Breakups

Sometimes when two people break up one of them secretly wishes they didn't and they might want you back. But this is not always the case.

Well it all depends on how hard the break up was really. If you are a strong person I would say, about 3 months. Right after a break up you may feel like you never want to date again, or you might want to date the next person you see. Never the less, I think it is better if you wait a while. Oh and if it wasn't a really harsh break up you can probably start dating in about 2-3 weeks. But I wouldn't recommened it. It can make you seem a little desperate.

Because he cannot face up to his own character defects and the things that he did to contribute to the marriage ending. He has to continue to blame you and punish you as part of his strategy for not taking a good, hard, honest look at himself.

The best thing to do is to try and be his friend, get to know him and let him get to know you. But be careful not to get stuck in the "friend zone". The best thing to do is be yourself and make him laugh. Be his friend. If he really isn't interested, it would probably be best to let it lie. Don't pursue it if it won't happen. Good luck!

Coming from a girls point of view...she broke up with you because she was not interested, and now she either can't find anyone else, or is giving you a another chance. But make her work for it.

CHEATING!!! ALWAYS IS. CHEATING!!! ALWAYS IS. it means you dont trust him and you feel insecure about your relationship. if he is the player type then you should be cautious about your relationship. in time if you still dream about this then confront your boyfriend or talk to one of his friends.noone knows a guy better than one of his best friends.

Almost immediately. Many abusers are narcissists and crave narcissistic supply.

Very quickly! Sometimes before he ends his relationship with you. This way, he can toss you aside and his new source of narcissistic supply is ready and waiting.

The "N" in my life had several relationships going at the same time, including the "special" one w/ me. This was revealed only after I finally removed myself permanently from the abusive situation. This way the "N" could ensure his constant supply, making sure he wouldn't be without at any given time should the "other players" unknowingly involved in his game choose to opt-out.

Immediately - If Not Sooner!!! I begged my abuser to find someone else - knowing that historically he never left one without having another one ready. He started looking for his next VICTIM before I broke up with him. I left him over 3 months ago and I can tell that he is floundering and desperate for supply. He is still trying to control, abuse and intimidate me from afar. He's a monster!!!

Don't be surprised when you find out he didn't 'wait' at all. My experience is that the abuser has plenty of fish on the hook.

My abusive ex was in another relationship within weeks of our formal separation and I was shocked when I found out. He made it sound like he had been with her for years and all of a sudden I didn't count for anything. He changed his phone number and put a restraint order on me filled with lies. His intentions were to discredit my reputation in his retalition from my rejection. Everything in the restraint order about me were dirty lies and in reality he was doing those things to me. I didn't follow the advice of my family and friends when they suggested that i file a stay away order on him because he might do something bad to me. Whats more he lied to the police and told them i was 100 feet away from him, and i was lucky that i was able to convince the police that i was innocent and that he was a liar. Otherwise i would have went to jail for 3 months. He had been calling my mother for months and finally after 8 months we spoke on the phone. He left me about a dozen messages, crying and pleading with I love you and want you back so bad. After all those messages he called the next day and and said he didn't love me but that he loved the other lady and did I want to hear them making love. He literally changed his mind over night about me. I could never do that to anybody the way he did me.i just couldn't believe he could be so cruel after all those years of love and loyalty i gave to him.

Some abuser take years to get over a relationship depends how the perosn values himself

Depends on the person. Some cant let go and are obcessed. Some move on quickly. If he or she see there is some potential left to control you, they will come back. Once they see that you are not going to be controlled they will move on. They love a challange, but not too much, they want a person that resists their control but in the end will eventually allow them the control. If the victim refuses all control and contact they will move on. But actually my ex husabnd will still harass me and its been two years...since i kicked his sorry..$%%$ out....he said he has a girlfriend...he may be bored with her and or he had an easier time controlling me so hes living in the past of when he had me under his thumb. Some of these types do expereince regret of losing someone but usually its related to the fact that they are having a harder time finding a more passive victim.

From my experience, very soon. In fact, he took up a relationship with a girl he had cheated on me with a few days after I left. It was mostly to try to get a rise out of me, so I ignored it. He was abusing her when she was a friend while we were dating, so it wasn't at all a surprise. He won her pity by playing the victim. Typical.

The narcissist i was with probably never ended anything. She kept it going with others in various ways and had a stash of douchebags ready to go if the need arouse. id say the moment your narcissist thought it was time to dump you or sooner.

It is really hard to figure out if your ex still has feelings for you, but you should not make them think you are wondering if he still has feelings for you. You should also try your best to remain friends because it is really stupid when you end a friendship or relationship and then completely forget about each other.

am glad you say 'like' and not 'love' two girls.

Tell you what, of the two, there has to be one outstanding. If you would like to have something with the 'outstanding' girl, then reach for her, but its not advisable to have two girls at the same time. At least, leave one for the other guy. . . .Lol

If she is not interested at this point, the best thing for you to do is to move on. That is because it takes two people to make a relationship. Also, it is a bad idea for you to do whatever you have to if it involves not being yourself or attempting to buy love. Just is not going to bring the results that you want. There are plenty of fish in the sea.

this may seem kinda nuts, but i would text him...or ask one of ur friends too. i dont think cheating helps one bit, honestly it makes him hate ya more. its hard what to do like this. just straight tell him or on the phone...

A married woman can't have a boyfriend - it is their husband. However if they are having a secret relationship with another man then I don't think there's a word for it, but she would be having an affair.

Guys break up with girls and still want to be friends because of two main reasons: Either they really enjoyed your relationship before you began dating, and they would like to continue that; or they want to keep you around in case things change. I believe the first reason is the most common.

Breaking up is not the end of the world. You should be glad that they still want you in their life. Embrace it, and enjoy it.

i think u should, for u to be even askin this question it self means u are interested and for a fact the worse is already over so now it can only turn good or better Depends on why you are divorced My brother and his ex still live together

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Some places do require, due to his residency in your place, that you legally evict him; you'll have to talk to a lawyer about the laws where you live. In some places you may be considered to have a landlord/tenant arrangement. A lawyer with experience in landlord/tenant laws can help you decide what is the best way to handle this situation.

If your ex is on the lease with you or you don't own the place, it may save you a lot of time and hassle if you save up and move out of the residence yourself and simply leave your ex to hold the bag.

Regardless, prepare for a lot of tension; avoid any arguments and if you have your own bedroom, be sure to install a new lock on it that only you can open. Keep in mind it's better to deal with the stress of getting rid of him now, rather than to keep living with him (and making it that much harder to legally kick him out later on).

Is yours the only name on the lease or mortgage? Ask him, firmly and without argument, to move out and give him a specific deadline to do this (usually a month's notice at least); make it clear that if he does not move out by them you will begin legal proceedings to evict him. Ask a lawyer if you can have a document drafted up (for your ex to sign) that states he acknowledges that he must move out within a specific time or expect eviction. If he doesn't, legally evict him.

If possible, ask a friend or family member to stay at your home until your ex moves out, so that he is less likely to steal or damage your possessions when you're out of the home. If at any time he becomes violent or makes threats of violence, contact the police.

**The following is not the legal way to do it, but rent a storage unit for him for a month, put all of his stuff in it, and let him know where all his stuff is. Make sure to change all the locks to your residence beforehand and do not allow him back into your residence. Keep in mind that your boyfriend can file a legal complaint against you for doing this, should he choose to do so. Your best hope is that he will be busy finding other living arrangements and not make a legal fuss.

In the future, have anyone moving in (boyfriend or not) sign a roommate agreement that spells out each tenant's expectations in terms of paying rent, phone and utility bills. It should also state how you will divide household chores. This is for your protection, should you feel the need to evict someone from your place.

Be upfront become their friend let them know they can trust you and rhen just ask. PPL CAN LOVE EACH OTHER THEIR WHOLE LIVES. HE MAY STILL LOVE YOU. BUT HE MAY BE 'IN LOVE' WITH HIS GF. 3YRS LEADS TO CLOSENESS AND CARING(WHICH CAN LAST A LIFETIME) BUT HE HAS A GF TRY NOT TO HURT HER SHES DONE MOTHING WRONG. EVEN BY TALKING TO HIM U COULD RUIN THEIR RELATIONSHIP BE CAREFUL. HE MAY NOT WANT TO TAKE THE RISK CAN U HANDLE BEING TOLD HE LOVES YOU BUT NOT IN THE WAY HE LOVES HER NOW? CAN U REALLY COPE WITH HEARING THE WORDS "I LOVE HER AND DONT WANT YOU?" IF NOT STAY THE HELL AWAY

Answer If you want to find your answer, go to the Government Page of your State and type in statistics on divorce and hopefully you will find your answer as we don't know what state you are in and we don't have the time to check this out for you.

Being in love is a feeling that is indescribable. You will not know when will it come, but you can recognize it when you are in love. If you cannot find a reason why you want to be with him/her, why you cannot live your life without him/her, then definitely you are in love. Another thing, if people of the world hates or doesn't like him/her and you are the only person who's standing next to him/her without knowing the reason why, then you are in love. you are truly in love when he/she commits sin unto you but then you did not understand yourself why you keep on forgiving him/her, when he/she keeps on hurting you but then you still wants to be with him/her then you are truly in love. Being truly in love involves sacrifices and understandings.

• You have to take a long walk and think about why you broke up with him. If he was disrespectful to you; perhaps cheating on you or you argued too much then these are reasons a relationship won't work. If you can find no reason then you may have made a mistake. If you think you did then communication is the key and you could phone him and ask if he would meet you somewhere and tell him you made a mistake and you are sorry. If you don't feel comfortable with him then keep moving forward in your life.
  

O_O uh well first of all, let yourself know that it's an impossible love lol and look for other ppl that don't happen to be your teachers haha. If it's love as in just a caring innocent love for them, then it's okay to love your teacher lol.

Regaining trust does not occur overnight. It takes time and support from the person you want to trust again. That person needs to show you an honest change. If you both love each other you can work through you mistrusting moments. This will only happen through lots of good honest talking and communicating you true feelings. It's good to show emotions. Be patient with yourself and the person you want to regain trust. Pray often.

This is one of those questions like 'how long is a piece of sting?' There is no definite answer. Take as long as you need but don't let it become a habit. Good answer. Take as long as you need but not habit forming. Its best to get him/her right outa your system. That means basically avoiding/limiting contact. In the long run you will thank yourself. Cry when you need to and you will notice its not as intense. Then will come the day where you will be glad you allowed yourself to feel it fully as then you feel ready to fully enjoy life again. I have heard 1/2 as long as the relationship. I think this is semi-true. But I would say more than a month and less than two years is a good range. Not so long that it becomes a habit but long enough to complete the grieving process. Don't push it but strive to make some progress toward putting you life back together every day.