Cheating

* 'Ex' means the relationship is over and you have no right to ask him about his new girl, nor do you have to tell him about someone you may be serious over. It's a new relationship and he may not want to hurt you with details about her (he obviously feels awkward) and it's time for both of you to part company and move on with your lives.

I assume by checking you mean "not allowed by the person."

Depends on which relation you got to the person. But mostly it is yes, since your compromising their security and personal data. Depending on your country, it is a crime and some places you can go to jail by this crime.

I would suggest you to stop doing this.

If you got the authorization of the person whom your checking for, it would not be a crime.

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1. Did a doctor diagnose the person as having a personality disorder involving narcissism? Too often, a person is called that, when the only reason is that he/she doesn't agree with the other's goals or hopes.

Always putting oneself ahead of others might mean narcissism. Or it may be that it's a normal person who doesn't agree with where you feel things should be going, or whether you two should even be.

2. That said, a real narcissist could be faithful. A person who thinks greatly of themselves might well believe cheating to be beneath them. Or, he could equally as well feel that he had a right to any other, and that it's none of your business.

3. But you go on to ask "if it's cheating or if they are using confusion tactics to get attention or hurt you". Inner motivations are never to be known for sure, but in this case it hardly matters. Mainly for the end result being the same.

A. He's cheating, so clearly does not want a committed relationship, or care if you leave him.

B. He's pretending to so as to hurt you. A sign he does not want a committed relationship and hopes you'll leave him.

C. He's pretending to so as to get attention. Who does this? The only kind of attention that gets is the other wishing to break up with the cheater. Again then, he is seeking a break up, or doesn't care if it occurs.

So there is a person who may or may not be a narcissist, but in either case is showing all the signs of not caring about you, and who is either cheating or wants you to think there's cheating.

The only thing that boils down to is this: As described in the question, the good odds are is that he simply does not want a relationship, and is engaging in these behaviors because he feels it's the only way you'll leave.

It's all up to you. If you feel that person still loves you and you love him, you should talk to each other and fine the answer. But if you think that you don't have those feelings anymore, than you shouldn't.

It could mean that he got scared he was being tied down to you by saying those words, so to feel he still had freedom, he went and had intercourse with another. Or, it could mean, he was simply lying and felt he could keep you tied down for him while he had what he think is his "fun".

um.. you just have to kiss your husband back like a lot of times!!=)

the only reason he probably wouldn't want to would be because he's scared you'd just break his heart again so prove to him that you're sorry, that you wish you hadn't and that you'd never ever even think about doing it again

NPD is a serious mental disorder, and like other people with disorders, narcissists can be unpredictable and sometimes dangerous.

We suggest keeping any necessary contact extremely low-key, and avoiding them if possible. Some narcissists have other mental disorders, and some are physically dangerous when thwarted. Just get on with your life, and stay away from the ex. It's safer. You will gain nothing by contact, and it could cost you. Narcissists' egos do not bruise easily, so attempting to make them jealous is not likely to have much effect, and could create problems. On the other hand, with narcissists, out of sight is often out of mind. If you are inaccessible, they are likely to find another mirror and ruin their life instead.

it would be fine if you husband is encouraging you to. every one must have friends right? and your husband never said that you couldn't get guy friends so why not?!

well it depends if he is happy when he comes home and acts oddly around your mum but lets hope that that ant so

I have answered this question countless times, and unfortunately, both, the question and the answer are based on opinions and beliefs. However, I also sometiems partake in the indulgence of common sense. "If you confess you are blessed with forgiveness?" can be answered with "When a child does something wrong, is he punished?" As it can be seen, the answer to your question is "no," while the answer to the latter is "yes." When a person does something wrong, why should he be blessed and forgived just because he confessed to it. That would just make it easier for the warden or anyone that is responsible for delivering the punishment. So with small amusement, I suggest that when you confess, it would be to your benefit to bring a lawyer.

From personal experience I can say...working together is the best way for the couple to get through it. That is, if they want to still be together. Me and my boyfriend both cheated and it gave us a new understanding to our relationship. We love each other dearly, it just made us realize that our problems run deeper than cheating itself. We began to open up to each other a lot more and about a lot. We looked at is as if we'd done the ultimate No-No in our relationship so nothing else we do can top it.

Its basically all about turning a bad situation into something good and better.

* Women shouldn't snoop through their men's personal things, but, if she feels her mate is cheating on her she may have good reason. Mail coming to her mate with his name on it only is his alone and not to be opened by her even if they are living together or married; emails, etc., cell phones or any other personal items belonging to the man should be left private! It's a matter of respect and doesn't mean anyone is hiding anything. * My wife is welcome to snoop through my stuff and open my mail if she wants to I have nothing to hide so why have a principle about hiding it.

This is what he told you and you believed him you are a fool. A man will tell you anything to get in your pants wake up. Haven't you read the answers this man gave do your homework.Yes, life is short. Do not wait for any man to leave; move on to someone who is single and happy to be with you.

Hell yes. You shouldn't be with a married man to begin with and a married man SHOULD NEVER BE WITH YOU!

If a married man is messing around with you in all likelihood he will mess around on you. WAKE the HECK UP.

There are so many great single guys out there just looking for the right girl. Give them a chance instead of a married man who wants his cake an eat it too. No pun intended.

If you honestly think he isn't messing with his wife when he isn't with you just to prove to her he isn't cheating you are grossly mistaken! YES IT'S WRONG. WAKE THE HECK UP!!!!!!

Better yet, ask him to take you home with him to meet his wife. See how serious about you he is then. Then you can see how bad his marriage really is.

Because he wants to see if her reaction shows that any more love for him is still there.

yes they are.

Not necessarily. Take other things into consideration such as stress level, work preoccupations, finances, health, and other family relationships. He could just be really thoughtful/preoccupied at the time. These periods can last for months. If he wants to talk about it, he will but if it makes you feel better tell him one time that you noticed he seems preoccupied and you'd like to lend him an ear. Then it's up to him if he shares or doesn't. Try not to judge him either way.

honestly thats not true love. you can not be in love with two people at once. its either one or the other, i dont really think you understand what being "in love" means. being "in love" mean that you love that person soo much u dont even attempt to see anyone else or talk to anyone else. that person is your world and you would neer do anything wrong , or hurt them : for example- cheating . but yea you totally can do what you asked above but sooner or later things will come to light and the sexual stuff wont b as gud becuase that other person would b on ur mind and that will definately cause a conflict . i suggest you stick to one person.

yeah. she might act weird if she is trying to hude something from you. . and feels guilty possibly

That you much resemble John Cleese in the film 'Clockwise'.

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not a thing except this person needs to adjust or even balance his or her life so when it comes to be prompt, theres no excuse that will be given, agree?

If the person you are interested in isn't going with someone or married then ask them out. It means you are physically attracted to them and that's how it all starts to form a relationship (hopefully.) Ask this person out.

a liar.....

Exactly at 3:00pm everyday, and that counts for ANYWHERE in the world.