Breakups

find a new love, I had a crush on some1 once and he well...Has nothing in comon so right now I'm trying to look for some1 else.

Good for you for leaving him! I'm very proud of you. I know it took a lot of guts to leave. First off, you have to realize you were a victim. Abusers are crafty and they woo their prey like a cobra. At first they are nice, then comes a few arguments (he always wants his own way) then he doesn't want to see your family or friends, isolates you, threatens you and tells you, you aren't much good for anything. An abuser brainwashes their victims. If any of us had to put up with day after day for years of being told we were worthless, got a beating, etc., the abuser would have us believing everything was our faults too. IT ISN'T YOUR FAULT! Love hon, is not someone being mentally abusive or beating the hell out of you. Love is gentle, kind, considerate and loyal. You just aren't use to being treated this way. You did the right thing by leaving him and right now you just feel lonely and afraid. He has had months or possibly years of making you doubt yourself, and what you are feeling right now is getting to know yourself (and you certainly are a good strong woman even if you don't feel like it right now) and you miss simply having a guy around, having someone tell you how to act and think, and that's the only thing you miss about him. You do not love this guy! I was married to a womanizing abuser myself and it's odd, I was always a strong-willed person all my life, but for some reason (probably just being young) this guy had me twisted and turned right where he wanted me. I married the jerk (ashamed to admit it) and not quite 4 years later I finally did what you did and left him. When I got my own apartment I felt so lonely and I cried for a month. I did get a new job, had friends, but had a void in my life. I am glad I hung on and didn't go back to him because that void feeling was the fact I had never had the chance to really get to know myself and my own strengths. Soon, I felt like a caged bird set free, eventually met a wonderful man and have been married for 33 years. I suggest you go to an "Abused Women's Center" in your area (or phone Mental Health and they will put you in the right direction) and take some of the programs they offer. They teach you tools to live by so you aren't so scared and also you'll learn to get out of the pattern of the need for an abusive man. Many abused women will go back to their abusers out of loneliness and the brainwashing techniques these creeps use. If they don't go back to their original abuser they usually choose another man that is an abuser simply because the victim is so use to being told what to do and how to act and she finds it difficult to know what she is capable of doing. Abused Women's Centers are great places to go and there are many women that are in your situation. That in itself will help you to lead a normal and healthy lifestyle. Good luck God Bless Marcy

My wife cheated on me last summer and swear to me that she did not see him after July of last year. I just found out that she kept seeing him. I hurts a lot because I love her more than anything. she says she loves me alot but I do not know if I should believe her or not. there is not more trust in our relation and I am debating if i should stay with her or not. I know she still lying to me and I can not take anymore lies. She says she is being honest but there is always another lie around the corner.

that means he's talkin to some other girl, take it from a guy. were players.

She's waiting for change, she needs 2 know that you've changed in an awesome way so find your flaw and give her time she's just confused,

be her friend but not her girlfriend trust me the friend zone is a terrible place for a person 2 be in if your in love with them.

Do something storybook romantic

It is when two people get together in order to become better acquainted with the possible outcome of having sexual relations.

When a guy says, "It's not you, it's me" he is considerately trying to spare your feelings or keep you from feeling like you're to blame. More importantly, whatever the reason he gives for breaking up with you, it's up to you to accept the situation and the break-up and let him go.

to find a REAL life partner, someone who REALLY cares about you and someone who will ALWAYS be your soulmate

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not everyone can get it right the first time.

You need to dump him for good. That's what you should believe.

Nothing - it is your ex and at this point its seems as they are not interested in speaking with you. The best thing you can do is let things be or you will seem overbearing, needy and pushy if you keep pestering them.

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What this means is simple. He still wants you! If you want him, get back together but if you don't want to get back together, make him feel bad for breaking your heart. Do such activities as saying: you left me, remember?. Or: I've found someone else. I hope this helps you!

I personaly think he is just trying to make you feel better. Don't answer right away. let his ask you in person and if he talks really pasionatly then give him another chance. EO it could be what he wants he might of thought of how much he loss then wants you back or it could be a quick butty call so do not let your gard down. Sometimes when we are around our partner too much we can take each other for granted. The split-up was a good thing and I suggest you take the advice of the other poster and let him sweat it out a little before accepting getting back together. Sometimes when together communication is nil, and some people can express their feelings best when emailing another or even by phone. I think he was finally expressing what he always felt.

Not too sure but I'm guessing that she is jealous - she would be willing to leave her husband for him but he is not willing to leave his wife- and really why would he at this point when he can have his cake and eat it too. If this wife knows anyway why is she still with him - I would kick his a*# so far to the curb.

That's life, every human is different.

Please accept my condolences. Being "dumped" isn't easy. Please know that when a person breaks up with another, the real reason is rarely gave. Usually, they just give you whatever reason they feel will get them out of the relationship as painlessly - or sometimes as hurtfully - as possible.

Sometimes both.

You may well have "proved" you know her - except that you actually don't, or you'd know that she was only giving you an excuse, not a reason.

Here's the reason, and it applies to all relationships that have ever existed: She just doesn't feel the same way about you as you do for her. She does not feel enough for you to make it worth her time and effort to patch things up.

Remember, people always do that which is least unpleasant for them. Going without you is easier for her then patching things up. Nothing you say to "prove" anything will change her mind, because that was a made up reason.

As to the brother, he's just looking out for his sister, and gently telling you to "move on". You should.

its not in the saying its in the doing. if you have really changed she'll see it soon enough.however(and this is a girl writing)hell hath no fury like a woman scorned so dont think she'll forgive you overnight.it'll take some time and effort.

yes, it is. if you two relly love each other and see each other frequently, well, the passion can be strong enought so you two go back togeter

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so what you do is you become his 'best friend' and then after about....a month you start flitering for 2 weeks then after that YOU STOP FLIRTING!!!! then leave him alone for three days after that he will talk to you then you just pretend that you don't care and he will think your not in love but you are after that you do that for.....2 days after 2 days you tell him i kinda like you!!! then walk away don't let him reply and that's it

it worked for me and now he is like flirting back!!!!!

* People who go to reconciliation counseling do so because they feel there is still some love left in their relationship (even if it's just a spark) and they respect each other enough and perhaps children are involved and they want to make a fresh start in their relationship.

Love the guy who you care most about. The guy you love might be a real jerk and doesn't care about you, or your feelings. Your close guy-friend, however, might have speacial feelings for you that you don't know about. Try having a long friendly talk to the two boys (seperately!) and see what their true feelings are. In my opinion, i would say to be with your close guy-friend, since you know him so well. But it is your choice. You may end up with a new and revived heart, or a grey, broken and dead one. Do what you think is best. Follow your heart. If you need anymore information, you can talk to me on my message board.S.T!(Saati's Tips)- Just because a guy you love says he loves you he might not like you for you. If your close guy-friend says he loves you FOR YOU. Believe him. He loves you.x-x Saati x-x

If he is always ringing you or hanging around wondering what you are up to half the time then he probably wants you back. If he doesn't act at all interested then probably doesn't want you back.