Breakups

I would talk to your boyfriend and try to make the relationship work because you don't want to make any regrets.

(This is a different person.) In my expreience yes. My boyfriend not only kissed another girl (My ex best friend) and also slept with her. Then when saying he was over he 'accidently' sent me flirty text messages ment for her.

It depends how good your boyfriend has been with you.

You never know what the right choice is before you make one. You have to think about yourself, but also how you could arrange that with others. You should never leave someone if they are ill, or need help. The least you can do is to ask someone else to do that for you. If you promise someone something, you have to at least haave a true, really good excuse. If you fail a friend on something important, you might never be able to make up for it. If you make the wrong choice, you might never be able to make it up...

i would say that it would be primarily the responsibility of the bride, but hopefully, the groom will offer to cover the expense. why did the groom call off the wedding? that makes the biggest difference in the answer. did he fall in love with someone else? did the bride cheat on him? all these reasons are something to look at. Since the bride asked her friends and family to be bridesmaids, i would think the right thing to do would be to pay for the dresses, to cover the expense, and hopefully the bride and groom can work out the financial issue together privately.

Moving to another country can be a great experience. If he wants to go, let him. And think about going as well, if he is open to it. If not, you'll get to look forward to visiting him. The only real issue is if he doesn't plan to ever come back. Then you should evaluate whether the relationship should continue.

Show him you can play the game better than he can. Dress up a little, etc, & flirt with him like you would if he was your crush or something. Leave him wanting you. Show off your talents & leave him thinking about you late at night, basically just try & stand out.give him a reason to only want to be around you.

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It is his choice that he is cheating on you with your best friend. He might not find you interesting enough for that. He might be bored of you that is why he might be cheating.

It may be because somethings that you are doing reminds him of her. And it could also be that he has recently been interacting with her. It may be an indication of some attraction towards his ex, but it does not mean that he wants to be with her. For example, I had been dating this girl for 2 years but we broke up about a year ago. In my current relationship, we have been dating for a year and now and i did not start talking about my ex until she started doing things that reminded me of my ex. It was just smalls things that she did. It did not make it acceptable but i did start to mention my ex a lot because of my current girlfriends actions. What you should do is ask him yourself, why he abruptly started talking about his ex, when he hadn't before? If him discussing his ex girlfriend makes you uncomfortable you should share it with him. He might not know that it makes you uncomfortable. But he could also be talking with her again, but that is not always the case. So the best advice is to ask him why he does it.

The custody would be split, generally, between the parents. Usually the child's major home would be with the mother with adequate time with the father. However, if the father is exceptionally bad, such as a known convict, spent jail time, known to not hold down a job, drugs, etc, there would be less custody for him. Same with the mother, and if she is any of those things, the father would have the majority of the custody.

If the two parents can not compromise on custody issues, then it is advisable they seek a court ruling.

The very first thing that comes to mind is that something has come about to threaten the stability of his marriage. Most guys that are unfaithful may not care for their wives but still wish to maintain their marriage. Guys, in general, tend to dislike change and a divorce can be one of the biggest, most devastating changes there is in our society atm. They may even still care for, or even love, their wives regardless how they feel, or SAY they feel about a mistress.

Long to short, stay away from married guys, they are trouble from the get go and will never be a stable relationship and rarely is there a future with one.

'Do it with me, do it to me' may be a cliche, but then cliches are usually the oft spoken truth!

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Because he is being careful so his wife wouldn't find out. He is a bit smart for stopping his affair with you, if he didn't things in his life will turn in a messy situation. Now what you can do is forget what the two of you had together. It doesn't matter if he said he cares for you, you will be that part time person to him nothing else. Change your life and move on

• A coward would just stop seeing the girl; not contacting her; ignoring her if he sees her. A real man would be honest and face his girlfriend and break up. It's not easy to do, but a man should be a man and not take the path of coward or he will do so throughout many other areas of his life.
  

Sometimes when two people break up one of them secretly wishes they didn't and they might want you back. But this is not always the case.

Well it all depends on how hard the break up was really. If you are a strong person I would say, about 3 months. Right after a break up you may feel like you never want to date again, or you might want to date the next person you see. Never the less, I think it is better if you wait a while. Oh and if it wasn't a really harsh break up you can probably start dating in about 2-3 weeks. But I wouldn't recommened it. It can make you seem a little desperate.

Because he cannot face up to his own character defects and the things that he did to contribute to the marriage ending. He has to continue to blame you and punish you as part of his strategy for not taking a good, hard, honest look at himself.

The best thing to do is to try and be his friend, get to know him and let him get to know you. But be careful not to get stuck in the "friend zone". The best thing to do is be yourself and make him laugh. Be his friend. If he really isn't interested, it would probably be best to let it lie. Don't pursue it if it won't happen. Good luck!

Coming from a girls point of view...she broke up with you because she was not interested, and now she either can't find anyone else, or is giving you a another chance. But make her work for it.

CHEATING!!! ALWAYS IS. CHEATING!!! ALWAYS IS. it means you dont trust him and you feel insecure about your relationship. if he is the player type then you should be cautious about your relationship. in time if you still dream about this then confront your boyfriend or talk to one of his friends.noone knows a guy better than one of his best friends.

Almost immediately. Many abusers are narcissists and crave narcissistic supply.

Very quickly! Sometimes before he ends his relationship with you. This way, he can toss you aside and his new source of narcissistic supply is ready and waiting.

The "N" in my life had several relationships going at the same time, including the "special" one w/ me. This was revealed only after I finally removed myself permanently from the abusive situation. This way the "N" could ensure his constant supply, making sure he wouldn't be without at any given time should the "other players" unknowingly involved in his game choose to opt-out.

Immediately - If Not Sooner!!! I begged my abuser to find someone else - knowing that historically he never left one without having another one ready. He started looking for his next VICTIM before I broke up with him. I left him over 3 months ago and I can tell that he is floundering and desperate for supply. He is still trying to control, abuse and intimidate me from afar. He's a monster!!!

Don't be surprised when you find out he didn't 'wait' at all. My experience is that the abuser has plenty of fish on the hook.

My abusive ex was in another relationship within weeks of our formal separation and I was shocked when I found out. He made it sound like he had been with her for years and all of a sudden I didn't count for anything. He changed his phone number and put a restraint order on me filled with lies. His intentions were to discredit my reputation in his retalition from my rejection. Everything in the restraint order about me were dirty lies and in reality he was doing those things to me. I didn't follow the advice of my family and friends when they suggested that i file a stay away order on him because he might do something bad to me. Whats more he lied to the police and told them i was 100 feet away from him, and i was lucky that i was able to convince the police that i was innocent and that he was a liar. Otherwise i would have went to jail for 3 months. He had been calling my mother for months and finally after 8 months we spoke on the phone. He left me about a dozen messages, crying and pleading with I love you and want you back so bad. After all those messages he called the next day and and said he didn't love me but that he loved the other lady and did I want to hear them making love. He literally changed his mind over night about me. I could never do that to anybody the way he did me.i just couldn't believe he could be so cruel after all those years of love and loyalty i gave to him.

Some abuser take years to get over a relationship depends how the perosn values himself

Depends on the person. Some cant let go and are obcessed. Some move on quickly. If he or she see there is some potential left to control you, they will come back. Once they see that you are not going to be controlled they will move on. They love a challange, but not too much, they want a person that resists their control but in the end will eventually allow them the control. If the victim refuses all control and contact they will move on. But actually my ex husabnd will still harass me and its been two years...since i kicked his sorry..$%%$ out....he said he has a girlfriend...he may be bored with her and or he had an easier time controlling me so hes living in the past of when he had me under his thumb. Some of these types do expereince regret of losing someone but usually its related to the fact that they are having a harder time finding a more passive victim.

From my experience, very soon. In fact, he took up a relationship with a girl he had cheated on me with a few days after I left. It was mostly to try to get a rise out of me, so I ignored it. He was abusing her when she was a friend while we were dating, so it wasn't at all a surprise. He won her pity by playing the victim. Typical.

The narcissist i was with probably never ended anything. She kept it going with others in various ways and had a stash of douchebags ready to go if the need arouse. id say the moment your narcissist thought it was time to dump you or sooner.

It is really hard to figure out if your ex still has feelings for you, but you should not make them think you are wondering if he still has feelings for you. You should also try your best to remain friends because it is really stupid when you end a friendship or relationship and then completely forget about each other.

am glad you say 'like' and not 'love' two girls.

Tell you what, of the two, there has to be one outstanding. If you would like to have something with the 'outstanding' girl, then reach for her, but its not advisable to have two girls at the same time. At least, leave one for the other guy. . . .Lol

If she is not interested at this point, the best thing for you to do is to move on. That is because it takes two people to make a relationship. Also, it is a bad idea for you to do whatever you have to if it involves not being yourself or attempting to buy love. Just is not going to bring the results that you want. There are plenty of fish in the sea.

this may seem kinda nuts, but i would text him...or ask one of ur friends too. i dont think cheating helps one bit, honestly it makes him hate ya more. its hard what to do like this. just straight tell him or on the phone...

A married woman can't have a boyfriend - it is their husband. However if they are having a secret relationship with another man then I don't think there's a word for it, but she would be having an affair.