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Breakups
It takes two to make it work, but only one to break it up. This is the place to ask questions about the pain, healing, and possible solutions to relationship break-ups.
8,665 Questions
How many breakups are there a year?
There are a lot of breakups that happen round the year. One cannot count the exact number of breakups that happen. There is no estimate about that.
What affect can computers have on human relationships?
in a good way it helps people research stuff for school, play games, contact people, it lets you write documents and much much more.
in a bad way it keeps you away from going outside and talking face to face with people and ruins your grammar and if you stay on it long enough it can damage your grades, keep you from doing homework and it can ruin your eye sight.
How do you know if a ex girlfriend is over you?
you know there over you if they flirt or date other guys
Why does your ex boyfriend start talking to you again after months of not speaking to you at all?
More than likely, he misses you. As a guy, I have noticed that sub-consciously I will start missing my ex after long periods of time. I would recommend that you ignore him, or don't get to involved to much with him. Keep it on a basic conversation level. I hope this helped!
How do you a write a letter to your ex to get things off your chest?
Your EX? This is the best thing to do, Follow these directions exactly: Sit and write everything you ever thought you wanted to say, Then wait till the next day and read it very slowly, Then rewrite it to A better format than you have now. Next step: Wait one more day, Read it slowly again, Then throw it in the trash and never tell anyone you wrote it. This way you have it off your chest and there is no drama.
Can a girl dump you and still like you?
Just be honest with her, tell her that you want to break up... trust me at the time it will hurt her but down the road she will appreciate you being honest with her and not doing what a lot of guys do and just avoid the issue till the "problem" goes away.
OR you could
if you don't want to dump her make her dump you by hanging out with her friends and worst enemy and make sure there's someone who will gossip it to her. Instead of going to places with her stay at home play the computer or xbox or something. Watch action movies and take more intrest in the movie than her. Don't take much interest in her like e.g. don't hug her or kiss her as much. Make it look like you're bored. I'm doing it now and it's working. No offence to my gf now but she always hugs other guys and crap soo its annoying soo im dumping her ass.
ANSWER: He lives either in a house, an apartment, a rooming house, or in a cardboard box under a bridge. That is unless the 'he' you are referring to is "HE' aka God which would then put him up in heaven !
How can you prove to your ex-boyfriend that you have changed?
Good question. I wish I had a guarenteed solution, but I don't. Every person and every relationship is different. The worst thing you can do is guilt the other person into staying with you. That won't last long and no one will be happy. My boyfriend of 3.5 years broke up with me. The best advice I can give is this. Wait and be there. Be his friend, be available, but keep living your own life. I wrote my boyfriend a long letter detailing the things that I loved about him and why; also memories of how I felt about him when we were blissfully in love. I just asked him to remember how he felt about me and see if he could rekindle those feelings. Don't avoid him, be friends, but don't follow him around and continuously tell him how much you love him. When my boyfriend broke up with me, I was heart-broken. I tried for a week to win him back. After the letter, I felt better. I started to think about things I could do now that he never liked to do. I didn't quit loving him, but I quit 'bothering' him. After one day of me not calling him he called me. He calls me at least once a day to see how I am. We're not back together, but he's not dating anyone else. I can see he still cares about me. If he comes around and I'm available, great. If not, I'm determined to be happy. The best revenge is living well and loving yourself enough to go on without him might make him question his decision. But it might not, so be happy with someone else or on your own while you wait. Stay friends and be patient. There is no real answer to this question. Sorry. Drop him like a rock and move on with life. I think your better off starting in a new relationship that will not have the scars of a break-up in it. Keeping a relationship that is as free of serious scars is important if you want a long-term one.
How do you-get the guy you dumped back?
Well, it depends. First of all : why do you want him back?? Don't say "I missssss him" or anything like that. (Trust me, I've been there/done that. I went back and forth with the same guy for years just because I was lonely/thought I missed him. Let's just say, it ain't worth it.) You dumped him for a REASON. Remember that.
Now if you can argue that somehow, which I doubt, then I say simply talk to him. State your true feelings very clearly. If he doesn't want you back, it wasn't meant to be.
But remember, if you dumped him because he LIED, CHEATED, YOU LIKED SOMEONE ELSE, OR HE WAS JUST A BAD BOYFRIEND: stop yourself from doing something stupid. Those problems that made you dump him still exist. He didn't suddenly change. TRUST ME. Don''t waste your time There's plenty of fish in the sea!
GArbage dumps are a simple form of waste disposal. They are unsatisfactory in many ways.
Waste disposal can be handled iat several levels. The hierarchy of disposal methods is:
* Littering/roadside dumping * Garbage dumps * Landfill sites * Sanitary Landfill sites * Industrial Landfill sites * Toxic Waste Industrial Landfill sites As indicated garbage Dumpds are only slightly better than roasdside dumping.
A garbage dump accumulates waste but has the following problems:
* No control over burning * No control over loose waste like paper that can blow everywhere * No control over vermin * No segregation of inert waste an d hazardous waste * No protection for surfac over ground water * No safety measures
What does it mean its better to have loved and lost then not to have loved at all?
He means that it is better to have been in love at some point, as it is a great powerful feeling, rather than never being in love, and had that powerful feeling in your life. As every experience in life, you learn from it, and being in love is a learning experience. Even if it does not end the way you wanted or planned, at least it will excel your life experiences, and teach you in the future.
Can you block a call from a unknown number on a cell phone?
some land line phone companies allow you to block all private or unknown numbers......If you can check your account from your computer you can do it that way or call your phone company. As far as cell phones Im unsure.
- It's cheap to cheat on your boyfriend whether you love him or not. You need to communicate with him that you don't love him and want your freedom to do as you wish and to see who you want and you want to be honest with him and let him get on with his own life. Warning: 'Still waters run deep' which means if your boyfriend is a nice guy he could easily panic and do something rash to you or himself if you persist on leaving him. It is obvious he isn't going to let go easily. If he has a temper then beware and don't discuss leaving him unless you are around your parents; other family members or male and female friends. If you are living together then move out. If he texts you refuse to answer him and if phones you then don't answer the phone. If he threatens you in any way then keep any emails or taped phone conversations and go to the police.
Why is it so hard to walk away from someone who hurt you so bad?
It is called love. When you care about someone, it is never easy to watch them walk out of your life when they mean so much. Love doesn't always mean the romantic relationships. It applies to everyone important to you - family, friends - and also of course, a significant someone.
What does it mean when someone wants to break up with you?
It Really Depends. You said "he says That he wants to break up with you all the time." is he really breaking up with you all the time? If he is then either he is a player who goes from one woman to another. If hes not then either he doesn't care about you (If That Offends You that he says that). He could also be playing or teasing you all the time. Men don't always realise what their doing and if it hurts us.
Is your boyfriend a narcissist?
(Note: Narcissistic Personality Disorder is something that can only be identified by a mental health professional who has examined the person in question. Other than that, "narcissist" is a word meaning "loves oneself excessively" and is susceptible to varying interpretations.)
The following are testimonials that may give a person insight into making a layman's determination as to whether their boyfriend/girlfriend may be a narcissist.
Opinion 1:
I met my bf when he was married to another woman and I was also in a relationship. We fell in love and he told me, pretty much on the first date, that he wanted us to have children. The following months consisted of spending weekends together, going out drinking and partying. I fell pregnant after a few months and I decided to have an abortion, to which he said that he would leave his wife and take care of me and the baby. I ended up having the abortion.
We continued seeing each other and we moved in together. His wife found out a few months later (that he was living with me) and all hell broke loose. He called me and said that we could have no more contact, her screaming in the background. I was devestated. He moved back in with his wife and daugther. After 10 days we talked and he said that he was miserable, I was too. I forgave him for what he had done and we decided to give it another try and move back in together.
He started his divorce and we were quite happy, living together. We went on holidays, out and pretty much continued the way we had.
When i fell pregnant a year later I was very excited and happy. He then changed quite a lot. He would let me cry without providing any empathy or comfort (he would say that he would take into a hotel if I didnt stop crying), he would never ask how i was doing during my pregnancy, he would shout at me in the car if we were arguing, if I was ill he would compalin about the noise I made sneezing during the night.
When it came to the birth he told me (a week before) that he wouldn't be able to be there for the birth, he let me believe this for a couple of days before he switched and said that he would be there. When I went into labour he drank my applejuice that I had brought with me, and looked at me like I was asking him to climb Himalaya and was about to protest when I asked him to get me a chocolate bar from the vending machine in the hospital.
When I came home with the baby, he was disinterested, told the baby to shut the f... up when he made his baby sounds. He also said that I should take my baby and leave 5 days after the baby was born.
Since then it has been name calling and loads of stories of disrespect. Is this narcissism?
Opinion 2:
Yes it is !As long you are the other woman and he is in the honeymoon fase with you,really trying to get you and he is in the delusion that you are great ,perfect and The One,his wife or steady girlfriend will be the one that is a bad person,don't treat him rightcan't cook does not want sex etc....When you become HIS woman you are takin her place,he has secured you then YOU wil be the bad one...It did happenned to me too...2 years i was with him ,in a long distance relationship,very close together i was THE BOMB.THE ONE ....when he left the mother of his children and i went to be with him from Europe to the USA he changed...in 10 hours time.....nothing i did was good,withdraw affection,push and pull games,treating me bad and 10 minutes later nicely,he wanted me to leave and when i would he asked me please ,stay...and so on....come home with lipstick on his sleeve...devastating....i left and he is no contact ,no friendship no nothing,not even a phone call asking me how i am doing....he knows i have health issues,they don't care about anybody,not even themselves....just go and don't look back....they don't change ;only for worst....
How do you return your boyfriends belongings after he asks for a break?
If he ask for a break in calm way, you need to be respectful of his decision. You must go up to him and return all of his things in a calm manor. But, if it is just a break, why does he need his stuff back? If he is rude and says hurtful things, do it in a way that you won't have to see his face. Leave a box of his things on his front door step, avoid confrentation.
When a boyfriend breaks up with you will he come back?
i broke up with my girlfriend of two years about 6 months ago because i wasnt ready for a commitment, i still wanted to run the clubs and play the field becuas ei love to flirt. well since i broke up with her i havent even spoke to another woman because one she wasnt around i realized how much i loved it when she was, but i have not told her how i feel since i was the one that broke it off. Wait 2 weeks from the day he broke it off then call him and ask if he misses you, because even if he does he may not have the balls to call and tell you.... hope that helps
Can you still be friends with ex boyfriend and still be in a relationship?
It depends of the relationship you had before you broke up. If the relationship was more of a friendly relationship rather than a romantic one, dating other people while being friends is an option. It mostly depends on if both partners from the previous relationship have moved on from the relationship and hold no romantic or hurt feelings.
How do you tell if a man is still interested in you after a break up?
Generally you can tell by the way he treats you, talks to you, contacts you or makes you feel. If you feel awkward and it seems something is different besides just the breakup chances are he is ready to move on. Talking to him is the best way to find out how he may feel or looks at anything between the two of you.
Why will your ex try to avoid you?
- 'Ex' means the relationship is over and both should move on in their lives and not expect the ex to be there. When two people split up there can be many reasons for that split up and often the relationship ends on a bitter note so one of the exes may not want to keep in touch with the other ex. Just move onto to better things in your life and don't expect your ex to be your friend.
How to get your pregnant ex girlfriend back?
If you really love her and always will then you should make your feelings known to her. Don't assume she knows. At least then you will have made a shot at it. If she isn't ready or doesn't want to get back together then that's how it is and you move on. But if she feels the same way, it can be a wonderful thing raising the baby together and you both can fall more in love watching the infant grow. Its hard work but doing it together will bring you closer and make you stronger as a couple. Just make sure she is not going back to you because she is lonely or scared. As long as shes happy doing it alone with the pregnancy you know she isn't using you. I think its very romantic that you will be with her even though she is pregnant. Good luck!
WElL boys hurt girls because the don't know how girls feel when the are in love. its not that they don't have feelings the do but they don't understand us.(girls) u know we are different from them....
well guys hurt girls bc they just don't care about nothing but themselves. guys are crazy and don't feel any thing at all. they work their ways around people they don't care about they cancel their plans with you bc they have plans with someone else. i promise i have dated this guy named dusty Benjamin thomas glaze for like 2 n 1/2 yrs. bc we broke the day b4 our three yrs together... but im okay.. but its okay if a guy hurts you.. you can move on and show him you don't care...
How do you say goodbye to a long term relationship?
You have to thnk about why you are wanting to break up with her/him. If u have at least 4 good reasons that u 2 should break up then tell her nicely those reasons and if she wants a chance to renew it u should give atleast that to her. but bascially let her down slowly and tell her that she is beautiful and will find someone else
