Cheating

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If you don't trust him or her then you should not be with this person. Trust is innate - either you have it or you don't. If this person has done something to destroy the trust, then you are better off alone.

If he or she is blameless in your distrust, then you have issues that need to be worked out and it is not fair for you to drag the other person down while you work on you.

if you truly believe it will last and are sure he is the one it wll work out

So long as everyone involved is honest which each other and all are ok with the situation there is nothing wrong with it.

Be aware that multiple partners increases the risk of STDs and as such you should all practice safe sex and get STD tests so that all of you are safe.

Because you have caught them so to speak "with their pants down!" Cheating is fun for some people. The lure of sneaking around is enticing and it's dangerous because they know that you will eventually find out. I feel this is one of the main reasons for cheating and it spices up some people's lives, but it's a whole lot to lose over a cheap thrill. Also, some men (or women) that cheat are having a grand old time until they are caught and all that guilt comes rushing to the surface. You've just accused your husband of this and now this whole cheating thing isn't as mystical and wonderful as he once thought it was. Although mad at you, he also has a sense of guilt. The question is ... do you want to remain with him? You have to sit and talk with him and find out why the cheating went on. If you don't feel his excuse is good enough I'd deep six this guy and move on. I did and never looked back with one ounce of regret. Good luck Marcy

I DOUBT IT.. GOOD PEOPLE HAVE AFFAIRS IT HAPPENS EVERYONE MAKES MISTAKES BUT TO RUB SOMEONES FACE IN SOMETHING SO PAINFUL IS REALLY CRUEL AND HEARTLESS. COULD THEY BE SORRY AT THE MOMENT IM SURE THEY COULD BE, BUT YOU HAVE TO LOOK AT THE REAL QUALITIES, MORALE AND CHARACHTER OF A PERSON THAT COULD DO SOMETHING LIKE THAT ,, AND I DONT THINK THAT, THAT PERSON SOUNDS LIKE SOMEONE THAT SHOULD BE TRUSTED WITH YOUR HEART AGAIN.

No, It does not mean he is done..

If the two of you were working together in the same company and " had" a relationship, why in God's name you want him to talk to you after all the pain that he gave to his wife? Your life is very complex, and if you want this married man to talk to you but not work related don't. Leave him alone. You are not making things easier for him and for you. Give this married man some decency to build his life with his wife all over again.

What you need to do is get your life back in track. Go out with friends that you used to. If you let it, there's a man out there who is single that can respect you for who you are. Move on and stop

No. If he thought you cheated on him then he's a suspicious type (one's to avoid!), and even if you got back together - it'll happen again. Guaranteed. Anyway you can do better!

Not necessarily, they tend to have the belief that they can steal him away from his wife and there are some that like a married man to stay away from any commitment.

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Do they? not all women but for some who does they are looking for some security in life. Woman who focus on having a relationship with a married man knows that married man knows how to treat woman nicely because of who they are with their wife. So if they give what most married man wants (sex) they know he will stick with her one way or the other.

I've been in this situation too, except it was with a boyfriend. I was his girlfriend at the time. My ex not only cheated on me but another girl as well. He kept TWO relationships hidden from both of us. We both dumped him and were very angry at HIM (now the other girl and I are friends).

There are different situations:

a) If the mistress knows he is married;

b) The mistress has no idea that he is married;

c) If the mistress knows that he is married then honestly she is stupid; because if you are the mistress and he is cheating on his wife, why wouldn't he do the same exact thing to you.

b) If the mistress has NO idea that he was married and the wife finds out, she may confront the mistress or she may confront her husband. It depends of the wife.

WOMEN ARE WORTH MORE THAN A CHEATING GUY; DONT STAY WITH THEM AND THINK THAT THEY ARE GOING TO CHANGE FOR YOU, THEY WON'T. THEY ONLY REALLY CARE ABOUT THEIR OWN NEEDS.

I ask that same Question

I dont think u can see how he talks to you and her and how he looks at you both

U should now what is what with ur boyfriend and should be able to tell

your doing nothing wrong they just cheat in play with you so they won't get hurt. your doing nothing wrong they just cheat in play with you so they won't get hurt.

Ask what are their motives!! and be very careful, i would guess they either wanna join in for their own kicks or they simply arent in love with you anymore!

cause he wanted 2 cause he wanted 2 cause he wanted 2 cause he wanted 2 cause he wanted 2 cause he wanted 2

* Unfortunately, your boyfriend isn't giving you credit for the intelligence you have and if that's what you heard then he is cheating on you. He has no right talking about sex to his ex and, in fact, he has no business seeing his ex when he is dating you. 'Ex' means that relationship is over! Get rid of this guy as he's making a fool of you.

he doesn't want to choose. he cares for you both

In my experience, he doesn't want to chose, because he's got a good thing going. It's got nothing to do with how much he cares for his wife and his girlfriend. It's all about him, and what he gets out of the arrangement.

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The sound of you problem is telling me that you are the other woman. Do you want this married to leave his wife and family so you can have him for yourself? If so, why not talk to him and give him choices so he can make up his mind. When it comes to having a relationship with his wife, I think he have the rights to do that, am I right? After all they are married to each others. In a way you didn't have the rights to wonder or maybe complain about what he was doing, after he didn't lie to you by saying his divorce or single. you knew all along that his married that is why the two of you end up with this affair. isn't it? So if I were you, stop, and don't. You don't have no leverage towards him except free sex, right?

If he was just in boot camp, he wasn't gone long and that means you either need therapy or to seriously grow up before you attempt another serious relationship. You can't "win someone back" after betraying them that way. If you can, it'll never be the same anyway and you'll end up splitting due to trust issues. Take it as a life lesson... you reap what you sew. Your heart is broken of your own doing, and the sooner you understand that, the sooner you'll be able to engage in a meaningful relationship where you have less chance of self destructing. Just call me "tough love" Dr. Phil of the internet tonight, but face the facts.

He cheated on the poor girl EIGHT times. And Napoleon wasn't even that cute.

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Napoleon cheated on Josephine eight times, but at the time, it was normal for a person in a high position to do so. In all actuality, he only cheated on her as revenge for her cheating on him. And he actually was very hot.

Well, there are a couple of things. One you could call him up and tell him what a "rat" he is and that he broke your heart. I once called a fellow a "dirty little toad" and it made me feel so much better. OR you could forget him, go on, and become really happy to be without him. I have done that too. Think of a broken heart as a learning experience and that you take this to learn from it so it won't happen again. Life is full of ups and downs and I am not telling you that you will never have a broken heart again, but each time it happens turn it into something to make you stronger and learn from it. In a recent book I read the author wrote " A heart can be broken only once. The rest is just scratches." I think he should have added "dents" in there too because we do get dents.

Fallen hard! You have fallen hard with a married man who is in an "open relationship" with you? Did I read this right? In other words, this man you have fallen so hard for, insults his wife by carrying on his affairs openly? Put yourself in his wife's shoes! Do you ever think about that no matter how much he might despise his wife, how much this must hurt her? Is this the kind of man you want to spend your time with? Don't you think that the callousness he shows to his wife, he will eventually show you? Forget this relationship. There millions of better men around. Join a social group, a community organization or a church.

No but ik someone who does

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I will feel so bad because he still hangup with his ex. But I will not be surprise because they had history together. Having history together will be a bit hard to forget..

It depends on the couple,....marrages are sometimes "open", that is on or the other or both may have other romantic relations outside the marrage but the key is if you've already covered this in your particular relationship. If you haven't chances are your partner would consider it "cheating".

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Yes she can, as long as it's her spouse, agreed?