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Breakups
It takes two to make it work, but only one to break it up. This is the place to ask questions about the pain, healing, and possible solutions to relationship break-ups.
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Well,do exactly what he did and move on too! That is really hard. I would say, learn to do something new, like a new skill that you always wanted to do or go on a trip somewhere you've never been. It will give you back some more convidence to try something else and before you know it the pain will fade away!
How do you make your girlfriend give you space?
You give her space. She asked for it and if you truly love her, you would go with the flow. I believe every relationship goes through this stage. You should think back to whatever you could have done to make her mad. Then go apologize and be sincere. Buy her chocolates and flowers(her favorite.) Tell her "Baby, I know these gifts won't make up for what i did, but please let me apologize for anything I could have done to make you mad." Get down on your knees and apologize.
How can you tell if an ex wants to get back together or just wants to be friends?
The best way to know for sure and be sure without searching for signs or expecting anything is to sitdown together and talk to one another to see what one another wants if anything or if there is a chance of reconciliation - if not then you know now and can move forward.
What do you do if you still have feelings for your ex-boyfriend?
- It is normal to still have feelings for your ex boyfriend because you were once in love and had some good times together and you are remembering the memories you had together. Breaking up is truly is hard to do and one person always gets hurt. It is much like grieving for a loved one that has passed away and in ways it is a passing away of a relationship so you have a right to your emotions. It hurts; you may cry yourself to sleep; feel depressed and wonder what will happen next, but, the hurt does go away and it helps if you get out with friends and have some fun and open yourself up to the idea of dating other young men. If your ex boyfriend is meant to be in your life he will be, but, if not, then destiny is freeing you up so that one day in the future you will meet the true love of your life when you least expect it.
How do you get your crush to break up with his girlfriend?
- This is something I would rather not recommend, this would cause A LOT of drama with the two of you in the end regardless of anything that could go right to be honest. You should at least wait for him to break up with her NATURALLY (if the two even do).
How do you trust your girlfriend?
Your love just doesn't stop because your girlfriend cheated on you and you are going to have to come to terms with it. Relationships are based on trust and loyalty and she has broken that very trust you expected from her. However, we are only mortals and can make mistakes and if she has realized she made a mistake and confessed to cheating on you then sit down and communicate and it would be worth giving her another chance. If you had to find out from someone else or you caught her then move on. She isn't worth it!
Why has air travel become the primary mode for middle and long distance trips?
i moved away from my boyfriend to live abroad and we broke up because we found it hard to trust each other :(
How do you ask for a divorce nicely?
It is very difficult to declare your desire to end your marriage without your spouse being very hurt and upset, but that doesn't mean you can't ask nicely. Ask your spouse to sit down with you with a mediator present and gently say that you feel that your marriage is not working out and that you feel divorce is the solution. From there, questions about legal arrangements, division of property, prenups, and custody of children (if any) or pets (if any) will arise. Keep your cool.
Can you say i love you to a third person if you are already in a relationship?
I don't think you should tell them. If they are in a relationship they are essentially taken. You could wait for this person to be free then there would be no problem but you could end up getting hurt and hurting the other people too. You should think this through before you come to any decision.
If your boyfriend broke up with you should you still call him or let him call you?
Be careful on that one give him some time. Eventually he will come back to you. You definitly don't want to seem pushy or needy. Make him need you not the other way around. I say a couple weeks after is ok and maybe just make up an exuse like o i meant to call ______ or some exuse like that. But i suggest let him come to you
How can you stop crying over your ex boyfriend?
Keep yourself occupied with hobbies, that's how you stop the crying but the hurt that is for you to decide you can decide anytime when to stop you have the power to move on and go forth in like there are plenty fish in the sea soon you'll find someone that will be just right for you
You will always have this to deal with. Don't feel like there is something wrong with you. It just means you were involved in an important step of your life. You can do somethings to keep it from depressing you, and temporarilly you'll be yourself again. But always leave a space for the longing for balance. It just means you are still looking for that joy or excitement. You're not finished yet. Seek out someone to occupy your time and the feeling will return.
It's never too soon to fall in love. It comes at you unexpectedly. You just cannot help it. You can't help when and who you fall in love with. Good love is hard to find according to a song. If you give up, most likely you'll find that special someone.
What does it mean if an ex tells you she missed talking to you?
Of course, you have to go for it, but if you don't like the guy, then, let him down easy.
If you are a guy who answers this question how clingy is too clingy for you when with girlfriend?
It can vary from guy to guy. But usually, to clingy is when a girl is always around, and never lets the guy leave to go do something else. And when the guy does go do something else, the girl always shows up or insists in coming with the guy.
What should you do when a girl you love and you love breaks up with you How can you get her back?
If you really loved each other then one of you would make a move. There seems to be a lack of communication skills here and perhaps she feels you don't want to go back with her and you could be feeling the same way about her. Call her up and see what she thinks about giving it another go. Don't just continue on as you were before, but discuss your relationship and learn from the mistakes you made together. People aren't perfect and make mistakes. Communication skills are even more important than sex!
What should you do when you and your boyfriend break up for no reason?
First you need to set aside some time for YOU.
Its going to hurt, you're going to cry, get mad, get depressed..yell..tear his pictures up..
go to your friends...let them comfort you and talk about it.
Move on..even if its just with life..move on..you will look back but if it wasn't meant to be than its not meant to be.
If a guy flirts with you does that mean he likes you?
When a woman flirts with a man, it doesn't necessarily mean that she fancy's him. But, it does mean that she wants HIM to fancy HER. She may never act on flirtation but it makes her feel good about herself. The same is probably true for men.
How Do You Get Someone To Start Loving You Again?
- You can't make someone love you as much as it hurts. Sometimes couples breakup and there is still some love left that they can work on, but generally when two people breakup it is better to move forward. As sad as it is for you sometimes life is complicated and a mystery and send you down different roads in your life and why? Because there is that special person out there waiting for you, but you just haven't met yet.
Describe areas in your personal character that you would like to improve?
Not quick tempered vs. easily angered
Do you get angry at other drivers, your spouse or your children? Do others around you notice this anger displayed, or do you immediately control it? Are you frequently using a raised voice with your children?
Family man / woman
Do other people want a marriage like yours, and/or children like yours? Are your children a joy to be around? Are you confident that your kids will turn out well? Do your spouse and kids enjoy being around you?
Committed, sacrificed life
Are you determined to do what God wants, even if it seems like other paths seem easier or more fulfilling? Is God frequently on the back burner, while other things like school, work, or even recreation get most of the attention? Are you determined to follow God, even if no one else around you will?
Content vs. covetous
Do you tend to buy lots of things that you can't afford (i.e. on credit)? Are you happy with having things that are less than the best?
Diligent vs. lazy
Do you devote hours of time to entertainment and recreation while neglecting your studies, work, home, or relationship with God?
Eternally minded
Does the thought of heaven and eternity bring you hope? Is the fear of hardship or loss in this life overwhelming?
Man or woman of faith (vs. fearful)
Are you confident of your standing with God? Is your perception of your relationship with God based on your feelings, or on what the Bible says? Are you willing to step into roles that you feel ill equipped for? Do you use your gifts and talents when opportunities arise? How's your prayer life?
Faithful vs. unfaithful
Are you careful to fulfill your responsibilities with even the small things?
Forgiving
Do you have bad feelings towards people that have harmed you in the past? Are you bitter or do you have a grudge against anyone?
Gentle vs. violent or overbearing
Would people characterize you as being harsh or overbearing? Do you occasionally "let people have it" (verbally or physically) because they've "got it coming"?
- Giving, generous
Do you regularly give to the Lord and to those in need? Do you give with a cheerful heart? Are you a good tipper? Do you see money as something that needs to be carefully managed and controlled, or more like a tool that you can use to do good?
- Matthew 6:24-33; Luke 16:9-15; Romans 12:8; 2 Corinthians 8:7-9; 9:6-8; 1 Timothy 6:18
Honest vs. deceitful
Do you occasionally "bend the rules" for your own gain? Do you give people answers that are half-truths or that are "legally correct"?
Humble vs. proud
Are you constantly worried about what other people think of you? Is it important that your accomplishments are recognized? Can you gracefully accept correction or criticism? Do you act in ways that promote yourself instead of God or others?
Joyful
Do you grumble and complain a lot? Do you enjoy praising God?
Loving
Do you frequently think about what would be good or helpful for other people? Do you try to put yourself in other people's shoes? Do you make a conscious effort to tell or show others that you love them?
Obedient
Are you more concerned with discovering truth, than obeying the truth that you already know? If something is blatantly clear in the Bible, will you accept it even if it is a hard teaching? Are you known more for your actions, or your stances on different issues?
Patient and enduring
Are you willing to wait for God's timing, or do you try to speed it along? Have you struggled with questions for God that remain unresolved for years? Do you have a pattern of continually switching majors, jobs, or churches? Are you easily overwhelmed, tired, or discouraged to the point that you start dropping the ball in some of your high priority areas?
Self controlled vs. indulgent
Can you say "no" to yourself in areas of your life that you would like to change? Are there areas in your life that control you, rather than you controlling them?
- Will you refrain from doing things that are not wrong, but that might be hard for others? Do you think of ways to serve others and not do them because it is inconvenient for you?
Serving
Do you see it as a burden to serve others, or as a joy? Do you frequently serve in ways which provide no reward?
Sexually pure
Do you see the opposite sex as objects or people? Do you look at or listen to material that no one else knows about? When you have improper thoughts, do you feed them, or starve them?
Controlled speech vs. unrestrained in speech
Do you say things about people that you would never say if they were listening? Are the things that you talk about typically helpful or building for your hearers?
Teachable vs. unresponsive
Are you eager to learn from others and the Bible? Is it more important to you to be right, or to look right?
Unified with others vs. divisive
Are you supportive of the direction of your leaders? If you disagree with the direction a leader is going, do you tell the leader, or do you tell the followers
Upright, righteous
Are you more focused on what is honoring to God than on what you can get away with?
You want your ex to regret giving up on your relationship what can you do to make him regret it?
The best way to do this is harder than it sounds- move on. Truly move on. If you're still showing him attention, he/she can't miss it. If your ex isn't serious about patching things up and moving forward, he/she doesn't deserve the opportunity. Drop off the planet as far as he/she goes. Don't call, don't drive by, don't email, don't text, and don't show up to places he/she goes. Don't call their friends or family. Dissappear. If they happen to show up begging and crying at your doorstep, THEN and only then consider talking. However if you're vulnerable and have been through this with them before, don't re-enter the cycle. Do yourself a favor and find someone who shares your goals and wants to show you the attention you deserve.
Does someone out there love you?
yes there has to be someone out there just for u.don't give up hope.
MAKEUP: first cleanse your face with a facial wipe, wait for your face to dry, shape your eyebrows, apply a good moisturiser to keep your face soft, wait for the moisturiser to dry curl your eyelashes, apply a good coat of massacre, then use 5 drops of foundation similar to your skin tone (dab it on with your finger) onto your cheeks, under your eyes 3 dabs on your forehead, one on your nose and one on your chin put excess foundation on the back of your hand and rub all the foundation in. wait for it to dry then put a brown eyeshadow on lightly and with a brown eye pencil just between the ends of your eye where the cases of eyelashes meet apply a little flick or line between them then find a strong red lipstick and DAB it on till you get the colour you want on both lips then press your lips together to evenly spread the colour then add a little balm to make it easy to slide them together.
HAIR if you have pale skin curl or make your hair wavy if you have dark/tanned skin straighten your hair. if you have yellowy/olive skin flick your hair upside down and back.
CLOTHING
(casual) wear a fitted top that brings out your eyes and skinny jeans that hug your thighs, dark heels with no socks and a fitted coat that narrow at the hips
(Formal evening wear) same makeup and hair but wear a fitted dress that brings out your boobs, (if you are uncomfortable showing your legs then wear skin coloured tights), wear a small but pretty necklace, a nice bracelet and nice heels that don't cover your ankles.
also get a clutch bag that matches your dress and carry the lipstick, phone, money and keys.
hope this helped!
I was dumped by the girl I had planned on marrying. She left me for another guy but she told me that she wanted to remain friends. I absolutly refuse to talk to her even though I miss her like crazy so much that I cry sometimes. I am furious at what she did but that's out of my control. If you have dumped a guy but still HONESTLY want to remain friends, then step one would be to NOT see somebody else for at the very least a few months (not even coffee with some other guy). This may seem unreasonable but if you left him to be single then BE SINGLE. It will stop him from feeling like you traded him for someone else. The second step would be to give him time but to remain in contact with him. Write him a letter after a few weeks and ask him to write you one in return. Give him plenty of chance to get his feelings out. He will make you feel like a dick for dumping him but unfortunaly for you, he is 100% justified in feeling that way. In no way can anything he feels be labeled immature. Remember, you cut him, not the other way around. Let him get his verbal licks in (in the letter of course) and try to set up some sort of long-term, no physical contact line of communication. Don't reply frequent enough that you lead him on (bec he'll take even the slightest things you say as an indication that you want to get back together) but don't go too long in between letters that he feels "cast to the shadows". If you HONESTLY want to be friends you need to realize that you have just reset your relationship. You can't "step down" to friendship. You have gone to zero by dumping him and you need to build back up to a friendship. Now, if you have started seeing someone else then there is little chance he will ever talk to you again and I honestly can't blame him.
Most of the time is probably the wanna enjoy the single life or they are seeing someone new but don't wanna admit to it. And when try say they care about they mean it as my ex gf or friends only
