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It takes two to make it work, but only one to break it up. This is the place to ask questions about the pain, healing, and possible solutions to relationship break-ups.

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Have Bec Santelices and OD broken up?

Bec and OD have mutually agreed to go their separate ways on November 8, 2007. They have not reconnected since then, but insist that they parted on friendly terms.

How do you know if your ex-boyfriend is over you?

Quite frankly I would suggest not concerning yourself with him if you've split up, I mean both of you should beconcentratingon moving on from each other right now, regardless of how you think he feels.

To show he's not interested in you, he'd basically not show he's interested in you:


-He could talk to you less, or in a more "friendly" way.

-He could be spending a lot of time in the company other people he sees as potential future partners.

-He could have visibly moved on with his life.


These are not 100% tell tale signs, and I have no idea what situation both of you are in, but as I said before; realistically if you guys have split up it shouldn't matter how he feels about you, that part of your lives is over.

Why do you not want your ex to be with anybody?

because your salty and you think that your ex should never expieriance pleasure. and you think that only you should have fun. i have first hand expieriance.

Can you ever get over lies from your significant other in the past and make the relationship trust worthy again?

YES!!! It is all about forgiving and forgetting. There are THREE very important things to never do in a relationship. Especially if trust is broken... One- Your past relationships should never be talked about or even brought up. It only hurts the other person and causes insecurities. Two- Never say the "D or B" word. Divorse or Break up. It only hurts the other one, and is usually said, just for the effect. NEVER NEVER NEVER!!! Three- You NEVER bring up past fights, hurtful words, or shortcomings of your partner. That is looking back instead of ahead!!! Those are my three rules in Relationships. It is also important to work on your communication skills. People have been brought up, shown love, and communicated too, in all different ways. It is very benificial to find out how your partner would like to be communicated to, and you as well!!! It depends on the individual who lied and what they were lying about. Once a trust is broken in a relationship it's hard for the person who lies to gain the respect and trust back from their partner. Some people (as the above poster said) can make it through but the stats say different. Usually when someone lies about an affair(s) or many affairs, lies about other important things in the couple's lives then it's best to move on. I do agree with communication, but it takes two and if one mate is lying you never really know if you are getting the truth. Who wants to live like that as life is too short!

Still in love with your first love?

yes i'm still... but now i slowly erased her in my mind but in my heart she will always be there...

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Does she still have feelings for you?

She still has feelings... But it is trapped down inside her heart looking for a way out... If you can help her to get that feeling, you need to make her feel really special to you

What to say after someone says back off?

Just say "Oh wow, you're cool.(with sarcasm and laugh) and just back off". It makes the other person feel like... they're not in control.

If your husband says he wants a divorce but tells other people he is confused and he still comes around a lot and stays the night knowing you want him back can he really want to be with you?

It sounds like there are some issues that need to be resolved. Perhaps the two of you could go someplace to talk about what is wrong. It may not be possible to resolve your conflicts, but at least if you know what they are you could both accept that you won't be able to get back together. On the other hand there is always the possibility that once you identify the issues you might be able to fix them. That's what marriage counselors do. They can't always fix it, but they at least help you identify the issues.

Answer 2: Could he be confused or cheating? Apparently your husband is not fully committed to your marriage. Is he trying to have his cake and eat it too, knowing he can come around when he feels like it and you will be there and let him. Your husband is not showing you the proper marital respect at all. It' time you sat down and had a frank, open discussion. Remind your husband he made a marriage vow to you. Reminding him of this may go a long way in him seeing the need to resolve any problems you have. In God's eyes marriage is sacred. The Bible contains practical suggestions for making a marriage successful. Additionally, please read magazine articles on making your marriage a success and how to have a happy family life on Jehovah's Witnesses official website.

What should you do if you want the closeness of a relationship but no guys ask you out and you feel lonely and depressed?

You have to look at yourself and find out. Do you make the best attempt you can to look the best you can be? This doesn't mean you have to be a #10. Ask your girlfriends for advice on how to perk up your appearance. Perhaps you're clothing isn't up to date or you may have a nice figure and wear too many baggy clothes. Perhaps a little soft make-up to bring out your best features and a new hairstyle. If you don't feel this is the problem then you have to look deeper into yourself and be honest. Are you approachable or do you look away from people or look like you could sock them in the nose? Do you act like a tom boy? Are you too needy? Do you act desperate around males and females (hanging around and not being yourself until you may annoy them.) Do you talk about your woes too often with friends (it does get around to the guys.) Do you do too much for guys when you meet them and lack independence? Do you try to act cool when you aren't? Do you swear like a sailor on shore-leave (guys don't like to hear girls swear even if they may titter when you do ... it's what the guys say when you back is turned.) If you're over-weight do something about it. Go to Weight Watchers, exercise, start reading labels, stay away from junk food, sweets, too much caffeine and that means pop of any sort. If you can't afford to go to a gym and work-out then take up jogging, biking or go to the local pool and swim several laps. You need to do this 3 times a week.

Quit sitting around feeling lonely and depressed. You can volunteer at many places and that will give you a chance to meet new girlfriends and from there that can lead to meeting guys.

If you give off a persona (body language) sometimes young men think you aren't interested in them. If you like someone then try asking them out. In these modern times it's quite alright to ask a guy out. Some guys are really shy.

Good luck (You can do it!)

AnswerGet out there and make it happen for yourself. This is a new era. No longer do woman have to sit around and wait for a man. Just think there is a guy sitting out there saying the same thing. I don't know how old you are but age appropriate ways of meeting someone is what Im talking about.If your still in school(high school and under) focus on your studies, don't look for a committed relationship, too young and too much of a rollercoaster ride for now) If your in college, go out with some of your friends to college campus parties, or go to places you have interests in. Like a museum or art festival, sports games, join a club that caters to your hobbies, if there are any type of community meeting get involved in that and meet people. If your out of college then reinvent yourself. Try all of those things above and reinvent yourself. Try a new hair do, change the style of dress you wear, get out there and live. I have so many friends that have wonderful relationships where they met there partners at the most unexpected place. Even for myself, I have been married for 20 years to my husband. I was going to this repair shop for atleast 3 years, of which he worked there at that time and one day I noticed him, of course he was in a mechanics suit, all greasy and such, but I said to the owner, Hey who is that, clean him up and he'd be hot, no kidding. I was in there to get a new battery and he did the change so when he was done, I walked up to him and gave him 5 one dollar bills with my phone number on it and said, look on the bills there are more than just treasury numbers on it. I said to myself, if he doesnt call so be it, I had two other guys I was seeing, variety is the spice of life. Well, after a few weeks he didnt call, and I wasnt sitting by the phone. I went back to shop for tires and it happened to be Valentines Day. So when the lunch truck pulled up, he bought me a rose and waited for me to go and get in my car and came over and apoligized for not calling, telling me his brother took the money by accident out of a tip jar they shared in their room and he didnt have the number, not wanting to ask the owner for it because your not supposed to "hawk" on the customers, he didnt know I already made the comment to the boss. Needless to say we went out on our first dayte February 27, 1987 and are still together... So you can meet the love of your life in the oddest place and Im living proof. By the way, marriage isn't all peaches and cream you have to work on it like your favorite old wheelbarrel....so to speak..

What does mean when an ex can't get in touch with you and ask's your friend why your not answering the phone and do you have a boyfriend?

alright iv senn this alot every one i know comes to me for advice but this is the first time i have started helping strangers. what i think it means is that he still has feelings for you and wants to talk to you i would suggest talking to him because if you dont it could turn into a stalker situation

How do you break up with your partner whilst you are pregnant?

Tell them you are "Sorry but I don't think you are a good influence and I don't think you should be around my baby"

How cant you get back a relationship good when you have been cheated on?

well, if they have cheated on you, then talk to them about it, ask them why they did it and if it was because their feeling for you have changed at all. Then you should find out how long they have been cheating on you, if its a while, then ditch them, if they can't stay faithful to you, they don't deserve you.

What do you do if the girl you love told you she didnt want a boyfriend but is now going out with someone cos apparenty he made her feel happy wen she was sad but you try to do the same all the time?

she will split up with him in no time and come running back to you. just be patient x

umm i asked the question, i have been trying for ages to get her to love me back, but nothings worked and the guy shes come back with is her x i still dunno wat to do

When a stranger calls?

Mess with them if they say ''have you checked the children'' you say ''yes i killed them''! works like a charm

Ive been flirting with my exes roommate lately and now all of a sudden my ex just asked my friend out in front of me is it because he's really into her or is it because he's trying to get back at me?

No one but your ex knows why. He's probably asking the same question about your motives for flirting with his roommate.

Even if the roommate is staggeringly attractive, is it worth the drama to flirt and get involved with him? You and your ex are free to date anyone you choose, but why date someone your ex is close to, when you know it will cause tension between them and is now causing you tension? There's only a few billion other males out there for you to flirt and date and not have to deal with this situation.

If a guy breaks up with you but tells you he still loves you and just needs time to get his thoughts straight is it normally true?

No. He isn't into you anymore. He wants a soft way out of it and thinks that this way is better because it lets you down slow. He wants time away to grow apart and is hoping you will like it better without him so he feels better about the break up.

How do you get over a girl that rejected you when she keeps showing up in your life?

get over it. you can't force someone to like you, so find other interests in the meantime until she comes around, or you're over her.

How do i say sorry for something that i regret saying?

if u really didnt mean it and ur genuinly sorry den ur apology will be genuine and if ur close to the person you said it too it helps bcos theyll see if ur bein honest.