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How do you regain your boyfriend's trust when you have invaded his privacy?

You don't. I'm sorry to say that but it's almost impossible for him to feel secure again at this point. He'll forgive you, and still leave you alone in his home or elsewhere but, in his mind, he'll always wonder what your doing or if you'll do it again. It's a human instict to protect yourself and belongings. It will take time and patience. You can't do anything about it but re-affirm your apology and attempt to move forward with him. But don't force it, that'll make things worse.

You didn't mention in what capacity. If he wants to stay home one evening and be left alone and you go over or constantly phone him that is invading his privacy, but if he didn't specify such an example then I really don't understand how you did invade his privacy. After all, girlfriend, boyfriend are just that and you do owe each other certain things in the relationship.

I don't see any reason why he wouldn't forgive you as long as you apologize. Unless you are stalking him, pestering him, etc., then there is no reason why this should be such a big deal.

There is nothing you can do, but be patient. Whatever it was that you did to invade his privacy, just don't do it again. If he keeps throwing this incident in your face, than it shows bad character on his part. Boyfriend-- girlfriend relationship is a great opportunity to see what kind a character someone has.

If your fiance wants the ring back just because you went out to a bar with the girls what should you do?

First of all, the engagement ring is considered a gift and he has no right to ask for it back. Secondly, if the night out with the girls was innocent, you would be right to run from him.

This is not what good marriages are made of! If you didn't break a date with him (you should have at least told him you were going out) and if he was still angry about it this is not good behavior. These are the start of control issues between the two of you and you will be the one acting like the trained seal.

Once you slip that engagement ring on your finger, then it's time both learned responsibilities. It would be nice if each of you told the other what their plans were if it didn't include each other. It's just respect and not meant as anything else.

It also depends what type of girls you are hanging around with and if they lead you astray. Perhaps they are free-flying ladies having a good time. Once you're engaged, you're taken!

If you told him about going out and just went and had a good time and there was nothing more to it, then he has no right to order you as to where you can and can't go. If he is doing this, then he has been doing this throughout your relationship already and it's time to move on. Don't get stuck with a controlling or jealous person because it more often than not will come back and bitecha!

Give it back and consider yourself lucky you didn't marry him. He did you a favor girl... He's a control freak.

How can you tell someone that you are 26 years old and still haven't made love?

Why is it a problem? Are you being graded on performance?

I can't think of a situation where if two people were really in love that would be a problem. Heck, it most likely would be a very serious turn on.

Really? Why would anyone care? Would you?

Just do, and then they will think that how they are performing is better. If it your first time, your partner will enjoy it more because they know you will get the most out of it.

They should think its a compliment if you never found someone special enough until now!

Well I think it is better to tell the truth then lie about it. Twenty-six is still young. Some people are still in school at that age. People don't settle down at twenty six.. no worries!

If you don't tell them, they will figure it out quite quickly the first time you do it with them!

You don't owe anybody an explanation. I commend you for your ability to restrain yourself!

A potential sex partner has the right to know about your physical health and any STD's you have.

Your prior sexual experiences (or lack thereof) are your own personal business. Neither of you are under any obligation to say how many people you've been with, what you've done sexually, etc. There's nothing wrong with being a virgin at any age, but you don't have to tell someone this unless you choose to do so.

If the subject comes up, tell them whatever you are comfortable with telling them. You can say that you haven't had a great amount of experience or haven't been intimate in several years and leave it at that. There is no definitive way for anyone to know you are a virgin unless you tell them, so there shouldn't be any problems.

Persons entering into a sexual relationship are individually responsible for protecting their own health and do not need to disclose the details of their private life unless they are willing to do so.

Tell the person if you want or don't. A 26-year-old should be mature enough and responsible enough not to need advice on how to conduct his or her private affairs.

Learn all you can on the Internet about sexually transmitted diseases before your leap into the world of sex.

Actually whether you are a male or female the fact you are virgin is enticing to the person you will be having sexual relations with. It's a turn-on! That makes the practiced partner in sex feel they are the mentor and will enjoy teaching you all about sex. Don't be shy and don't feel ashamed. Prepare yourself from information about sex and those sexual transmitted diseases before you embark on this adventure. Be smart!

I am a 45 year old male, who was a virgin until I was 26 years old, so I can identify with your question very easily. My advice to you is first of all, don't have sex just for the sake of having sex. Sex without love is nothing more than just using another person to masturbate. On the other hand, taking a loving relationship into the area of physical intimacy is about as close to being in heaven as you are going to get in this life time.

Having said that, be honest with your partner, let them know about your inexperience. As many others have already stated, it will most likely be a turn on for your partner.

And most importantly, take your time. Have sex when you are ready, don't let someone push you into it. And take the time and the steps when you are ready to make it something special.

Should love come before or after marriage?

Love is the foundation for everything. You can't marry a person if you don't love him although in some countries there are chances that a person is set up for an arrange marriage and eventually these couples develop love but definitely love comes first before marriage.

Before you marry, you fall in love. But real love doesn't happen until you marry. It shouldn't happen before!

Love should come first if you married someone before love came that would be the craziest thing a person can ever do.

SO LOVE SHOULD COME FIRST!

I would say love comes first because then you would know that you truly love her/him, and that you love her enough to marry her. But then once your married you should always love her/him after that.

So I would say that love starts before marriage but then should never end!

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The answer is obvious, love should most definitely come first, you need a foundation to start a marriage that will be successful, if you do not love someone, why would you consider spending the rest of your life with that someone, it is important that you love the one you will spend the rest of your life with or it is pointless to marry in the first place, marriage is when two people love each other to the point they don't picture themselves with anyone else but the person there with, for the rest of there life. so it is most definite that love should come before marriage, if you want this one to work.

Love should definitely come first . If you don't love each other before marriage, then how do you know it will ever happen during marriage?

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Love really comes first if you don't love each other than you can't get married. If you get married before you love each other then it will be a horrible marriage.

What do you do if a man admits his behavior is the reason you no longer trust him and says he would understand if you leave but wants you to stay?

LEAVE and don't look back. My abusive ex boyfriend did this to me also and the abuse never went away...it only go worse! I agree. Do not look back when you leave because, I am proof of my previous marriage that got worse. I ended up marrying my abuser and it got really worse. I am always watching my back everywhere I go.

Who did Nixon call the silent majority?

Richard Nixon is the 37th President of the United States. He referred to the Americans who did not express their opinions publicly against the Vietnam War, as the great silent majority.

Has James marsters got a girlfriend?

No, actor and musician James Marsters does not have a girlfriend. As of 2014 he is currently married and has been since 2011.

What are the spiritual value of the pillars?

They were thought up by a man with mental illness...like in the movie "A Beautiful Mind"

Why do abusers hound intimidate their victims then play the denial you didnt say that game?

It is a form of mental and physical abuse, at one time they are hitting them, and then incorporate lies "oh i love you, i would never do anything to hurt you" they have no source of dominance in their life, so they take it out on their "partner" (victim).

I am having trouble with my boyfriend. Weve been going out for around 7 months and it seems really distant with him. im not sure what to do and it seems weird and i dont know what to do. any advise?

Several things could be happening here. 1. He could be cheating on you. 2. He could be using you. 3. He could have an emotional block because of a bad relationship or tragedy in the past and is afraid to get close. 4. He have a commitment phobia. 5. He doesn't even realize he is being distant. You should talk to him about this and approach it lightly. Explain to him that you are worried for him and your relationship and that you want to get closer to him. A good relationship starts with good communication. Once you find out which of the 5 it is make sure the both of you recognize it. (Unless it is one of the first 2. Than you can either talk about it and see if he cheated on purpose and where to go from there or you can dump his sorry butt.) P.S. If it is one of the first two and you guys broke up and you are feeling sad and alone. DON'T!! It's one stupid guy! There are a million out there and you deserve better.

Italian for happy birthday?

Buon compleanno is the literal translation for Happy Birthday. When singing the Happy Birthday song, they instead sing Tanti Auguri which translates to many (good) wishes for you.

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