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It takes two to make it work, but only one to break it up. This is the place to ask questions about the pain, healing, and possible solutions to relationship break-ups.

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What does it mean if your ex boyfriend wont confirm or deny you on facebook?

It means one of two things:

1. He has mixed feelings about you and doesnt know if he can still be friends with you, or have nothing to do with you.

2. He isn't interested and wants to deny but doesnt want to hurt your feelings

(most likely 1 though cause if he broke up with you, he might not be afraid to deny your request, so im pretty sure its number 1)

What are your disadvantages for a teacher?

Teaching is a wonderful thing, if it were only that. The common societal myth is that teaching is easy and "teachers have it so greatthey get off all this time for vacations...yada yada yada." The truth is mTeaching is a wonderful thing, if it were only that. The common societal myth is that teaching is easy and "teachers have it so greatuch harder to digest for most of the general public ; as they are taken aback when they learn of the incredibly overwhelming responsibility and dedication to working beyond the "call of duty" that is required of teachers. Though many say, "teachers get off at 3. I would kill to get that." Yes, but do you take your job home with you? Do you live your job? Have you had to halve yourself to take on a completely new culture (the teaching culture) to fit into your own already hectic life? The work day for a teacher never ends at 3PM. It is continuous throughout the night & into the weekends. Often, we are "asked" to attend professional development seminars on our weekends...ready for this...unpaid. The additional time spent working 50 - 60 hours/week 10 to 20 of those not paid is only partially made up for during the "vacation time", what the rest of the general population sees as this mighty break. In all, the time spent working evens out (barely) with the time we get off.

I do have a furthermore, in case you weren't already awakened well enough. The decline of literacy and care for use of literacy is epidemic in this country and so it is affecting every facet of our existence. The student attention span is diminished to a fraction of what it once was 20+ years ago. This compounded with both parents working & a low level of concern for actual academic achievement not only by the student but expected by the parents has begun the great spiral of societal destruction. This may seem somewhat doomsdayish, but I assure you, being on the front lines with "our future" everyday continues to darken the outlook.

One of the primary factors for this is parent involvement. Many parents will use anger & show their frustration if their child is not performing well, but they have never demonstrated the importance of their child's education. A parent can tell a child until they're blue in the face that they need to get good grades & read well, but unless a child sees the genuine emphasis on education in their homes (i.e. reading in the home, helping with and checking homework, insisting on reading over spending more time on the Internet or watching TV or playing video games), they are doomed to continue in the desperate educational maelstrom.

There is much to be positive about in the educational setting & being a teacher, but you did not ask about that. Personally, I love teaching, unfortunately it is plagued by much that will probably never be addressed & so, it continues as a "somewhat farcical" institution. The education students receive today is minimalist compared to what it could be...if only the public really cared.

How do i tell a guy we shouldn't see each other anymore?

Be honest, straight forward, and polite. Keep it simple and just say what you mean.

How do you get over a 12 year relationship with a guy who stays right next door?

* This is certainly an awkward situation, but the best thing you can do is get active immediately! Start seeing your friends, try to have some fun and start getting back into the dating circuit again. By doing so he will see you are not going to sit and mope over him and he may just change his mind, but if not, there really is someone special out there for you whether you think so or not right now.

What do you do if your girlfriend sais she wants to take a break is it permanent?

You should give her the space she is asking for. Sometimes when a woman tells you that, the problem is one of two issues. First, she has met someone else and do not want to tell you. Second, there could be a problem that she have with you but she does not want to hurt your feelings by telling you. A lot of times the man can be very demanding or jealous in a relationship but does not realize it. Especially if the man really loves the woman. If I were you, I would grant her wish and give her a break. That does not mean it is permanent but do not let your guards down. She is requesting a break away from you due to personal reasons that she has not discussed with you. Do not push the issue, just let her go. You should advise her you may not be available when she decides her break time is over and she want to get back with you. When that time comes, you have to ask yourself, what will you do if she want to get back with you?

Why does early love affair leads to broken relationship?

maybe because either or both are not yet prepared for the relationship. so they end up breaking apart...

How do you tell your ex-boyfriend off when he calls you his girlfriend's name?

AnswerYou be tellin him "Goodbye"! AnswerActually this may not be the end of the world. He obviously had some very positive feelings for her at one point. If the relationship was long-term, it may just be a habit. I'd be more concerned if this happened on a regular basis.

actually you tell him to f-off because he said another girls name.thats not cool,that means that he has that other girl on his mind and not only youu.when a guy has a girlfriend that should be the only girl on his mind,well besides family(: but yeah get rid of him,or have a fit and give him the silent treatment to make him feel shi*ty.

I broke up with my boyfriend a year ago. How do i get over him?

One thing that will help is to spend time doing things for other people, so you're spending less time thinking about him and yourself. Volunteer work, be more helpful around the house, something where you focus is

outward, not inward. Also, make yourself do things you find fun..don't watch sad romantic movies, or listen to sad songs. Watch and listen to things that make you smile and laugh. Let us know how you're doing!

Okay, from someone who's actually been where you are. I tried filling my time with all kind of activities and things, but when I wasn't busy, all I would do was think about her. And eventually, you burn out if you try to stay super busy.

What you need to do is: You still have feelings and emotions of love, your heart has been awoken, and you can't put it back to sleep. You need to take these emotions and redirect them towards another. Start dating again. It's like shaking a champagne bottle, and you need to pop the cork so you can find normalcy again.

Cheating on boyfriend with ex?

  • Cheating is the lowest form of treating someone you are in a relationship with because they trust you and once you have broken that bond of trust it is very difficult to get back. Reflect back on why you and ex left each other and then look at your boyfriend and decide who is the best person to be with. It seems pretty obvious that your ex is playing you like a fine fiddle (having a sexual relationship ... having his cake and eating it too and determined to win you over from your current boyfriend) but don't fall for it! Grow up! At least be honest with your boyfriend and tell him that you are going to break up with him.

What can you do feel better after your break up with a cheating boyfriend?

Go out shopping with your girlfriends,

Got to a party if there's one going on,

Pamper yourself with a mini spa day,

and Just go out as much as possible.

Why is morden technology destroy the relationship of people?

Because when you have a conversation on Facebook, Twitter, etc it can all be found on the Internet. It NEVER goes away. If you say something cruel about someone, it can still be read by that person, even if you aren't talking to that person. People also can take in things in a different way than you meant them, even if you were trying to be funny, they might not see it that way. Rumors can also be spread, and fast! So watch out for what you say, and for what other people might say! They might not always be taken in like you intended them to be!

What if your hubby says horrible things to you after he had a long affair the OW did not want him in relationship he is mad at you cuz she told you everything does he love her and why would you care f?

Basically, your hubby is a selfish pig. You shouldn't waste any more time on him, if he is with another woman then he obviously does not share the same feelings you share for him. Call it over with.

-A Guy

Is it bad to like your old crush knowing he hurt you?

It's perfectly normal to still like your old crush - but you should be smart enough not to fall in love with them knowing they hurt you once already.

Ignoring phone calls?

The person usually does not stop trying but it gives the message.

How soon you can get a divorce after becoming a citizen?

probably right away. but make sure that your citizenship is all said and done.

How does a man calling a woman ugly make her feel?

Shame on you! How would you like to be called "stupid!" Yes, you do not need to express every idiotic thought especially if you know that it will hurt the other party! Get with it!

How long does it take 2 forget about someone you love and care about a lot?

If you really love someone and care about them a lot you may never forget them completely. It might take a couple months, or a year, or several. It depends on the circumstances, how strong the love is, etc.

Why do people's heart break?

You're exposed, you're vulnerable, you have hopes and expectations; you're not perfect, other people aren't perfect, and feelings may be unequal; and every relationship except the one that lasts is going to end in breakup.

But love is not always heartbreaking. It can be heart-growing and you-growing, and it can end gently if you let it, and it is possible finally to get it right.

What do you do if your girlfriend's ex keeps calling and text messaging her his feelings and it is driving you jealous and crazy?

You should explain to your girlfriend that she should tell her ex to stop calling and texting messages. You should explain to her you are feeling annoyed by this and it is not fair considering she is now going out with you. She should no longer have contact with her ex if she is going out with you. ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------

Do you see what her responses consist of? There is no way of controlling what other people do. What i may suggest would be to ask your GF to ask him to stop. If he dosent, im pretty sure she can have his number blocked. But when it truly comes down to it, if it dosent bother her, why should it bother you? If there are more reasons for your jealousy, you might want to take in consideration why and if you are just trippin, or if it is serious.

Why do I hate my boyfriend's ex-girlfriend?

It's presumed you have a certain amount of time with your beau. Now you know what attracted you to him and his little quirks which you find part of what is attractive. Well the ex-girlfriend knows that too and that's what angers you. You are also unsure of yourself in the ability to keep this male for yourself as the ex may flirt her way back to getting his attention, among the things you do with him and believe she did with him.

How can you tell if he's breaking up with you for another girl?

yes, you can tell by no longer having the bond or relation ship you used to have. You may see flirting with that girl who hes leaving you for...but over all not atracted to you any more adn it just isn't the same -LS

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