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Breakups
It takes two to make it work, but only one to break it up. This is the place to ask questions about the pain, healing, and possible solutions to relationship break-ups.
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If you are a guy who answers this question how clingy is too clingy for you when with girlfriend?
It can vary from guy to guy. But usually, to clingy is when a girl is always around, and never lets the guy leave to go do something else. And when the guy does go do something else, the girl always shows up or insists in coming with the guy.
What should you do when a girl you love and you love breaks up with you How can you get her back?
If you really loved each other then one of you would make a move. There seems to be a lack of communication skills here and perhaps she feels you don't want to go back with her and you could be feeling the same way about her. Call her up and see what she thinks about giving it another go. Don't just continue on as you were before, but discuss your relationship and learn from the mistakes you made together. People aren't perfect and make mistakes. Communication skills are even more important than sex!
What should you do when you and your boyfriend break up for no reason?
First you need to set aside some time for YOU.
Its going to hurt, you're going to cry, get mad, get depressed..yell..tear his pictures up..
go to your friends...let them comfort you and talk about it.
Move on..even if its just with life..move on..you will look back but if it wasn't meant to be than its not meant to be.
If a guy flirts with you does that mean he likes you?
When a woman flirts with a man, it doesn't necessarily mean that she fancy's him. But, it does mean that she wants HIM to fancy HER. She may never act on flirtation but it makes her feel good about herself. The same is probably true for men.
How Do You Get Someone To Start Loving You Again?
- You can't make someone love you as much as it hurts. Sometimes couples breakup and there is still some love left that they can work on, but generally when two people breakup it is better to move forward. As sad as it is for you sometimes life is complicated and a mystery and send you down different roads in your life and why? Because there is that special person out there waiting for you, but you just haven't met yet.
Describe areas in your personal character that you would like to improve?
Not quick tempered vs. easily angered
Do you get angry at other drivers, your spouse or your children? Do others around you notice this anger displayed, or do you immediately control it? Are you frequently using a raised voice with your children?
Family man / woman
Do other people want a marriage like yours, and/or children like yours? Are your children a joy to be around? Are you confident that your kids will turn out well? Do your spouse and kids enjoy being around you?
Committed, sacrificed life
Are you determined to do what God wants, even if it seems like other paths seem easier or more fulfilling? Is God frequently on the back burner, while other things like school, work, or even recreation get most of the attention? Are you determined to follow God, even if no one else around you will?
Content vs. covetous
Do you tend to buy lots of things that you can't afford (i.e. on credit)? Are you happy with having things that are less than the best?
Diligent vs. lazy
Do you devote hours of time to entertainment and recreation while neglecting your studies, work, home, or relationship with God?
Eternally minded
Does the thought of heaven and eternity bring you hope? Is the fear of hardship or loss in this life overwhelming?
Man or woman of faith (vs. fearful)
Are you confident of your standing with God? Is your perception of your relationship with God based on your feelings, or on what the Bible says? Are you willing to step into roles that you feel ill equipped for? Do you use your gifts and talents when opportunities arise? How's your prayer life?
Faithful vs. unfaithful
Are you careful to fulfill your responsibilities with even the small things?
Forgiving
Do you have bad feelings towards people that have harmed you in the past? Are you bitter or do you have a grudge against anyone?
Gentle vs. violent or overbearing
Would people characterize you as being harsh or overbearing? Do you occasionally "let people have it" (verbally or physically) because they've "got it coming"?
- Giving, generous
Do you regularly give to the Lord and to those in need? Do you give with a cheerful heart? Are you a good tipper? Do you see money as something that needs to be carefully managed and controlled, or more like a tool that you can use to do good?
- Matthew 6:24-33; Luke 16:9-15; Romans 12:8; 2 Corinthians 8:7-9; 9:6-8; 1 Timothy 6:18
Honest vs. deceitful
Do you occasionally "bend the rules" for your own gain? Do you give people answers that are half-truths or that are "legally correct"?
Humble vs. proud
Are you constantly worried about what other people think of you? Is it important that your accomplishments are recognized? Can you gracefully accept correction or criticism? Do you act in ways that promote yourself instead of God or others?
Joyful
Do you grumble and complain a lot? Do you enjoy praising God?
Loving
Do you frequently think about what would be good or helpful for other people? Do you try to put yourself in other people's shoes? Do you make a conscious effort to tell or show others that you love them?
Obedient
Are you more concerned with discovering truth, than obeying the truth that you already know? If something is blatantly clear in the Bible, will you accept it even if it is a hard teaching? Are you known more for your actions, or your stances on different issues?
Patient and enduring
Are you willing to wait for God's timing, or do you try to speed it along? Have you struggled with questions for God that remain unresolved for years? Do you have a pattern of continually switching majors, jobs, or churches? Are you easily overwhelmed, tired, or discouraged to the point that you start dropping the ball in some of your high priority areas?
Self controlled vs. indulgent
Can you say "no" to yourself in areas of your life that you would like to change? Are there areas in your life that control you, rather than you controlling them?
- Will you refrain from doing things that are not wrong, but that might be hard for others? Do you think of ways to serve others and not do them because it is inconvenient for you?
Serving
Do you see it as a burden to serve others, or as a joy? Do you frequently serve in ways which provide no reward?
Sexually pure
Do you see the opposite sex as objects or people? Do you look at or listen to material that no one else knows about? When you have improper thoughts, do you feed them, or starve them?
Controlled speech vs. unrestrained in speech
Do you say things about people that you would never say if they were listening? Are the things that you talk about typically helpful or building for your hearers?
Teachable vs. unresponsive
Are you eager to learn from others and the Bible? Is it more important to you to be right, or to look right?
Unified with others vs. divisive
Are you supportive of the direction of your leaders? If you disagree with the direction a leader is going, do you tell the leader, or do you tell the followers
Upright, righteous
Are you more focused on what is honoring to God than on what you can get away with?
You want your ex to regret giving up on your relationship what can you do to make him regret it?
The best way to do this is harder than it sounds- move on. Truly move on. If you're still showing him attention, he/she can't miss it. If your ex isn't serious about patching things up and moving forward, he/she doesn't deserve the opportunity. Drop off the planet as far as he/she goes. Don't call, don't drive by, don't email, don't text, and don't show up to places he/she goes. Don't call their friends or family. Dissappear. If they happen to show up begging and crying at your doorstep, THEN and only then consider talking. However if you're vulnerable and have been through this with them before, don't re-enter the cycle. Do yourself a favor and find someone who shares your goals and wants to show you the attention you deserve.
Does someone out there love you?
yes there has to be someone out there just for u.don't give up hope.
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HAIR if you have pale skin curl or make your hair wavy if you have dark/tanned skin straighten your hair. if you have yellowy/olive skin flick your hair upside down and back.
CLOTHING
(casual) wear a fitted top that brings out your eyes and skinny jeans that hug your thighs, dark heels with no socks and a fitted coat that narrow at the hips
(Formal evening wear) same makeup and hair but wear a fitted dress that brings out your boobs, (if you are uncomfortable showing your legs then wear skin coloured tights), wear a small but pretty necklace, a nice bracelet and nice heels that don't cover your ankles.
also get a clutch bag that matches your dress and carry the lipstick, phone, money and keys.
hope this helped!
I was dumped by the girl I had planned on marrying. She left me for another guy but she told me that she wanted to remain friends. I absolutly refuse to talk to her even though I miss her like crazy so much that I cry sometimes. I am furious at what she did but that's out of my control. If you have dumped a guy but still HONESTLY want to remain friends, then step one would be to NOT see somebody else for at the very least a few months (not even coffee with some other guy). This may seem unreasonable but if you left him to be single then BE SINGLE. It will stop him from feeling like you traded him for someone else. The second step would be to give him time but to remain in contact with him. Write him a letter after a few weeks and ask him to write you one in return. Give him plenty of chance to get his feelings out. He will make you feel like a dick for dumping him but unfortunaly for you, he is 100% justified in feeling that way. In no way can anything he feels be labeled immature. Remember, you cut him, not the other way around. Let him get his verbal licks in (in the letter of course) and try to set up some sort of long-term, no physical contact line of communication. Don't reply frequent enough that you lead him on (bec he'll take even the slightest things you say as an indication that you want to get back together) but don't go too long in between letters that he feels "cast to the shadows". If you HONESTLY want to be friends you need to realize that you have just reset your relationship. You can't "step down" to friendship. You have gone to zero by dumping him and you need to build back up to a friendship. Now, if you have started seeing someone else then there is little chance he will ever talk to you again and I honestly can't blame him.
Most of the time is probably the wanna enjoy the single life or they are seeing someone new but don't wanna admit to it. And when try say they care about they mean it as my ex gf or friends only
What does it mean if she breaks up with him?
either he really likes you... or hes a really big player.
I am very sorry you are going through this and I know you must feel like your life is falling apart. You are actually going through a very normal grieving period and it's OK to cry, feel badly and go through what you are, but in a few months it's time to pick yourself up, dust yourself off and get back out in life. You are going to have to trust me when I tell you that although you may think this was your one true love, you haven't met the right person for you. Most of us have been through something similar in our lives and feel like our heart has been torn out of our bodies and we're left with an empty shell. We aren't listening to our own heart, and we seem to be blinded to what is good for us.
I am a great believer that no matter however painful, we are all on a path (each of us given the same equal shot) to meet that very special someone out there that is meant for us. Sometimes that special someone is right under our noses like a good friend that has been there always, yet sometimes it's feeling so down you want to crawl off in a dark corner and all of a sudden you look across a crowded room and there he is! You just know it! I believe in destiny and the fact we have to go down some wrong way streets before we find that person. Why? Because when we do finally meet them and if we are paying attention to what we feel; we've been through so much that as soon as you see that person in your life you know right then and there that's the person you love.
Love is giving not only sexually, but more importantly trust, honesty, loyalty, yet receiving these fine qualities back from that person you love.
Don't give up. You just haven't met that right person yet, and you will!
Good luckMarcy
Answeri think it is almost imposiable to get over that one true love because they aare the first one and you will always have them in your heart but you have to move on and contu=inue on with your life because the past is like a car if you are staring in the rear veiw mirrior you will crash into what is in frount of you and know one wants to do that because it hurt and mabey the one and true was not that person and you might miss the one and true if you don't pay attentionto what is going on take it from me it will come un expectedlyHow to get your ex boyfriend back if you really love him and don't care that he hurt you?
- You need to stand back and take inventory of your own life. You should not be allowing any young man to disrespect you or harm you in any way. You need to get some self confidence in your life and become more independent. No man of any age likes a clingy young woman with a lack of confidence. You need to know you do not have to settle for second best so move on from your boyfriend and get out with friends and back into the dating circuit because there is someone special out there that would treat you much better.
How do you know if she still wants to be with you even though you broke up?
Love never goes away if its real. You need to try and make the move to see if she still loves you. Put your pride aside because life's too short to keep asking yourself questions when you can just ask her. If she doesn't love you, then at least you will know. If she does then maybe something can rekindle but you need to ask her yourself.
What happens if you date your best friends ex-boyfriend?
If she/ he is your best friend, then they would accept your judgement, and respect your choice. You might want to ask a relative or friend that has gone through that situation from one side or the other, and see the difference. Or, look at it through your best friends perspective. How would you feel seeing your best friend dating your ex? Good luck!
How do you get over someone you really fancy?
Well personally i think tht the easiest way to get over someone is time.... just dont let them know you are relly bothered otherwise they will make a big deal out of it.... talk to a m8.... GOOD LUCK HUNNI
What does it mean when you dream your ex spouse comes back to you?
Well, either last year or the year before i had a dream about being back with my ex three nights in a row. About a month later i was back with him. Hope that helps
How can you make a boy fall more in love with you?
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- An ex is an ex and you should have moved on in your life from him a long time ago. Some people who breakup with a girlfriend/boyfriend may not want to keep the friends they once had together because it is a reminder of what once was (the good times) or, he may feel that they are more your friends than his so he appears to want to move forward in their life. You have to ask yourself why he would hate you. Hate is a heavy word so it appears he is angry about something. It is best to move on in your life and leave him completely alone.
Where do you go to place a cease and desist order?
A lawyer or paralegal. If you are female you can contact a women's shelter and they can help you find what you need.
How do you break up with your husband?
you tell them that you are sorry but it is not working out ,or you are a good person but you are not my perfect match ,can we be friends
uuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuhhhhhhhhhhhhh if you dont love him anymore just throw his stuff outta your house and kick him out!Should you be upset that your boyfriend and his ex share a dog?
No. When a couple have a pet, often both come to love the pet almost as they would a child. When they separate, they don't lose that love for the pet. It is fairly common for ex-spouses or ex-lovers to share custody of a child or of a pet. If they have a reasonably friendly relationship following the break-up, the sharing of the pet should not interfere with their social lives.
