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Breakups
It takes two to make it work, but only one to break it up. This is the place to ask questions about the pain, healing, and possible solutions to relationship break-ups.
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Why would a married woman sleeping with a married man go out of her way to be rude to the guys wife?
Not too sure but I'm guessing that she is jealous - she would be willing to leave her husband for him but he is not willing to leave his wife- and really why would he at this point when he can have his cake and eat it too. If this wife knows anyway why is she still with him - I would kick his a*# so far to the curb.
Please accept my condolences. Being "dumped" isn't easy. Please know that when a person breaks up with another, the real reason is rarely gave. Usually, they just give you whatever reason they feel will get them out of the relationship as painlessly - or sometimes as hurtfully - as possible.
Sometimes both.
You may well have "proved" you know her - except that you actually don't, or you'd know that she was only giving you an excuse, not a reason.
Here's the reason, and it applies to all relationships that have ever existed: She just doesn't feel the same way about you as you do for her. She does not feel enough for you to make it worth her time and effort to patch things up.
Remember, people always do that which is least unpleasant for them. Going without you is easier for her then patching things up. Nothing you say to "prove" anything will change her mind, because that was a made up reason.
As to the brother, he's just looking out for his sister, and gently telling you to "move on". You should.
How do you prove to a girl you changed?
its not in the saying its in the doing. if you have really changed she'll see it soon enough.however(and this is a girl writing)hell hath no fury like a woman scorned so dont think she'll forgive you overnight.it'll take some time and effort.
Is it possible to get back together after an engagement break of?
yes, it is. if you two relly love each other and see each other frequently, well, the passion can be strong enought so you two go back togeter
What is a sentence using the word anxious?
There were some anxious moments as they awaited the test results.
He was anxious to see if his name was chosen for the project.
Parents can be very anxious on their child's first day at school.
I am anxious about my maths exam tomorrow.
so what you do is you become his 'best friend' and then after about....a month you start flitering for 2 weeks then after that YOU STOP FLIRTING!!!! then leave him alone for three days after that he will talk to you then you just pretend that you don't care and he will think your not in love but you are after that you do that for.....2 days after 2 days you tell him i kinda like you!!! then walk away don't let him reply and that's it
it worked for me and now he is like flirting back!!!!!
Love the guy who you care most about. The guy you love might be a real jerk and doesn't care about you, or your feelings. Your close guy-friend, however, might have speacial feelings for you that you don't know about. Try having a long friendly talk to the two boys (seperately!) and see what their true feelings are. In my opinion, i would say to be with your close guy-friend, since you know him so well. But it is your choice. You may end up with a new and revived heart, or a grey, broken and dead one. Do what you think is best. Follow your heart. If you need anymore information, you can talk to me on my message board.S.T!(Saati's Tips)- Just because a guy you love says he loves you he might not like you for you. If your close guy-friend says he loves you FOR YOU. Believe him. He loves you.x-x Saati x-x
Why do people go to reconciliation?
* People who go to reconciliation counseling do so because they feel there is still some love left in their relationship (even if it's just a spark) and they respect each other enough and perhaps children are involved and they want to make a fresh start in their relationship.
What do you do if your ex-boyfriend still cares about you but is forcing himself to get over you?
You tell him that it's stupid not to realize you two are meant to be together then. If he's trying to stop liking you, it's most likely not going to work. Sit him down and talk to him, explain how you feel and ask how he does, and tell him that feelings are feelings and he cannot just force them out of himself.
Then be happy ever after.
AnswerAs the other poster said it's time to sit down and talk to your boyfriend. The main question is "Why is he forcing himself to get over you if he loves you?" Do you have another boyfriend, are you married, insecure within yourself?" There has got to be a reason. People who love you don't go to all this trouble of trying to get over you. There is a plug in the bottle and you know what it is! Answerwell, I am going through the same situation!!My boyfriend just broke up with me after 4.5 years of GREAT relationship!!! Since one year he is in another country for studies and things were still great after that for 1.5 years.we used to talk daily inspite of having more than 8700 miles!!!but then he just mailed me and told me that he don't love me!! I was shocked at that time and was totally confused!! He said he never loved me !!! he said that she met a girl there(with whome he is not in a relationship..just friend) but he don't know why he felt like crying when he felt that they both cannot be togather!! He said that it was a trigger for him which made him realise that he did not feel same for me!! and so he may not love me!! He said he don't know whether he loves that girl or not!! But now after 4 years he is saying that he never loved me what he used to tell me daily..!!!...(after the trigger given by that girl..!!!)That was a shock of my life!!!He said he is not atall guilty for our relation and our relation was not a mistake!! I called him and tried to sort out the things..but all in vein!! Its like now he has stop mailing me,calling me, no offlines and has stop chatting with me.But still he told his best friend that he cares for me and want that i should be happy in my life!!! his friend told me that he is forcing himself to help me out to get over him!!!!! So he has stop contacting me!!! That is horrible!!! And now he is continuing saying that he had never loved me but still committing that it was a pleasure being with me and he don't regrate anything!!! This man has drive me crazy!!! But all my affort to get him back to me did not worked!! So now i am just waiting for him to get back to me..!! I am not going to call him or anything like that...i will just wait !! and i will also move on with my life!!!It hurts a lot and its not good...but i have to accept it because i have no option!!Because caring about some one doesnt mean they love them enough to commit to them. u can still care alot, but if theres not love. it will be empty.
How can you tell if your ex-boyfriend who needs time wants you back?
If he is always ringing you or hanging around wondering what you are up to half the time then he probably wants you back. If he doesn't act at all interested then probably doesn't want you back.
Since the attraction sounds purely surface and you mention hooking up rather than getting to really know each other, it's most likely the interest has played out for the girl and she's moved on to another amusement.
He said that he had no interest on you but still talks with you what does this mean?
he still wants you in his life just as a freind
How do you get a girl to change her mind about you?
in my experience you cant.
Answer:
It's probably possible. You can try. Prove to her, talk to her, tell her that you can be a better person and such. But you must stay true to your word .
you should just relax. if you were a good person while with her of course shes going to " love" you. not wanting a relationship is just a stage in life. most go threw this stage between 18 and 35...lol but it is a stage, who knows how long it takes?, everyones differant. may take her 2yrs may take her 10.
its symbolic to finding out who you really are without lifes interferrances. ive been threw this stage my self several times but have never been strong enough to hold out,....gotta get laid....lol
so it will show you how strong she really is before you fall into a 10yr relationship before you figure out who each really is and if you match. so easy to fall into i could love this person VS. ive been threw and I do love.
point being, enjoy yourself. enjoy being able to hang out with friends and family without questions of who your talking to and where your at and let her do the same. use this time to find out more about yourself, and i don't care what you think you know......theres always more to discover about your self
take care my friend and just enjoy life,
Peace out, Dooby
mom get of the computer, your drunk again
WOOOOOOOOW you retard!
If men do fall in love then why can't they show that love in a way that women can relate to?
Icky, aren't we women just a piece of work! LOL I must admit, even as a woman, I find them complicated myself. We go through more hormonal issues and we are stronger than we look.
Most women really take relationships very seriously and they usually give their all. If the man doesn't reciprocate and give nothing back, she may mention it to him, but, if he doesn't listen and doesn't treat her well (never listens to her, never thinks she has anything important to say, he considers her brainless, and is just good for a squeak between the sheets) then you have one hot rock in your hand. Any woman worth their salt will refuse to put up with it.
Also, in this modern society women are beginning to know more and more just how strong and capable they are and right now the biggest conflict between men and women is going on. Women are not taking back seats to men in any area of life and the war is on. Guess what? There are more women on the planet than men. Run! LOL
Men generally are lousy communicators and they usually get plenty of chances to express themselves, but don't. Here is an example:
Last night my husband came home from work. We sit down to have a cup of tea and talk over our day. I asked him how work was going and he said A-OK. OK, I take it for that. After, we went to the store and unfortunately I was a little longer than anticipated, but no big deal. I came out to the car and was really stunned when my husband snapped, "What took you so long!" Of course I was annoyed and said, "Well, I just love grocery shopping, but just to irritate you I decided to lay prone in the middle of the aisle!" Yes, I was sarcastic, but only because I should have never been talked too in that manner. The fight was on! Today when he got home I put my foot down and said, "Give! Something isn't right because you seldom ever talk to me like this." He finally opened up and said, "Had a hard day at work yesterday, and, in fact, today. It's getting me down." Now my question to you is, why is it men have such a problem with expressing how they feel? If men would open up more to their women half the problems would be solved. Hey, news flash ... sometimes us women have some good ideas as how to fix a problem you guys might have.
What men consider "little things" as far as what women feel really aren't. Men are suppose to be the strong, silent type, but if it weren't for women, there would no family ties, social events, children brought up healthy, loved and safe. Most women have "instincts" and that is what the world goes around on no matter how much men think they own the world.
No, I'm not a feminist at all, but the truth is the truth.
Once you can understand women can be gentle, loving, caring, nurturing and extremely strong individuals you'll do OK. NEVER underestimate a woman!
Good luckMarcy
AnswerThere are two sayings that come to mind:Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned.AND:No longer an anger abide (somin like that) when love has turned to hate. AnswerIf some girls take there relation serious then why don't they give there boyfriends a chance to show the girl that they arent the type of person they probly thought.those type of girls take little things seriously cause they don't want there relation to go bad at all.If girls who want to be serious about relations should give boys a chance to show them that they can make them happy.some of there decision are wrong,sure i kinda admit girls are pretty smart and strong with there choices but not all there choices are right."everyone deserves a chance".If she is smart then she should understand that you both like each and she should give you a chance to shine again.now if she keeps thinking about the bad stuff that happen during the relation she might say stuff like"i don't want to go through that pain again"girls shoudlnt think about stuff like that cause it'll keep them farther away.sure its probly gonna hurt them a little thinking about it,but they should also think abot the good things that happen.its better to have love and happiness back with a little sadness,then to only think about pain and sadness.girls like that should give boys a chance to redeem and i bet decisions like that r worth trying."love isn't what starts a relation,its what you think and feel about that person that binds it together" that's what i have to say about girls who think they there decisions are right,and let me say that those girls are to weak to think carefully and to make sure that there decision is right.us boys are just as strong as them with relations and we take it justas serious as girls do.we like to make things right as well.So if we keep listening to them they'll never understand how we feel about a relation.Right now im trying to get my girl back.She says she LIKES me but she doesn't want to start relation yet cause she wants a break.but later on she said she was confused about the whole thing and she still not sure what she did was right or wrong.see not all girls know everything we are all equal.Now im waiting until she finnaly relizes what she did was right or wrong.if my girlfriend is smart and is right about things then she should THINK carefully and tell me that what she did was RIGHT.Some girls change there minds on there decisions,but it takes time.Dont think the reason is that she found another guy cause if she says se likes you then trust her and wait till she finds out.Dont give up who knows what might happen in the future. goodluck,RobYour ex is a joke and a one-trick-pony. I really hate it for you that you had to suffer through such a horrible person.
I suggest though that you learn from this. A man that goes out of his way to say cheesy romantic lines all the time is just using you. Since you had loved him (and still might) it gives him power over you, and men like him like power.
First, don't talk to him any more, he is dirt, he is trash, he is no better than a rabid sewer rat.
Second, move on, it sounds hard and you might be tired of hearing it (plus I know it sounds so much easier than it really is but you have too). You don't have to move on today, but if he is already on a rebound chick, you need to get yourself a rebound male.
Third (and most importantly), be happy. That jerk isn't in your life any more, you get to go out and do the things that you like and he wouldn't let you.
An example would be if you played a popular tabletop role play game, but he hated playing games of all sorts, then you go out and just play as many games as you want. He isn't there any more to stop you and take your fun away.
Who are Alanis Morissette ex boyfriends?
David Thompson, Christopher Tips, Glenn McGory, Marco Rosette, Stephen Roddick, Andy Joseph Hughes, Rodney Pays, Jack Studdard, Steve Love, Jason Hebditch, Paul Clifford, Sam Taylor, Ashley Cameron Jr, Noel Buckfield, Steve Cox, Austin Gudd, Drew Suchs, Humphrey Smith.... that's all I know.
- Depression and anxiety are very common and statistics of both are rising. Don't feel alone! It is difficult for some people who have not experienced depression (depression is considered a problem when someone is depressed constantly for more than two weeks) or anxiety issues (caused by the depression) to understand someone that is suffering from it. You will have to face yourself and realize that through no fault of your own you have depression and anxiety and in itself it is frightening for the person suffering from it and it narrows their lifestyle down more and more. Please see your doctor and he/she will give you some medications for both your depression and anxiety symptoms so that you will be able to get therapy (Cognitive Therapy) is a great program to help you through your depression and anxiety. Cognitive Therapy teaches you to look at the opposite of what you are feeling. You need to help yourself before your can expect your girlfriend to come back to you. If you require more help please leave a message on my message board.
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