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Breakups
It takes two to make it work, but only one to break it up. This is the place to ask questions about the pain, healing, and possible solutions to relationship break-ups.
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Since the attraction sounds purely surface and you mention hooking up rather than getting to really know each other, it's most likely the interest has played out for the girl and she's moved on to another amusement.
He said that he had no interest on you but still talks with you what does this mean?
he still wants you in his life just as a freind
How do you get a girl to change her mind about you?
in my experience you cant.
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It's probably possible. You can try. Prove to her, talk to her, tell her that you can be a better person and such. But you must stay true to your word .
you should just relax. if you were a good person while with her of course shes going to " love" you. not wanting a relationship is just a stage in life. most go threw this stage between 18 and 35...lol but it is a stage, who knows how long it takes?, everyones differant. may take her 2yrs may take her 10.
its symbolic to finding out who you really are without lifes interferrances. ive been threw this stage my self several times but have never been strong enough to hold out,....gotta get laid....lol
so it will show you how strong she really is before you fall into a 10yr relationship before you figure out who each really is and if you match. so easy to fall into i could love this person VS. ive been threw and I do love.
point being, enjoy yourself. enjoy being able to hang out with friends and family without questions of who your talking to and where your at and let her do the same. use this time to find out more about yourself, and i don't care what you think you know......theres always more to discover about your self
take care my friend and just enjoy life,
Peace out, Dooby
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If men do fall in love then why can't they show that love in a way that women can relate to?
Icky, aren't we women just a piece of work! LOL I must admit, even as a woman, I find them complicated myself. We go through more hormonal issues and we are stronger than we look.
Most women really take relationships very seriously and they usually give their all. If the man doesn't reciprocate and give nothing back, she may mention it to him, but, if he doesn't listen and doesn't treat her well (never listens to her, never thinks she has anything important to say, he considers her brainless, and is just good for a squeak between the sheets) then you have one hot rock in your hand. Any woman worth their salt will refuse to put up with it.
Also, in this modern society women are beginning to know more and more just how strong and capable they are and right now the biggest conflict between men and women is going on. Women are not taking back seats to men in any area of life and the war is on. Guess what? There are more women on the planet than men. Run! LOL
Men generally are lousy communicators and they usually get plenty of chances to express themselves, but don't. Here is an example:
Last night my husband came home from work. We sit down to have a cup of tea and talk over our day. I asked him how work was going and he said A-OK. OK, I take it for that. After, we went to the store and unfortunately I was a little longer than anticipated, but no big deal. I came out to the car and was really stunned when my husband snapped, "What took you so long!" Of course I was annoyed and said, "Well, I just love grocery shopping, but just to irritate you I decided to lay prone in the middle of the aisle!" Yes, I was sarcastic, but only because I should have never been talked too in that manner. The fight was on! Today when he got home I put my foot down and said, "Give! Something isn't right because you seldom ever talk to me like this." He finally opened up and said, "Had a hard day at work yesterday, and, in fact, today. It's getting me down." Now my question to you is, why is it men have such a problem with expressing how they feel? If men would open up more to their women half the problems would be solved. Hey, news flash ... sometimes us women have some good ideas as how to fix a problem you guys might have.
What men consider "little things" as far as what women feel really aren't. Men are suppose to be the strong, silent type, but if it weren't for women, there would no family ties, social events, children brought up healthy, loved and safe. Most women have "instincts" and that is what the world goes around on no matter how much men think they own the world.
No, I'm not a feminist at all, but the truth is the truth.
Once you can understand women can be gentle, loving, caring, nurturing and extremely strong individuals you'll do OK. NEVER underestimate a woman!
Good luckMarcy
AnswerThere are two sayings that come to mind:Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned.AND:No longer an anger abide (somin like that) when love has turned to hate. AnswerIf some girls take there relation serious then why don't they give there boyfriends a chance to show the girl that they arent the type of person they probly thought.those type of girls take little things seriously cause they don't want there relation to go bad at all.If girls who want to be serious about relations should give boys a chance to show them that they can make them happy.some of there decision are wrong,sure i kinda admit girls are pretty smart and strong with there choices but not all there choices are right."everyone deserves a chance".If she is smart then she should understand that you both like each and she should give you a chance to shine again.now if she keeps thinking about the bad stuff that happen during the relation she might say stuff like"i don't want to go through that pain again"girls shoudlnt think about stuff like that cause it'll keep them farther away.sure its probly gonna hurt them a little thinking about it,but they should also think abot the good things that happen.its better to have love and happiness back with a little sadness,then to only think about pain and sadness.girls like that should give boys a chance to redeem and i bet decisions like that r worth trying."love isn't what starts a relation,its what you think and feel about that person that binds it together" that's what i have to say about girls who think they there decisions are right,and let me say that those girls are to weak to think carefully and to make sure that there decision is right.us boys are just as strong as them with relations and we take it justas serious as girls do.we like to make things right as well.So if we keep listening to them they'll never understand how we feel about a relation.Right now im trying to get my girl back.She says she LIKES me but she doesn't want to start relation yet cause she wants a break.but later on she said she was confused about the whole thing and she still not sure what she did was right or wrong.see not all girls know everything we are all equal.Now im waiting until she finnaly relizes what she did was right or wrong.if my girlfriend is smart and is right about things then she should THINK carefully and tell me that what she did was RIGHT.Some girls change there minds on there decisions,but it takes time.Dont think the reason is that she found another guy cause if she says se likes you then trust her and wait till she finds out.Dont give up who knows what might happen in the future. goodluck,RobYour ex is a joke and a one-trick-pony. I really hate it for you that you had to suffer through such a horrible person.
I suggest though that you learn from this. A man that goes out of his way to say cheesy romantic lines all the time is just using you. Since you had loved him (and still might) it gives him power over you, and men like him like power.
First, don't talk to him any more, he is dirt, he is trash, he is no better than a rabid sewer rat.
Second, move on, it sounds hard and you might be tired of hearing it (plus I know it sounds so much easier than it really is but you have too). You don't have to move on today, but if he is already on a rebound chick, you need to get yourself a rebound male.
Third (and most importantly), be happy. That jerk isn't in your life any more, you get to go out and do the things that you like and he wouldn't let you.
An example would be if you played a popular tabletop role play game, but he hated playing games of all sorts, then you go out and just play as many games as you want. He isn't there any more to stop you and take your fun away.
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- Depression and anxiety are very common and statistics of both are rising. Don't feel alone! It is difficult for some people who have not experienced depression (depression is considered a problem when someone is depressed constantly for more than two weeks) or anxiety issues (caused by the depression) to understand someone that is suffering from it. You will have to face yourself and realize that through no fault of your own you have depression and anxiety and in itself it is frightening for the person suffering from it and it narrows their lifestyle down more and more. Please see your doctor and he/she will give you some medications for both your depression and anxiety symptoms so that you will be able to get therapy (Cognitive Therapy) is a great program to help you through your depression and anxiety. Cognitive Therapy teaches you to look at the opposite of what you are feeling. You need to help yourself before your can expect your girlfriend to come back to you. If you require more help please leave a message on my message board.
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Hon, I don't think you are the type of girl that just fell off the last turnip truck, but, I have to say, wake up and smell the coffee! The magic word is "ex." No matter if there is a distance between you or not if two people truly love each other then they can over-come anything and that includes distance. What about men that went off to war? After years most of the men came back to their wives, so a distance such as yours and for such a short time doesn't ever fit into the comparison of true love such as these couples have endured. This guy is a piece of work. He has not only dumped you because of distance (probably didn't try very hard at all and just wanted his freedom) but now he's blaming a female friend for coming into his home and he wants her out? Give me a break! He's telling you this so that if you call and hear a female voice at the end he'll have no explaining to do. I can bet you that every conversation you have with him from now on he'll go on and on about negative things about his female friend and how she's driving him crazy and he can't stand it. Listen up ... this guy is playing both ends and winning by the looks of it. Not only is he hurting you, but he's hurting that female friend. If he really wanted her out of his home, then he either helps her find a place of her own, or he forms the words, "I'm giving you a month to find your own place." The best advice I can give you is to tell you to move on and get rid of this loafer. Don't be a statistic. You are stronger than you think, and he doesn't deserve you loving him or trusting him. Get out and have some fun with friends and one day you'll meet someone very special and later wonder what you ever saw in this guy. Good luck Marcy
Just broke up with my bf but we have a child what should you do?
im only 13 but next month i will b 14 and growing up without a dad was sorta hard well i should say IS sorta hard so if u love ur kid try to keep the dad in the kids life☺☺☺☺
My ex boyfriend called me today after I broke up with him what is he thinking?
he is probably wanting to get back together.
No. If he thought you cheated on him then he's a suspicious type (one's to avoid!), and even if you got back together - it'll happen again. Guaranteed. Anyway you can do better!
- Your boyfriend sounds mature and obviously wants to get good grades so he is studying and doesn't want any distractions. He should have communicated better with you and either asked you to help him by asking him questions he may have on an exam or, that he have some 'head space' to study and that would mean he still loved you, but he needed time to think. Yes, studying for exams can be very stressful. Time for you to back off; wake up and realize that he is serious about keeping his grades up and is not up to partying or going out much because studying takes up most of his time. Sit down with your boyfriend and ask him what he wants from you ... helping him by asking questions or what time space does he need before you start seeing each other the way you use too. He is not trying to get rid of you, he just wants to work hard and get good grades. If you are in school then you would be wise to do the same.
How come no one considers that the breakuper might be hurting too?
because they are so full of rage and the person who broke up with them is feeling bad but they broke it off bbecause something wasn't right with the other person. Cody age 12
What does it mean When a guys says he needs to think about everything?
That type of response from a male is a nice way of saying I have had fun but its time to move on. Usually that type of response is from male that is in a long-term relationship. Men need some free space; if you are not giving him time with the guys then you are cutting him from his freedom. If a man feels he can’t do anything with out asking you then usually that is the type of response that you would get and deserve.
What is the best revenge when someone treats you badly and breaks up with you?
Being happy without them.
How do you get over a guy who is verbally abusive and wont leave you alone?
Hey there :) Im sorry to hear that you are going through this rough situation. I know everyone has their opinions as to what they would do. I believe that since ive been in the situation in the past I would definetely be dropping all resources of contact with this guy. Im talking about avoiding him in every possible manner such as changing your number. I know that it is a hard process with people like this. However, the sooner the better my dear and if he continues to bother you then I think I would turn to authorities for advice.
How do you prove i live at residence with no lease or utilites?
take a picture of yourself outside of the home
