Cheating

• People who want to bring others down another are often jealous of that person for one reason or another and some people cannot share in the joy of the success of another person. It is ignorance brought on by immaturity.

yes cheating is wrong. if you dont love the person then let go. cheating will only lower their confidence. and its a terrible thing to do even if u dont love anymore.

You have to take things into your own hands. Change your number and any other means he may have of contacting you and make sure he does not get it, if for some reason he comes over make it quite clear you do not want to have contact with him and if need be get a restraining order. Don't allow him to harrass you in such a manner he made his choice and that's it - move on.

You need to understand why you are not satisfied.

Option One: Find an openhanded spouse.

There is no serious/good answer to this question, because it is not a good idea, period. Ask yourself why you want to have the affair. Do you dislike your spouse? Do you wish you were no longer married? Why do you want to stay married?

A little excitement on the side is not worth it, if you want your marriage to stay whole. Your spouse will find out, sooner or later, or the guilt will make you confess. Instead of trying to have the affair and keep it a secret, try talking to your spouse about why you are unhappy in your relationship. Marriage takes work and open communication. Don't throw away your marriage on a fling. If you don't want to be married, then divorce!

Option Two: THE ABOVE ANSWER is not fair. I have been married to the man of my dreams for 17 years. I left him with our two sons almost 10 years ago. We made up. which resulted in baby number 3. That was in 1999. We haven't had sex since no, actually we have had sex three times since 1999...and that was ten years ago. I have begged him to see a doctor, I have done anything and EVERYTHING possible to get his fire going.

I LOVE my spouse. I WANT to stay married and I WANT to stay married to this man because he is everything I ever dreamed of and more and didn't even know it!!! But I didn't get married to be celibate. I love sex. I was honest about that when we met, dated for two years and then got married. Sex is something I want and DEFINITELY NEED!!! If I get a little sexual release on the side it is not because that is where I want to be getting it it is because that's the only option left. I'm still married and I'm still in love with my husband. Don't be judgmental unless you marry a man who all of a sudden is not interested in sex you shouldn't be giving advice.

Option Three: The above answer ("Option Two") ignores the possibility of sexual fulfillment that doesn't involve another person. Buy a vibrator. Buy two. Buy some porn. Learn to find sexual release with yourself. A man who will not do everything he can to try to satisfy his wife is not the man of your dreams. Either that, or we need to hear HIS side of the story about why he has a wife who would betray his trust and his family just get a little "sexual release on the side". Think carefully about what you are doing before you destroy everything you have.

Don't sleep with someone else without your spouse's knowledge and consent. doing so will almost inevitably be discovered, and will either lead to a divorce or to a very unhappy period in the marriage. Talk with your spouse first, try to figure out what you can do to satisfy your sexual needs without putting any pressure on him/her. Common approaches are couples therapy (to work out inter personal issues that are getting in the way of sex), the use of antidepressant drugs (depression can destroy the sex drive, and some of the Saris tend to stimulate it), re conceptualizing your relationship (spiritual sexuality or tantra practices that will teach you to work with your sexual energy more productively), or creating an open relationship (in which both partners allow and can have external relationships)

* Mistress' are generally the losers in the game of love. They may feel they have won the man over and away from his former girlfriend or wife, but in most cases the male in question grows weary of her too and the percentages are low that he will end up marrying her. If he does divorce his wife or even if he is single the chances are he will want his complete freedom. These type of men (every age) are shy of commitment and hurt many women in the process because of it. It is wise not to confront the mistress and concentrate on your mate. Communicate your feelings to him and stand hard and fast on the fact YOU are in control and let him know what the terms are going to be should he choose to stay with you. Let him know you aren't going to sit around moping over him or allow him to cheat on you and you plan on dating as well.

Engaging in an affair with another man's wife can lead to a complex mix of emotions, including excitement, guilt, and potential conflict. It often involves navigating secrecy and the risks of damaging relationships, not just between the individuals involved but also with families and friends. The experience can be thrilling for some, but it may also result in feelings of remorse and ethical dilemmas. Ultimately, it can have significant consequences for everyone involved.

It sounds like you're not ready to commit to a relationship with him and it would be unfair to both you and him to keep on acting like everything is fine between you. Unless you're ready to stop cheating and you really want to commit to him, I would suggest being honest with him. After all, how would you feel if you found out he was doing the same thing with four other girls?

In this day and time be glad your husband has a job and works his butt off to support the family. Yes,he maybe away alot but most men show their love this way. Talk to him honestly and tell him you are feeling neglected and unloved. Commicate with him and work hard to try and save your marriage to this man. Does he abuse you? Or is it just that he is never home? He does have some days off doesn't he,if so ask for him to at least spent one day with you each week and talk some everyday to each other. Forget this other man,he is just there because you are bored and lonesome with out the husband you really love,you just think you love the other man because he is showing you attention and affection that you are craving right now. In the long run would you leave your husband for this man,its not always a bed of roses on the other side. What can this other man give you besides a little time and sex? After being married for years we get use to the same old routine and yes we do take advantage of our spouses,maybe your husband doesn't realize your unhappy,maybe he is too but you don't know it. Communicate is the best cure for this.

• You mentioned 'he had' a female friend which means in the past. If she is still in his life and seeing her after work for beers; texting each other then you need to sit down calmly with him and let him know in plain English you are not putting up with it. Stand your ground and if he doesn't bend and keeps on cheating on you then move out and perhaps move back with your parents and perhaps he will come to his senses after that.

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First of all, I do am sorry that you feel confused and all. I do know how it feels knowing a husband of many years has some new hobby that he is the only one that knows. If your husband never done this before and this is his first time, I would give him a chance to explain why he was talking this younger woman half his age without telling me about it. I would give him a chance to know how it feels what I discovered, knowing my trust on him was been betrayed.

I can't tell you what to do, you need to follow your heart and let him tell you why. I can't even tell you that we aare all human who can make a mistakes no matter how perfect we are, because it will be lame. Give him a chance but tell him how you feel and what type of trust he gave you because of being infatuated with this younger woman..good luck!

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Unable to commit. Move on.

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A person who is not satisfy to just one man or woman. Having a problem when it comes to relationship and afraid to be alone.....might have come from childhood year.

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First thing first, how long did your wife had an affair? Did you know why she did it? If you have the answer for both question, then you will realize that no woman or a wife that will cross the path of cheating if no one push her to do it. How often do you tell her that you love her? When was the last time the two of you went out. Now can you tell me why your wife end up having an affair?

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• Most mistresses are simply 'fill ins' to soothe the man's ego (feeling young again) and it is most definitely about sex. Some married men can simply get bored living with the same woman; there may be stresses between him and his wife or, they find it difficult to commit to one woman. The mistress is the exciting side of his life and he is sneaking around behind his wife's back like a snake (no glory in cheating at all) but this does not mean he doesn't love his wife. Once she caught her husband cheating he didn't want to lose her, but the mistress is the one that does lose in the end. Whether this married man and his wife seek marriage counseling does not mean they can't work out their marriage problems without help. The mere fact he cheated could have been a shock to his wife making her realize they had problems in their marriage and her husband was fearful of losing his wife and it's possible they realize just how much they do love each other and are working on their marriage.

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I disagree, it all depends on what kind of situation you were in with this man. Some are only for themselves, especially when it comes to their own personal needs. Now a days its really hard to find a man who can really be devoted to only one woman. But I guess that is the challenge that we all face..

You question his honesty and loyalty, then he admits to a drinking problem. You like this person because.....???? I don't get it. Better question is why are you attracted to a loser like this?

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Usually compulsive liars are not confident individuals and they feel the need to dramatize certain events in their lives to impress others. These are some of the signs of a compulsive liar:

If the compulsive liar did something wrong and someone else found out they'd lie their way out of it. Telling others about things in their life that didn't happen. Dramatizing events in their life that didn't go down the way it did. Lying over silly things such as borrowing something from someone and denying they ever had it. Lying about other people. Constantly blaming others for the problems one gets themselves into.

These are but a few. If a person has been told they are a compulsive liar they probably are. Compulsive liars often don't mean to be this way, so professional help does help them balance out their lives, face themselves and not be afraid of being who they are or telling the truth and taking the consequences for their own actions.

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Ask your boyfriend whether he wants a loyal relationship with you with trust and honesty and also ask him whether he wants a commitment in a relationship with you if he says yes then ask him to tell this girl to stop what she is doing or block her number on the phone if he does not stop then tell him if he wants you it will have to stop...if he cares enough for you then he will do this or take serious action to if not tell him bye bye Your right. Just one more thing. I'm sorry to say this. I really am... I think he likes the sleezy message leaver just a little bit...=(i'm sorry