Cheating

This may be a sign of a very insecure woman. Sometimes it can be related to past experiences with other men, or even in your own relationship. Lack of communication may be an issue, as guys in general don't have as great a need to communicate on a personal level as women do. Sometimes the little details, such not sharing the events of the day or phoning when you are late, may take on a significance that you never intended. Try to avoid this occurring. Make your life as transparent as possible - you have nothing to hide, so show it. Also make sure you are communicating your affection for her openly, in all sorts of ways, and not only in a sexual context. Also, it could be that she could be testing you out to see what you're response is.

Another reason could be a anxiety order of some type. In this case, only medical help will solve the problem...maybe you could speak with the family doctor, as it is unlikely that she will be able to see the problem for herself. It is common with anxiety disorders for the person to accuse others of doing a variety of things that they are not guilty of. Usually, the people who take the brunt of the accusations are those closest to them, and it can be incredibly difficult to cope with. The cause is an imbalance of certain chemicals in the brain which is why medication is needed. Often, the symptoms include a range of physical problems such as fatigue, insomnia, headaches etc. so if any of these are present, she may be willing to seek medical help on these grounds alone. She won't appreciate a suggestion that she has 'mental problems', so be tactful.

As hard as it may be, try to avoid getting into an argument with her, but calmly continue to reassure her that you love her. Look after yourself, too, as the stress of the situation can wear you down as well. I wouldn't think it suggests anything suspicious on her part, and hopefully the above reasons may better explain her behavior.

Unfortunatly not because you are married and law states that wat is your is his. But if you really want him out tell the police and get a divorce.

The boy knows what the girl likes. If he notices that you are reacting to his behavior he will keep doing it. He needs to know what is right and what is wrong.

taking a pill

If used on some one other then your "current lover" yes it is. no of course not

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Through religion or society? Unfortunately both, no matter how you look at it. The only difference is when a married man or married woman made out with the other person, it's already affair of the heart because sex hasn't develop yet. My example is about the man I marry, when he was having the affair with the woman he met on dating site, he didn't have sex with her yet but his heart was already open to her. Even the other woman told him that they are more than a friend, and his response was they are not and only a good friend to each other.

Stop the cheating! It seems in todays society few people really try to work out problems in their married lives. No one every said life was a rose garden. Anything worth having is worth fighting for. When things come too easy we often don't appreciate them.

It takes a man to want to reason out with his wife what the problems are in their marriage. Did a man ever think perhaps the wife is pretty fed-up too? It's so easy to walk away from hard things in our lives, but marriage should never be one of them especially if children are involved.

So many couples just think about their own individual feelings and not the feelings of their partners and most of all if they have children. Children wound very easily their parents don't get along.

I find often the children are wise and the parents immature. It takes guts to be married and keep it working. By cheating on your wife all you are doing is cheating on yourself. The other woman usually isn't everything she's cracked up to be and often married men will realize too late just what they have lost. If you cheat, get caught then your wife will leave! She too can find another man that will treat her the way she should be treated.

Quit cheating, grow up and start talking with your wife. Perhaps take a vacation together (without kids) and try to get to know each other again. Sometimes we not only lose sight of who we are, but also who our partners are.

If you leave all you are doing is taking that garbage tied to your butt along with you and you're going to be one lonely guy!

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How does he felt, no guilt and he said he doesn't have the hope anymore so being with this other woman was fine with him. Did he felt guilty the first time they slept together, he told me he did but not strong enough to stop. He even said that both of them prayed to God for what they did. From the man I married, his conclusion of guilt after the first timewas to have another sex with her so from there, what he did was justify.

Answer also: He can easily live with himself if others involved allow him to be an ADULTERER. Adulterers break the solemn that they made to their spouse at the time of their marriage. It is also a sin against God and a destestable thing in God's eyes. In ancient Israel the penalty for it was death. In God's eyes marriage is a sacred lifelong bond. It's such a disgrace nowadays when people view the marriage bond so lightly. Move on from a loser, adulterer who wants a wife at home and his other woman on the side.

YOu will know based on how he treat you. Of course it important for him to spend time with his children. But pay attention to his behavior towards you. Is he sorry for what his done, has he become more understanding towards you. Focus on his behavior towards you and you will get your answer.

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As the matter of fact there is one country that really limit how many children they can have. In China boys are more common for the couple to have because of their military. Second is Japan, men are more powerful in that country. When a couples have children, you can be sure that the boy are the one that's being well taking care of. Going back in China, if a couples have a daughter, they will be force to give away that child. Search the history of China and you will see that female babies are the one who are being adopted by others, because being a girl can not do and enter a military. It is sad but true.

tell her to do the right thing and AT LEAST break up with the current boy friend...

It depends on your involvement. Sometimes people need to learn from their own mistakes, and if you get involved it may mean that she doesn't learn her lesson and will repeat it again. Give her advice if she's willing to listen, but ultimately the responsibility for her actions rests with her.

To set the story straight, I am in an on/off realtionship with a boy named 'Kevin', I don't want to make the relationship formal/offical cause I am 18 and don't want to be tied down to young. Another problem of the realtionship is that I keep kissing his cousin 'Shane' (who used to go with my sister) and one night we nearly had sex, but was caught my his brother and my sister (who used to go with 'Shane'). The third aspect of the realtionship is that I have strong feelings for 'Shane's' brother 'Paul' and I know he has strong feelings for me, we are really close friends and he is my boy-friend (in a non sexual manner) and he gets cross every time me and his brother kiss and when we were caught nearly having sex, this really hurt my realtionship with my sister and between the two brothers. What will I do? Who will I choose Kevin, the brother's cousin or one of the brothers, Shane or Paul?..............HELP

That would be the man she is having an affair with but I'm not really sure what you could call him

Absolutely. While his friends may do some things he may not agree with, he can very possibly like his friends for several other reasons. Although it is possible that he could cheat on his mate with or without influence from his peers, it is equally as possible that he may not.

you must sit down with him and have a very good conversation and specially do not forgive him to easy. don't get me wrong, you do not have to become a total b*ch about it, just make him understand that this can never happen again.

• When women and men who are in love get married they should remember the vows they take. They are suppose to respect and honor each other and there is nothing in those vows that hints that cheating is acceptable. Married couples are suppose to go through life until 'death shall you part.' Most married women that find out their husbands are cheating are more than annoyed; they feel betrayed; they feel they have been made a fool of; they may be jealous of the other woman and most certainly they get down right angry! Most married women do not want to share their husbands with another woman. No, the mistress is not affected by dating or having a long affair with a married man and considers it almost a competition that she is much better than the wife and he will end up divorcing the wife and marrying her. Little does the mistress realize that there is an extreme low percentage that the married man will ever marry her. If he loved her he would ask his wife for a divorce.

i think that would depend on the state of your relationship at the time leading up to his leaving.. more often than not though the grass is not greener on the other side and once the novelty wears a bit thin he will find that the new woman has irritating habits etc that he doesnt like.. men are still children realy, rarely does a man leave a spouse without popping back a time or two just to check up that you are still unhappy and pining for him while your sitting at the window...only for him to pop right back out satisfied that you are utterly miserable without him. get out there is my advice, live your life, get sitters and catch up with your friends, take that class you always wanted.when he calls you make sure that you are busy, if you are not then lie and say you going shoping with a girlfriend for new clothes, get your hair done, nails, look good every time he comes around but keep your emotional distance... if you want him back you will have to re invent yourself into the interesting attractive andindependent woman you were before you met him. gud luck

I wouldn't jump to any divorce attorneys yet. Are there ANY other signs other than his new interest in personal hygiene? Look for clean and new underwear. That would be one for cheating. Look at the cell phone bill. Is his work hours changing--good and bad? Is he up for a promotion-that may cause him to shave. He may not want to bring this to your attention in case he does not get it in order to not look bad in your eyes and feel like a failure to both of you. However, if the man is flirting as many do- he should be strung up by his testicles and left in the garage to be found be all the neighbors to be laughed at as they drive by while you have the last laugh. Use your intuition, that is why God has given us women the brains, the looks, and the fortitude to outlast the men. God bless you and I hope you find your husband to be a perfect gentleman, if not bicycle pegs work wonderfully-just make sure they are hung in the studs! lol.

Well if he really loves you he will leave that other woman for you. Tell him to do so! If he does not leave her for you, he lies. Its simple, but its true

Not all men do, if that happens, there is something in the communication that crossed the line most likely.

There isn't really a clear answer to this...I guess you could look to see if there is feminine hygiene wrappers in the trash can....or maybe if they are saying that they have cramps and they are constantly moody...

choose what is your hart say. think how your dicidion can effect you and your family in the long run. make a check list . compare both paths with each other. close your eyes. take few big breaths. now think after effects of both moral paths think how it will effect your future and your loved ones. now decide

One sad thing is we never choose who we fall in love with.But we can choose to ignore what we feel and move on with our lives.First things first, u do know that this man is not yours he is already married ,if he loves u he should divorce his wife , then be with u. be careful sista if this men can cheat on his wife what makes u thhink he won't cheat on u. lastly know that u are causing another women pain if it were u being cheated on how would u feel? do unto others what u would like them to do unto u.AND REMEMBER that there is a man waiting for u out there, a man who will love u and only u .u deserve a lot more than u are getting. Mr right will soon come for u hang in there.