hard to not talk to her?

Listen this is soooo common. Look, if you are prepared to get hurt then stay with him. But he might not hurt you.... So the risky thing to do would be to stay with him. The smart thing to do would be to brake up, because If you are nieve then you wouldn't want to get hurt. But if you brake up and he is single for more than one month then get back together cause that proves he's longing over you.......i hope i answered your question......and i hope you do the right thing.

If you are mad at your ex about something they did should you contact them to discuss it or should you wait until your ex contacts you to discuss it?

I would contact them if you think that you need to talk about it.

Waiting is a good idea sometimes, because maybe you will get less angry and not need to work through it... but waiting for them to talk to you about something that you are angry about is never a good idea... they won't understand why you are still mad, and you need to work through your angrer and be able to let it go as soon as possible.

Will your bf break up with you after you looked through his phone?

It depends. If your boyfriend was hiding something from you on his phone (maybe some other person's photo or messages from another person that he wouldn't have wanted you to see), then he most likely break up with you. If he had nothing to hide from you, then you won't have to worry about him breaking up with you.

You were going out with this guy but then he broke up with you and after a while wanted u back and you said no but now you do want to get back but he doesnt seem interested anymore?

Rejection hurts. You were hurt when he broke up with you so you decided to reject him when he wanted to make up. Now you want him back and he is rejecting you. Walk away before it becomes a very cruel game.

My heart is healed?

Im not sure i understand what the question is? But if your asking how to "Heal your heart" the easiest answer is probably to move on and start seeing someone. If you feel its too soon you simply need to just find something to take your mind off the pain, such as a hobby or friends.

How do you get over missing your daughters boyfriend after they break up?

Why would you miss your DAUGHTER'S boyfriend? She will find another guy better than the one she had and she won't have to waste her time on the ex! Many parents would feel a (parental) affection towards their children's partners and would be sorry to see them disappear out of the family's lives. But if would be difficult to keep the ex-boyfriend involved in family things unless the break-up was amicable and unless he and your daughter remained good friends. Looks like you just have to regret it and press on with your life. Remember you are the adult, with more experience at coping with life and its difficulties.

And you don't want to damage your relationship with your daughter!

My boyfriend's close friend constantly brings up fond memories of when my boyfriend was with his ex. Should friends talk about the ex girlfriend in front of the new girlfriend?

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Absolutely not! What is wrong with your boyfriend???? He should smarten his friend up. It sounds like your boyfriend's friend is trying to break the two of you up. Don't fall for it! Communication is so important in a relationship so when you are alone with your boyfriend tell him how you feel and that it's up to him to talk to his friend about this style of bad behavior. Your boyfriend needs to take on more responsibility and should be defending you and therefore, if he was, you wouldn't have to put up with it.

What does it mean if your ex boyfriend wont confirm or deny you on facebook?

It means one of two things:

1. He has mixed feelings about you and doesnt know if he can still be friends with you, or have nothing to do with you.

2. He isn't interested and wants to deny but doesnt want to hurt your feelings

(most likely 1 though cause if he broke up with you, he might not be afraid to deny your request, so im pretty sure its number 1)

Why does my guy friend want me to break up with my boyfriend?

The most likely answer is that he wants to be with you or that he is jealous that you give your boyfriend more attention thab you give him.

My girlfriend and I split up after six happy months together because we hardly saw each other due to working at different times. Is there any way I can talk to her again?

  • At least a few of those six months were not happy ones because each of you hardly saw each other due to you both working different hours and humans need to be in contact with each other so unless things have changed as far as working hours then you have two choices #1 find another job that does not require different hours or #2 realize you cannot change the situation and move on with you life knowing nothing has changed.

How should you apologize for breaking someone's heart?

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You can tell him or her that it is not your intention to make them feel bad but that you feel like the relationship is not working like you think it should, or something like "I think you are a really great person and I wish you all the best but I don't feel like we have the same goals, interests...", or whatever it is that made you want to break up with him/her. You obviously care about this person if you want to apologize for making him/her feel bad so apologize in a nice way and move on.

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