Breakups

If you love someone enough, figure out a way to communicate with them what hurts you. Find a mutually acceptable solution to prevent that hurt. Work it out before you walk away. == == I think you already know the answer to this one. NO! No other person should hurt you or make you feel bad. Unfortunately, the human race is very complex and some people do "hurt the ones they love." That only means they have personal problems of their own that they aren't dealing with. If you are the smart person I think you are, you'll walk away from this abusive relationship. There are many more fish in the sea. Good luck Marcy What is your reason for believing this person is hurting you? Is it truth you don't like? Is it physical abuse? Are you mature or immature? How old are you both? We don't even know what is really going on in your relationship. Is that someone you love more important than you? Honey, if you don't love YOU, who will? I think you should sit back and re-evaluate this relationship and this person. If they keep hurting you..then maybe they are not worth the time or the drama..further more, LOVE YOURSELF. Love yourself enough to know that even you love this person, they are not worth the comprising of your self-worth. You should fight for yourself..take time to get to know you alllllllll over again. Make a list of all the things that are really good about you and all the things that need improvement..Be honest, but most importantly, be good to YOU.

Confusion,not ready to be in a relationship, saying it just to make you feel better, saying it and not meaning it, loving you but not being "in love" with you, previously being hurt and now not wanting to relive that, or fear of hurting you if he knows you've been in a bad relationship. Could be a lot of things.

Oh, come on. You've married this person, promised to love him forever through health and sickness, and you took... how many years from his life? You owe it to him to try and repair the relationship. I do not know of your personal problems in this marriage, but as long as there is some sort of love connection between you two, not all is lost. You should listen to your husband - if he did something to really upset you, then just hear it out, he could change for the better, and you both could be happier than ever. If not, then by all means, get a divorce. You shouldn't let him stop you, if he's pushed you over the line far too many times.

Why Is Life So Complicated? A few weeks ago someone asked me why is life so complicated? And i couldn't answer the question. So it brought me across a lot of thinking. Until two days ago, I realized, our Lives are only complicated only because we as people don't find it necessary to eliminate things that we don't need. If we lost these things, curtain feelings like hatred, jealousy, fear, and greed, would be no more. People say because of the fact that we are human makes us have these feelings. But the truth of the matter is the things that we have or don't have makes us this way. We can't change, not as people , but as individuals. Someone will always want more, because there will always be more. The thing that gets me is how in the world can a 13 year old understand something that the world can't. And if that's the truth, that's why our lives are so complicated.

But it isn't just this we make our lives complicated and difficult but to be honest their is always going to be something in our way and it has to get worse in order for it to get better. Life is unfair but only because we think that. People have different opinions in life. We all face different things and go through different phases. What was said above was true but so is this.

Then they are either glad its over and want to pretend they dont even know who you are, or they want you to get upset for the reaction. Either way it is a mindgame. If ex is the one instigating the situation, just ignore them back, you are exes for a reason, and you are better for it. If you did somethimg bad to,cause the breakup, or have been pulling silly stunts to try and get attention from them, then your presense is probably pretty awkward for them, and the best way they can deal with it is pretend you arent there.

• He is either very hurt and it sounds as if you told him you no longer want to see him any longer in a blunt way and he may be saying this to cover his disappointment and hurt feelings or, 'ma'am' is a term that some men may use to be polite.

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There are many circumstances. How long were you together, why did you break up and on what terms, and how long since the break-up? However, you shouldn't be.

If your boyfriend dumped you, and you still have feelings for him, then it is understandable you might be jealous of his new girlfriend. But just think, maybe you had a lucky escape, and should be grateful !

Your dignity and self esteem ought to prevent you wanting him back, if he dumped you.

What you need at the moment is a distraction to help you stop thinking about him. So take up some new interests where you can be busy and make new friends. If it's hard to do at first, keep going -- it will get easier.

he has to give his trust to you and watch you demonstrate that you are worth it

if he doesn't give you his trust in advance, there's nothing you can do

:-)

You need to be the mature one in this "relationship". Sit down, and talk with her and explain that the feelings you guys have for each other are special. Try and find out exactly why she doesn't want to get back together. Once you know that reason, you'll be able to assess if it's something that is fixable. Just remember, if something is meant to be, it's meant to be. Don't try and force something that isn't there.

Sweet guy. Do you like anyone else? If you still like him or don't, tell him he doesn't have to commit to you and if you miss him tell him you guys can be "friends" that hang out ALOT!

Because he loves her and he probably met her before he met you.

if you are broken up with your boyfriend the first thing you need to do is to sort out your feelings do you truly love him or are you clinging to something that isn't right for you. go over in your mind from start to finish memories of all the bad and the good. does the bad outweigh the good? was there respect and trust between both of you? is he on drugs or an alcoholic, is he abusive?, does he concider your feelings above his own, is he a liar, has he cheated on you? there are many questions you need to cover in your own heart before you decide you really want him back and make sure it's what he really wants. if all you had were normal quarrels were able to forgive and forget then i'd say yes if you love him go for it but don't chase after him. communicate with him from time to time remain friends because if you don't that door is open for other women to take your place. he may even date others while you're apart so should you don't sit around waiting for him. or if you decide going through that whole scene again isn't worth it find a hobby besides work get a pet a small yorkie or a cat to keep you company get on the internet to find some form of online counseling that may help you through this sad emotional time in your life right now. don't allow it to take you into a state of depression. that's the worse thing you can do. don't stalk him stay away from his place his friends, and especialy the places you use to go together. that can only deepen the hurt you're going through because it leaves the wound open and you can't give yourself the healing you deserve if you continue to pick at the wound. fight to get him back in the normal ways. you can find out a lot by doing research on the internet and contacting a counseler on the internet sometimes if their legitimate make sure you check them out can be a great help. there are penpal websites you can join to find a friend online not a man but friend to talk to email and pour your heart out to them it helps to get all this off your chest so you can heal and talking is the begining of the healing process. remember God is the great physician he made you head to toe in and out if anybody's going to understand you he will. prayer is the best tool you could ever find and if Gods path is for the two of you to reunite then it'll happen if it doesn't then there's something better out there for you. God bless and be happy

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If he wants you back, you've done something to his brain to make him suddenly care about having you around. If he doesn't then he, like most guys, will just go out and find someone new. He probably doesn't want you back.

This may happen most probably because she still loves you and might have broke up with you because of some really very big reasons that she cant tell you.

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Leave him alone. Go find someone else to toy around with. Once you break up with a guy, they usually don't want any more to do with you. You've already hurt him at least once, why would he want you back?

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This question is somewhat a toughy. A man who wants his girlfriend to back off? Fighting is no fun if its constant and men get turned off by bitching women. People who love each other want to be together as much as possible,one would think. Also after seven months things should be getting hotter as they're becoming closer. The man might think that the tyme out may be a cure to the fighting and if he does love her,then in his mind this is a possible solution to cure the fighting episodes. It could work for the better or maybe the worse.

If he really loves you, that love won't die just because of arguments. He probably wants a time-out, just as we give time-out to unruly children. A time-out to regroup and think about what's going on and why. During the first few months of dating people basically show the best sides of themselves and 7 months seems to be long enough to let some other sides show. Sometimes the other sides are not so pleasant which could cause some uncomfortable feelings. Arguments are the results of finding out other parts about the person, it's an adjustment period. It looks bad but it's good. Respect his request and give him the space he's asking for. Don't sweat the adjustment period.

Ask him to stop or you will also break his heart. Nothing is worse than being compared to someone else. Chances are, he hasn't gotten over her and he shouldn't be in a relationship until he heals. Why are you afraid of him? So what if you reminded him of her. Tell him this: "I love you. You know that. I am who I am, and if I remind you of her, and you cannot handle that, then don't let the door hit you on the ass on the way out (point to nearest Exit)." What's he gonna do, break up with you? Ooooh. Scary.

it depends on why he is ignoring you