Breakups

Guys break up with girls and still want to be friends because of two main reasons: Either they really enjoyed your relationship before you began dating, and they would like to continue that; or they want to keep you around in case things change. I believe the first reason is the most common.

Breaking up is not the end of the world. You should be glad that they still want you in their life. Embrace it, and enjoy it.

i think u should, for u to be even askin this question it self means u are interested and for a fact the worse is already over so now it can only turn good or better Depends on why you are divorced My brother and his ex still live together

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Some places do require, due to his residency in your place, that you legally evict him; you'll have to talk to a lawyer about the laws where you live. In some places you may be considered to have a landlord/tenant arrangement. A lawyer with experience in landlord/tenant laws can help you decide what is the best way to handle this situation.

If your ex is on the lease with you or you don't own the place, it may save you a lot of time and hassle if you save up and move out of the residence yourself and simply leave your ex to hold the bag.

Regardless, prepare for a lot of tension; avoid any arguments and if you have your own bedroom, be sure to install a new lock on it that only you can open. Keep in mind it's better to deal with the stress of getting rid of him now, rather than to keep living with him (and making it that much harder to legally kick him out later on).

Is yours the only name on the lease or mortgage? Ask him, firmly and without argument, to move out and give him a specific deadline to do this (usually a month's notice at least); make it clear that if he does not move out by them you will begin legal proceedings to evict him. Ask a lawyer if you can have a document drafted up (for your ex to sign) that states he acknowledges that he must move out within a specific time or expect eviction. If he doesn't, legally evict him.

If possible, ask a friend or family member to stay at your home until your ex moves out, so that he is less likely to steal or damage your possessions when you're out of the home. If at any time he becomes violent or makes threats of violence, contact the police.

**The following is not the legal way to do it, but rent a storage unit for him for a month, put all of his stuff in it, and let him know where all his stuff is. Make sure to change all the locks to your residence beforehand and do not allow him back into your residence. Keep in mind that your boyfriend can file a legal complaint against you for doing this, should he choose to do so. Your best hope is that he will be busy finding other living arrangements and not make a legal fuss.

In the future, have anyone moving in (boyfriend or not) sign a roommate agreement that spells out each tenant's expectations in terms of paying rent, phone and utility bills. It should also state how you will divide household chores. This is for your protection, should you feel the need to evict someone from your place.

Be upfront become their friend let them know they can trust you and rhen just ask. PPL CAN LOVE EACH OTHER THEIR WHOLE LIVES. HE MAY STILL LOVE YOU. BUT HE MAY BE 'IN LOVE' WITH HIS GF. 3YRS LEADS TO CLOSENESS AND CARING(WHICH CAN LAST A LIFETIME) BUT HE HAS A GF TRY NOT TO HURT HER SHES DONE MOTHING WRONG. EVEN BY TALKING TO HIM U COULD RUIN THEIR RELATIONSHIP BE CAREFUL. HE MAY NOT WANT TO TAKE THE RISK CAN U HANDLE BEING TOLD HE LOVES YOU BUT NOT IN THE WAY HE LOVES HER NOW? CAN U REALLY COPE WITH HEARING THE WORDS "I LOVE HER AND DONT WANT YOU?" IF NOT STAY THE HELL AWAY

Answer If you want to find your answer, go to the Government Page of your State and type in statistics on divorce and hopefully you will find your answer as we don't know what state you are in and we don't have the time to check this out for you.

Being in love is a feeling that is indescribable. You will not know when will it come, but you can recognize it when you are in love. If you cannot find a reason why you want to be with him/her, why you cannot live your life without him/her, then definitely you are in love. Another thing, if people of the world hates or doesn't like him/her and you are the only person who's standing next to him/her without knowing the reason why, then you are in love. you are truly in love when he/she commits sin unto you but then you did not understand yourself why you keep on forgiving him/her, when he/she keeps on hurting you but then you still wants to be with him/her then you are truly in love. Being truly in love involves sacrifices and understandings.

• You have to take a long walk and think about why you broke up with him. If he was disrespectful to you; perhaps cheating on you or you argued too much then these are reasons a relationship won't work. If you can find no reason then you may have made a mistake. If you think you did then communication is the key and you could phone him and ask if he would meet you somewhere and tell him you made a mistake and you are sorry. If you don't feel comfortable with him then keep moving forward in your life.
  

O_O uh well first of all, let yourself know that it's an impossible love lol and look for other ppl that don't happen to be your teachers haha. If it's love as in just a caring innocent love for them, then it's okay to love your teacher lol.

Regaining trust does not occur overnight. It takes time and support from the person you want to trust again. That person needs to show you an honest change. If you both love each other you can work through you mistrusting moments. This will only happen through lots of good honest talking and communicating you true feelings. It's good to show emotions. Be patient with yourself and the person you want to regain trust. Pray often.

This is one of those questions like 'how long is a piece of sting?' There is no definite answer. Take as long as you need but don't let it become a habit. Good answer. Take as long as you need but not habit forming. Its best to get him/her right outa your system. That means basically avoiding/limiting contact. In the long run you will thank yourself. Cry when you need to and you will notice its not as intense. Then will come the day where you will be glad you allowed yourself to feel it fully as then you feel ready to fully enjoy life again. I have heard 1/2 as long as the relationship. I think this is semi-true. But I would say more than a month and less than two years is a good range. Not so long that it becomes a habit but long enough to complete the grieving process. Don't push it but strive to make some progress toward putting you life back together every day.

It depends on how friendly the breakup was, and why you want to call him/ her. If you're calling because you want to get back together, if he or she is with somebody else do you think you'd be OK to hear that?

Then again, my girlfriend of 2 years broke up with me once, and then 6 months later came over and said she wanted me back. It was difficult because I was sort of taken at the time. She took it really badly actually. After a couple of weeks though, I realised that I was always happier with her than anybody after her, and took her back.

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I think you are being very unfair to your current girlfriend. I think you enjoy the attention of both this young women. Time to take a brain cell count!

First off, you have to decide why you left your first girlfriend. If it was just a mild argument perhaps you were in too much of a rush to date someone else. If your ex was abusive, unfaithful, then you really don't want to go back to her. You know the reasons why you and your ex parted, so it's up to you to make up your own mind.

Some men often love a woman that is mysterious, flirts with other men, is super attractive (classified as a 10) and falls in love physically. They like the "show piece" on their arm when they are seen by their friends. Some men find this exciting, but actually it's rather twisted. A woman that could/would do these things to their boyfriend or husband is not a woman to be trusted and could make the man's life a living hell.

Sounds like your future girlfriend is a great gal, so I would tread very carefully. If you are seeing your ex (from the sound of your message I believe you are) then you have to make up your mind fast and be honest with your future girlfriend and let her get on with finding a suitable boyfriend for herself. Time to come off your ivory tower and start thinking about other people's feelings.

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i think your a very selfish human being. you don't care about your current partner if you need to write in like this. you just care about yourself, and you are very cold to other peoples feelings. you are dragging this person along and they don't deserve it. are they just being used as rebound? take a good look at yourself mate. your abusing this current person, and their life. i don't know what happened to your ex and you and the reasons, the true reasons you two separated, but you need to look at this. WAKE UP. MAKE UP YOUR MIND AND STOP USING OTHERS PEOPLES LIVES AS A TOY AND ...DECIDE. give this new person the decency move on. SELFISH.

oh god i have the same thing too. i love him and yet i hate him .its ok. you guys are prob meant to be together. or you guys might break up . who knows.

1) listen to your heart

2) listen to your mind

and you'll be fine

I've had the time of my life - from the film, 'Dirty Dancing'.

Avril lavigne - So much for my happy ending. < That's about a boyfriend though.

The Script - The man who can't be moved.

Avril Lavigne - When you're gone.

McFly - Lonely.

McFly - Bubblewrap.

If you truly love them... maybe you can't? If you don't love them anymore and you just want to get out of the relationship then you need to just get it over with.. If you don't want to love them anymore because they're not worth it or they're not good for you then you should just get it over with also, in person. And then drop ALL contact with them and don't talk at all for AT LEAST a year. But if you truly love them.. maybe it's not time to move on. it's just a thought. Good luck!

You are most likely in danger if the person you are leaving has anger issues, has pushed you around, verbally abused you, has tried to control you and so on. If you notice the person waiting outside your home or work, or otherwise stalking you, seek advice and help. If it does appear that someone is following you, drive to a well-lighted, populated place ( a police station is good!) until you know they are not near.

You should show your ex the real you and make him fall in love with you all over again. Don't purposely demolish the relationship since that will make you look like a looser. The point is to make him see that you are better then her. Good luck! :-)

tell him how much you love him but then tell him about his bestfriend, see what he thinks then ask for a threesome. Then when they are ready, ask them to take turns peeing in your butt.

well at first in there head they r so sad then dont know

It's easier to strike up a conversation with someone if you can find something in common with them or talk about an interest of theirs. If you share a class, you could talk about that. If there's a particular girl in mind, you could talk to her about some of her hobbies or interests. Breaking the ice is the most difficult step. After that, it gets easier to talk to someone. And don't think girls are too intimidating; most of us enjoy a nice conversation, even if it never leads to anything. Good luck.

I am a guy and if he doesn't have feelings for you, and he has feelings for somebody else, then he will be obsessed with the other girl and always flirting with her. Guys can be naturally flirty with every female thing that moves, I have been know for that myself, if you flirt back because you really like him, you just need to wait for a reaction! if he does it again don't react, see if he wants you to react! Men like girls who aren't frigid, really afraid of flirting etc, so if you arent frigid then that would give you more of a chance! Also you should ask him who, if you are at school, everyone in the year fancies, when he gets to him, of he smiles or is hesitant, you're in with a chance!! , good luck... Xx