Breakups

Say a come back that is good but not good enough to hurt someones feelings. Then have them want to say something back. Then it is perfect revenge without the anger.

That isn't revenge. The whole point of revenge is doing something over the top of what they did, to make you feel better. Revenge is a dish best served cold. Unless its hot dogs, they are always better warm. A punch to the face is good, but will be short lived. Long term revenges that you create by a small quick act are the best. Sleep with someone they know. Sleep with their parents. Buy them a dog that has 1 leg so they feel bad and are stuck caring for it. Mow their lawn very very short and spray it with water in the sun, so it dries up and turns the yard brown. That is also a revenge dish served best when warm, because if the sun is cold then it wont burn up the yard and you wasted a day cutting their grass extra short. Now they can go 3 weeks without mowing instead of 1. You actually just helped them, so it was almost a reverse-revenge. Just make sure before you go through with anything, you check to see if its best served cold or warm.

She probably means that she's stressed. Don't try to read too much into things. If on the other hand, she says that she's stressed and doesn't talk to you at all, it may mean that she has a lot on her plate and you might be adding to her stress (by being overly needy and constantly trying to talk to her). Just ask her once what's stressing her and if she tells you, don't try to solve her problems for her. Instead, listen to her, empathize with her, and let her know that you're there if she needs any help with anything. Then, don't do anything more unless she asks for help or just wants to talk to you.

That really depends what you are crying about. All relationships have their ups and downs and some people cry when their feelings get hurt or they are upset but if you find he is making you cry all the time then that is not a healthy relationship.

They have their own reasons but sometimes when the guilt and shame become overwhelming they don't want to be perceived as the "bad" person and seeing that they are angry towards you they try and take things out on you. It is strange but people that are ultimately in the wrong get angry and don't know how to deal with things so they reflect anger back towards the people that would be angry with them - it really is an issue that they need to have dealt with but instilled since they were children and never corrected.

I'm sorry to say but your relationship is about over. Maybe, it's God's way of telling you it's over, Girl. I'm real sorry but it's over. : ^(

Though I am not an expert on such issues, I do believe that I have gone through certain phases of my life which would enable me to answer this to an extent. I don't believe that anyone can stop loving anyone completely. If he/she does so, then it would mean that he/she never really loved the other person truly. Maybe the intensity decreases and fades with time but it doesnt ever fade out completely. You still realise that you do care atleast a little bit for the person.

This is a very unpleasant place to be. Believe me you are not alone. This has happened to literally millions of people who may or may not be like you. So try not to feel to alone in this situation.

As painful as this is, let them go. Do yourself a favor and try to move on as soon as possible. Do what you need to do in order to deal with the emotions of letting go. Once you have done this you will feel alot better.

This may not sound like much, but you have choices to make, and I am sure you will make the right choice for yourself.

Very sweetly and quietly; if that doesn't work, raise your voice louder until wanted results occur.

• It is both choice and chance. A person can go to a party and have a chance meeting with someone they are very interested in and the choice is whether they decide to pursue that person and ask them out on a date.

Well,do exactly what he did and move on too! That is really hard. I would say, learn to do something new, like a new skill that you always wanted to do or go on a trip somewhere you've never been. It will give you back some more convidence to try something else and before you know it the pain will fade away!

You give her space. She asked for it and if you truly love her, you would go with the flow. I believe every relationship goes through this stage. You should think back to whatever you could have done to make her mad. Then go apologize and be sincere. Buy her chocolates and flowers(her favorite.) Tell her "Baby, I know these gifts won't make up for what i did, but please let me apologize for anything I could have done to make you mad." Get down on your knees and apologize.

The best way to know for sure and be sure without searching for signs or expecting anything is to sitdown together and talk to one another to see what one another wants if anything or if there is a chance of reconciliation - if not then you know now and can move forward.

• It is normal to still have feelings for your ex boyfriend because you were once in love and had some good times together and you are remembering the memories you had together. Breaking up is truly is hard to do and one person always gets hurt. It is much like grieving for a loved one that has passed away and in ways it is a passing away of a relationship so you have a right to your emotions. It hurts; you may cry yourself to sleep; feel depressed and wonder what will happen next, but, the hurt does go away and it helps if you get out with friends and have some fun and open yourself up to the idea of dating other young men. If your ex boyfriend is meant to be in your life he will be, but, if not, then destiny is freeing you up so that one day in the future you will meet the true love of your life when you least expect it.

• This is something I would rather not recommend, this would cause A LOT of drama with the two of you in the end regardless of anything that could go right to be honest. You should at least wait for him to break up with her NATURALLY (if the two even do).

Your love just doesn't stop because your girlfriend cheated on you and you are going to have to come to terms with it. Relationships are based on trust and loyalty and she has broken that very trust you expected from her. However, we are only mortals and can make mistakes and if she has realized she made a mistake and confessed to cheating on you then sit down and communicate and it would be worth giving her another chance. If you had to find out from someone else or you caught her then move on. She isn't worth it!

i moved away from my boyfriend to live abroad and we broke up because we found it hard to trust each other :(

It is very difficult to declare your desire to end your marriage without your spouse being very hurt and upset, but that doesn't mean you can't ask nicely. Ask your spouse to sit down with you with a mediator present and gently say that you feel that your marriage is not working out and that you feel divorce is the solution. From there, questions about legal arrangements, division of property, prenups, and custody of children (if any) or pets (if any) will arise. Keep your cool.

I don't think you should tell them. If they are in a relationship they are essentially taken. You could wait for this person to be free then there would be no problem but you could end up getting hurt and hurting the other people too. You should think this through before you come to any decision.

Be careful on that one give him some time. Eventually he will come back to you. You definitly don't want to seem pushy or needy. Make him need you not the other way around. I say a couple weeks after is ok and maybe just make up an exuse like o i meant to call ______ or some exuse like that. But i suggest let him come to you

Keep yourself occupied with hobbies, that's how you stop the crying but the hurt that is for you to decide you can decide anytime when to stop you have the power to move on and go forth in like there are plenty fish in the sea soon you'll find someone that will be just right for you

You will always have this to deal with. Don't feel like there is something wrong with you. It just means you were involved in an important step of your life. You can do somethings to keep it from depressing you, and temporarilly you'll be yourself again. But always leave a space for the longing for balance. It just means you are still looking for that joy or excitement. You're not finished yet. Seek out someone to occupy your time and the feeling will return.

It's never too soon to fall in love. It comes at you unexpectedly. You just cannot help it. You can't help when and who you fall in love with. Good love is hard to find according to a song. If you give up, most likely you'll find that special someone.

Of course, you have to go for it, but if you don't like the guy, then, let him down easy.

It can vary from guy to guy. But usually, to clingy is when a girl is always around, and never lets the guy leave to go do something else. And when the guy does go do something else, the girl always shows up or insists in coming with the guy.

If you really loved each other then one of you would make a move. There seems to be a lack of communication skills here and perhaps she feels you don't want to go back with her and you could be feeling the same way about her. Call her up and see what she thinks about giving it another go. Don't just continue on as you were before, but discuss your relationship and learn from the mistakes you made together. People aren't perfect and make mistakes. Communication skills are even more important than sex!

First you need to set aside some time for YOU.

Its going to hurt, you're going to cry, get mad, get depressed..yell..tear his pictures up..

go to your friends...let them comfort you and talk about it.

Move on..even if its just with life..move on..you will look back but if it wasn't meant to be than its not meant to be.