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It takes two to make it work, but only one to break it up. This is the place to ask questions about the pain, healing, and possible solutions to relationship break-ups.

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I have been in a relationship for 7 months but more and more I am beginning to feel trapped and think I need time to myself. Am I wrong for feeling this way?

Although the man may feel loved by the woman, the man will often feel like he can do better or have more from being in the relationship, such as another woman. This could result in cheating due to the fact that the man feels like he already has the other woman so why not have another one?

What to do when your husband asks for separation leaving you with a 14 year old kid?

Gather all your emotional strength and be very brave courageous keep your self esteem high , then ask for all that what should be rightfully yours and the child's to raise a child you need lots of money don't let him off easily let him give you and the kid enough security

Now organize your life go do all those things which you have been longing to do join a dance class a language course have fun with your child instill in him/her the true values of life

Lastly please don't indulge in self pity oe have any regrets

Good Luck to you and God be with you

Why is the word love used so loosely now a days?

children dont know how stong of a word "love" is now a days!!!!!!!!

Will he want you back if you write him a song?

It depends on if its a good song or not try looking up lyrics to songs and kind of baseing your song off of that song it might work hopefully you will get him back good luck.

All illusions aside:

Look, break ups are tough. There are few things harder than when a relationship ends. It engenders far too many negative emotions, and most are hard to deal with in the best of situations.

The fact is that it ended. There is nothing you can do to make him come back. There is nothing anyone can do to legitimately make anyone do anything. We all choose for ourselves.

So, take a cue for Taylor Swift; write a song about him and how bad it all made you feel, then move on. While it might seem impossible that you will ever find anyone else as great as he was, you are likely to find out soon enough that he really wasn't as great as you may have thought, and the next guy is better.

Who wanted the US to annex Hawaii?

A group of businessmen known as the Committee of Safety wanted the US to annex Hawaii. They overthrew the Hawaiian government and petitioned for annexation, led by Sanford Dole.

What if your ex girlfriend says she doesn't know what she wants but moves on to another man?

That means she is playing mind games with you. Drop her fast! Shes using you for an ego boost; just so she knows she has someone on the side. I know I used to be exactly like that. Don't let her toy with your emotions its not fair to you. There are more fish in the sea. Then she knew what she wants, (It just wasn't you). Sorry, but it's time to move on. You may be intersted in her but she's not.

Why do certain cultures view crying as a sign of weakness?

* It's usually the males in almost every culture that are not suppose to cry because it shows a sign of weakness, but that's a myth at least for Western Culture. Somewhere rules were made long ago that men should be men and women were frail creatures and expected to cry at the drop of a hat and should be protected by the males . If one looks back on history and especially the pioneer women they were almost as tough as the men. Myths and society have bent reality out of shape. Men are no different in the department of 'feelings' and although men may show their feelings in different ways they feel pain, dejection, are heart-broken, etc., and if a man chooses to cry that does not constitute a label placed on them as a sign of weakness. It's all smoke and mirrors. I'd trust a man that would cry over something important than one that would not.

Is it normal for a person to break up with you because you filed bankruptcy?

Interesting question. How do you manage to put yourself into that situation? No offense, but most people I know that have ended up like this is because they live beyond their means. Your former partner, is possibly a leach or there were more underlying causes and the timing was coincidental or the final straw. It may be the reason for filing bankruptcy. People often have very strong feelings about this kind of thing. Some refuse to do it because of pride. I don't know what your circumstances were that led to filing bankruptcy. Was this something you could have avoided? Was the need to file due to irresponsible overspending rather than a situation beyond your control? Did you have other options but just wanted to take the easy way out? I'm not accusing... just trying to think of any possible underlying reasons which could cause somebody to be upset with you about filing. Only a very small percentage of BK's are filed by persons who live a lifestyle higher than they can afford. The most common reasons are job loss and serious illness or injury which result in overwhelming medical expenses. Being in financial distress often creates a division between spouses or intimate partners regardless of whether it results in bankruptcy or not. If a person is dating with a mind towards getting married then maybe s/he broke it off because when you marry someone their credit rating mingles with yours. S/he may not want your bankruptcy to affect future mortgages, loans, credit cards etc.

Should you dump a girl if she can't seem to let go of her past relationships?

I'd suggest having a heart-to-heart and telling her that you find her attitude very hurtful. It's possible that she's confused about her love life, as many people are at some time or other. However, you have first-hand knowledge of the people concerned and I don't ... first i'd say you talk to her, and not just dump her. let her know what you want to do and why. if she say'd she'll try, then gve her another chance. if she just can't seem to let it go, then it is time to let her go, and move on.

Why do guys always come back after they dump you?

Most always its because the girl has been pulling him along making him think she still wants him, but when he makes a move she starts screaming RAPE

What is a heartbreaker?

  • One who breaks many hearts in their past lives.
  • A 'heartbreaker' is someone that can either has charm, charisma or with good looks mesmerize the opposite sex and then move on from one person to another. 'Heartbreaker' can also mean that a person who is good looking may have many of the opposite sex wanting to be with them, but that person does not necessary use those people. Often when we see a small child that a pretty or handsome even then you hear some people say 'they are going to be a real heartbreaker.)

What should you do if you found messages on your boyfriend's phone to his ex saying 'what is happening with us' and 'when are you going to come see me?

You know what it says and I'm very sorry you had to find out this way. It's obvious he wants to get back with his ex and it says it all on the phone message. The next time you see this guy, hold your head high, stand strong and tell him to hit the road! Don't look back! There is some great guy out there looking for a nice girl like you and if you don't waste your time on this jerk you'll find that right guy. Marcy

How long should you stay with a married but separated boyfriend?

Is he really ready for another relationship? I'd doubt it. The stress and emotional spillover from his current marriage is likely to cause some problems in your relationship with him. If you were already involved with him before his separation (not sure if you were or not) you are setting yourself up for insecurity and the probability of history repeating itself. Rebound relationships tend to be more emotional/sexual self validation for the person recently broken up or divorced, and less of a stable, honest committment. The person hasn't had enough time to themselves to get past their history and not let it affect their relationship with someone else. Tell him you care about him, and that when he gets his divorce, you and him can talk again. I wouldn't stay with him one day longer! He's married!

What should you do if your girlfriend of five years just cheated on you with a musician and said she wants to remain only friends but says she could come back later?

skin deep?You know the adage about beauty being skin deep. You'll probably think of her the rest of your life. By forgeting what she did to you may set you up to be a carpet that gets walked all over. You should forgive her, but not exactly forget. She holds the cards right now and wants time away. As hard as it sounds, staying away cold turkey may be the best medicine. By occasionally seeing her is tormenting you and preventing healing. By doing anything to attempt to get her back may just push her away further. Tell her you forgive her and your going you're own way, and stick to it. IF you love her, set her free. If she comes back it was meant to be. If not, track her down and...ahh nevermind... bad joke.

Cheers mate. The point is she still sees me,but shes definitely chasing this married singer. The guy doesnt even care about her,never replies her messages after enjoying her twice :-(.But,she still keeps sending mails, calling him even though he never picks up the phone.I tried telling her, he got what he wanted,and that's it.She says I should give her time,I should be saying this to her, not her telling me. So its clear she wants to try something new which really hurts.This is a girl that would cry to me,begging me to get engaged with her.As soon as she met the guy,everything evaporated.Lifes tough!

What does it mean when your boyfriend says you've stolen his spirit?

  • If you are getting along it could mean that you are his soul mate. If you are not getting along and have hurt him it means you have stolen his spirit and left him feeling empty and sad.

Why can't my girlfriend sleep in pantyhose?

Goodness, are you wanting her to? If so, why? Or are you just curious?

Pantyhose are binding around the waist and every other area of the body they cover, something that women tolerate in order to look what they consider their "best." In hot climates or in a non-working environment, it is common for women not to wear them at all. They may also be hot when they are covered by sheets and blankets, or if the weather is uncomfortably warm. Many women sleep without any underwear at all in order to let their genital area "breathe," which helps them not to get infections or rashes. You must respect her enough to allow her to wear what is most comfortable and healthiest for her own body.

How can mai be zuko's wife when she broke up with him on the promise part 1?

She might not be, or they might have gotten back together again.

Why doesn't he want me back?

You're trying too hard. That's why just brush it off. If he is the right one for you then maybe it will work out just try to be friends without the constant thought of getting back together haunt you.

Any approach to dating a girl with a boyfriend?

yeah. try to just say hi to her then walk past while you are saying it to her so you don't look like a fool when you say to her when you stop and talk so just continue to walk by and go on with your day and the n evetually go into conversation with her. if she ever break up with her boyfriend then you will already have a head straghit then most of the guys she may look at so stay with it and tyr not to get stuck in the friend position.

Is it ok to let a man know upfront and honest that you are sometimes a sensitive person Or do they freak out?

If you feel it is something you think they should know then tell them especially if you find you overreact from time to time then it may help them understand why you may be the way you are in certain situations.

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