Breakups

It depends on how friendly the breakup was, and why you want to call him/ her. If you're calling because you want to get back together, if he or she is with somebody else do you think you'd be OK to hear that?

Then again, my girlfriend of 2 years broke up with me once, and then 6 months later came over and said she wanted me back. It was difficult because I was sort of taken at the time. She took it really badly actually. After a couple of weeks though, I realised that I was always happier with her than anybody after her, and took her back.

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I think you are being very unfair to your current girlfriend. I think you enjoy the attention of both this young women. Time to take a brain cell count!

First off, you have to decide why you left your first girlfriend. If it was just a mild argument perhaps you were in too much of a rush to date someone else. If your ex was abusive, unfaithful, then you really don't want to go back to her. You know the reasons why you and your ex parted, so it's up to you to make up your own mind.

Some men often love a woman that is mysterious, flirts with other men, is super attractive (classified as a 10) and falls in love physically. They like the "show piece" on their arm when they are seen by their friends. Some men find this exciting, but actually it's rather twisted. A woman that could/would do these things to their boyfriend or husband is not a woman to be trusted and could make the man's life a living hell.

Sounds like your future girlfriend is a great gal, so I would tread very carefully. If you are seeing your ex (from the sound of your message I believe you are) then you have to make up your mind fast and be honest with your future girlfriend and let her get on with finding a suitable boyfriend for herself. Time to come off your ivory tower and start thinking about other people's feelings.

Happy New YearMarcy

i think your a very selfish human being. you don't care about your current partner if you need to write in like this. you just care about yourself, and you are very cold to other peoples feelings. you are dragging this person along and they don't deserve it. are they just being used as rebound? take a good look at yourself mate. your abusing this current person, and their life. i don't know what happened to your ex and you and the reasons, the true reasons you two separated, but you need to look at this. WAKE UP. MAKE UP YOUR MIND AND STOP USING OTHERS PEOPLES LIVES AS A TOY AND ...DECIDE. give this new person the decency move on. SELFISH.

oh god i have the same thing too. i love him and yet i hate him .its ok. you guys are prob meant to be together. or you guys might break up . who knows.

1) listen to your heart

2) listen to your mind

and you'll be fine

I've had the time of my life - from the film, 'Dirty Dancing'.

Avril lavigne - So much for my happy ending. < That's about a boyfriend though.

The Script - The man who can't be moved.

Avril Lavigne - When you're gone.

McFly - Lonely.

McFly - Bubblewrap.

If you truly love them... maybe you can't? If you don't love them anymore and you just want to get out of the relationship then you need to just get it over with.. If you don't want to love them anymore because they're not worth it or they're not good for you then you should just get it over with also, in person. And then drop ALL contact with them and don't talk at all for AT LEAST a year. But if you truly love them.. maybe it's not time to move on. it's just a thought. Good luck!

You are most likely in danger if the person you are leaving has anger issues, has pushed you around, verbally abused you, has tried to control you and so on. If you notice the person waiting outside your home or work, or otherwise stalking you, seek advice and help. If it does appear that someone is following you, drive to a well-lighted, populated place ( a police station is good!) until you know they are not near.

You should show your ex the real you and make him fall in love with you all over again. Don't purposely demolish the relationship since that will make you look like a looser. The point is to make him see that you are better then her. Good luck! :-)

tell him how much you love him but then tell him about his bestfriend, see what he thinks then ask for a threesome. Then when they are ready, ask them to take turns peeing in your butt.

well at first in there head they r so sad then dont know

It's easier to strike up a conversation with someone if you can find something in common with them or talk about an interest of theirs. If you share a class, you could talk about that. If there's a particular girl in mind, you could talk to her about some of her hobbies or interests. Breaking the ice is the most difficult step. After that, it gets easier to talk to someone. And don't think girls are too intimidating; most of us enjoy a nice conversation, even if it never leads to anything. Good luck.

I am a guy and if he doesn't have feelings for you, and he has feelings for somebody else, then he will be obsessed with the other girl and always flirting with her. Guys can be naturally flirty with every female thing that moves, I have been know for that myself, if you flirt back because you really like him, you just need to wait for a reaction! if he does it again don't react, see if he wants you to react! Men like girls who aren't frigid, really afraid of flirting etc, so if you arent frigid then that would give you more of a chance! Also you should ask him who, if you are at school, everyone in the year fancies, when he gets to him, of he smiles or is hesitant, you're in with a chance!! , good luck... Xx

i wouldn't even try cause you are just going to make the girl not like you at all. Uh...You don't, DUH. She's with another boy, because she doesn't like you! If she did she would be with you, and you can't force someone to like you. It's not gonna happen, get over her. dnt slag him off to her! hang out with her. txt her if she likes you, she likes you..

There is no way to break up with someone that loves you without hurting their feelings so the best thing to do is try to break it off easily and polite. The best thing to do is to talk them in person. Doing it over the phone or through a text is just like getting someone eles to do it. Never say " We need to talk" because that sets the mood for a horribe end. Then talk to them and explain why you feel this way and what brought you apon the situation. And if your breaking up with somebody to date another person, don't make that transaction right after the break up. Give the other person time to relize what happen before they see you with another person.

I am not a guy, but my guess would be that they want to be certain that the break up is understood to be final. If he was the one to break up, or if he did something unforgiveable, then there may be some guilt involved in ending the relationship. In any case, forgiveness, separating from the group he is in and moving on in life is the way to go. He is gone, let him be.

Well depending on how your relationship ended with you ex, depends on how you should go about talking to him again. If you see him on a regular basis then i would suggest that you just start with small talk by simply saying hello. If you dont see him that often then a friendly phone call will do. Just pick up the phone and start by saying, " Hi, just wanting to know how things were going?" or "How have you been?" Small talk can lead to just friendship if that is what you are wanting.

• Love certainly can hurt and it is very common when there is a breakup that one of the exes still loves the other and although these words are common 'time heals' it is the truth. Your ex has moved on and as difficult as it is you need to get out with friends and broaden your social network because one day you will meet that special someone that was meant for you. Sometimes destiny can take a person down a few bumpy roads, but that's because you are not where you should be and eventually you will find the right path in life and there is no doubt you will be happy again.

"friends" okay. "best friends" not okay.

talk with them both. voice your discomfort peacefully.

Well what I would do is stop being paranoied. It is good to still be friends with your ex's. They were proabably friends before they went out and still want to be friends. If it really bothers you talk to her about it. Tell her how you feel about her talking to her ex. She might get a little mad that you dont trust her unless you really have no reason to trust her. Well I hope it works out. laterz

Sit down and talk to them both. I agree they both probably were friends and they still should be. Don't ruin your relationship just because she is talking.

Different hormones produce different types of physical features for each individual and some produce more than others. As we age we tend to all get "things" we may not have had nor want in various places it may not seem "normal" but just a part of life. Don't judge or make fun of someone such as a girl with facial hair as if you can see it then they are also very aware of and likely self-conscience about it.

its hard real hard

usually u don't realize something until u lose it im in love with a buetiful angel i would do anything for her im scared of her if i tell her rejection is very hard im tellin ya i mean chiks are hitting on me but none of them compare 2 here she has the most buetifuliest laugh in the world shes a dream i want her but i cant

guyz listen im here 2 tell u that its possible 2 make girl fall in love with u ive done it u got a socialize with her if u want her just be yoursrlf try 2 do the thingz she loves not your opinioned

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that's easy. im a girl so when i wanna break up i just kinda ignore him say mhmm. let him phone me and start all the conversations and I'll always seem distracted and also kidna flirt with other guys but not like big flirts.

I have no idea if it was your choice to break-off with your ex or not, but if you did, then you made the choice and have to pay the consequences. Everyone is entitled to mistakes, so if she has only seen this other boyfriend for a short time perhaps it's to your advantage to call her up and be honest with her. Tell her you love her still. Perhaps she still cares for you. If you don't try you will always wonder. Good luck Happy New Year Marcy

everyone is different and deals with things differently. the way I have dealt with heart break is first you have to accept the person meant something to you. It's okay to be sad, but you don't want to be this way forever. if you need to cry, Cry!!! get all that stuff out so you can start new. Start up a new hobby, read a book or keep yourself busy, it will pass soon. if you are still depressed after a month or so you may want to consider seeing a therapist. Good luck, there are plenty of fish in the sea!!

Wen a girl says 2 her boyfriend dat she iz breaking up wt him n if he realy lyks her den da boy feels or says 2 himself dat y didnt he die b4 hearing dis.Im quite sure boyz dat realy luvz there girlfriend feels dat way during a break up.