Cheating

My wife cheated on me last summer and swear to me that she did not see him after July of last year. I just found out that she kept seeing him. I hurts a lot because I love her more than anything. she says she loves me alot but I do not know if I should believe her or not. there is not more trust in our relation and I am debating if i should stay with her or not. I know she still lying to me and I can not take anymore lies. She says she is being honest but there is always another lie around the corner.

Since I'm a girl, I don't have the exact reason why boys love girls, but... Here are some of my info why,

As a boy is a kid, he does not like-like girls, just normal friendly like.

As a boy goes through puberty he develops "Love", just like us, girls.

It's normally science, love - is science. Especially, when it comes to why loving girls.

To really know the true answer, as a close friend of your's that, is A DUDE!

No she must first get a legal divorce in court, then she can explain her wish to keep the child. The judge will finally decide.

* If you both understand the fact you are girlfriend and boyfriend then yes. If you have only dated a couple of times and have not committed to a relationship then no as you are both free to date whomever you please.

What you should do is tell your cheating husband to go "f"ind himself! Tell him to get out of your life. Why you would even want to make love to this creep is beyond me. He has no respect for you at all, and, he could be coming home with some sexually transmitted diseases. If he is so eager to sleep around, kick this waste of skin to the road and out of your life. He won't change!

• It's called cheating and it's cheap and immature. If both parties are married and that unhappy then they should confront their spouses rather than cheat and hurt their feelings. Often people who cheat are self absorbed and selfish and want the best of both situations; the wife or husband at home while they enjoy cheating with someone else. The only other reason for two people trying to keep their relationship secret is if they are young and one or both sets of parents are against the relationship and in this case often the parents are far wiser than their children give them credit for. Either way, sneaking or cheating means a weak character and can only lead to heartache.

The man is married with children! It is the mistress that is in the wrong and he's wrong for cheating on his wife. He is not using his children as an excuse. Most men simply use a mistress for sex and if the mistress thinks she will win him over then she is in for a big surprise. Most men go back to their wives or at the very least find their freedom if their wife should leave them because of the cheating and they may see several women and not commit to one of them. In this case this married man realizes what he has done to not only his wife, but his children and he has a lot to lose (disrespect in the future by his own children; financial loss) and no mistress to most men is worth that.

• There are no 100% signs that a person is lying, but here are a few possible signs: If you confront the person and they will not look at you directly in the eyes; if their face turns red; if they shuffle from one foot to the other; if they look like they want to take a run out of the room; if they try to convince you that you are the liar or they may slam right out the door.

I don't think virtual relationships are taking precedence, just adding another layer to how you meet people, and creating opportunities to be in touch with people who you otherwise would not get to meet.

There is no body famous by the name Abbie Deyholos. Due to this, there is no public information available as to who anyone named Abbie Deyholos is married to.

Yes. Cheating may be the case of messing the examination. It might affect your examination as it happens a lot. It affects the life of one human being to the core.

Not too sure but I'm guessing that she is jealous - she would be willing to leave her husband for him but he is not willing to leave his wife- and really why would he at this point when he can have his cake and eat it too. If this wife knows anyway why is she still with him - I would kick his a*# so far to the curb.

its not in the saying its in the doing. if you have really changed she'll see it soon enough.however(and this is a girl writing)hell hath no fury like a woman scorned so dont think she'll forgive you overnight.it'll take some time and effort.

Unfortunately this man is in a mess for what the two of you did. Being kind and caring will not help him to put his life together after his affair with you. I know you meant well and you care but the help you can give to this man is leave him alone so he can think and rebuild his marriage from the ground up. This is a good lesson to both of you, thinking about his needs and yours did ruined and hurt lots of people. Make this your own lesson and learn that getting involve with a married man has consequences.

nope..

ANSWER:

I think you are the one that can answer that. If this man broke up with his first girlfriend and he doesn't want to continue his relationship with her and he met you, I think its normal to become his second one because you are the new person in his life,...agreed?

yes!!!

People by nature are very possessive and given to jealousy. If a mate has been found to be unfaithful in the relationship, trust has been broken and the mate does not respect the cheater in the same manner as before. Relationships have continued successfully after an instance of cheating but it is not easy for either party. Usually the one who has been cheated on takes much longer to "heal" than the cheater. Women in particular take cheating personally, meaning they think they weren't good enough in some way and caused the cheating. This still does not make the cheating acceptable.

First of all if you are her friend and you care what happen to her, I think you are obligated to tell. Lying and betraying someone is the worst things that mankind can do to others. If her husband can do this, how will you know that he wil stop.

But if you are the person that her husband is having an affair and you now his wife what will you do or even think if you are in her shoes? People never realize that when we hurt others one way or the other it will come back to us and the pain will be even worst. This is your own decision to make and I do hope that you will do the right thing.

What is the question ?

Are you, not really your trust towards your husband has been destroyed by him. Some of us when we lie, for us to get out of trouble we cover the first lie with another lie, until you can't get out anymore. You have a reason why you don't believe and trust your husband, and it will take you a while before that trust can be given back to your husband.

Why don't you let your husband have lunch with his friends that work with him but suggest to him that you want to join him so you can meet this coworkers his planning to have lunch. Stay cool as you can, you will see his reaction. Ask him when and where the lunch is, so that way you can visit them. You can if you want tell your husband that you want him to take you so you can meet those friends of his, but do this the day before it happen so he can't warn who ever it is his going to have lunch with. And if you can do this and his really with a few friends, then give your husband a little trust, until he become the husband that's worthy of you... good luck!

• There is a great lack of communication in your marriage and spouses should work together regarding problems at home or, if you should ask how his job or business is going. If you nag at your husband about a certain subject he will retaliate. However, it is time to sit down with him and you call the shots! Let him know that unless he acts in the mature manner he should be and realize that the two of you should work together to a degree with any problems at home or knowing what your finances are then he either changes or it is the end of the marriage. People do not hide things unless there is something they are doing they shouldn't be doing. Stand up for yourself, but do not nag or you will lose his focus.

objects are non living things. There is push and pull force.

The best thing to do is to actually find out for sure that you [have] been lied to, by getting help from close and trusted friends, ask them if they know if the person who lied to you seems to be acting weird around you or if there's any signs that he/she might despise you.