Breakups

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More than likely, it's your subconscious memory working itself out in your dream.

I feel if you have a problem like this, you should stand back a little and see how you really feel about the boyfriend and the other guy. Do a self evaluation to figure out what you really want and figure out how to get it. Then go for whatever you feel you really want and if the guy you wanted don't want you anymore, move on. But if the bf you broke up with has moved on, let him, he deserves to be told the truth if you want to be back with him, and also you need to evalutate the situation and decide if you really feel he deserved to be treated this way. The best way to figure that out, is to figure out how you'd feel if he broke up with you for somebody he liked and found out liked him also, and how would you feel if he tried to get you back because the girl he liked didn't like him anymore, so you were now second choice. Hope this helps and hope you don't take offense and think I am attacking you, I am not judging you, at all. ==

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At this time it is best to just take time for yourself and sort out your feelings as you obviously didn't like your past boyfriend enough to stay with him and the other guy broke you up as he wanted but doesn't want you - you need time to be single and sort out your feelings, its ok to be alone. Don't jump back into some or any relationship - its good to be independent and you may have to learn that.

My advice if you like that person and your boyfriend then yes this is a hard decision trust me I know. Just go for the one you like the most and if he says he don't like you does not mean he don't boys will deny it to the nail that they don't like you when they do they just don't want to tell you because there afraid that you might make fun of them.

P.s That the stone cold truth

P.s.s This is Candace,Kayla, Becca Giving this advice

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Well I would try to get back with your old boyfriend. But you still need to ask yourself, did u break up with your boyfriend because the other guy was cute, or you didn't really like your boyfriend. Hopefully I'm not offending you. Or you could go to the guy who used to like you and ask why he doesn't like you anymore. By the way you might want to apologize to your old bf because I'm sure he would be sad if his gf broke up with him for another guy who doesn't like her. Plus the person who gave u the advice before might be right. He could be lieing. Ask him again when you to are alone.

I know I sound like a magazine.

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Of course, you do not describe all the circumstances of "your love leaving forever", but you must decide to get over it. Yes, of course, this is about the "one and only!" You presume that among the millions of possibilities there is someone who was just meant for you. Get over it! There are thousand of possibilities. Successful relationships are based on "alikeness." Find someone whose lifestyle and values are similar to yours and I promise you that someone who thinks like you opens up the avenue to a contented life. You can read all about 'Lifestyles and Values' in "Marriages, Shack-ups and Other Disasters" listed below and find out what to look for in a relationship. I am certain that if you try hard enough, you'll find someone you can spend your life with.

there is no specific amount of years, you have to file a case if you want to do so.

Because they are always trolling for admirers. They can't believe no one would want to speak to them - they're perfect, right? LOL

He's testing you to see how far he can go. If you keep allowing this to happen you are going to lose all his respect (if you haven't already). How you handle this is totally up to you. If it were me, I would give him the shove off until he had proven that he wanted to be with me and not someone else. If he doesn't come to his senses and straighten up, well, you're better off without him. He's an inconsiderate oaf and you can certainly do much better.

I'm in the exact same situation except it's my ex-boyfriend. I don't think that there is a clearcut answer on this one, but I can tell you that I've been playing that guessing game now for 6 months and it does get old. My advice is to do what I just did and tell her that you love her, but are hurt by her mixed signals. Tell her you need an answer or you will have to abandon the friendship and move on. If she won't answer you then that means she just made her decision.

I completely believe that the relation ship is genuine and an ever lasting one. The reason for my belief is that they love and take care each other very well. More importantly, they understand each other very well which is very necessary for a successful married life.

I answered your other question too but "pretty sure" doesn't spell out TRUTH..Question:Why are you asking this question if you already know what to do(which is not to break-up with him)? The right thing to do in my opinion, assuming this is the truth, would be to break up with him. I personally wouldn't want be with someone who I can't trust. Because the relationship will not go far, it will end now or later and later will be worse then now..But if you don't want to break up with him than blantly put quit whining and learn to trust him. If he is speaking the truth you will be sorry.

• It sounds like your boyfriend has a big ego and he is use to having other girls be attracted to him and he enjoys the attention. He has no manners; is self absorbed and you should tell him bluntly how you feel about his attitude and do not mention that you are jealous. Just let him know you don't want the type of boyfriend who let's his ego get in the way.

  he might love someone else if he wants you to be jealous maybe you should breakup with him because he wants you jealous he might love someone else

• A good relationship is when you love each other; communicate together about any subject that is bothering you and feel comfortable doing it. Just come right out and nicely ask your boyfriend if he still talks to his ex. You are either going to have to trust him if he says 'no' or decide to move on from him if you suspect he is still talking to his ex. Remind him that 'ex' means that relationship is over and one generally moves on.
  

The answer to your question is Yes, the ring was given to the lady on her wedding day, this ring will always belong to her, unless of course she wants to give it back to her Ex she has the right to keep it.

You should consider it a break up and start dating other boys, or possibly take some time for yourself to do things you want to do without having a boyfriend or dating at all. You shouldn't snub him or quit talking to him, but you shouldn't go out of your way to see or talk to him. At work, you should talk to him when you need to for work purposes.

I'm afraid I don't know, since in order to answer that question I'd have to know about her behaviour towards you, your family circumstances and your recent family history. To be honest this is a rather personal question to be placed on WikiAnswers, since any reply given could be viewed by the entire WikiAnswers community. You are better off trying to find a family guidance counsellor in your area who might be able to help.

well, you start asking them questions, but not to many. that usually starts conversations. if that does not work then just start talking to them and hopefully they will talk back to you.

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* He thinks the world of you and respects you and loves your personality and the person you are, but he doesn't feel romantically attracted to you. You should always remain true to yourself and be the good person you obviously are until the right man comes along that sees all the good qualities in you and falls in love with you. It will happen!

he might just be trying to get in to the right way for him to be your boy friend that's what mine did then he just started out of the blue being every thing you would ever ask for now we have been together for like 2 months that or he just needs time dump him if it don't stop in 1 month thenhe just don't fell the same hopefully it's the first one not the second

I was in love with a sociopath and had a son with him. It has been 20 years since this relationship and it has profoundly changed my life. When we first met he was like nothing I had ever seen, he was passionate (I have since learned they are great lovers), he was everything that I wanted in a person. (able to mold into what they think we want) I thought he was the most sensitive man I had ever met because he could cry at a drop of a hat. We would talk for hours, he would cook and clean the house. Shortly after we started dating, he wrecked his car and moved in with me without my asking him. He just showed up with all of his belongings. (a sign of not being able to hold a job, unable to maintain relationships with is previous roommates, not understanding boundaries) Shortly thereafter I was evicted from my apt because he didn't care about playing the music too loud. (unable to follow rules) Our relationship was like a roller coaster, with extreme highs and lows. He was very controlling, manipulative, habitual liar, jealous and violent. He accused me of cheating with everyone, while he was the one cheating. (unable to have one relationship) I remember the first time I saw his jealousy. (very jealous) I was at the beach and saw someone I knew, he yanked my hair and pulled me into the car. He apologized and was very sweet and charming. (seems sincere in his apology but always repeats bad behavior) This was the beginning of a violent relationship. He could not hold a job and we ended up living in our car. He would not let me go to work, because he could not control me. He would even go on job interviews with me because he had to be with me at all times. (he would not let me out of his sight) I was very level headed and realized that I needed to get out of this relationship because it was not healthy, but not so fast. He was not about to let me leave him. I had restraining orders, I pressed charges, but he did not care. He purposely got me pregnant, thinking that I would not leave him. He was wrong, that gave me the strength to leave him. When he found another victim, he left me alone for a while, but not for long. I looked in my rearview mirror for years and many times he was following me. Before me and after me, he has a trail of victims starting from 15 years old. All of their stories are similar to mine. He will not change. Unfortunately, because we have a son together, he will always be a part of my life to some degree. He doesn't care about his child but uses that as an excuse to remain a part of my life. He is in jail now and it would be in everyone's best interest, including his future victims, if they never released him. But he always gets out, he is a master manipulator even convincing the criminal justice system that he is no threat - but trust me, he is and always will be.

1. explain your mistake to your bestfriend, and let them know you're truthfully sorry about going out with the girl.

Mainly because people change over time. Some people marry before they get to know their partner thoroughly and only later see what they perceive as faults.

It depends on the two people. Perhaps you just aren't right for each other. I went with my husband for 4 years before we got married and there wasn't a day we didn't think of each other and we could hardly wait for the weekends to come and have some fun in the sun. If you are bored, then this man is probably not for you. As time goes on, yes, the zing (fireworks) goes out of the relationship a little because we are then faced with reality setting in, but another stronger feeling and a different love should set in and as we even get older there is suppose to be a true, trusting and loving companionship to see you through until the end of your life. I am not saying it's all a bed of roses because it isn't. My husband and I have our arguements, etc., but we always make up. I have learned that if I don't make up, and he goes to work, that could be the last time I ever see him again alive. There are so many things that can happen to each of us and some cost us our lives. I wouldn't want harsh words to be the last thing he hears from me. Why don't you suggest a breather to your boyfriend. Go away with another girlfriend on a mini holiday and really think things out. Make a list of the good and bad things you do or don't like about him and you'll have your answer. Good luck Marcy

He isn't stopping you from moving on, YOU are the one stopping yourself from moving on. Unless someone you love can commit within reason then one does not hang around. If this guy loved you he'd want to be with you and he either isn't all that interested in you or he likes playing the field. I suggest you tell him to take a hike or at least start dating others again and see how he feels when he realizes he hasn't any control of you. You are in charge of your own destiny. Good luck Marcy This man knows how much you like him, but by doing this he gets to control you and keep you close. Break this tie, if he makes contact tell him you cant wait around forever and are therefore moving on, even if he says he wants to get back with you, tell him you need to move on, because he will keep on doing this. Don't communicate with him, until you can trust yourself and your emotions not to give in to him. This is not a healthy set up for you, and you need to make it clear that you wont wait like this, stop living in the hope of this relationship starting up again, its time to take your life in your own hands - you are in control. Simple. He wants to play games with you. He is not ready to be tied down but he is so selfish he is not ready to give you up either.My suggestion is to move on you are better than that. This guy doesn't want to be in a relationship..he wants to keep his options open. If you are looking for a relationship then he is not good for you..Move on to someone else you are interested in who is exciting. If you don't, he will come around when he wants, whenever he wants..and all you'd be doing is waiting for him..