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It takes two to make it work, but only one to break it up. This is the place to ask questions about the pain, healing, and possible solutions to relationship break-ups.

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What does it mean when a narcissist ex doesn't treat you like a girlfriend and never says he loves you but says he just can't be in a relationship with you because of different reasons?

If he is your ex then what exactly do you expect from him. Why not move on with your life now that you have freed yourself of the narcissist and move on with your life in a healthy positive way. Sounds like him mind games worked if you want to keep going back for more. Get a back bone and break away from him. You deserve much better and there are many a good man out there. You just have to know where to look.

My boss whom I dated I now find out he is a narrcissist and won't leave me alone I made it very clear to never contact me but still does what do I do?

You're not alone. Unfortunately he is your boss and when you started having a relationship with him, it sounds like he carried it over into the relationship? Which is wrong. Relationships are about mutual respect - no wonder you wanted out.

You've wounded his "narcissistic ego". This - my friend - is not your problem. Have you spoken to him about how he's making you feel? I do know that that can make them worst and if this becomes, or is the case, maybe you should report him to the police. You need to build up your self esteem, and although he may be trying to crush it, this too is his problem, he cannot take away your rights to your privacy and YOUR life. Have you tried praying to God to help you? If so, here's a little answer to that prayer, have faith in you, and not what you feel a man can give you, they often dissapoint and you are no exception to the rule.

I hope that this man can stop bothering you, most importantly, i hope you can not let him bother you, whatever the outcome may be! (Maybe you should give up your job)?

Remember... he's the one who's got problems.

Be safe in yourself. And be good to your spirit, soul and being

Love

What happens if you get braces and you think your boyfriend will breakup with you?

If he does break up with you he isn't worth it. He didn't really like you anyway. He just wanted to get some. But to get him back you can bite him and make sure the braces cut.

What does it mean when a guy hooks up with an ex-girlfriend?

The words 'hook up' mean there is a relationship going on between the man and his ex girlfriend. However, this may not be the case at all and they may have remained friends or bumped into each other and there is nothing else going on.

What should you do if your girlfriend's roommate keeps walking around the apartment in her underwear or less?

Look but do not touch. Always make sure your gf is in the apartment with you. if you arrive early for a date and your gf is not there, do not wait for her with the half-naked roommate. You will be the one in trouble even if you have not done anything.

How do you break up with a boyfriend that threatens you take revenge on you if you leave him and i'am scare to leave because i think he will beat me up if he sees me on the street or take revenge?

(coming from a guy)if u dont really see him just text him and dont confront him he may try to intimidate or harm you.Definelty stay with friends when ur around him and dont be with him alone until u fully trust that he wont harm you or try to talk to him about working things out between you 2

If my boyfriend bought me a present and he wants it back do i have to give it back?

no,because he gave it to you,so it's yours to do with what you want to.

although,if he threatens to dump you if you don't,you might wanna.

How do you deal with ex boyfriend who happens to be your boss?

ide say try to stay on a positive relationship status with him. try too look past the fact that he was your ex. if he ever holds anyhting against you because your his EX then he pretty much can get fired because of that.but vise versa toward syou as well

What do you do if you are fighting with an ex-boyfriend you just broke up with?

Well just think what's really the point, we broke up for a reason there's no need for unnecessary fighting. I would just talk to him and say could we be mature about this and if not then I'm done. Fighting with anybody can always be worked out in a more mature and easier way. Just keep your cool even if he loses his so you can be the bigger person. And good luck;)

Can flirting cause a couple to breakup?

definatley. if ur boyfriend or girlfriend is flirting with someone else, they will get jealous and end it.

Why would a guy break up after he proposed?

There could be one of many reasons such as he is scared, not ready for such a commitment, changed his mind, taking some time to think - but he is the only one who knows for sure why he has done this. Give him some time and space, don't pressure or pester him concerning this, allow him to come to you when he is ready as he may just need some thinking time - this is a big step for a man allow them breathing room.

Your ex boyfriend is in a new relationship as are you He moved out on you If he meets you out on a night out you have about 10 missed calls on your phone from him When you call him back he has nothing?

Ignore this behaviour and his contact. You need to do this as you both have moved on and respectfully your new partner would not appreciate you being or trying to be in contact with your ex. It seems he has made his choice clear and just playing games - don't fall for such behaviour. Let go and move on.

She or he rejected you what do you do?

AnswerRejection is unfortunately always going to be a part of or lives and it is best to learn how to deal with it. You just keep your head up and move forward. You are going to meet many people throughout your that you just are not going to get along with and vice versa - its not a big deal its not always rejection it is just that you are not compatible - so you move on and don't let it bother you. I realize it may sound easier said then done but you cannot let one person bother you when there are so many more out there to discover, it really is their loss in the end if they pass you up. AnswerRejection is confusing and hurtful. I recently rejected someone I care about. Try to understand that rejection sometimes has nothing to do with the person being rejected and a lot to do with the person doing the rejection. If you love the person who has rejected you give them time, understanding and love. Time does heal all things. AnswerRejection or rejecting are both difficult I think. Like the previous poster, keep in mind, it might have little to do with you and a lot to do with the person rejecting. If you really care about the person, try hard to understand where they are coming from and try to move on. It's never easy to let go when you're disappointed about something you really hoped would work out, but there are SO MANY people out there. Keep trying.

Likewise, I'll just add if he / she was a first try for you and said no... Try your very best to thank them for their honesty up front. That's still a nice quality. Finally, knowing that rejection is the worst outcome... Just know that a certain number of people would accept you. Once you know the bottom and can rebound from it... It makes moving forward easier and makes you less afraid of taking the same chance again later. Given the law of averages, if you keep trying... Eventually someone will work out for you. Good luck. We've all been there.

AnswerIt sounds as though he is not sure at this time what he wants but also does not want to hurt you. It would be in your best interest to not wait around for what may never happen - let him be and move on.

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what you do is keep your head up because it just means that god doesnt want you to be with that person and that you are to beautiful or handsome and that guy or girl will wish in a cople or years that they should of gone out with you when they had the chance. so don't let it get to you keep you head up and keep trying becase a person like that doesent deserve you.

Why do ex wives get jealous of their ex husbands new relationships?

So what else is new? A divorce has its aftermath. You will ask yourself for a long time if you did the right thing divorcing your Ex. You will feel alone while your ex-husband has a new partner. You fell abandoned while you suspect that he is living the life of total contentment. Let me suggest that you get yourself out into the world and find new companionship. There are many organizations that offer you not only new views but also male participants. Still, more than anything, I will recommend that you find out what went wrong with you ex-relationship - in most cases both partners are equally guilty - and do not make the same mistakes twice. To that purpose I will recommend that you read about 'The Great Fallacies' in "Marriages, Shack-ups and Other Disasters", see website below - and learn about how relationships work.

How does it feel being rejected by a girl you love so much?

You will feel like the whole world is coming down on you and immediately go into psychotic spasms with major crying bouts. After that, you try to pick up all the broken pieces of your shattered heart by indulging in any addicting activity like excessive gaming aor visting porn sites to achieve orgasm. Just anything you can to relieve the emotional pain within.

After a while, the pain will eventually subside as life has to go on and there will be even more work related commitments and responsibilities on the plate. The reason I felt all quite distressed because I really, really thought about that certain someone almost everytime and got too attached with her.. As the saying goes, the higher you go, the harder you fall.

I really regretted confessing with her as I didnt expect the response to be that disappointing and even worse, after that she started to avoid me. I got too depressed until I am on antidepressants now (Lexapro) and seeing both a Psychologist and a Psychiatrist.

But at least I will never be able to see that certain someone again so I guess it was for the better. Anyway, life has to go on for me and I have my dreams to pursue in my Academic Career. Hopefully time can really heal all wounds even emotional ones.

Why would your girlfriend break up with you even though she still loves you and doesn't want to risk losing what you have and she was in a relationship for 8 years before you and is she confused?

I think the key to this problem lies with the previous 8 year relationship. There most definitely had to be some hurt there, so take it slow and easy and try to get her to talk about it. Some women/men are so badly hurt that no matter how well the new relationship is going they fear that it will only end up in disaster. Phone her up and go somewhere where you can talk privately. Don't corner her, and let her know you are there for her 100%. Yes she is confused and terrified that this relationship won't work either. Her self confidence and trust levels are very low right now and with luck you can help her build them up. Good luck Marcy

Is your relationship over if your boyfriend hasn't come back after three months?

if he broke up with you, i would say its over. do u ever see him? if u dumped him, and ONLY if you dumped him, give him a call if hes worth it and ask him out for coffee

AnswerIf he hasn't come back after 3 months, I'd say yes, it's over. If it's not over (if he comes back) you should make sure to end it. The question is not really whether or not it's over. THat shouldn't be up to him. The question is whether or not the relationship is worth it. If he hasn't come back or called, etc, you should move on. If he does come back, then tell him he's too late. Any self-respecting and truly beautiful woman would.

If your girlfriend of two years broke up with you last month and you haven't talked since why would she come into your place of work with her best fried and again with her new boyfriend?

It appears she is flaunting this guy in your face and the question is "why?" I think she's either very angry at you and wants "pay back" or she still cares for you. The next time she does this walk right up to them, smile and shake the guys hand and introduce yourself only by your first name and say nothing about being her ex boyfriend ... then walk away! That will get her wheels spinning!

What if you broke up with your partner and moved on to a new person but then after a year with the new relationship you realized your still in love with your ex?

Well like my mom once told me once you think your in love with someone there will always be a part of you thatbgy still loves them. At least thats what i think.

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