Breakups

* It is highly possible he is telling the truth if the woman is older. Example: I keep in contact with young people because I have helped them with a problem and we became friends and nothing more. All have girlfriends. Sometimes people just joke back and forth. If he is hiding nothing then he should quelch your fears by letting you read one or two messages from this older woman.

Well it doesn't mean that you don't love your boyfriend anymore because you still hoping of staying with him for more, you only felt of having an uncomfortable feelings while of being with him that is why you are now in the situation of having triggered by a dilemma on where to put your self certainly, because every woman had the feeling of rights to always have their peace of mind, sexual, and emotional security in which is obviously you never felt with your boyfriend yet....

Maybe the next question you must have to ask is to ask of "What should I have to do Then?".....

I had the same problem... No matter what I told him i.e. leave me alone, I don't want anything to do with you, you're psycho, even ignoring him didn't work! So I had to finally change my phone number and it stopped. You could go to the police and bring him up on charges for harassment or you could get an "order of protection" against him. Depending on which state you live in, he would not be allowed to come within so many feet of you or contact you in any way. Then, if he continues, he could go to jail.

forget about him he is a loser and you will allways be wondering if he is looking for someone else, move on and find a decent caring man and tell this loser to hit the bricks

give it back.there is no point of keeping it

that's what i say too it will just make you sad by the memory of having it! Give it back!

unless u want to use it against them but that's just messed up

• 'Ex' means the relationship is over and your ex husband is free to have other relationships; live or get married to someone else and have children with them. It hurts especially for the spouse left behind who still loves their ex and the best way to get through this is to be honest with yourself by knowing that your ex has moved on in life and has a future and this should urge you to do the same thing. Start seeing friends; start dating. Fate often steps into your life in strange and often cruel ways such as divorce and although hard on you fate has decided this is not the person for you so you are free to go down a different road to find that special someone that you are sure to find in your future. It is common to feel hurt knowing your ex has a baby with someone else and you may feel you have no future of your own or that you will not find another love in your life, but you will.

The breach in friendship may not be serious as to prevent her from totally liking you. In tender moments with renewed, rekindled friendship or as one night stand she may want to sleep with you. Did someone say known devil is better than an unknown angel?

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They're twins and both played by the same person.

Take the chance, it's not the worst way to break trust.

Did you give him any reasons or signs to do suchh a thing? If so thenn give him a second chance, if not, then its not the worst thing in the world, but I would give him second chance.

When they see you can see trough their mask and question their behavior and don't say Amen to all they do....If you speak your mind and want to exchange ideas and thoughts and know what you want which maybe is not the same they want all the time...Being in a relationshio is giving and taking, 2 different individuals that respect each others taste,ideals etc....They cannot do it only at the Enticing phase,then they get tired of acting and the Real One shows up...and they get ashamed,angry and start withdrawing afection,sex and consntantly testing you.....is hell on Earth...They are the master of confusion...Then they blame you for everything they do and you are dismissed....

ADDITIONALLY:

If the N feels you have "injured" him in any manner, he will check out on you, it could be something as small as saying to him "you have no sense of humour" he will take this as a COMPLETE insult, a criticism, no matter if you were jokingly saying it or not. If you call him on his behavior/lies, he sees this as an injury as well and will consider you the "enemy" he will not interact with you if he now consider you to be the enemy.

Treat his perceived injury with a gang of apologies, compliments and whatever supply you can offer, lure him back and DUMP him, these type people are unreasonable, uncaring, irrational, out of touch with reality, they have ZERO emotions, get away, it's not easy but can be done or stay with him and "dance with the devil".

Additionally:

There is another way how N's end the relationship and leave you, namely when YOU are about the end the relationship with your N. When the narcissist feels or knows that you want to end the relationship he/she will take over and arrange his own leaving.

Many victims of narcissist partners arrive to a point in which they suddenly realize the sickness of their relationship or mariage. The narcissist is demasked. After the first shock the victim starts working on his own salvation. Of course this takes time however the narcissist feels that the source is slowly running dry. Narcissism is all about control so when he looses this control or when you even make a decision leaving him or her, they cannnot accept this abandonment. The fear of loosing the control over you as well as loosing their narcissictic supply source is unbearable for him. In the minds of narcissists it is unacceptable to even consider the possibility that YOU leave HIM/HER, instead of the other way around. They own you don't they, so how can it be?

The N will gain time which he needs for arranging his way out. He needs to find another source, to prepare for divorce, to talk bad about you behind your back in order to create the idea you're the one to blame etc. During that time the N will try one time more to not loose you but completely according narcissistic patterns he will do this by witholding attention and sex instead of giving you this elementairy aspects of a relationship. He thinks he can still play the same game but now you're aware and you don't mind too much anymore.

Then, when he/she has arranged everything he will leave you.

You need to direct this process which is not difficult once you have demasked your narcissist.

possibly...but probably not

It is the society and family reasons that are the main reason for love and relationship failures. Society and family reasons should be ignored if you are in true love.

You may be looking for reasons that just are not there - he just may not want a relationship and if you do you will try to find other reasons other than the fact you may not be compatible. It may be best to take time for yourself and move forward as this may not be what you need.

Hey good luck. Is it love or not? Are you used to being together. Well get rid of him, change your number ignore emails and get your parents involved to guard you from him. Also tell him your seeing someone else who treated you better

try it it worked on me

First it depends on why they no longer like you??

• If a man does not want to commit then it is worth the risk to break up. He will either miss being with you or he may well enjoy his freedom. In many cases the person who is afraid to commit finds that the grass on the other side of the fence is not always greener, meaning they no longer have you; they try to find what they are looking for and eventually realize it was there all the time right in front of them ... you! It is better to break up with someone who refuses to commit because there is no future for your relationship than waste your life hoping they will change their mind.

That would depend on how you feel towards one another now and the reason you broke up in the first place. If there were hard feelings it may be difficult to be friends but if it wasn't bad then there is always a chance of friendship - just don't push it or be overbearing. If you feel when you are around them it does not feel right just yet then don't do it.

Could you please give us more details as to what she does and what you consider to be a paranoid trait in her? We will answer your question. Thank you

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I would probably just send a Condolence card, and visit the grave privately at a later date, unless you have a mutual friend who KNOWS if you would be welcome at the funeral.

did you cry a lot when he broke up with you the first time? did you keep asking him

why? he still wants to leave you but he feels trapped and guilt-ridden. honestly it would be better for both of you if you let him go. don't be a jerk about it, don't try to hurt him. you've got to be the bigger person here or you'll have to go through being dumped by him again when he gets the courage or finds the motivation to bail. we (as guys) find it easier to stay in our old routines and make the best of it rather than face confrontation and difficult questions (like 'why?' no one wants to get into that. if it's more your fault he's trying to spare your feelings, if it's more his fault he's trying to keep his conscience clear.) until we can't hide how we really feel or we just stop caring. you'd be much better just ending it on your own terms. that way you can keep your dignity and you both get out of an inevitably doomed relationship.

unless he cheated on you (or lied, or stole from you, or treated you like crap, or like you weren't there), then you shouldn't even be considering taking him back. i hope this helps in some way.

Don't go back to him, no matter what he says, you need to write down your feelings in a place where you can access them, so that everytime he tries to charm you, you can rememeber the way he makes you feel!!! Start a new exercise plan or a diet, focus on education or your job, make an effort to not be anywhere he can contact you. It will get better, you just need to cut him off so he can't hurt you anymore. Music!MUSIC, MUSIC!!Listen to a lot of music and CRY...give yourself time..it may take years to get over this guy but you have to try and move on..It's a choice really- it's your choice, if your want to move on and be happy then you let him go.If you don't let him go then you choose to be miserable. (I'd say pick the first choice and move on) Ask yourself this question: Would he be someone I will still think about and cry over in TEN years? Answer this question sincerely..If the answer is no then you know this hurt and misery isn't worth it..Live the life you want, choose to be happy. You can be HappY-remember that--... ...Do you think he thinks about you and cries over you as much as you do over him???.....Move on.. Believe me the last post has no clue in the length it takes to get over a person. Good god, if you get this trash outa your life and have absolutley no contact, you will feel amazed at how good you feel. It will most likely take 6months to one year to get over him. The first three months are agony and painfull, then 4-8 you start to have nostalgia but it dont hurt as much, thereafeter the pain is almost entriely gone. You can get over it quicker though than that if you just feel the intense emotions, accept them, avoid him like the plague and write alot in a diary. Its not love, its addiction. You feel you need his approval or some level. You must relaise that only your opinion of you is what matters. Start making you feel good.

If he's there because you have children, then he's there to see them and perhaps see that you are OK. If he talks about his new girlfriend and seems to be in love with her then it's best to move on with your life. I am sure you know only too well that many people that are addicted to drugs will often revert back a couple of times before hopefully kicking the habit. You sure don't want to go through all that again as life is hard enough as it is. If you don't have children and he's over there JUST TO VISIT and nothing else, then perhaps he's still in love with you. Ask him right out how he feels about you and if he's truly happy with his new girlfriend. I know the future seems bleak to you at this point and you are probably thinking it's not fair that he had the problem, but he's the one with a new girlfriend and you have no one. Good things are worth waiting for and there is that special someone out there for you. Good luck hon Marcy I would keep walking. Addicts notoriously claim and sometimes do get clean but often only for a year or two. They often find it easier to go back to drugs. Its a lazy way for enjoying life as a coward. I would run. He put you through hell once, he will do it again, willingly. Be glad for him hes clean but i would put some emotional distance there.