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Cheating
This category contains all questions regarding cheating and everything it entails, whether it is emotional or having physical relations with someone other than your significant other.
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Im writing a story and need a reason for two people to break up and not cheating?
Reasons a couple breaks up for your storyline:
- Financial problems.
- The husband or wife does not want to start a family.
- The husband or wife are working too many hours and not spending enough time with each other.
- The husband or wife are not attracted to each other sexually.
- The couple are having problems with their children which is causing them to argue more often.
- Husband or wife has a life threatening illness and the stress is too much for the healthy spouse.
How do you know someone is cheating on you?
you know that when he/she acts differently,if lots of people start telling you that. if they dont call you or txt you like they always do
Ive been gone for 6 days and my wife feels looser when we make love is this a sign of an affair?
it could be but also it could just mean she was giving herself some needed attention and over exerted, my boyfriend and i have been apart for two months but when he comes home he asks me if i gave myself attention while he was gone..sometimes i do and sometimes i don't..when i do he says it feels looser then before and when i don't he has nothing to say and enjoys himself that much more..
What is the big deal with cheating?
It is very simple.Just imagine if it will or not be a big deal when you are being cheated yourself .
if u or your boy/girl friend cheeted on u they may have sex and u would be angry
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Quite simple, cheating ruins marriage, family, trust, love, and children. It doesn't matter how you put it, it will always be a bad thing to do.
How can someone force themselves to get over someone and just stop loving them?
its really hard if you really love this someone. With me, its been 3 years and i still love him. It won't work if you try to think that this someone's a jerk and all that cause later on you'll regret filling your minds with lies. if the case is that you want her/him but can't and its breaking your heart and you don't want to love her/him because it hurts you, try your hardest not to think of her/him or if that doesn't work and try to talk about your feelings to her/him if you 100 percent know that she/he would understand and wouldn't make fun of you and that they know that you love them.
If this is the first time falling in love, then it'll take a while to get rid of the feeling becaue its your first time and you don't know what to actually do. if any of my advice doesn't work, then try what I'm doing now; accept all the facts because you cannot overcome something or do something about it if you won't accept the truth, like you still love her/him and this and that, cause if you won't accept the truth your mind and heart would be all confused and you don't want that, trust me.
If you feel like you want to move on but still want to dwell in the past and your stuck in your own path, keep moving forward, but that doesn't mean that you can't still think of him. Don't dwell in the past, keep moving on, you can't wait for him forever, you have your other goals to accomplish. if you happen to think of him, keep thinking of him and don't force yourself to much not to, forget that your heart was ever broken and just smile when you're having a hard time, i know you won't forget about her/him that easily, but don't look back.
if you ever stop walking in your path and look back, remind yourself that you gotta be strong, don't fill your mind with anger and hate, just accept the facts. It'll take time, a lot of time, and you might feel on giving up on this advice, if you ever try it, don't give up. you gotta be strong. remember that ;)......
I'm alittle confused on how you have an ex but you didn't break up.
If you guy's are ex's you broke up lol but anyway you have to act like you don't want him back and that everything is cool. You have to seem like your life is just dandy but add a some flirt into it.
and what do u mean you are not going to be alone?
and are you a female or male?
you should definitely bring a date to make them jealous.
No.First of all you are lieing to three people,the wife/hasband,girlfriend/boyfriend and to yourself.No human relasionship is healthy if it is a secret.
Why do husbands find other wives?
Husbands do not generally find other wives. They do find good friends throughout their life. They just love the fact that their wife loves them.
How do you deal with the pain of loving a married man when it hurts that you can?
As far as im concerned you should feel hurt, imagine how his wife would feel if she new her man was creaping around.The best way to get ride of the pain is to leave him alone
once a cheater... ALWAYS a cheater.
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Good question, is he over, not sure but maybe because he fell in love with his mistress before I discovered them. When he told me that he fell in love with her, that was my sign that even if he wanted to rebuild our marriage, it will not be the same anymore. His feelings will never come back so I divorce him. And the married woman he had the affair with, is now divorce but not with my ex..
Can a man become a womanizer after 18 years of faithful marriage then recently divorce?
Yes they can. Men from 40 up go through 'Andropause' which use to be called 'Midlife Crisis'. SOME men are fine and may be a little withdrawn or moody while some fall into a deep depression. Some men may feel they haven't fulfilled all the things in their life and will want to pursue them. Other men want to gain their youth back (hate getting old) and will dress differently, perhaps get a different more up-to-date hairstyle, etc. They WANT to attract other women. Some men go through this and may never cheat, while others will once and some more often. Some have a mistress and divorce, while others go through this time of their lives and eventually get the message that it isn't worth losing their wife (and perhaps children.) The grass on the other side of the fence ISN'T always greener. Women can go through the same thing during perimenopause and menopause. The most dangerous time in a couples life is when their children leave home. If all attention has been put on the children and the children leave home then the couple looks at each other as if they are strangers and then the marriage problems start.
How many men leave their wives for the other women and how many men stay with the other women?
Men cant understand women because women are stupid. They really are not hard to understand and their brains are tiny.
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Before my life or my marriage fell apart, the only thing I know is what I've heard especially from my own friends. The only thing I can do is feel sad because I knew the people who supposed to be married. Only 3 couples that I know who left their wives, ( the 3 women is my close friends). but they were in the military, so I guess I could use it even though the situation was different.
As this moment, those friends of mine are still in Hawaii, but they didn't remarry.
Absolutely not. For one, he is still married. Let's just pretend that he would divorce his current wife. He might have STD's (which you might want to get tested for) and he is a cheater. He is already cheating on his current wife. Why would a relationship (dating or married) be any different? If he cheated on her, he will most likely cheat on you. He has the kids, too. If they know that he was having an affair with you, they will hate you. The whole bad credit just makes a terrible situation worse. He can't manage his marriage or his money. Break up with this man!
How do you tell to a married women i want you?
Who are you to mess with other people's lives? Go find your own mate.
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you don't or else lots of people will get hurt. If you are a good Christian try to get away before you ruin lots of lives
How would you react if your husband put you second in his life?
It is a very bad feeling if your husband puts you second. You must spend more time to get to first.
Is a man shaving his private area a sign of cheating?
I don't think so. He probably want to feel cleaner or maybe trying to please his wife or girlfriend. Now a days man or woman do it for their own reason. It's not a sin nor dirty if a man or woman decided to shave part of their body..
Does your boyfriend love if he cheats on you?
If your boyfriend was truly sorry for what he did then you should be faithful to him. Two wrongs never make a right. You should do what is right not what you think or feel what you should do. Never take revenge into your own hands, it never will work and if you do cheat on him out of revenge you will just feel worse. If it is really bothering you talk to him about it. :)
If you want to I suppose. If neither of you want to be faithful, isn't it better to just find a partner who wants to be exclusive?
Just remember that whatever his reputation is, you are building your own. You can show people that it's OK to cheat on you, that you are a cheater too; or you can show people that you solve problems with your boyfriend or that you don't tolerate a guy who cheats on you.
It's really your decision, but 'cheating back' is undoubtedly the very worst choice.
It means he is having his cake and eating it. If you are the 'other woman' you need toforget about him, he will never leave his wife, and why should two of you be miserable? He is a selfish narcissist who just wants it all. Marriage is about commitment. If he can
it could be that he relizes that it is a mistake and really wants to work on the relationship. He probably wants you to see that he's a changed man. Or he is tryin to change his life and move on. That is a positive thought. He could be wanting to show you how he still has it together and impress you. He obviously has more time on his hands since he is not taking the kids on 24/7. BUT, there could be someone else in his life whom he is dressing for, or who is dressing him.
What do it mean when a guy says why would i talk to you if i didn't love you or care?
It means that you have not
