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Breakups
It takes two to make it work, but only one to break it up. This is the place to ask questions about the pain, healing, and possible solutions to relationship break-ups.
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Me and my boyfriend had a argument and he still hasn't spoke to me since?
My boyfriend and I were watching England Match, and his mom shouted him down to fix her laptop. His mom's boyfriend has a daughter that is a lesbian and I heard her giggling and lately since she moved in, he seems weird and that maybe I'm being paranoid I hope I am. He came back up, and I was packing my stuff cause I had a drink. I got all emoticon and was being silly. I asked nicely and calmly and went to "What was she laughing at?" and he was like " Shut up. What you on about?" I went " Have you got feelings for her?" and he went mad going " Shut up. Your embarrassing me." and was shouting at me when I was talking nicely. He never has done that before, so I just went "What's up?" and he went mad, came over, grabbed my neck and bit my lip. I was like "Why are you so mad?" and he came over and punched me in the stomach really hard. "I went why are you doing this two me?" He was going and I don't understand why. I normally talk to him when I'm paranoid. He grabs me and says "Don't be silly, but this time was different."
So, I went home that night and I would of thought he would text me saying "Sorry" and all this, but he hasn't. It's been 5 days and I have heard nothing of him. I haven't text him because I don't see what I have done wrong. I am really upset because I think, "What if he is with someone." "Why doesn't he care what he has done.", "I could be wrong, but it's hard not to think it.", and "I don't know if I should text him, just in case he turns around and goes, "Leave me alone or I ain't with you know more." I don't want to, I want to be with him and get him help with his anger and why he did it, so please don't bother telling me to leave him cause I won't listen anyway, please please help me and give me advice what to do.
Thank you.
- Famous or not, when he abuses you and if he leaves any marks such as bruising; scratches; cracked ribs; split lip; black eye, etc., have a friend take pictures of those individual marks and then a full body photo (you can keep your underwear on) of you so that your face is showing. Then make plans to stay at a friends or a family members home and go to the police and press charges against your abuser. If the police choose to do nothing about it then go into the next county or town where he has no supporters to cover up his abusive manner towards you. You also have a choice to going to a woman's abuse center and you can go through Mental Health to get the phone number. The women's abuse centers are there to protect you and will also offer you legal counsel in a court of law. Famous people may get away with some things, but one thing they do not want is their name brought up in the media.
Why does your chest give you a strange feeling when you think about your ex girlfriend?
Typically it just means that your heart still beats for her. You are still in love with her, the love that you feel for did not go away when you two still broke up.
What does It mean when your ex starts talking to you again?
- Be wary of an ex starting to call you again as it could mean two things; your ex misses you or, they are between girlfriends and will use you for a sexual relationship only. If you love him then take it slow and easy and do not make it easy for him to slip back into your life. You will know the signs whether he loves you and wants to continue with the relationship or, he's using you for sex only.
No. She just wants the other guy to be jealous. She either still likes you or is 'player'-ish.
because she might like you
Maybe he thought that his ex girlfriend was an abusive target. As in something was going wrong in his life and she was the only one he wasn't afraid to hit. So ignore him, because if he beats you once, there is no doubt that he wont do it again.
If you are engaged and he breaks up with you do you give him back the ring?
Opinions vary on this. Let us put it this way, why would you want to keep something from some one who does not want to be with you. No matter how much it may be worth in dollars. It is up to the person, really, if they give it back. However, there have been civil cases won in court by people who have not been given back the ring.
If your ex boyfriend letting his girlfriend play on your phone what do you do?
If he is your ex and has obviously moved on I would wonder why he has your phone to begin with. Get your phone back or cut the one he has off - cut all ties with him and move on just as he has.
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Give your boyfriend the benefit of a doubt that he is telling you the truth. If he is not sincere he didn't have to tell you who he saw. Remember his ex girlfriend and himself has history together and if they hangout together, maybe they talked about the mistakes they did to each others. Be grateful that he is honest and in return tell him how much you appreciate his honesty with you.
How will you deal with your boyfriend's ex-girlfriend if they do have a kid?
Because there is a child involved you must bite your tongue and learn to accept things , because of course the child comes first and for most
Do teens commit suicide most often in public or private?
Well, of course, each teen in different, and in a different state of mind etc. Depending on what has drove them to suicide, depends on how they do it, but a magority of suicidal teens commit suicide when they are on their own, regardless of wheather they are in a public place or not.
I might be sounding old fashion here, but what I would do is call the person and talk to them on the phone. In a serious matter like this, texting doesn't seem like the appropriate way to handle it at all, especially if you are just playing childish games by not texting each other back.
Why does my boyfriend's new girlfriend hate me?
be cause she is jilluse cause you was going with her man
maybe she just don't like your kind or maybe she's jealous about how much he loved you maybe he loved you more than he does her, but he's with her due to circumstance, maybe she's pregnant and that's the only reason he stays. or maybe you're done with him for now or forever and that's the reason he stays. Anyway he must got some feelins still or she wouldn't be mad
Why does your boyfriend get mad at you if you tell him you know he's flirting with other girls?
If he is flirting, no one likes to be found out. If he is not flirting and you think he is, he will be annoyed because you are basically accusing him of something he did not do.
If she's so heartless that she doesnt have the decency to tell you before everyone else then she's not worth it. Love is a two way street, there's no point hanging onto someone who doesnt want or deserve you. Speak to her about it and your honesty might make her change her mind but she sounds like a sneaky bint who's not worth it anyway. >.> Love doesn't really exist.
Second Answer:
There's no way to know why she's breaking up with you but if you really want to keep the relationship, you need to talk to her. It sounds like there's a problem with your communication since she's telling her friends important things about your relationship before discussing them with you. Talk about what's been missing for her, what you're willing to do to correct those things, and what you want from her in return. Remember: a relationship is between two people. You both need to come to the discussion as equals. You could suggest a trial period of being back together to work on the issues but have a date on which you'll decide...together...whether you'll keep going as a couple.
What do you do when an ex girlfriend randomly asks you to have lunch with you?
* It could mean A) she just wants to have lunch with you and see what you've been up to lately and it's completely innocent or, B) she is having second thoughts and may want to talk about getting back together again. The only way you are going to find out is to have lunch with her.
I have gone through my own life being very direct with people I care about and I don't play games. I'd express your feelings to him and don't be afraid to tell him what you think of his actions of late. Just tell him like it is and don't be so afraid of losing him by being honest. If he walks away after your talk he wasn't worth it and look ahead of you and find someone that truly does deserve you.
If someone makes you feel miserable most of the time they are not in love with you. The odd argument is very normal, but if you argue all the time and he makes absolutely no effort to communicate with you even when you try to communicate with him, then don't stay for the long ride.
Good luckMarcy
AnswerIf he is trying to avoid you or the conversation, there is something wrong. Ask yourself why you would give this person a second chance, do you think he will change on his own? Probably not... A good relationship should not be this hard. Ask yourself this.....can you deal with the way the relationship is going right now for the rest of your life? If not then move on, you are the only one in this relationship that is holding on. Has he asked you to give him a second chance, then he isn't trying. You deserve better, believe me I got out of a relationship like this 9 months ago. And I was the only one who cared.How can you win your wife from her lover?
This seems like a totally insane move, but it actually had a positive effect. For one, being with him satisfied the itch that was driving her to distraction. Second, the passion she felt for him was injected into our relationship. Third, it diffused the tension of seeing him around, since we hang out in the same places.
This won't work for everyone. For one, you have to lose the jealousy and ego bruise, and you have to really forgive your spouse, and want him/her in your life despite what they did. And you have to accept that if they did fall in love, those feelings don't go away quickly.
Lastly your spouse genuinely has to want to be with you. But that's a given if there's any hope of recovery from an affair. Otherwise it's best to cut your losses.
well the one thing that you have to do in order to win her back from her lover is spice up the relationship that's one of the reasons that marriage couple's break up or go looking for something else because everyday its the same routine over and over and people do get bored. So spice it up and start being the person that she fell in live with the first you met
Break UpsBy spice, think romance not just sex. She probably wants the rush of being in love, of knowing someone is thinking about her, misses her, thinks she's sexy and amazing. You might want to try having more conversations (eye contact too), taking up an activity together, getting back into shape (you will look better, feel better and be healthier too), taking over some chores, giving her some real affection (foot rubs, compliments, hugs etc) and appreciate her role in your marriage vocally and often. I think she will come back, your marriage may be weakening but all that history and all those bonds are still there. She fell in love with you once, you are her type and she can love you again. Woo her like you did to get her to marry you in the first place. Good luck!- I applaud you for being willing to put forth the effort to save your marriage. So many people are viewing marriage as disposable now that you question, while heartbreaking, also gives me hope.
* I think you need to confront her on this as well; if you're willing to put the effort into your relationship then good for you, but if your wife is cheating on you with another man then she has a big apology to make. I'm not saying it has to be the end of your marriage, but she has to admit to you what she's been doing, apologize for it and promise that she'll never do it again. If the two of you want to try an open relationship and experiment with sleeping with other people while still being man and wife, that's fine, but you need to be equals in a marriage and right now she completely has the upper hand. So demand what she owes you - a big apology.
What can be done about a live in partner who threatens suicide when you say you'll leave?
It is sad that a partner would manipulate you with death to keep you there. They need counceling. Perhaps you should suggest you both go (even though you don't want to work on the relationship) it is a way for you to get your partner to go. They need to visit www.jaredstory.com, it is a suicide prevention site. It wouldn't hurt if you visited as well, you can learn the true signs of depression and if your partner is really at risk or using it to keep you around. Email the webmaster if you like, she answers questions. Stop telling him you're going to leave if you're not going to but maybe you can tell someone else about it like a professional and see what they say. I think you should definitely talk to someone about it.
Your ex was just that "your ex" and he does not have to explain any actions he took while not with you and you don't have to explain your actions to him. Many people live with opposite sex roommates. I lived with 1 other girl in my apartment when younger and it proved to be a big mistake. If I had it to do all over again I would get a responsible guy to move in with me (one, hopefully, that would have a girlfriend.) It's possible he could have slept with one or both of them, but still, that's none of your business because he was your ex. Women are daunting at the best of times, and it sounds like he's had enough of listening to two women. Cut the guy some slack! If you are still in love with him go slow and easy, start dating (don't let him move in with you) and see where it goes from there. Don't even bother to ask him questions about what went on with his two roommates because you will never believe the truth even if he told you. Accept things for the way they can be (hopefully good) and move onward and upward with him. Good luck Marcy
How do you break up with someone you still love?
If you truly love someone, you need to look at the reasons why you no longer want to be with that person. Did they cheat on you? Have they hurt you in any way that cannot be mended? When you know the reason why you want to leave them, focus on that instead of the fact that you love them so much you cannot hurt them.
How can you tell your boyfriend likes someone else and doesnt want to be with you anymore?
you don't talk as much on the phone or in person anymore, and when you ask if its because he is so busy he tells you no that he isn't. when he jokes around about how lucky you are to be with someone so goodlooking or nice because so many other girls want him. when he jokinglily tells you that he's been ingnoring your calls but you feel he wasnt joking. also when he jokingly calls other girls his wifes or "other" girlfriends in front of you! also when he starts acting more like a friend to you then your boyfriend!
