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Cheating

This category contains all questions regarding cheating and everything it entails, whether it is emotional or having physical relations with someone other than your significant other.

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Is it possible to have a 3 years affair and not love that person?

Easily.

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3 years? wow love no one will have that length of affair if the person is not in love with the other woman. If you say that your spouse ( assuming it is) had affairs with few women then I will say the love is not what he was searching for, but sex. But if this is 3 years with the same woman you are doomed. It's not just sex his having but he loves this other woman. If I were you I will let go this person because he will not stop. This is my own opinion...

What does it mean if the man you love more than anything else in the world cheats on you and you feel nothing?

You are either cheating yourself; felt that it was coming sooner or later; or deceiving yourself by saying you are madly in love. I don't know how someone could be in love and not feel anything when issues of infidelity arises. Another option is that you are numb to pain or the thought that your love one has gone astray from you and the relationship. Emotions affect us differently and in different situations....Only you truly know the answers to this question that you asked; you have to dig deep down inside of you to answer it.... Ditto, who is cheating? If you are not hurt by this man you love more than anything betraying your love, and claim, you feel nothing. Yet you wanted to ask about it, you needed to open a line of commincation. Maybe you aren't ready to deal with it yet, so you are pushing all emotion away and acting logically. Investigating, gathering info. and ideas regarding the infidelity, instead of feeling it. This is normal when you fear your reaction to something. You want and need time to gather yourself, time to prepare yourself, this may be what you are doing. Everyone deals with events in their life differently, it could simply be that you need more time to come to terms with what has happened. You will know what the answer is, again I agree with the wisdom of the previous writer.

What does compassionate mean?

Being compassionate is about taking notice of a very significant part of this world: Others. Those who understand the common method of life that no one lives rosily and problems are bound to hurt others; will then gain the perception of compassion.

Girl forcefully kissed by a guy?

A young man forcefully kissing a girl when she doesn't want too and forms the word 'NO' and he doesn't take the hint is no different than a young man trying to force himself onto a girl sexually. Most young men will heed the word 'no', but there are some guys that need to brush up on their English language and the meaning of the word. It is wrong! Stay away from him.

How should you react to your wife not letting you have the password to the cell phone account?

you shouldn't react maybe she just wants a little privacy ANSWER I be curious as to why she is not giving it to you - does she have something to hide...

Do men play games?

Manipulative people or both sexes are the ultimate game players. Narcissicists are the worst.

Why would a woman lie to a man about talking to the other woman?

When someone chooses to lie to another that is because they don't want them to know for whatever reason and may have something to hide. There could be one of many reasons such as planning something for you or planning something that she doesn't want you to know about, had conversations with this particular person she doesn't want you to know, is maybe having an affair with this person, or even maybe this particular person knows things about her that she does not want you to know about. If you feel she is deceiving you you should sit down and talk with her and if she still continues to lie the maybe you are going to have to decide what is best for you.

Is it possible it could be true if you had a dream your husband was cheating with his ex?

  • If you have not been having problems with you husband and have no reason to believe he is cheating then a dream is just a dream and there is no clarity to that dream so do not make trouble where trouble may not be. Ifyou have suspected your husband is seeing his ex and cheating on you then the dream was because you have been stressed out about it and if this is the case then you should communicate with you husband (don't tell him about the dream) and ask him if he is seeing his ex. Although most people cheating will lie you can sometimes tell by their body language which is: face turning red; they will not look you straight in the eyes; they shift from foot to foot; they may go into another room or they may deny quite angrily that you are crazy and trying to make trouble. These are some forms of a man who is cheating and is lying about it.

Why would man take mistress home to meet wife?

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No one will ever know except you and the husband, but if this event is going to happen the married man might introduce his mistress to his wife as one of his friend who work with him. Or it could be that they were old friends and been cheating without the wife knowing about it. God only knows..

What is it in a guy's mind that he need to lie to his girlfriend whenever he goes out with a female friend when e girlfriend has always allow him to go out with them?

This doesn't necessarily mean that he's cheating. It just means that he thinks that if he tells the girlfriend then she might get jealous and suspicious and say that he can't see the girl. It could also mean that he may be planning to cheat with her or has had sexual thoughts about her. It may also mean that he thinks that it might go somewhere.. but if he tells that to the gf then she won't let him go for sure.

When a man tells a woman she is his problem?

He is looking for an excuse to end the relationship, but hasn't got the guts to tell you so. Don't let this man chip away at your confidence. You are not his problem, we are all responsible for our own lifes and he making out to be a victim here. I feel you would be better off without him. It may be hard for you, I don't know your circumstances, but please don't stay with somebody who is going to continute to suck all the confidence you have left. You are worth so much more!

If a man still keeps in touch with you after you broke up because he cheated does that mean he wants to get back together?

More than likely he wants his cake and eat it too. How do you know how many women he sees during the course of a week? Think about this one very carefully. If he cheated on you before, he has probably done the same thing to other women he has dated and he's coming back to see if he can get back with you. You sound like a smart lady, so kick this useless twit to the curb. You deserve better! Good Luck Marcy He just want u for a booty call. Tell him to bug off. yea he just wants ass, I'd tell him to screw off

How dangerous is an emotional affair?

Affair are dangeous because once he/she get wants ,they gonna remember that

anytime they want some they can come for you.The person your havinq a affair with

has a BF/GF so why stay with them move on to the next one but make sure he/she is SINGLE.

Should I let my husband come back after leaving me for his mistress because he found out that his mistress has a boyfriend while they seeing each others?

  • You husband would be coming back for all the wrong reasons. You need to get a backbone and start taking control of your marriage. Don't make it so easy for him to come back or you will only enable his behavior and there is a possibility he could end back with his mistress or cheat on you again. Don't allow him to come home and if he says he loves you then tell him he needs to live somewhere for the time being and think about things and then, you may consider taking him back only if he will see a marriage counselor with you. Have faith in yourself and realize that you are strong and independent woman and can get along without him. Men do not respect women that allow a man to treat her like a door mat.
AnswerKarma, you have to love it.

You have to decide if your life is better with him or without him. No one else can decide this for you.

If I have read correctly; he is a habitual cheater who has an STD, he has given no thought to you, your children or your needs. He has lied to you continually, he has set a terrible example to your teenage son and your daughters. Even telling you - you are to blame for his bad behaviors.

But you have been married to him for some time. If his bad behaviors are new, maybe the two of you can somehow start over. Good luck, whatever you decide.

What if she admits cheating but needs more time?

More time for what, to get back together?

Think of this; when you see a rose, beautiful and glowing, when it becomes weak and starts to die, can you revive it? Maybe, but will it ever be the same again? No.

If she is young, you will not be her last, we get into relationships to find what we like in people and what we do not like, and what fits our personality's, if she cheated on you, then you either lack what she wanted, or what she wants is split between you and the one she slept with.

People can change their clothes, their looks, their attitude, but deep down, we are the same, same temptations, same lust, and same thoughts. If she can overcome these things deep down, then give her a chance, change isn't about what we change about the inside of our hearts or the outside appearance's, but our ability to raise above those impulses.

(kinda sounded hypocritical, sorry if that confuses you more)

What do you do when a boy is cheating on you and the two girls know that he is going out wit both of them?

both girls should just dumb him so he feels like crap and feels bad for what he did then the girls should never go out with him again no matter how cute or nice

How do you confront the wife if you are the mistress?

If you are the mistress, you better be prepared to what you will tell her. Be prepared to answer all of her questions. And you also need to know that it might turn to a little fight. Now my question to you, why do you want to talk to the wife? Are you feeling guilty, or your married man doesn't want to see you anymore? The reality of affair is wife are the one that needs to say what she thinks, not the mistress. Now a day, mistress are the one that act like wife. Either she move on or be a pest towards the wife.

How long should you wait for her to decided to leave her husband?

Buddy, You need to walk away from that one.

Because if she told you she was and hasent , she's not going too.

besides, why you want to be messing around with another men's woman?

If she's doing it to him, she'll be doing it to you!

Can Married man confess crush to single?

This is a great question and a very hard one to answer- I think that it depends. How do they know each other? Would it make things worse or make things better if the single should be told? What is the single's personality like and as such, how would he or she react to this confession?

As much as I'm all about spilling deep emotions, this is one that probably shouldn't be tampered with unless he's already divorced and looking to move on. If you're married, don't try to jeopardize the great thing you have in your life (your spouse), because spilling your guts to a single can pose potential infidelity...who knows? Now that the single knows how you feel about them, there is a chance that they will just take that as a lead to make a sexual advance and well, things can get pretty messy from there. Just continue feeling what you feel, but don't act on it. Sucks to keep these kinds (especially these kinds) of emotions in, but sometimes its better to keep certain secrets. And aside, you can keep that fantasy going as your own little secret, and that can be fun.

What can you do if the other woman continues to wreak havoc in your life after emotional affair is ended?

Wow I do am sorry that your still being approach by the other woman. Like what the other person says, get a restraining order. But even if you have this papers, do you think she will stop? If I don't know better, you are me. The woman that the man I married still harassing me, and this is for over 3 years now. Like you, he had an emotional affair with the woman he met on a dating site. And because of this, he fell in love with her, and she as well. His relationship with her was perfect, except for one thing, his still married to me.

Because of his emotional affair and connection with her, he became a man with purpose in life. He became this man who are back in high school floating in cloud 9. And for that it's hard to believe in him and trust him. When I said, his

ex mistress still harassing me, it is true, for a while the man I married has some doubt because he knew that this woman can't never do what I was telling him before.

He offered some solution, but I didn't like his plan, and that is to join him so he can talk to her and ask her to stop, but I said no way. My reason is, it wasn't me who introduce them to each others. It wasn't me who told him that its okay to fall in love with her. And it wasn't me who told him th sleep with her. So my one advice to you is tell your husband he needs to solve the problem he made, and it was him who knew her not you.

How can a girl save her relationship with a guy that doesnt even act like he loves her anymore?

If you are apart and he behaves "like he doesnt love you anymore" then it is over and the relationship isn't "salvagable"

Why does it takes less time to do a thing right than to explain why you did it wrong?

It is impossible to explain why it takes less time, since in general it does NOT take less time. Anyone can surely recall many counterexamples, instances when it would have taken more time to do a thing right than to explain why you did it wrong, to prove that the original statement is false. It MIGHT take less time to do a thing right in some instances, but that is not the question here.The original statement about it taking less time to do a thing right was made by H. W. Longfellow, generally thought of as being intelligent. His wisdom may be apparent in his statement, as we can guess what point he intended to make. However, the fact that he expressed his wisdom in a statement that is so obviously false sheds considerable doubt as to his intelligence. The same could be said of many other supposedly intelligent famous quotes.There are many possible reasons for chosing to do a thing right rather than to explain why you did it wrong, but how much time it takes is generally not one of them.