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Cheating
This category contains all questions regarding cheating and everything it entails, whether it is emotional or having physical relations with someone other than your significant other.
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Why would a man tell his wife he is in love with another woman?
- This man has an underlying problem(s) that he is not dealing with and will continue to make foolish choices until he chooses to pursue resolution; he has to want this himself.
- This man entered into the marriage under false pretenses; he was fooling himself, he was fooling you, probably both.
- This man is the one with the problem(s), he is the only one who can do anything about it. The real choice that you have to make is do you think that he is capable of dealing with himself; are you willing to put up with him until (if ever) he does; can you do more with your life than enduring a constant battering of your self esteem.
- The problem is his, the choices are yours.
- Your husband told you he is in love with another woman or may think he is and at least he is being honest. Most men cheat and hope they don't get caught at it. The best thing you can do is let him know you are not willing to share him with another woman and tell him 'there's the door!' This is a risk as he may not come back, but if you don't plead with him and let him see this woman, men often find the grass is not always greener on the other side of the fence. Don't try to get revenge on him, but let him go if that is his choice and also remind him that you will be seeing other men. If you are both meant to be together then you be. Give it a year before you file for divorce and if you have children be sure he pays child support.
What is a good song about a handsome man who didnt want a woman and broke her heart?
Kenny chesney..."better as a memory"
How do you keep a secret without lying?
"No comment" or "I cannot talk about or comment on that" or "Please don't ask me, I cannot talk about it" Or just plain keep your mouth shut when the the sacred subject comes up. Better yet, get up and leave.
it means that he still has feelings for her but is scared to tell the truth about it.
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Most married men that had an affair will never regret what he did. It doesn't take a brain surgeon to know if the married man regret the affair, he will not start to cross that forbidden path. Who would regret a new surrounding, new face, different scenery, new scent and most of all a new love that he never felt before.
How do you say sorry to my brother after cheating with his girlfriend?
First, you should give him some space for a while. He would probably like to cause some form of debilitating damage to you right now. After that, call him - don't make your first contact face-to-face.
This man is your husband, you must talk to him, because you cannot read his mind and neither come up with suggestions or what ifs
You do not have to blame or criticize or judge him, but you want to know if you have his love.
Because some husbands lies, it's always good to not rely on a question's answer.
What I mean here is to not ask him questions.
But tell him your feeling, not those insecure feelings, but how you feel to have him in your life and you want to know if it is mutual. Do not expect him to deliver a love speech, men do not do those things.
Then if you have recently caught him or suspect him talking or seeing another woman.
Tell him about it, still not the judgemental or insecure way because you will only end up fighting or him telling you; you are always too worried.
Plan a romantic afterwards.
A virgin is someone who has not had sexual intercourse yet.
If a man have more then one wife what do you call it?
if he has 2 wives then he would be called as bigamist and if he has more than two then polygamist
Why do man feel like cheating when they keep telling his girlfriend he loves her?
If a man has another girlfriend, he is already lying to his first girlfriend and he is most likely lying to his second girlfriend. The man does not care about or have respect either of them. This describes a narcissist.
because they are evil
Will you keep your mistress in 2011?
- You should not have a mistress during any year and be more worried if you will still have a wife in 2011.
Why your wife starts yawning when you confront her?
She is saying " Im lying to you" or " I'm just really bored "
HOW DO YOU KNOW YOURE in love?
If you really are in love, You will know because he/she always makes you smile. You will care for them no matter their appearance, or what people say about them. You will always put them first. If you can make a list of good things about them and never find a flaw. You will believe in them, and trust them, because they own your heart. He/she will be you hearts desire. You will be able to tell them anything without being embarrassed. You can be around your friends and not care whether they think he/she is weird or not. That's what love is.
Should you talk to the other man about his affair with your wife?
Why would one want to? This is not going to solve the issue. It's already been done. One should be communicating with the spouse and seeking professional help to resolve what ever one thinks is left in the marriage. I would not do that. What if either you or he becomes violent? Do you want to spend time in jail on top of everything? I'm sorry to hear this is going on. You are going to confront the wrong person. It should be your wife that you should be talking too. Please don't sit by and allow this behavior to go on. Neither sex should be playing these games. Just have it out with her (try not to yell because you'll just lose control of the situation.) She has 2 choices: #1 ditch the guy she's seeing or #2 YOU will leave her! You don't deserve this sort of treatment and let her know loud and clear she is "replaceable!" Good luck Marcy
What can you do about men who lie about where they were when you ask them?
Well, men who are always lying about where they have been and why usually either means they are planning a surprise for you or something else along that line. But, unfortunately in most cases is means hes cheating on you with another woman, .....or man. I would suggest keeping a close eye on him, and leave the relationship if he continues to lie.
What will you do if your husband tells you to go away and leave your child after paying rent?
He has no legal right to kick you out. You have equal rights to the child as long as you are married but possession is 9/10 of the law. So I would either stay (unless it gets dangerous) and get a lawyer to get temporary custody until the divorce is over. Cheating is not right but it happens and both parents should make sure the child is not suffering and they should try to stay civil towards each other.
I am having an affair and i don't feel guilty about it WHAT SHOULD i do?
What do you feel you should do? What do want for yourself in another year, two years, five years down the road? Keeping the current status quo, being fully with your affair partner or being fully in your primary relationship? You enjoy the benefits you get from your lover and also the benefits you get from your primary relationship, so you need to ask yourself why you are questioning your own actions now. You wouldn't be here if you weren't.
You are in the typical affair denial 'bubble'; you're relying on your string of lies to keep your bases covered and keep you from getting busted. You're reaping the majority of benefits, so you believe (erroneously) that you have the majority of control over the situation.
You're relying on the person you're cheating with to be discreet, to not demand a full commitment, to not get tired of your games and leave the affair. You're relying on your partner not to have suspicions, to not snoop and find evidence of your affair, to not be the one to leave the relationship. No cheater ever thinks they will be found out. But what about all the consequences you can't control? A possible pregnancy, STI, the affair partner becoming a stalker or threatening to tell your partner or spouse if you attempt to end the affair? How are you going to deal then?
It's a moot point if you're guilty over the affair you've engineered or not; what matters is at some point, the crap will hit the fan for you if you continue with the current situation.
Why do you have to be so hard with our question when we ask them?
sorry trying to be inspirational
There are many, many different people providing answers. Some of us are kind and gentle, while others of us think that what a lot of you really need is a good swift kick in the pants and that a stupid question deserves a stupid answer. Also, since ANYONE can answer a question, you can't discount the fact that a lot of people are basically jerks, and that the opportunity to be a jerk semi-anonymously is very tempting to many.
If the questions in ... er ... question were in the "Teen Dating" category, then honestly the answer to the vast majority of them can be boiled down to "You know, rather than grasping at straws and hoping for some sort of magical way to make your crush fall in love with you, why don't you try something really crazy like, oh, maybe talking to the person the question was about?" Which is, admittedly, "hard," but almost infinitely more likely to actually produce useful results than other options. Even if the response is "I would rather date an ourangutan with loathesome diseases," hey, at least you get closure instead of wasting years of your life on something that's never going to happen anyway.
Im sorry to say your wife is cheating on you. By the sounds of it she is using you as a pawn while getting some aquatic action on the side. Do you notice any sucker marks on her arms? Or perhaps some ink stains on her clothes? Maybe she has recently lost a limb mysteriously. If any of these then your wife is sadly cheating on you and you must pour salt on her immediantly so she dries out.
God speed my friend
Your husband was just dianoged with genital warts cheating spouse?
Well, it's obvious ONE spouse cheated... unless, it came from a past relationship. Sometimes, it takes a long time for genital warts to show up in women... In Men, about two weeks. SO, IF it came from the female spouse, don't assume she has cheated unless you have been married for years and years. I have a friend who slept with a gal, who stated she hadn't been with anyone for 9 years. Two weeks later HE had genital warts and SHE still doesn't! HE knows it came from her, because HE ALWAYS used a cover except with her, and he believed he was safe, due to her statement YOU ARE NEVER SAFE!!! ALWAYS protect yourself. There is NO test for women, to prove genital warts, unless she is broke out and the Doctor OR spouse sees it.
Not unless he's got something to hide, or he's just discussing work issues with her which sounds extremely doubtful.
Leave him and her behind. If they wanted to be with each other they should have come to you and told you about their affair and not keep it in the dark.
Seek a lawyers advice on divorce. Your marriage to me is not salvageable because of the length of the affair and the fact that there is now a love child involved.
