Breakups

• Being cheated on obviously hurts the one left behind and other than a shoulder to cry on and listening to what your sister has to say there isn't much you can do and the road she must take is a lonely one, but, she will learn from it and be more cautious with the next person she has a relationship with. When someone you love hurts you it's almost like the grieving process an individual would go through if they lost someone to death. In ways it is a death; the person she loved has moved on leaving her alone and all she has is some good memories of that relationship. She will cry for awhile; be depressed; may feel it's her fault and she didn't do enough to keep him; but, suddenly she will think things out when her head is clearer and know that she gave him her all and did the best she could and he had the problem. This may make her angry enough to realize he's not the only fish in the sea and she deserves much better and she will meet that special someone she should be with. Sometimes individuals have to go down some bumpy roads when it comes to relationships to get to the light where the right person is waiting. With each failed relationship it leaves an 'imprint' on that individual and they hopefully learn from that experience. Your sister is very lucky to have you and I think she knows that.
  

Just say to him I want you back, then get him in a room e.g. bedroom, and have s3x with him. Later he will feel really s3xy with you and would want more. Have a long kiss then one day tell him to give you an orgasm and whatever happens you will just want more and more s3x that whenever he fingers you, you will kiss him like mad and go mental. But be careful cos if he gives you an orgasm you feel like you need a pee or giving birth. It feels great!

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If he doesn't believe you, then you can't help that. You should try talking to him and let him know how you feel about this situation. Tell him that you believe you are saved, and just because he doesn't see that you believe that, then it doesn't mean that you aren't.

You shouldn't get on his facebook, or any other account he has without his permission. When your in a relationship, you always need privacy, and if your not getting that, then it probably won't work out in the long run.

Harappan

yes most definetly but maybe not..if you know how to love him enough like he needs..but in this world true love happens once and if it already happen then the next love will be different.

just be friendz for a while then see where it goes

he's desperate

No.

Not much - money was left to Amy Doritt as a token for the death of Arthurs mother in the work house. Amy was born on the same day as Arthur's real mother died which was why she was chosen. The legacy was kept a secret to prevent the truth abour Arhur's true parentage being revealed.

maria/marriage itis just they make copuse from maria name

You must accept the fact that she is a person too and she has feelings. If you can't accept that, you shouldn't have a girlfriend. I don't know HOW you make her cry, but when apologizing, NEVER EVER EVER blame the other person. Tell her you're sorry (be SINCERE), and that you were WRONG. You are lucky that she's still with you. If you really love her, stop doing the things that make her cry. If you don't, why are you with her? Also, if you don't, you should tell her that you don't really have special feelings for her anymore and that you'd think it'd be best for both of you to break up with each other. If you do this, be prepared for her to cry more. Anyway, you guys don't have a healthy relationship and should break up anyway.

he is done with you i am goin throught the same thing and he just wants to keep you on the back burner in case he cant find someone else.

Only he knows what he truly means and the best thing you both could do is sit and talk to one another to find out just how one another feels.

In other words, she doesn't want to talk about it. Offer to go to a marriage counselor to see if anything can be worked out. Bogus! She wants to leave you, but thinks separating will be less painful to you so she makes up something to ease your fears for now, then when you get used to living your own life - she will ask for a divorce. I have seen it many times. Get her and yourself to therapy if you want to save the marraige.

You need to clarify something with him. Does he still want to be with her? It is perfectly normal for him to love her, she was once his wife and they share children so he may love her, but is he still IN love with her? Realize that a man freshly divorced and who has children will carry a lot of baggage. You need to ask yourself if this guy is really worth it. If so, give him all the time he needs, but be aware of yourself too. Don't sacrifice forever, you will need to set limits for yourself and decide when you will move on.

NO, do not trust him at all. Why would you? He is lying why would he have hickeys all over him then?

I know from experience that it is extremely hard to get over an ex, but I had to move on to someone else and completely forget about my ex until I was completely over him. Try and just be friends with him. Don't try and push him into getting back with you, or else you will fall in love with him again.

Although heart breaking to you, at least she is honest. She is basically telling you she is confused and doesn't know what she wants. It seems to be the fact she needs to be on her own to know what her strengths and weakness' are and she needs to be more independent and decide what she wants in life. Sit and communicate and try to understand how she feels. Even though it hurts if you love her let her go if she so chooses. Don't promise to be there, but tell her if she needs anything to call you or at least keep in touch. Remind her that you have a life too and you will continue on with it.

The answer is in the question: it means that she's not good with relationships and she still really likes you but needs time to be alone and think!

She is a cheater, oh and dont worry the next dudes probobly worse ur screwed find a new girl she may be telling the truth some people do have problems with that. but just in case watch your back

It's not an indicator that she was in love with you---she may have just believed you to be someone who wouldn't say stupid and insulting comments to her. Apologize and if she still doesn't want to speak to you, respect her wishes.

well first..you have to play hard to get but still be nice to her. say nice things to her even flirt with her but dont over do it. Then become friends and get to know her likes and dislikes, be funny, and dont ever look uncomfortable, than the last thing to do is ask her out. ooo by the way dont smell bad or do disgusting things. ----a girl!

i say about 1 minute haha nah this is probably more a personal thing and it usually would depend on if the ex would get angry or jealous um like the next day probably wouldn't be a good idea people would probably think you cheated or something um maybe a week after but i would say if she moves on fast and hooks up with someone like right after then forget her and just ask out the other girl! also if it was like a big breakup and things like cheating and stuff are getting spread around then wait a few days ask her out and explain your side if u feel its necessary.

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Thanks, that's helpful.

Give yourself space from him. These types of guys are usually really easy to fall for, and they can hurt you really easily. If you let him know that you don't need him in your life, you can tell if he WANTS to be in it by how he reacts. Don't directly tell him you don't need him, but drop some hints by hanging out with other guys, or finding time to go on dates with other people. This will show him that you are independent and you are able to be happy with other guys besides him (even if this is not true.) Sinc he has a girlfrind and is telling you he loves YOU, that means if eventually you are his girlfriend, there is a GOOD chance that he is telling another girl that he still loves HER. Don't trust him completely.