Cheating

Wel, for starters not all men do.Second of all, its best they do before marriage sure sounds a little nasty but cheating while in a marriage is bad so some men do it before they get into a proper, real reltship (not saying boyfriends & girlfriends arn't real relitships)

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No, he's lying because that's what he does. He never feels guilty. He says what he thinks will get him what he wants. He's not complicated.

No they desever each other :)

taking a break, usually a euphemism for I am seeing someone else. A Break from what? WHY? I would say sail on to greener pastures and get someone that will love you instead of use you. You teach people how to treat you, if he can come and go with your blessing (by taking him back it is your blessing) then he will as there is no down side.

It could go either way. He could be heartbroke. Its according to each situation. But if the man didn't leave his wife for the mistress then he is probably glad it's over.

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This is good and impressive question that happens all the time, between man and a woman. In my own opinion and from experience when married men get rejected by his wife, girlfriend, and yes his mistress part of their self esteem goes down. Their dignity is been injured by a woman. Men never wanted to be rejected, it makes them feel like a looser. For them, they rather be the one who can reject a woman.

• The fact your husband cared enough to tell you about his emotional affair even though he knew it would hurt you took some fortitude on his part and his guilt has compelled him to be honest which most men seldom are. Never mind if he slept with her or not, but relish in the thought he loved you enough to tell you the truth. Humans make mistakes and your husband made one. It will take time for you to trust him again, but in time you will. Remember, he didn't have to tell you.
  

Well if you definitely know they've been cheating. Just dump them! If they've cheated on you and you want to dump them you don't have to be kind or anything. They've cheated, so why should you be kind?

He may just miss you but still does not know what he wants. Unfortunately sometimes this is a case of he may not want you at this point but he also does not want anyone else to have you and that is not acceptable. Don't wait around for him, live your life, move on and see how things go. If he sees that you are not dwelling on him and he is not the object of your affection anymore he may realize what he let go and want you back or that could be exactly what he wants and is glad you moved on.

if she loves you like she did when you first said it then she should believe you but if she dosent then that means there is no longer a connection in that relationship and you need to move on.

This can be very true. Are you sure that she actually cheated? You need to be completely sure that all your facts or accusations are legit before you start the blame game. If she is innocent, of course she would be upset. Why would her husband think something so bad of her? She promised to love you for the rest of her life. You said your vows to each other, why would she want to ruin that? If she did in fact cheat, then there should not be any hurt involved, other than the pain that you feel from your spouse cheating on you.

Well... that is hard... I think you just know it dude... is she like distant, do you guys talk like you used to? does she kiss you the same way as before?

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You can because this is your home and you know the scent of your home, the way it's clean or furniture arrange. Even your own bedroom if there's a woman been your bed, no matter how your husband arrange the bed, you will know that it's been use. This are what makes us wives different from man.

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I guess when it comes to the other woman, one will never know if it is perceptions, but surely realities. It is realities because the married man has another life outside his marriage. His making time for both, the life with his family, and time for his mistress.

well if they say

hi ya sweet heart I'm going to bed with your brother

u cud b pretty sure they were

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Let see, the major sign if your husband is having an affair will be from his behavior. You are the only one that can tell if his acting funny around you. It might help you if you can't never see his cell phone. If you use to hear his cell phone rings and not anymore, that's of of a clue. When a man is cheating that includes my so called ex husband, I never seen his cell phone anymore, I don't even hear it rings. He hide it so deep that his the only one that knows and can hear if he has a call. The rest will follow, looking fresh like just took a shower coming from work. Use your best judgement.

== That really is up to you and depends on how you feel where he is concerned. If you find that you could try and forgive him and possibly trust him - both of you try then that would be a chance you are taking. Sometimes when you take them back that means that you may condone their behavior even though you verbally express you don't and then it happens again as they feel they got away with it once they may be able to do it again. Like the saying "Once a cheater always a cheater". I realize there are men out there as few as it may be that learn from the mistake the once but again that is few and far between. Be sure you weigh your pros and cons concerning your future with him and if your willing to have the possibility of going through this again. == Tough decision for you ... If he cheated once on you before, chances are he will again. But if you are willing to accept that and can forgive him of doing this before, then things may work out okay for the both of you. Some people can rehabilitate themselves, others cannot. == What you should do is dump him and good luck. Depends on how much you like the person. It's all personal opinion and what really happened between you two. Me personally, i wouldn't take it if he/she cheated on me the first time, i would just end the relationship, but see that is because im not as close with this individual yet. If you truly adore them or something.. then you can work around it and try to solve things between each other. Talk, ask him or her what led them to cheat... see how they react to these questions. If you don't wanna let them go then give them another chance.

Over waters the plants.

Sit down and try to discuss how you feel with your wife, explain how her actions are affecting you and ask her to be more considerate of your feeling's. Also if this is a recent change of behaviour prehaps there is a reason behind it that you need to discuss and work through maybe she is having a difficult time and is taking it out on those closest to her. The best way to solve the problem would be to sit down and talk thing's through. Hope this helps you and good luck.

because the pretty ones are rarely 2 be trusted than d ugly ones

They have a huge ego! They attain something important from each person but usually different reasons. One for devine love - one for the best uninhibited sex.

All part of a certain male's ego.

I don't think so, unless you will do it out in the street, but if you will do them inside the residence home, that is your own private party, no one elses..

If he told you that he broke ties with his mistress, but then continued to text her, he didn't break all ties, did he? He has lied to you! If you hope to reclaim your husband's exclusivity and save your marriage, you are going to have to confront him with the fact that he has lied to you. Modern marriages have to be based on trust and mutual respect to be successful. The truth is, you may never trust him again, but that is for you to decide, but nothing will change until you discuss it with him.

• A person that is in love with another person does not cheat! This guy has a large ego so be smart, be the first to tell him to get lost and don't let the door slam him in the butt. He will only continue to cheat on you causing you nothing but heartache. There are so many other nice guys out there that you could be dating.

Your choice. If your feelings for each other is stronger than your feelings for your spouses maybe you should be getting divorces. Or you can pursue your mutual feeling like an affair, keeping you spouses in the dark (usually messy, nasty and unpleasant if you get caught) Or maybe your spouses are ever so understanding and forgiving that they'll wait fo you to have a fling and then return to them. Or you simply acknowledge your feelings w/o doing anything more about them.